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Laptop 1
>Intel Core i7-6700HQ
>Nvidia Geforce GTX 960M
>12GB RAM
>Windows 8
Laptop 2
>AMD A10-8700P
>AMD Radeon R9 M380
>8GB RAM
>Windows 10
I am not a computer expert but laptop 1 seems to have a better cpu/memory while laptop 2 has a better gpu and is running windows 10 which is my preferred OS of the...
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tits or gtfo OP
A gaming laptop? Shouldn't you get a gaming desktop?
>windows
>gaming laptop
>windows 10 is preferred
>intel
please die
So I got hired on to a retail store about 2 months ago the same day i got hired a cute thick girl got hired too. It all started pretty friendly but it quickly escalated to flirting and then i got her number and i started making sexual innuendos where she would play the innocent girl that didnt know what was going on. Well i stated getting more ballsy at work and I would come up from behind her and press my boner against her ass and she fuckin loved it because she let me do it and she would just giggle, Well fast forward to yesterday I did the same thing only this time i also...
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Bump
I really need some answers guys, i cant sleep and im fuckin anxious as hell over this
>>16508994
im no expert but maybe go to her first, let her know you never meant for her to feel uncomfortable or harrassed, then gauging by her reaction make your descision
You just might be being paranoid. For now, since you got the vibe that she is being distant, tone the flirtatious stuff down and act normal.
How do I get more IQ points in my brain?
please respond
Do you mean for iq tests or learning? For leaning challenge yourself in a daily basis and just be open to learning new things. Try joining free online courses, watching documentaries, reading books, etc. Become interested in the way things work and why
You can't you fucktard, jeez no wonder you're asking this question.
So I've been close friends with this Korean guy (I'm a white female) for about 15 months now. About 10 months ago I told him I liked him, and he turned me down and dated someone else. I moved on and we progressed as good friends. He quickly broke up with her and I've dated a couple guys since, but I still really like him. Recently his behavior towards me is changing.... On Halloween we got really drunk and he kept putting his hand in my inner thigh and spanking me...? And this week I was studying at his house and he kept tickling me and running his fingers through...
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>>16508892
not sure if bait
>incase 1/10 nice meme
Fuck off.
First figure out what you want and then his intentions.if they match then go for it, but otherwise dont put yourself in a situation that will only end awfully for you (no settling for fwb if you want to date, especially if you hold your virginity somewhat special) that's my advice b/c I was in a similar situation and know it sucks..good luck
So I recently got out of a friendship with a manipulative poisonous gypsy faggot.
Long story short, he's a manipulative little shit who is 16 years old and has this 25 year old child molester for a slave who will do anything for him because hes a weak minded autistic fuckface; and when I learned he cheated on his girlfriend by raping someone, I figured that it was time to end the already toxic relationship.
So I did, and I humiliated him the next time I saw him after and told him over a groupchat that he has no balls (in front of a ton of people) which resulted with...
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>25 y/o autostic slave
That wasnt enough to make you stop being his friend?
Lol this made me nite
>>16508891
Aparently not, me.
I have an enjoyable, fulfilling job that pays well, plenty of hobbies, and I live with my boyfriend who loves me.
I'm aware I should be happy, but I'm not, and almost everyday I fantasize about living by myself and only leaving to work, otherwise staying inside and drawing and playing games and writing. It makes me slightly short with him sometimes, and I have days where I feel like I'm sleepwalking.
When I am alone and have nowhere to be, I'm fine for awhile and then feel devestating loneliness and depression.
Is this real life for everyone else?
pretty much, i also wanna die real bad too
Yes. Life is an endless cycle of misery.
>>16508801
Talk to your boyfriend about it.
If you're in love, he'll try to understand and want to offer better solutions than strangers on 4chan.
In what world does a girl go over to her male co-workers place to play vidya and it not be a romantic/sexual thing?
Maybe I have trust issues but I feel like I've been here before and I don't want to be here again.
You make it sound like that's not a common thing to happen. Are you one of those 'guys and girls can't be friends' people?
if she wants to play she wants you. even if she say no anon you take her she will like it
>>16508733
Fair enough, I just have never heard of it in any of my friends dialogues beyond the "i want to bang her" context.
>>16508741
Should of clarified, shes a fresh gf (first I've had since a long term 2 years ago) and was her reply when I asked what she was up to. Its currently midnight but shes usually up late so not sure if thats influential.
Maybe I'm just too paranoid for relationships now.
Have any of you guys taken drugs prescribed by doctors? I mean I guess sallot do us have , but my doctor is suggesting I tale antiandrogens . I'm kinda nervous at to the site effects etc. Also do they have to discloses the reasoning for prescribing them?
>>16508684
How were you sitting there and you didn't think to ask: "Oh, okay. Why do I need those?"
Antiandrogens sound like something that would make you grow a pussy
>>16508687
I kinda did and he said besides drugs and counseling there's no way to treat my condition.
This is a bit of a rant and cry for help.
I'm "dating" this girl. Our dates consist of hanging out and shopping but there is zero intimacy. No hugging, holding hands, kissing, sex, etc. She speaks to me about OUR future as if we're going to be married next year. The most affectionate thing she has done for me I guess was cook me food twice at her place.
But I what I don't understand is... why does she show zero intimacy? What should I do? I honestly feel like she's just using me for money. My spending has went up ridiculously since meeting...
