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My teen sister has been in a lesbian relationship for some months now, despite our parents attempts to stop them.
Mostly because my sister is pretty much a lil bitch around the other girl and follows her every command, like skipping school and taking the train to another city to visit her and such things. My parents forbade her to see the other girl but they're still together.
At my parents request, I have been reading her DMs on twitter, just to make sure they don't meet anymore and the other girl is pretty much forcing my sis to send her nudes. From...
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your options are
1. meddle in things that are none of your business
2. be a little bitch, as well as a snitch
how bout you go for
3. not be a dick?
>>16502973
how am I being a dick for caring
what do you think I gain from this
I dont even want to have to check her things, she put herself in this position
>>16502973
>my sister: lies to me and makes me driver her to see the other girl in another city
>you: well why it's not like :\\ it's your business :\ stop being a snitch it's not like ur sister can ruin her life for sending nudes
I'm stressing out over Christmas, I can't afford it. I have like $90 in my bank and I'm not wasting it on step-relatives who will probably throw out or never use my gift.
I'm not very creative and can't really make a gift, anything I could make would take more time than I have. What should I do?
Fuck the holidays. I don't celebrate or stress out about it. It works great
>>16502824
I wish I could, I hate the holidays but I gotta go through the motions with family and stuff.
>>16502811
>i have like $90 in my bank
lol
Hey anons, desperately need your advice. So I had been dating a girl for about 5 weeks now, and it was really fun and all. Had that emotional connection that I rarely ever experience. She however just came out of a relationship and thus didn't want to start anything "official", but in reality, we did everything you normally do as a couple. For me it was enough that there was some sort of exclusivity between us, whatever you want to call that.
However, tuesday I made a remark about her underwear, how she always wears grannies and I just made fun of it basically....
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>>16502809
>I told her I was thankful for the amazing 5 weeks we had together
then you broke up with her, right? there's no other option in this situation, you know she isn't worth your time and did the right thing, don't go back or talk to her, cut all the contact and don't look back, you're in the right path to stop being a beta, don't fuck it up.
>>16502879
Yeah it was pretty much implied I broke up with her (even though we weren't officially a thing neither).
>>16502902
Doens't matter if it was official or not, you did the right move, don't let her fool you.
my little sister is getting older, and she's at that age now when boys are becoming important to her.
unfortunately she's started dressing too provocatively, and loosing her common sense, walking alone, hanging out with bad kids.
and it's not just her, a lot of kids are starting to do it, so she thinks it's "normal" and that's hard to counteract
the more I try to stop her, the more she pulls away.
now some of you might think "let her live her own life", all I can say is that if you think that you are a bad...
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"Stop dressing like a slut".
When I was 14, I was in love with my best friend.
She kept talking about her dads friend, and I eventually clocked on and knew what was going to happen.
So, I tried to tell her it was a bad idea, this that and the other, everything I could think of.
Long story short, the paedophile used her for sex, cut contact with her when she thought she was pregnant and she cried. Heartbreaking.
This happened repeatedly, and she even ended up with a guy who hit her a few times.
It was then that I learned a valuable lesson; She's never gonna learn, warning...
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>>16502719
even if I can't stop her making mistakes, I can still break the legs of guys who don't treat her right
Is it possible to learn to like sex if you don't?
How do you not like sex?
Are you taking any drugs, especially pharmaceutical ones like SSRI's?
>>16502705
Well the answer to this depends on a lot of factors.
1. How old are you?
2. How many sexual partners did you have?
3. What exactly don't you like about sex?
I'm not on medication, I'm 20, I have no idea how many sex partners I've had (lost count somewhere past seven), and I don't know what it is. It doesn't hurt when I do it, I just dread it beforehands. Like mondays.
Yesterday there was a free projection of a film in my university. There were just a bunch of old men that always come for the free screenings and a younger girl. I started talking with her before they opened the projection room and she was very interesting. When I went for a seat she followed me to sit together, no the other way around.
I'm 20 in my sophomore year, but she seems older (25-29? no idea, didn't want to specify) and is from another part of my country. Dropped out of college but has a job in here and has travelled 10 times more than me. She says...
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Dude. She already yes. Relax. Be awesome.
>>16502632
> coming from a girl dating a younger guy
>>16502632
I have problems with those instructions. Even if she said yes I already feel like it's some lost battle. Why would a working girl go out with some youngster?
Also what about trying something physically, kiss and so on, should I already go for it on the first date or what. I don't know what kind of expectations are there at those years.
Some friend told me that she'd like that I was bold asking her out with no bullshit texting before and that she might want me as a young fucktoy, but no idea.
