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Whenever I ask stuff on /adv/ or anywhere else such as "Should I pick Maths or Actuarial Science", Americans will immediately say "Are you an idiot? You can't do the latter as an undergraduate!". Don't they realize that the college/university system works completely different in pretty much every other country on earth and you can pick Medicine, Law, Engineering, Pharmacy, etc?
>>16508267
*pick Medicine, Law, Engineering, Pharmacy, etc as an undergraduate major
>>16508267
its not america, it's /adv/
when you asked that question i thought to myself, is op an idiot?
american college is the gold standard. in fact much of the time if you were to get a degree in another country it would be worthless here.
My friend is a biologist from brazil, or at least she was. if he wants to be a biologist here she needs to go to college again here and get an american biology degree because the 3rd world ones are worthless.
which is what shes doing by the way
is there anywhere else you can reliably find virgin women without resorting to going at church or risking the chance of getting v&?
No. Because it is by chance. Most girls lose their virginity in high school or some even in middle school. So the chances are very slim but you might find a unicorn.
You see OP, there is a reason why most people do their dating in high school its because most girls by then are still virgins. Just saying.
Participate in social circles similar to that of a church. Or move to an extremely small town.
Go to any major top-tier research University. Most of the undergrad women in STEM are virgins. Maybe not white biology majors. However, since you didn't already realize this, you obviously aren't nor weren't a STEM major at a top tier university and are too dumb for their tastes. But hey, now you know that they exist!
Were you bullied in school?
Do you feel like it affects your personality or actions now?
I was bullied lightly in high school and I get easily offended at jokey remarks intended to be harmless. Sometimes I just can't control feeling shitty and wanting to be alone.
>>16507916
yep. it did. but im trying to change. DXM helps in social phobias man, not one to fuck with people but DXM is great. i got prescribed xanax but fuck DXM is more powerful
it'll get better but the memories haunts me
I used to get bullied and made fun of constantly. But they left me alone after I almost killed myself during a school field trip.
Yeah, I was bullied by my peers, and even worse I was bullied at home by my father and siblings.
I was always sensitive and somewhat neurotic, but the bullying absolutely ruined me as a person. Everywhere I go I assume people are laughing at me, I can't trust people and figure people are being nice out of obligation or because they have an ulterior motive to shame me. My own thoughts do all the bullying now. I'm too afraid and beaten down to try anything new so I just sit at home on 4chan and shitpost in order to feel a little better about myself. It's...
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I'm 24 and I've realized I've alienated pretty much all the friends I had over the years except for my three closest ones. It's extremely hard for me to move beyond "acquaintance" with people. I don't really know why. Eventually I get tired and want to be alone or I feel moody on a given day and don't wanna talk to anyone and so I fail to maintain a relationship. I've been working at a place for over a year filled with people my age and haven't made a single legit friend.
Does anyone else have trouble making friends?
>>16507866
Pretty much same here. It doesn't bother me too much though
>>16507885
A lot of times I think "I wouldn't be happy being surrounded by people anyway," but others I feel like I'm missing out on so much stuff by staying home and playing video games all the time.
this is actually me irl
i guess it doesnt get better, im 22 and have the same feeling
Welp /adv/ this girl that I really like and have been talking to for almost a year now has just disclosed to me why she's been so distant (not calling, replying to text, completely not following through on plans, etc...) and it basically amounts to her life being kinda shitty, her being stressed, and the mild onset of depression. We had a chat and I told her that I felt something between us and she agreed, but said that she really couldnt be in a relationship with anyone at the moment because "she cant be there for herself so she knows she cant be there for anyone...
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just wait until chad comes and she instantly is not stressed or depressed and can is willing to be in a relationship with him
>>16507781
I enjoyed talking to your mom. Her flirting with me was very enjoyable. My advirce: fuck her mom instead. She can join later is she retrieves her sanity.
>>16507793
Well I dont really think thats the issue here. She admitted she was interested in me as well, and that she felt a connection too. She's just not in the right place to get into anything committed which is fine. Her mental peril is real, I saw some of the shit she was talking about first hand so I know its legit.
>>16507801
Dad is that you?
Girls, pretend I'm somebody who has never talked to you but my face looks attractive and I'm a bit thin (a bit out of shape) what kind of personality traits would make you like me? How much does it matter that I don't have much muscle?
>>16507778
Do you like pizza? I like ham and pineapple
>>16507778
Funny, nice, approachable, charming, interesting, relaxed, ect.
Honesty, genuine niceness (not that fake nice guy bullshit), not a horrible pervert, goal-oriented.
So I dated this crazy indigenous bitch, and she went off her head at me most time, and usually said "i know what your about"
Im confused with this term that black people use "what your about" or "aint about shit" what do these terms even mean in white people language?
They can't understand anything
>>16507695
well they are obviously trying to convey a messeage what the hell does it mean?
so no one knows what this means?
Ok so me and my wife had went to a family party last night with all of her relatives. We were having a good time there drinking and catching up with everyone. She did get a little buzzed but not drunk. I noticed her uncle "not blood related, married to wife's mom's sister, but did watch and help raise her when she was a baby til she was maybe 6 or 7 yrs old" somewhat flirting and getting a little touchy with her. He's a married man with kids and we have a kid ourselfs. I had lost track of her for a while and went to go look for her so we could go to...
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>>16507618
He drove drunk and high. Stupid. You are a weakling and your wife is a whore, the uncle is a creep.
>>16507629
He smoked weed. He was not drunk. We had only been with each other and it was her first time with another guy. Don't see how that makes her a whore.
>>16507629
Well, that's all we need for this thread. Did anyone watch any good football over the holidays?
Femanon here with a question to other femanons, how open are you with your parents about sex?
My boyfriend recently discovered that me and my mom are pretty comfortable about being naked in front of eachother and that we would share a vibrator when I was younger. Is being embarrassed to talk about sex just a guy thing?
>>16507458
>that we would share a vibrator when I was younger
>>16507458
The fuck is wrong with you?
Hey dudes
What are some cool romantic jams to play when a girl is over? I'm not really music
>>16507250
The new James Bond has good music. The subways have music nowadays as well. It's great, use it.
>>16507250
She will appreciate this cool romantic jam
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVpSvCm-ctI
>>16507271
Blablabla boring. This is better:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dvf8rexnXKw
How do I convince my boyfriend to try an open relationship?
Pretty much all other relationships I've had have been open/ fwb and I have no idea how present the question or how he'll react.
>>16507105
Slip something in his drink and then ask him.
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Asked her out and this is what I got. "ahh that's sweet, but I really do have alot going on im sorry /:" Move on?
>>16507087
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>>16507087
yes, obviously
>>16507087
She's totally interested. Just go to her house and propose marriage to her.
