It's completely the girl's fault for not just removing herself from the situation

>>16514484
I agree. The girl is just as much in fault, if not more so, because she knows she can't have a normal friendship. She keeps going back, then expecting more or realizing that out won't work, leaving then repeating the cycle. She will never have a healthy relationship with anybody at this point. She needs to distance herself for real and quit the bullshit emo games.

>>16514484
Agreed, the girl is weak–willed, but what's up with the guy pushing so hard to keep in touch? Is it domination thing or being mean?

'roids

Had that a lot in the past, I never bothered to have it checked. Still alive today, no bleeding asshole no more.

Possibly hemorrhoids?

do you like him? try talking to him about it

also, what was your reaction when you found out he was hung?

talk to him about it first, if he decides to pass the limits again then you will know if he's someone who respects you or not

>>16514332

1) TALK TO HIM! Tell him "your dick is too big and I need time to accomodate it. Go slow, and pile on the lube and foreplay."

2) Do a lot of thinking of whetther the guy is an idiot, or a sadist, or a plain old asshole. If he's an asshole, dump him. If he's a sadist, and you're not into pain, dump him. If he's an idiot, and you don't have patience for that, dump him. Otherwise, try to see this through.

3) TALK TO HIM SOME MORE.

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rent out all three and live in a one bedroom by yourself.

>>16514006
>each room can be rented out for ~$450-500/month.

No one will pay $450 for a room when the whole place is $600.

Your best bet is to split it 50-50 with someone who is responsible.

>>16514032
>No one will pay $450 for a room when the whole place is $600.
OP owns the place. that people will pay that is the whole reason landlords exist.

>>16513911

First off, cut the "im a victim fuck capitalsim" schtik.

Man the fuck up. Fuck your girlfriend, fuck that job. Take some fucking responsibility and go out and make yourself better.

Turn this shitty feeling into something positive.

Just Do It.

Make it happen anyway you can. You'll be happy this shit happened, you'll be kicking ass in 4 years

Ditch the girl. Fuck yourself for even considering getting back with her.

>Thanks capitalism
Don't even get me started. You couldn't make much more of a pleb statement if you tried.

Ditch her and sort your life out. Forget about her. If she ever pops up in your head don't follow the thought down some depressing road, just think fuck her, she cheated, her loss. Use it as motivation to do good things from here on out until you don't give a fuck about her anymore.

>comments or advice
don't be friends with your ex who cheated on you. She didn't even just cheat on you by sleeping with a stranger or something, that's full on affair shit. She would not be a good friend.
So you drank to much one week. Your job and relationship ended. does not sound like a big deal. are you an alcoholic or something? That you talk about alcohol so much when it does not seem at all important and that your dad is makes it seem pretty likely.
Just focus get a new job and stop talking to her, especially the...
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Set yourself on fire

jump off of a high place somewhere nobody will see or hear you.

Friend yourself to the chimpanzees at the zoo

Cut yourself off, block her on everything, it's the only way.

>>16513762
I understand and expected that response. But what if i still genuinely care about her as a person? Keep in mind, we ended things relatively well, mostly because of distance, and she is a girl who has battled depression and has issues in her life. And i know, i guess she doesnt need me anymore. But at the same time i find it hard to just abandon her without any word... Should i ever message her asking if she wants to have that talk? And tell her if she doesnt think well work out and doesnt feel she needs my help,...
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>>16513762
This. OP, she just wants to keep you around as a last resort. Do not fall for this.
You said it yourself, she wanted to talk things out but didn't when she had the chance.
>i find it hard to just abandon her without any word
I know that feeling, yet it is the only way if you don't want to get hurt.
By all means, if you want to stay friends, then be friends. However I do not see you two being happy...
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>>16513630
are you new to life?

im a social retard autist robot and even I know girls get 3287476482746238 times more attention than guys

a guy has a 1 in a 100 chance of a match and a girl has a 1 in a 100 chance she wont get a match

>>16513635
i didn't say i don't know that. i'm in fact very aware of it, just wondering what other anons had to say from experience, especially on the boring amount of people. hell, half of the matches didn't start a chat at all lol.

>>16513635
You're clearly young or just stupid.

Yes, women have the advantage when they are younger; however, men have the advantage when they are older.

Tinder is something that is anathema to most young men because women have more say; but, that comes with a lot of sexualisation and harassment as well.

Grow up or open your fucking mind.

Withdraw if its not to late to get a refund. If it is man up and piss before class.

>>16513460
I sometimes dont realize I have to piss until it's bad, in this case I didn't realize until the beginning of class and it was a double period

Im a fucking freak who still has pee accidents what the fuck should i do

Either you'll use your misery as fuel to change or you'll wallow in it. It's your choice anon

>>16513409
Normally when I read that, I say I wish it were that easy, saying it gives people the impression, I don't want to change But no, I want to change. The thing is I have chosen to whine about it, rather than actually do anything about it. My brain thinks I'm doing something, it's temporarily release, from actually doing it. I need do something, but my misery alone not makes me whine.

>>16513434
Make a simple goal to better yourself and do it. Repeat until you die

Gtfo newfag

what kind of dog is it? it may be a prob specific to your dog breed.

>>16513325
Cocker spaniel

There is a controversial thesis going around now that addiction is not as biologically grounded as we once thought, but is largely behavioural.

I'd recommend adjusting not only your intake of a particular substance, or whatever thing it may; but also your environment and social circles.

I do not know from first-hand experience though. Godspeed.

>>16513297
I know someone who used to be an alcoholic. He stayed drunk for years nonstop but he said when he started vomiting blood, he realized he needed to get his shit together and quit. From the way he tells it, he kinda just quit cold turkey and sheer willpower helped him quit. He says if you can make it past the withdrawals its easy from then on. But the withdrawals almost killed him.

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What're you addicted to?

I was an IV meth/heroin addict for about 5 years. It's not hard to drop, it's hard to stay away from ime.

I've been sober about 3-4ish months, unless you count drinking once every two weeks not being sober.

To initially get sober, I first got through withdrawals, and then I started reading SMART recovery literature. It's a program based on CBT, REBT, and other shit lol. No cult-like spiritual voodoo-ism, just self-empowering tools to help you get sober and stay sober.

The problem is using drugs becomes...
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I promise you, transferring to another school is not going to fix your problems. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and make an effort

>>16512583
Here I am, freaking out about how Im going to finish the degree I need to survive, with a possible war exploding at any moment and an economic collapse and you're complaining about bloody boring parties. Drop out and stop wasting everyone's time.

>>16512609
It really pisses me off when people use the "someone has it worse than you, so you cant be upset" argument. There's someone out there that's someone's sex slave, there's someone out there who's a homeless quadriplegic, that doesn't mean you aren't valid in your complaints. We all have different lives, and different tolerance for hardship.

>>16512536
Ketchupseed

Mydadhatesme

>>16512753
What problem do you have with the name Mustardseed for a boy?

>>16511541

Workout. It's a meme for a reason.

Stop crying like a bitch, you aren't 12 and you are forming a habit.

>>16511541
Study cultural economics. The cultural aspect has made it so that for me I could release my emotions by doing art related things. It's a great route, you should give it a try.

>>16511555
No, medicine and business stuff is better. Helping people is a great passion of mine.