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>tfw History major
Not sure what to do and I'm not sure if employers care about minors
>>16488043
Time to join the Army.
>>16488061
What
Land of the rising sun
this guy is my hero
whenever i felt sad and lonely he was always there to
make me feel better
how do i become
more like him>?
>>24436176
Nice wish I was that /
>>16487611
In order to be like him, you have to be number 1
>>16487611
>Be a ronery otaku nerd in your late twenties~early thirties
>fuck your brother's sister
>date your half sister
>own a cat
Also 10/10 nmh thread
>>16486695
I fucking want to kill someone. I am raging right now. I have an overwhelming energy in my chest. All I want to do is beat someone fucking face until you can't tell that they are a human being. I need a smoke.
>>16486695
Fuck you all who don't consider Psychology a science.
I dont consider psychology to be a science>>16486721
The other day I used my fathers computer, and found a folder just laying on the desktop. My heart started beating hard even before I realized what it was. Inside there were some pictures of the exchange student in the bathroom. She's sitting on the toilet seat and smiling insecurely at the camera.
I didn't even think it possible, but might he have slept with her when they were alone in the house? I'm pretty sure my mother knows nothing about it, and I don't want to cause a divorce. But it's going to be hard to pretend as nothing, knowing something...
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do you have a brother, OP? or some other guy in your house that uses your dad's stuff sometimes?
I ask because I got super upset one time borrowing my father's laptop and finding a folder of teenage girls
my brother (who was also a teenager at the time so it wasn't weird) found me crying about it in my room and asked me what was wrong and I told him and he bashfully told me it was his folder and that he forgot to delete it..
>>16486289
Nope. Other than me, my father's the only guy in the house.
>>16486237
>My heart started beating hard even before I realized what it was.
Does your heart always beat hard at the sight of random internet folders?
are there more pictures?
You have brought it upon yourself. Your indecisiveness and desire to ignore all problems hoping that they will magically disappear on their own accord shall be your ruin.
Certain people brought out the worst of you. Drained you of that little positive cinder that was so hard to upkeep.
You were unforgivably dark to those who actually matter.
I can't believe I lost all my fucking friends because of you! Stop pretending to be mythical beasts and anime characters! You make my blood boil!
You're on my mind, I miss you already. I hope you have an amazing weekend. I hope you have an even better thanksgiving.
I brought home the cards you gave me. I have so many of your clothes. I miss my best friend.
Oh man....
This is it. This is the end of the road for me. Every waking second, the feeling of despair overwhelms me. No job, no money, no car, very few friends, and only 1 family member. My dog doesn't even like me. Nothing brings me peace of mind, and I'm sick of people telling me they understand and know how I feel. This is what rock bottom is, and I can't live this way any more.
I understand that there are people who care about me and will miss me. But I need this. I crave it. Misophonia is ruining my life and I accept defeat. I don't want to wake up tomorrow....
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I am in relationship with a girl A for more than a year, she is nice but she has started acting really weird last few months.
From the day we started she slowly filled me up with more and more limitations, she restricts me to do many things I liked to do before (going out, drinking alcohol (not overdoing it btw),...) She also doesn't want me to talk with anyone that has vagina and gets jealous when girls like my stuff on facebook. She is constantly monitoring all my texts etc.
I have tried talking to her about it and how I need my piece of freedom but it was not really successful, she keeps doing the same stuff only thing that happened then was she was sad because she is "bad girlfriend" even tho I never said anything like that.
I never had such restrictions on her, I never bothered her for talking to anybody, hanging with boys etc. Trying to change her attitude towards me and making stuff more comfortable for me just doesn't seem to work since all she does when I try to talk to her about something that serious she closes down and cries. I love her but I feel more and more uncomfortable and I am no longer feeling like myself.
Some of her demands are just stupid, today she bothered me because I told her tomorrow I am going to the shooting range with my friends. She started how I never take time for her between week days even tho we never have been together at that time on mondays because her schedule doesn't let us. She even felt pissed when I told her we are going to have band rehearsals twice a week instead of once, she started acting crazy how band is more important than her etc. even after explaining to her it is not going to hurt our time being together.
