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I'm a 20yo freshman planning on moving to the U.S after finishing my degree. I need some americans to give me some inside info on what cities are the shit and what cities suck
looking for:
- job opportunities in I.T (otherwise can't get a visa
- reasonable rents (in san fran they charge like 2k/month for mediocre shit is that a joke??)
- young population
- extroverted people
- attractive girls and drinking culture (slutty is bonus!)
Where would be the best place to thrive? All opinions welcome
>>16497411
I have always heard that San Jose was the place for IT, I have never been there before though.
I have made a good living bouncing around defense contractors, they pay very well and the areas in California where their plants are have very low living costs. I don't know if that would be an option for you though given that you aren't even a resident.
>>16497411
idk about other places but Los Angeles might have what you're looking for.
>job opportunities in I.T (otherwise can't get a visa
Lot of start-ups and a lot of technology-oriented. They're trying to market themselves "Silicon Beach" in the westside (Marina Del Rey/Santa Monica). 9 times out of 10 if it's a big corporation in SF they probably have a branch out here. Uh, yeah.
>reasonable rents (in san fran they charge like...
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>>16497443
I want to add that it's also hot, it's hard to get around without a car unless you live Downtown or near a train station, so I personally despise it here. There is a really heavy Uber/Lyft oriented transport here now, though. They have a really great art and music scene if you're into that, there's something for everyone here.
I'm actually looking to leave to Portland and Seattle, so, lol
Hey /adv. Where do you stand on Porn and Relationships. Can they coexist together? When does it become problem, if ever? Is it impossible!?
Get in here, I know you've got opinions!!!
How could they not exist together? It implies nothing if your so watches porn.
Porn is good in tired, old relationships, where one side is still horny but the other just wants the company and isn't into it most of the time.
Before that, it's not the best feeling if they're normally willing and the s.o. pulls it instead of making the effort.
>>16497301
As long as it's not negatively affecting your sex lives (physically and/or mentally), as long as getting off with your partner always comes first, as long as it's not a secret or a habit, and as long as it doesn't bleed into the realm of cam shows/phone sex, it's fine.
It can be exciting to watch together and fun to get new ideas from.
people who lost weight, where did you find the motivation for it?
Looking in the mirror
i repulsed myself to the point where avoiding my own reflection was becoming too hard. i wanted to look at myself without wanting to vomit.
>>16497308
what if i'm already a normal weight but want to lose some?
So my significant other and I have been together for almost 3 years now. We live in different continents. I just feel like I'm the only one making an effort in this relationship. Always getting him presents, ignoring his laziness etc. He says he's desperate to be with me, which I find hard to believe. He's 21 and lives with his grandma, refuses to get a job and is perfectly content with mooching off of her forever. He asked me to come live with him (probably so he can mooch off of me too) but I don't want to do that either. Other than this he's generally...
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>We live in different continents
That makes breaking up easier.
Just walk away.
>>16497290
>men like that can get gfs
>i still cant
ree normies etc etc
>>16497296
Yeah that's the whole problem. How do I go about it?
What do you do if you can do absolutely nothing right, have no redeeming features, don't have the energy to make any accomplishments, and are too much of a weakling to even kill yourself?
>>16497257
Continue living as a fuck you to the world that created you.
Man up and resolve to change all of that. You and I both know that's the only answer, specifically since you've denoted you have no will or ability to kill yourself.
You can start off by abandoning the lie you've told yourself. You can do things right, you have redeeming features, you can muster up the energy to make accomplishments...and you can do anything you set your mind to.
Eventually it'll break you so hard you'll have no options left than to either make yourself do something good, or try to an hero.
So my wife is always too tired to fuck, but she has sleeping issues and wakes up in the middle of the night a lot which leaves her tired the next day. I finally got her to talk to her dr about it and she prescribed ambien.
My wife took it last night and slept all night. I tried to wake her gently and she didnt move. Fondled her tits and she didn't move.
fingered her and she barely moved and then beat off onto her tits and wiped it up and she didnt move.
Told her this morning and she just rolled her eyes and said "don't put it in my butt."
Q1...
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>>16497210
that would be rape. why would you want to fuck someone that is passed out anyway. gross.
>>16497210
fucking ask her maybe? its your wife not ours
try cannabis oil.(for the sleep offcorse)
How do you stop laying in bed all the time?
I always decide like "ok I'm not gonna go to bed before 9" and always end up laying there with my laptop anyway, taking five hour naps and shit.
I mean I don't have anything else to do but always ending up here probably isn't healthy.
Are you saying you literally spend all day in bed?
>>16497209
I do get up and go to school on a daily basis and occasionally get groceries on the weekend, but other than that, pretty much yes.
