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if there are any questions you've ever wanted to ask a drunk 24 yr old girl-but-kinda-agendered person who went to art school you should ask here in this thread
What's your favorite art movement and why?
Isn't modern medicine cool? I mean we get all these drugs and stuff to speed recovery or lessen pain
>>16492244
are you single? whats your cats name
What can I do to make my gf feel like a "whore"?
Sex is great but too conventional, and I generally feel as if I'm the only one that comes up with new ideas.
For example, she gives me bjs, but it feels too forced. As if she only does that bc she wants to make me feel good. I want her to enjoy it and look forward to it. I want her to beg me to cum in her face/mouth. I want her to bend over and spread her cheeks to show me her asshole, things like that.
Do you have any advices?
Stop watching porn. They're just acting.
>>16492086
Talk to her beforehand, suggest small things. Lots and lots of foreplay. Kiss her and tease her, and when she's trembling and shaking with passion and excitement. Most girls don't like cum on their faces though
>>16492103
Probably. But then how do you explain amateur videos?
>>16492109
>Most girls don't like cum on their faces though
Yeah, I know. It was just an example.
I tried what you said before, and it worked to an extent. The problem is that if I say what I want, she'd be doing it to please me. I want her to do it bc she wants to.
Can you survive on minimum wage in Australia if you move out?
>>16492084
What state anon?
>>16492106
NSW
>>16492107
If its sydney or the outer suburbs, You would most likely need a housemate or 2.
Can I live in NYC as a 20 something poor person if I live in a black neighborhood?
>>16492046
>Can I live in NYC as a 20 something poor person if I live in a black neighborhood?
Sure. But it's going to be hell if you're not black and you're not trained in self-defense.
>>16492046
Are you black?
People will look at you funny and possibly target you for robberies and shit if you're the only guy living in the projects
>>16492057
No I'm white but its worth the risk
ITT: Best way to get a girl off
hitachi magic wand
>>16492010
without toys
a shovel to the head.
I have this mark near my testicles. Iv only just noticed it and i know for sure it wasnt there a couple of days ago. Does anyone know what it is? Is it just a rash
Also i have not had sex in a month so i dont think it could be a STI and i have been sweating alot lately due to wearing jeans in 40°C so maybe thats something?
Chaffing
I've had similar spots before, I think it's an allergic reaction or heat rash. I've had it on my arm, leg and back, so not STI
>>16491977
that's just irritated / just a rash indeed. If you doubt go ask a doctor instead of /adv/ or do you live in the country of freedomz?
Anyone here found a job aboard? How did you manage to find a job?
bump again
>>16491935
Go to a yacht club and you might get a job aboard a ship.
>>16491935
I did a nursing school and then got recruited by a guy to work in a clinic
That was a year ago
If you have a trade start looking for recruiting companies and go from there , knowing the language is a big help , I'm still struggling with the language barrier but i manage
So /adv/ is my first time postimg here, i am a 19 yr old guy, 8/10 and i like this girld that is 28, she already has a career, i am just strarting mine. Has anyone ever dated older women, if so, any recommendation on how to convince here, she digs me, but the main problem is the age. How can i get her to see pass this?
Pls /adv/ i need your help.
She's almost definitely not going to date you
We are already dating but i do not see her very convinced due to the age issue
>>16491859
>How can i get her to see pass this?
The only way you can play this off is by being a house husband. If she wants kids, you're going to have to give in and stay home with the kid. If she doesn't, you have a small chance. For most women, the age difference is going to make them feel insecure. My mom is married to a good friend of mine who's only 6 years older than myself--he's my husband's best friend. It works for them because they both have decent jobs and...
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I've been hanging out with my exgf lately and I'm not sure if I should continue on with this relationship or cut it off again.
We were together for 8 months, she went back to Cali for the summer and I convinced her to try an open relationship while we were distance. She couldn't handle it and broke up with me. Summer ends and we move into the duplex we signed a lease for with 6 of our friends. We didn't get back together but we continued sleeping together and being best friends for about 2.5 years. I'm not really into monogomany and am totally...
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>>16491812
>I'm not really into monogomany and am totally down with her fucking other guys as long as it doesn't inconvenience me.
>I ask them both to stop because it's getting weird for me.
You wanted an open relationship, she wanted that one special person. She was using the other guy to feel good about herself because you couldn't give her what she wanted. Just because it was getting "weird" for you doesn't mean you get to...
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Months go by, I get un-depressed, I fuck some other girls. Life is alright. Ex contacts me. Says she broke up with faggot, I was right about the whole monogamy thing, wants to try and make amends. I think "why not? no commitment, nothing to lose" for the past few weeks we've been having a great time. No sex yet because we're slowly but surely working through bitterness and anger, but we're definitely doing well.
Then I find out that even though she did in fact break up with faggot (verified by friends), they still hang out all the time and are...