Meanwhile I met girl on one metal concert she managed to let me go to (lets call that girl girl B) and I just can't stop thinking about her, talking to her feels so easy, she seems interested but she is a bit unstable and reckless. I am not thinking about cheating or anything.
>>16490273
>From the day we started she slowly filled me up with more and more limitations, she restricts me to do many things I liked to do before (going out, drinking alcohol (not overdoing it btw),...) She also doesn't want me to talk with anyone that has vagina and gets jealous when girls like my stuff on facebook. She is constantly monitoring all my texts etc.
DANGER DANGER DANGER DANGER DANGER
GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP NOW. NOT LATER. NOW.
Take it from a guy who's...
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>>16490317
It's just so hard, I keep believing in second chances and I am trying to talk with her about it etc. but it's just... not working...
How can I be sure it's just not something in my head? Especialy when there is another girl going through my mind?
>>16490339
Her telling you what you're allowed to do and who you're allowed to talk to is not "In your head." Her being jealous over something as petty and meaningless as a Facebook "Like" is not "In your head." Her MONITORING YOUR COMMUNICATIONS is not "In your head."
There is no gray area here, dude. She's controlling, jealous, untrusting, and manipulative. You don't want to be in that kind of poisonous relationship.
This happened to me when I was in...
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How do I get a boy to start liking me if I can't count on my looks to help me?
Be nice to him. Talk to him. Dress cute.
No one can count on looks, not even if you're drop dead gorgeous. You know how many people in this world want to fuck Taylor Swift? She looks absolutely disgusting to me.
>>16490070
Guys are suckers for girls who make them feel special. Make him feel good about himself when he's with you and you're set.
Can someone explain to me why beer is so popular with college kids and not whiskey or vodka? What are the advantages and disadvantages of drinking ±40% alcoholic beverages?
Beer is cheaper. Can't stand it myself. I love liquor. I love shots.
Mostly, it's a matter of price. Beer is cheap. In college, when you don't have a whole lot of resources to spare, that matters.
For those college students who are not yet of legal drinking age, there is another advantage. Because beer is cheap, it is usually not guarded as closely as harder liquor. Even if the student has no intention of stealing anything, they know that their purchases won't be scrutinized as thoroughly. The difference might not be much, but it can be enough.
>>16490030
It's very easy to hurt yourself with hard liquor if you don't know what you're doing, and a lot of young drinkers don't know what they're doing yet. Beer is safer, if you drink too much, you'll probably just make yourself puke before you really get into alcohol poisoning levels of intoxication.
It's also cheaper
>we're both 21
>best girl I've EVER met so far if not for one issue
>been together for 7-8 months
>and still no sex
>I've had sex since I was 16, not often or with a lot of partners though, so I'm not someone you'd call a sex fiend
>she's still a virgin
>and extremely shy at that
>anything intimate or sexual absolutely TERRIFIES her
>and I respect that, so I take my time and take it slow with her
>but it's not getting us anywhere
>most I've ever gotten was getting her topless and even then she felt uncomfortable, shy, wanted to cover up any given chance and the cuddling didn't feel good for me anymore either
>it's not insecurity about the body, because she's slim, has stellar titties and knows this
>once when we were kissing, and I started touching her down there, she instantly pulled my hand away, absolutely froze up and almost broke down to tears
>I've quite never seen something like this
>it's like she becomes an absolute brick wall when it comes down to any remote sexual intimacy
>and it's been getting frustrating for me too
>we've talked a lot about this, I wish I could write down all the lengthy talks with her
>she says she feels like sex is slightly shameful or should be ashamed of
>she says she doesn't know why she reacts like this
>she's only masturbated once in her life, about a year ago and it felt "odd" to her
>no other sexual desires
>no libido
>ashamed of sex
>probably thinks it's disgusting, though denies that
It's bad. I don't want to leave her. I want to work on it, but any "work" feels like pressuring her and two-way torment. Can any of this even be changed? Is she bound to stay this way?