>>16497214
Do you not have a job or something?
Is there any way I can quit my job and still have a place to live? I'm tired as shit and seasonal depression is kicking in.
Same boat
>>16497150
>>16497154
Go crawl back into your mother's basement from whence you came.
it depends on where you live mate, what country?
An attorney offered me 1000 dollars for sex thanksgiving evening, and I told him I would have done it for free, but he kept the offer up and said it's okay because it was a drop in the pond for him. I was worried and told a friend that I was considering it, but he warned me that once I take that money I was by definition a prostitute, and there are some roads once traveled, you can't return from.
The thing is, I'm upside down, my rent is coming up and I won't be able to cover it, my insurance and my other bills. I was looking for another job, to supplement...
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1000 dollars is pretty good for fucking someone depends on your own personal morals though
>>16497124
If you need it, take it.
A good majority of this board will call you a whore so be prepared.
>>16497139
Only because she's taking money in exchange for sex. You know, the textbook definition of a whore.
18 year old>makes various sextapes>even waves at camera>has several sexual partners (strictly black guys only).
Is she a slut or not?
Think the term is drug addicted prostitute.
>>16497118
who gives a shit? stop slut shaming. there's nothing wrong with being confident about sex and enjoying yourself.
>>16497118
she's a slut
don't bother
>>16497204
haha ok
Can someone please translate this?
Why don't you highlight the message and hold your finger there until the dialog box pops up.
Choose copy text
Open translate.google.com on your phone.
Press the box and choose paste.
I would also like to mention that if you can't effectively communicate with this person, it's probably not worth your time.
I did that, but the translation was not the greatest and I wanted an actual understanding of what she said. From what I can tell she was calling me a bastard because she thought I was making fun of her. Loling at these sensitive chinks.
The guy in the picture looks like binky from Arthur
Prostitution is legal in the country we are in. For a variety of reasons I want to convince my gf to work at a local brothel. Help me brainstorm how to persuade her. Because reasons.
>>16497015
Well op. Why do you want your gf to fuck other men?
Well, if you're ok with her getting naked in front of men you don't know, then power to you.
Personally, I prefer my fun box locked down if you know what I mean
>>16497015
I'd pay $25 for a blow job and $40 to fuck it
hi guys
im looking for a cool idea for a date with a musically oriented girl im meeting up with later this week. do you guys have any ideas either in abstract or more specifically for cambridge (uk)?
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Protip: don't make 'musically oriented' her whole personality. She's more than that.
>>16497028
sure, but i havent properly met her yet so i dont really know much about her. just working off of what i do know
In the UK don't we just sort of go to a bar and buy cocktails?
So I found my sisters nudes on fetlife (no I will not share them).
Do I tell her?
... It's about 30 photos btw.
... Yes I saved them.
... Yes I fapped tot it.
share some without her face, come on
>>16496975
They are all without face, I recognized our house.
Only one I will share.
She used a fake name btw.
>>16496965
Don't tell her.
Stop fapping to them and delete them.
Forget about this whole incident and never mention it to anyone again.
I'm a young teacher that graduated this summer, I have some major problems when it comes to people taking me seriously. Older women in the field look at me like "Oh I have a daughter your age". I know it's not my biological age that causes them to not take me seriously, I do look young but it's more how I am. Most people don't really seem to like me, I think the are annoyed with my lack of experience and such.
How do I get as confident and lovely as they are? They have this inner strength and beauty that I don't have, they have something...
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Teacher here.
Get out while you can. It's a shitty institution. You'll soon realize that public education is a losing proposition. It does not exist for the children. Like all bureaucracies, it's true purpose is to keep the fat heads at the top well payed. Look at your local school board. I am confident not a single member has ever been a teacher. It's just a springboard for loser wannabe politicians to try to launch their careers.
But I've never had your particular problem, but i am male.
Then again, maybe it's just you.
Confident here.
Ok. I know it's going to sound impossible, but you've got to stop caring about other peoples opinion about you.
You've got to make stands and have opinions. You cannot automatically agree to everything and expect to be taken seriously.
Also, work out. Running/swimming/cycling and upper body muscles. It will straiten your posture and you will stand with more authority.
In fact. Read about body language and change it.
So before you start your next post, which will be in the line of:
> I...
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>>16497077
Well I don't really want to leave the field this early, I mean it's okay to change the path but I don't want to quit before I tried everything to make it in the field first.
>>16497106
Oh gee, stop caring what people think... Hmm I think I can do that, just need to practice and learn how to be my own biggest fan.
>You cannot automatically agree to everything and expect to be taken seriously.
Yeah...
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