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The thing is, intellectually I'm aware that it probably isn't about my body. It could be any number of things: his nervousness due to inexperience, lack of sensitivity because of he underwent a circumcision in his teens (not common in my country), all the fumbling with the condoms and about which hole is the right one, pain due to the tightness of my vagina, my low sex drive, his being too tired after hitting the gym, his masturbating too much... there are a lot of reasons. And we've already come so close to managing it, and I just know we will in...
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He also told me that he really likes me, but doesn't feel like he loves me or anything, and that's he's only loved once: his first girlfriend who left him when he was 18. He's been telling me about how he still cries over her when drunk, and how she dumped him for “a manlier man” and how traumatizing that breakup was for him. He didn't date for years after that. Well, I told him I believe that love only comes after you've known each other for a longer time, and when he said he almost immediately loved his first, I told him it was...
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never point out your flaws when you're with bf

act like you're perfect and a guy will blindly believe it

You'll learn.

How badly do you want it?

>>16503049
She's an agreeable character. I wouldn't mind making her my go-to-bitch.

We've had a few long conversations in her office relevant to class material. She is particularly practiced in continental philosophy with a concentration in existentialism. She knows I, on the other hand, take continental philosophy to be a great big joke. She has nevertheless thoroughly praised my criticisms.

She's also shared a little bit about her personal life with me. For instance, I know she likes to play...
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>>16503071
she doesn't respect you intellectually, that's called being nice.

And here I have shitty parents like yours who didn't even bother to save anything for me to go anywhere.
You shouldn't feel ashamed. Although you may want to reconsider your relationship. Seems like she's just another source of stress/anxiety and abuse.

>>16502947
>Is lucky enough to have parents that pay for his education
>Moans about typical things all parents do

I don't think you have a lot to be depressed about, son.

if you don't have a job or being the least self sustainable, then yea you're probably a righteous cunt.
if it bothers you so much that they want you to be and do what they want, go your own way and don't accept the money.
however, don't feel bad for taking it, your parents offered and its a big help in the end, it doesn't make you any less, maybe her parents couldn't afford to do it for her or wanted her to pave her own way

You're in the same boat as most college graduates now. There's not enough jobs, and too many people. The amount of jobs keeps on decreasing with the advancement of technology.

College today is basically like asking "Let me get in tens of thousands of dollars worth of debt, and be completely unable to get a job with my degree".

You majored in Economics didn't you? Isn't that ironic. The economy is shit, and eventually it will become so shitty that we will need to have Universal Basic Income, maybe just go flip burgers and wait for that?

>>16502803
>can't find any work with my other degree unfortunately (Law)
What the fuck? Law is very specialised

>>16502803
Work in a bank?
Just keep applying for jobs and see if you get anything. The job market is competitive as fuck. It's better to be underemployed than unemployed.

Choose the red one

>>16502778
Well said

>>16502773
Describe them and why would you choose girl A instead of B or the other way around.

>>16502662
>someone else took out a loan in my name
but that's wrong, nobody can take out a loan in someone elses name

for a start, your family was taken advantage of, and your stepfather was a fool

consider
1. freezing the debt, in my country you can enter into a registered debt agreement to stop interest on loans you can't repay

2. bankruptcy, why would you keep paying someone back money they didn't lend you, fuck your creditor
people say you won't...
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>>16502662
>150%
Dude what the fuck? how?

>>16502662
Dude wtf in my country every family loan over 17% interest is considered illegal. Also /adv/ is not the place for those things, ask a lawyer.

>>16502455
carry a gun.

>>16502458
No guns in my cunt, though

>>16502464
learn street sense, always keep eyes on where you're going so if you don't like the way things look you spot it before you get there and don't end up sleepwalking onto a corner where a drug deal is happening or some shit. If you don't like the way something looks turn around and find another way. Don't listen to music while walking at night so you can stay focused. Walk with other people whenever possible, groups don't ever get attacked. Move to a better part of the city.

>>16502016
Go to court, tell the judge you pulled over because you thought it would be safer. Safety is a reason to not yield to a police cruiser IMMEDIATELY. Your cop was just some fucking ass wipe. Careless driving? What? Did you hit something lol?