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>>16508674
You already know the answer, but you clearly came here to validate your relationship.
My question is: Would you heed our advice if we gave it, despite the obvious answer? Answer that first, and I'll so my best to help you.
You're the one enabling this behaviour, you know. If you said no from the beginning when she asked you to buy her shit, she wouldn't have got into the habit of asking you for things and you wouldn't be spending so much.
>>16508674
>Besides the obvious "leave her", what do I do? I feel like I'm in too deep.
Without her killing you in her sleep with those designer stiletto heels, nothing. Just up and leave.
I was initially going to suggest that your gf is awkward and doesn't know how to be physical in a relationship, but this is ridiculous.
This is worse than girls using guys on Tindr for restaurant food.
>What are steps to slowly correct this problem?
Honestly?...
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Idk what to do.
>gf sells panties on the internet
>she tells me
>I'm ok with it at first, she explains it's just for extra cash
>later I snoop on her phone, and yes I know I was looking for a problem
>see she messages the same guy every couple days if not daily.
>tells me only cuz he buys often.
>ok what ever, bit pissed.
>gf...
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>>16508653
Never listen to what a woman says, but what she does.
Do you try to romance your girlfriend anymore OP?
>>16508653
As a girl, if you sends you some of the nudes she took for another guy, she probably felt bad.
But feeling bad isn't enough.
I'd bring this up to her and say you have room for unfaithful girlfriends in your life.
Cheaters just keep cheating if you don't take any action and end it.
>>16508653
MOAR!
Plain and simple, it's just not working out with my psychiatrist. She refuses to listen to me.
She wants me in therapy but I can't DO therapy because I cannot open up during therapy. It's the whole reason I came to psychiatry--I need drugs to help loosen me up before going to therapy. How do I KNOW this? I've tried it before coming to psychiatry. I went to my university's counseling services and tried seven appointments. All were spent in maybe 40 minutes of silence because I couldn't open up. I went to each appointment with the legitimate...
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Psychiatry is a pseudoscience.
You don't need mind altering drugs.
The mind-altering drugs will most likely make you have far worse anxiety in the long run. Look up benzo and SSRI withdrawals. Benzo withdrawals are worse than heroin, they can kill you, they typically last for months/years, and can cause permanent damage.
Exercise at home.
They're probably not snickering at you.
Tell that bitch why you come to her, and that if she's not just going to be a proxy for mind-altering drugs, which is all psychiatrists are, then tell...
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Stop giving a fuck about what people think when you exercise. I know it's probably hard for you, that it might be one of the reasons you need therapy in the first place, but exercise does a body (and mind) so much good.
i dont like excersizing in public either. what i did was buy a cheap treadmill on craigslist for 100$ an a cheap benchpress bench, some circle weights and some dunbells.
i can hit pretty much all the major muscles and get cardio in all in my room while either listening to music or watching tv shows while I do cardio. its not perfect but i do feel alot better from doing the excersize. and i dno what drugs you need to loosen you up but i had a issue with booze/weed/opiates, and quit them all, at first it was shit but over time complete sobriety + excersize helps you feel alot better overall.
also vit D , multivit, lots of vegetables+water etc etc.
My girlfriend doesn't like having sex with me. I am engaged to this woman.
How badly did I fuck up and how do I fix the situation?
>>16508555
Have you asked her why she doesn't like having sex with you? If it's something you could fix, you could do that, or optionally just walk away, it's not like an engagement is all that serious.
>>16508555
>>16508555
>>16508555
well think of it this way. if she's not having sex with you now, what makes you think it'll happen later?
do you wish to be with someone for the rest of your life who won't touch you anymore?
Don't get married to her unless you can work something out.
If she doesn't want to have sex with you now, it will only get worse. It's not that bad to stop an engagement, a divorce is a different story.
Hey /adv/,
I haven't posted here in a long while but this is killing me.
There's this girl I've liked for quite a while. She liked me, too, but we fell out of contact for a few months, and I saw her last week, and told her all the things I wished I could have told her before we went out of contact.
I asked her out for coffee, she suggested lunch, but revealed that she's seeing someone. We exchanged numbers, and she said she won't be able to do lunch til next week.
I'd really like to see her ASAP, ideally tomorrow night.
Should...
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>>16508533
>she's seeing someone
That's your cue to trot on, cowboy.
Unless you want to be a giant asshole.
>>16508551
Fuck that.
She's only been "seeing" him for like two months.
>>16508564
What if it was you ya dumb cunt?
Say you go for it:
>you go for it
>she sleeps with you and breaks up with her current partner
cut to two months later
>she gets coffee with a "classmate" to discuss "schoolwork" or whatever the fuck excuse
>she sleeps with him
You don't want a girl like that. If she's not like that she won't go for it...
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When people talk about their retail, waitering jobs, why don't they talk about how they have to stand for the whole day? I think this is the worst aspect of being stuck in these jobs but for some reason these workers care more about other stuff.
You get used to it.
>>16508420
I did it for ten days and it was terrible.
>>16508411
Are you obese? Are you old?
my girlfriend is making me see the nutcracker play.
how long is it?
should I get high beforehand?
Get high as fuck. That play is fucking brutal boring and lame.
>>16508357
Damn
>>16508366
Take a gravity bong with and thank Anonymous later.
