Whenever I ask stuff on /adv/ or anywhere else such as "Should I pick Maths or Actuarial Science", Americans will immediately say "Are you an idiot? You can't do the latter as an undergraduate!". Don't they realize that the college/university system works completely different in pretty much every other country on earth and you can pick Medicine, Law, Engineering, Pharmacy, etc?
>>16508267
*pick Medicine, Law, Engineering, Pharmacy, etc as an undergraduate major
>>16508267
its not america, it's /adv/
when you asked that question i thought to myself, is op an idiot?
american college is the gold standard. in fact much of the time if you were to get a degree in another country it would be worthless here.
My friend is a biologist from brazil, or at least she was. if he wants to be a biologist here she needs to go to college again here and get an american biology degree because the 3rd world ones are worthless.
which is what shes doing by the way
is there anywhere else you can reliably find virgin women without resorting to going at church or risking the chance of getting v&?
No. Because it is by chance. Most girls lose their virginity in high school or some even in middle school. So the chances are very slim but you might find a unicorn.
You see OP, there is a reason why most people do their dating in high school its because most girls by then are still virgins. Just saying.
Participate in social circles similar to that of a church. Or move to an extremely small town.
Go to any major top-tier research University. Most of the undergrad women in STEM are virgins. Maybe not white biology majors. However, since you didn't already realize this, you obviously aren't nor weren't a STEM major at a top tier university and are too dumb for their tastes. But hey, now you know that they exist!
Were you bullied in school?
Do you feel like it affects your personality or actions now?
I was bullied lightly in high school and I get easily offended at jokey remarks intended to be harmless. Sometimes I just can't control feeling shitty and wanting to be alone.
>>16507916
yep. it did. but im trying to change. DXM helps in social phobias man, not one to fuck with people but DXM is great. i got prescribed xanax but fuck DXM is more powerful
it'll get better but the memories haunts me
I used to get bullied and made fun of constantly. But they left me alone after I almost killed myself during a school field trip.
Yeah, I was bullied by my peers, and even worse I was bullied at home by my father and siblings.
I was always sensitive and somewhat neurotic, but the bullying absolutely ruined me as a person. Everywhere I go I assume people are laughing at me, I can't trust people and figure people are being nice out of obligation or because they have an ulterior motive to shame me. My own thoughts do all the bullying now. I'm too afraid and beaten down to try anything new so I just sit at home on 4chan and shitpost in order to feel a little better about myself. It's pathetic, but I can't stop. I can't afford therapy or anti-depressants, so I'm pretty much just counting down the days until I kill myself.
I'm 24 and I've realized I've alienated pretty much all the friends I had over the years except for my three closest ones. It's extremely hard for me to move beyond "acquaintance" with people. I don't really know why. Eventually I get tired and want to be alone or I feel moody on a given day and don't wanna talk to anyone and so I fail to maintain a relationship. I've been working at a place for over a year filled with people my age and haven't made a single legit friend.
Does anyone else have trouble making friends?
>>16507866
Pretty much same here. It doesn't bother me too much though
>>16507885
A lot of times I think "I wouldn't be happy being surrounded by people anyway," but others I feel like I'm missing out on so much stuff by staying home and playing video games all the time.
this is actually me irl
i guess it doesnt get better, im 22 and have the same feeling
Welp /adv/ this girl that I really like and have been talking to for almost a year now has just disclosed to me why she's been so distant (not calling, replying to text, completely not following through on plans, etc...) and it basically amounts to her life being kinda shitty, her being stressed, and the mild onset of depression. We had a chat and I told her that I felt something between us and she agreed, but said that she really couldnt be in a relationship with anyone at the moment because "she cant be there for herself so she knows she cant be there for anyone else." I'm not the type of person with any heavy baggage and in fact think that I could really be there and help her through all the stress and bullshit, and give her someone to talk to/take her mind off of things.
The problem is she is adamant at this point that she just cant do it, and I respect that. My issue is that this is admittedly my first REAL (potential) relationship and it by no means came easy. I want to say moving on would be the best option, but I'm not too skilled of a fisherman in this ocean full of women. At the same time I dont think that I am really gaining anything by waiting for her to recover her sanity, I mean im not getting any younger myself. If I did decide to just be friends would I be burning the proverbial bridge in case my venture out into the single life dosent work out? Would I be able to attempt to find someone else, and if she recovers her mind before then be able to go back to her?
just wait until chad comes and she instantly is not stressed or depressed and can is willing to be in a relationship with him
>>16507781
I enjoyed talking to your mom. Her flirting with me was very enjoyable. My advirce: fuck her mom instead. She can join later is she retrieves her sanity.
>>16507793
Well I dont really think thats the issue here. She admitted she was interested in me as well, and that she felt a connection too. She's just not in the right place to get into anything committed which is fine. Her mental peril is real, I saw some of the shit she was talking about first hand so I know its legit.
>>16507801
Dad is that you?
Girls, pretend I'm somebody who has never talked to you but my face looks attractive and I'm a bit thin (a bit out of shape) what kind of personality traits would make you like me? How much does it matter that I don't have much muscle?
>>16507778
Do you like pizza? I like ham and pineapple
>>16507778
Funny, nice, approachable, charming, interesting, relaxed, ect.
Honesty, genuine niceness (not that fake nice guy bullshit), not a horrible pervert, goal-oriented.
So I dated this crazy indigenous bitch, and she went off her head at me most time, and usually said "i know what your about"
Im confused with this term that black people use "what your about" or "aint about shit" what do these terms even mean in white people language?