Okay Americans, British, and anyone that eats Peanut Butter. Wanted to try it for the first time, bought Sun Pat Crunchy. Tasted it on bread-terrible. How do you do it? Do you toast the bread first? Could the PB be expired? It was hard to digest, taste was weird. And thought it would be sweet(er). Any advice? Maybe I am just eating it wrong. pic very much related
I always ate PB with jam, so try something sweet with it.
>>16502490
I only have it on toast, maybe that'll taste nicer?
>>16502565
>>16502568
thanks for you both, I will try it again tommorow, this time I will toast the bread first. it is butter after all, so it should melt a little. jam is a good idea too. or bananas
I fell asleep on the couch for about half an hour watching tv
GF texted during that time and I obviously didn't text back because I was asleep. When I wake up and respond I get a text back saying "Took half an hour, not good enough. I'm going to stop texting you as often now"
What
>>16502144
It's either a joke or she's crazy.
Did you stick your dick in crazy, anon?
>>16502144
This sounds like a joke on her part.
>>16502151
>>16502150
It's not a joke
What are some good jobs, /adv/?
Requirements are:
>Not an office job
>Little to no contact with other humans, at most a few coworkers, no clients
>Earns enough money to afford a small flat, eat whenever you want and buy some nice things from time to time
>Enough free time to go on small trips once in a while, 'wander the world'
Anything else is fair game, doesn't have to be fancy or glorious.
>inb4...
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>>16502143
>Not an office job
>Little to no contact with other humans, at most a few coworkers, no clients
First explain why you're so against these two things
>>16502143
Microbiologist.
>>16502148
They both suck gigantic cocks. Office work isn't bad, but boring. Dealing with customers and clients is a great constant reminder as to why people are fucking awful in general.
cheap way to permanently get rid of or remove hair? I hate shaving every week
im male
3rd degree burns
>>16502031
Easy mode is nair creams / magic shaving powder.
Otherwise you'll need to have that laser treatment, which is kind of expensive, and sometimes doesn't work perfectly if you have thicker hair.
Hi guys and girls, i'd really like your opinion on how this little thing i found i the street worth?
>>16501948
probably nothing, it looks very fake.
>>16501948
about $3.50
Did the teeth test and its all gritty and shit. Plus this writing in the back
Advice on how to get my cat to stop pissing outside of the litter box? It's clean. She goes for furniture, loose clothes, and beds. Pretty much ruining them. Can't blame a cat for being a cat but we're gonna have to just toss her if it's that or sleeping in piss.
>>16501890
How old is she ? Have you even taken her to the vet?
Feed her lots of water then lock her inside the litter box until she pees.
>>16501890
Take her to the vet. Peeing outside of litter boxes is more unusual for female cats than it is for male cats. I had a cat that started to pee in weird places and he died shortly after.
If the vet says everything is fine, then get a pheromone plug in. It doesn't smell like anything to humans, but it relaxes cats and makes then feel like the house smells enough like cat to not need to mark. I have a male cat that has a problem with spraying and it stopped after we got a plug in. We only need it a month,...
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Is wanting to sleep in separate beds a deal breaker for girls? I just can't get to sleep while sleeping with someone. I can't get comfortable and it usually takes me awhile to find the perfect position to sleep in so I move around A LOT in bed. I don't go to sleep fast. I can't stay in the position for too long until I get to sleep and I know this would annoy the shit out my partner.
More importantly I'm just not comfortable like that. I dislike being limited in my space and moving. If my partner is cuddling with me or something, staying like that is incredibly uncomfortable for me. I just need to be able to position myself at my leisure and have the room to myself.
I feel like this is a deal breaker though. I've tried and tried but I can't do it, I need my own bed.
>>16501492
Deal breaker for me
You just need to find someone who feels the same way as you
>>16501495
This.
I'd probably be ok with it. I have the same issues, but I do like cuddling and shit but when I want to sleep I just want to go the fuck to sleep fuck off I'm sweating omg give me my fucking blanket back fuck
>>16501492
Fun fact: Back in the day they never showed a couple in the same bed. It's uncommon to find someone who likes to sleep in different beds these days. It's not a deal breaker for a few.
Can I get a chick pregnant if she's giving grinding me wearing panties and I bust a load in my pants?
>>16501382
It's extremely unlikely
no you child
No, but you might be 16 if you can get off that easily and had to ask a question like that.
My boyfriend was molested by his stepfather and his sisters as a child.
How do I talk to him about this?
Tips and advice on what to say and how to handle it?
>>16500209
Good on him keeping it in the family
>>16500209
has any legal action been taken?
also, take him to shrink so he doesn't flip some day and rape his kids should he have any
no offense.
>>16500209
i am talking out of experience here, just ask him if it still bothers him. ask him if it makes him feel insecure and such things. if you have problems in bed, this might be the cause you know?