Yeah go argue that shit.

>>16502028
The careless driving might have been for the cop, since she had to stop where she was since I ran the light. The ticket said "to person" but I would have never hit a pedestrian if they walked past. I might not be able to argue that.

Thanks a lot for replying, I'm just so drained from all of this right now and I appreciate any advice I could get.

Shoot for a deferral, if you can keep your nose clean for 90 days they will drop the tickets.

They know the next time that they are coming over, sex is what you're expecting and it makes them feel awkward. They would have sex that night, but they don't want to go into it knowing that's what you're expecting. If you get them at your place, go all the way. I don't know what to do though if that's not a possibility. May even just be playful about it?

>>16501880
Sent them a message saying
"Let's talk, I need to know what's bothering you. And I'm sorry if you thought I'd do something that wouldn't make you feel comfortable"

Joke a little bit to soften the situation.

If they reply, good. If they don't, they don't give a shit about you.

>>16502936
Like I wrote, I tried to have sex with the first girl, so she wasn't having it because she was on the rag. The other girl did not seem comfortable going beyond making out, so I kept my hands above sea level.

>>16502964
I would man, but like I said, they're not responding to me. They clearly don't give a shit about me, which is fine, but frustrating because I have no idea WTF they're upset about.

>Get a girl's number
>She seems disinterested and said "Oh hi" after I texter her "Hey xxxx, it's anon. What's going on? You gave me your number at so and so the other day"

What say?

>>16501160
"What's going on" is a terrible starter. Do you actually have a reason to text her?

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I've met an IRL equivalent of Christ-chan who aside from being devout is also pretty socially awkward.

I really like her, so I marshalled my courage and kicked off this conversation.

It ended just the way you see in the picture about 3 hours ago.

What did I do wrong?

>>16500670
break up, now... you were suspicious for a reason, your suspicions have been confirmed... time to go.

He's the asshole for lying.

>>16500670
Why would you go through his phone? What made you think you were going to find anything worth searching in there? You shouldn't have gone through his phone. That's invasion of privacy, you don't just step over those boundries.

>>16500670
>"my boyfriend cheated on me"
>doesn't immediately break it off

We need that /adv/ meme thread again

>>16500349
Bump because I need help with this too.

It feels like they're all vapid and largely disinterested in me so yeah take that for what it is.

>>16500349
You don't. Unless you're in the top 20% of males then you have received every reason to hate them.

>>16500349

Why do you hate women? Find the source and work with it, was it your terrible mother? Get over it, was it a shitty gf? Stop generalizing other women for her actions, if she was a shit person that doesn't mean other women are. I know you might not belive this but all women don't cheat and lie. All women don't want the same, what works in one relationship might never work in another. People are different.

1. Why
2. Eliminate the factors
3. Try to forgive

stop skipping school and playing wow, go workout, learn for school and fuck bitches you lazy fucking fucktard

Don't stop taking chances.

>>16499879
Don't get back with your high school sweeetheart when you reconnect at 23. It was a massive waste of 10 months.

Other than that, I wouldn't change anything. All of the mistakes and choices I made along the way have made it so I am happy where I am today. Each has a consequence which at the time may not have been great, but absolutely influenced subsequent decisions/choices, which ultimately led to my awesome life at 30. So don't be afraid to fuck up. Ten years do wonders in changing you, your...
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>>16503186
Why? Just because your friends like something different doesn't mean you should change. The world needs chubby chasers.

>>16503210
Seriously, if that's what you're into just let it be.

You could have much weirder fetishes

>>16503210
Sometimes i feel disgusting, the reason is i feel there is something wrong on my mind, for example i find sexy a girl if she just have big ass, but on the other hand normal people have different aproaches like they say oh she is fucking beautyful i must fuck her so they related that facial attractiveness with being sexy this is what i am trying to say and i want to get rid of this big ass fantasy if you help me

i would stop talking to my mother if i were you, she sounds toxic af

>>16503082
I love her and its important to me to have a mother figure in my life. I struggle a lot without having a maternal figure

>>16503089
Then get a girlfriend with an attitude and big titties you kuck