They can't understand anything
>>16507695
well they are obviously trying to convey a messeage what the hell does it mean?
so no one knows what this means?
Ok so me and my wife had went to a family party last night with all of her relatives. We were having a good time there drinking and catching up with everyone. She did get a little buzzed but not drunk. I noticed her uncle "not blood related, married to wife's mom's sister, but did watch and help raise her when she was a baby til she was maybe 6 or 7 yrs old" somewhat flirting and getting a little touchy with her. He's a married man with kids and we have a kid ourselfs. I had lost track of her for a while and went to go look for her so we could go to the store to get more drinks and when i went to look for her i found her and her uncle outside side smoking weed. I told her we needed more drinks and her uncle said he would take us. We left our daughter their with family. He had a single cab truck so my wife sat between us. Some how our conversation turned sexual and he dared my wife to give me head as we were driving so she did. He kept glancing over and she had her ass up in the air and i noticed he started rubbing her. She stopped and looked up and whispered if it was ok to do the same to him and i was a little shocked but said ok. She turned to him and started giving him head and i had her ass towards me and when i went to rub her she was soaking wet. She told him that we should swing by our apartment and we ended up doing a 3some. I mostly watched and took a few pix. Looking for peoples thoughts or opinions on what happened.
>>16507618
He drove drunk and high. Stupid. You are a weakling and your wife is a whore, the uncle is a creep.
>>16507629
He smoked weed. He was not drunk. We had only been with each other and it was her first time with another guy. Don't see how that makes her a whore.
>>16507629
Well, that's all we need for this thread. Did anyone watch any good football over the holidays?
Femanon here with a question to other femanons, how open are you with your parents about sex?
My boyfriend recently discovered that me and my mom are pretty comfortable about being naked in front of eachother and that we would share a vibrator when I was younger. Is being embarrassed to talk about sex just a guy thing?
>>16507458
>that we would share a vibrator when I was younger
The fuck is wrong with you?
Hey dudes
What are some cool romantic jams to play when a girl is over? I'm not really music
>>16507250
The new James Bond has good music. The subways have music nowadays as well. It's great, use it.
>>16507250
She will appreciate this cool romantic jam
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVpSvCm-ctI
>>16507271
Blablabla boring. This is better:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dvf8rexnXKw
How do I convince my boyfriend to try an open relationship?
Pretty much all other relationships I've had have been open/ fwb and I have no idea how present the question or how he'll react.
>>16507105
Slip something in his drink and then ask him.
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Asked her out and this is what I got. "ahh that's sweet, but I really do have alot going on im sorry /:" Move on?
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>>16507087
yes, obviously
>>16507087
She's totally interested. Just go to her house and propose marriage to her.
Ok, I never really come here, but I actually need some fucking advice in my life right now... Here's basically what happened
>GF and I going thru rough patch back in march, basically break up
>get call from her parents
>she had seizure and is pregnant, says it's mine
>kicks her out, she moves in with me, I pay for abortion, etc.
>stay together and work shit out, deal with aborting the child, etc.
>Find out Nov 1st she cheated on me
>child was never mine
>pack all my shit and move out of apartment (we lived in a student housing complex, females only so her name was on the lease)
>don't have vehicle because I paid to fix hers over the summer instead of buying my own
>get xferred from job right around the corner to new location because i got my ex a job there when she couldn't find work
I'm 45 minutes late to work right now, I have no car, and have been staying on a friends couch for the last month. I've got 3 more job interviews at locations within biking distance on Monday, but can't do much else until then. Found a moped on Craigslist and talked the girl down to $300, but literally have nothing to my name other than $86 right now and overdrafted ~$200 from where the bitch still charged my card for the rent for the month of November.
TL;DR
>gf of two years lied about me being father of her child
>fund her life, find out lie and leave
>now trying to piece life together but can't even get to job to make money
WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO. I'M REALLY FUCKING TRYING HERE GUYS.
>pic related, literally days before breakup after-hours at our workplace.
Oh and for what it's worth, my birthday was November 13th, I found out about it just in time to ruin the entire holiday season.
>>16507039
OP you are not the first nor the last dude some broad had done this exact same shit to. Just be glad the crazy bitch is out of your life. (her parents know she's nuts too) I promise it gets better once the cut develops a scab.
>>16507054
the pain isn't what I'm worried about, she was a cheating lying whore and I'm glad to have the deceitful slut out of my life
What I'm worried about now is getting my feet back underneath me, getting to work, etc.
I fucking called a cab and tried to pay $25 just to get a ride to what will be slow shift JUST TO TRY TO MAKE SOMETHING and the cab is now an hour late and the company has stopped responding to my calls
I can't even get $300 for this moped, like if I had ANY sort of reliable transportation none of this would even be a problem, but I'm running out of groceries again and am gonna have to spend what little I have on that
I'd fucking bike the hour there if it wasnt literally 40*F and sleeting right now.
Cheated on my gf with my best friend who's a girl
What do i do now
>>16506961
Sit down with both of them and calmly explain that they both need to start sucking your dick. Immediately.
>>16506961
depends on which one you want
You kill yourself
i was always called pretty when i was younger but my mom says i look like a 40-year-old drag queen so now within the past year im realizing im kind of ugly and i dont know how to cope. how do i come to terms with the idea that looks arent everything? or are they actually everything and should i just give up? (pic related, it is me in my halloween costume. my hand looks really big but i dont think its actually that big in real life. at least i have that going for me)
>>16506892
It looks like your looks are on the verge of falling apart.
Better hurry up and either grow a personality or marry a guy with a yacht.
You look fine, loose the earrings.
Post pic of body for better evaluation.
How old are you?