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>>16491844
See above post, and also, the dude in question was her (at the time) best friend's ex boyfriend, and my close friend. While we didn't have any rules in our unspoken open relationship, I didn't sleep with any of her friends and this with the first guy (of maybe 5) that I had a problem with, and it was because I hung out with the dude all the damn time. It wasn't for no reason at all.
Bonus Drama: Her best friend (and our roommate) cheated on faggot dude with our other roommate, why exgf...
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GET IN HERE AND HELP ME OUT /ADV/
>Cute girl in class, minimal interaction but I notice her looking at me every now and then
>Pretty good looking guy. Not like a model or anything but I do well enough. At least a solid 8.5/10
>Group project paper gives the names of everyone in the class. Not in her group but see her last name.
>Go home and Facebook search her because why not, see that we have about 70 mutual friends in common
>Ask...
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Well i wouldnt get too invested until you confirm whether or not she has a boyfriend. Dont be that guy.
>>16491810
I have proof lol. Her instagram shows her with a boyfriend. What I'm having trouble understanding is why I would be added the day the full name list gets handed out. I'm not exactly ugly, and she knows that were going to have to talk now to some extent. Boggles my mind senpai
Just go with the flow, dummy.
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Hi /adv/, I'm in a huge problem right now.
Basically, I'm in a strict Asian household and I've screwed my parents countless times.
So now I'm in college for the last time and they promised me that if I get another B- or below, I'm gonna get booted out and get sent back to Japan (since I'm in immigrant).
The lack of motivation and college issues has led me to a potential bad grade. What should I do? Should I break away from them? This is important.
Fuck'em
Japan's nice. Why not go?
Is japan a valid option? If not there is your motivation for school.
There is a girl @ my school who is 10/10. Every single turn on and attraction that pertains to me she posesses. Same favorite shows, bands, web comics. We are deathly similar, except im an ugly peice of trash. i have till the end of the school year until she moves away. How do I make myself atleast semi attractivr to my dream girl so we can atleast be good friends. We have 5/7 classes together and i still cant build up any self asteem.
Pic so you fuckers can understand how drastically unattractive i am
Lol holy fuck. I reckon grow your hair out and style it in some kind of trendy way and work out. And groom your eyebrows a bit.
Before you say that this is menial shit yes i get it, but it says advice not advice on how to get out of a loan shark trying to catch and break both of my legs.
>>16491745
Cant dye my hair, its too dark and i would reek of bleach, what trendy way do you suggest?
33 years old and I've never had more than a few sips of alcohol. Never been drunk, never been buzzed. Have I ruined my own life? Would I be a happier man now if I'd started drinking as a teen like everyone else? Would I have gotten laid more, had more friends? Have I missed out on everything life has to offer?
Nothing you mentioned besides drinking alcohol has a direct correlation to anything alcohol related. So no, you probably wouldn't have had any of those things happen any differently. Odds are you'd be where you are now and if you drank enough in a less healthy state, err maybe even dependent upon alcohol.
>>16491667
Yeah, that's what I usually think. Every now and again I feel like I've made a bad decision, like tonight. Just self-doubt, I suppose.
>>16491662
>Never been drunk, never been buzzed.
It's all way over-hyped by people that have nothing more interesting to do. I drink on rare occasions, but I only do enough to get a slight buzz. It just makes me giggly and relaxed, but my stomach sours quickly. Actually being drunk is unpleasant.
> hot girl in my class that I had considered out of my league.
> meet her at a bar one day
> she gets all touchy feely interested and clearly says "I'm single".
> next day in class, ask her out straight up "I wanna take you out on a date and get to know you better"
> says yes
> but she's busy every date/time I suggest.
> take...
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Why are you putting so much effort into someone who treats you like an accessory, a backup plan, or a chore?
You know what the first step is? Close this thread and don't invest another moment of effort or thought into this person. Pursue someone else.
>>16491656
wtf is she wearing.........
>>16491689
Lol, no idea.
>>16491682
Thanks. I guess I needed to hear from someone else what I kind of knew already.
I'm not making enough money. I can't afford to back to school. I've put in over 300 applications with no response. Literally no one will even look at me.
I've tried using a manpower/labor business but they have nothing for me. I've looked at gigs and jobs on craigslist, still nothing.
I'm too small to donate plasma. I'm trying to sell my guitar for extra cash but no one is biting.
The options I have left are stripping, camwork and suicide
what do
How old are you and what work experience and skills do you have.
>>16491651
23
first job was a desk clerk, second job was a delivery driver, current job is housekeeping, all in a little over a year due to scheduling issues and seasonal work.
I have research skills, qualitative and quantitative. I have marketing and advertisement experience, obvious customer service abilities, data entry, collection and analysis and database management,
I also have back country navigation skills and general physical labor skills but people aren't wont to hire small women for those things
>>16491664
You must live in a shitty area for jobs. Have you considered re-locating?