She's not asexual and has interest in it, though when it comes to it, she just seizes up, emotionally and physically. She says "it's not for her" and that she "accepts the way she is", but for me it feels like she hasn't even explored her sexuality one bit and the way she is now is not natural.
Any advice? Anything at all, please?
it sounds like you think sex is a requisite part of a relationship. It isn't, and it would be a good idea to base your relationship around something else. If you intend to have a family someday, consider that instead.
>>16489919
>sex isn't a requisite part of a relationship
But Anon, it is.
Why do you think it's the number one reason so many relationships fail?
buy her a dildo that she might like, encourage her to see porn and when she's comfortable try having sex.
She thinks it is disgusting and she doesn't participate actively on sexual activities so doesn't know better.
I think kind of the same, I'm a very shy person, I hate when my boyfriend eats me out even though I enjoy it, and I just overcame this because I like the other parts of sex like pleasuring my boyfriend and being pounded, but that's half of it, so i'm still learning how to stop feeling odd, if I could buy a dildo or some toys I would.
How do you lower your standards when it comes to dating?
>>16489854
Why would you want to?
>>16489854
Lowering standards is easy. It's a bit harder when all the girls in your area are 7+/10, there rest are in relationships and the only ones left are toothless addicts and fatasses on mobility scooters.
A few shots usually does the trick.
hey guys i need your advice
i'm a little short guy(1,50 meters) with really nice music skills( been playing electric guitar for 3 years, in one of the most privileged youth choirs of my country, etc.)
i never had a girlfriend because my height has been breaking my self confidence for a long time
now i have overcome the self pity and am sure i can get a nice girlfriend, but i dont know how to meet a random girl, or propose to a girl i like and since 2 weeks i realized that i dont really want a girlfriend
what do you think i should do to recover this shituation?
forgot to say that i live in a 3rd world muslim country
>>16489748
150 negro? what the shit thats really short
but have no fear, most asian girls are short, if you have the yellow fever just go for asians!
which 3rd world muslim country are you living in?
>>16489889
turkey
I finally got a gf and now Im worried she'll leave me because Im shy and dont talk much. This is how I've always been, I simply dont talk unless I have something to say, but I can feel her getting uncomfortable when theres too much silence. We do talk about a lot of stuff, but Im obviously not normie level talkative.
she says she doesn't mind and obviously really likes me, and I like her too, but I can feel this might be a problem later on.
Then improve your social skills
>>16489632
any tips?
how do you think it would work out if you told her that you feel great when you spend time with her, but that you're worried about the fact that you don't talk unless you have something to say? and if you ask her if the silence makes her uncomfortable?
Hello /adv/ please give me some advice
I have a big problem taking a dump. Seriously.
It seems that my shitty diet consisting of pizzas, pasta, chicken and other stuff has came back and started biting me in the ass. Every shit is like a Mount Rushmore passing through my sphincter. I won't get into many details but it hurts and it isn't getting any better.
What I tried so far
Vegetable meal at least 4 times a week
8 glasses of water a day
So far I've been doing this for two weeks and so far as I mentioned it didn't get better.
It still hurts.
So adv am I missing something. My butthole feels really bad and needs help.
>>16489555
WHY ARE YOU EATING SO MUCH FIBER
HOLY SHIT VEGGIES ONLY DIET IS GOING TO MAKE IT SO MUCH FUCKING WORSE JESUS CHRIST
>>16489563
I didn't mean VEGGIES ONLY DIET. I said I eat at least 4 meals a WEEK oc vegetables.
Metamucil. Thank me later. /thread
Also, start making an effort to eat whole grains rather than refined carbs, that makes a big difference too
My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up for about 2 months. Now we got back but there is a little issue:
During the time we were broken up, he started talking to a girl whose blog he followed for a while when we were together.
She really likes him and they would talk on the phone at night until she fell asleep.
When we got back together, my boyfriend said that it's not a big deal. He stopped talking to her (after explaining to her why) after I asked him to, but he tells me she still sends him messages.
He says he wants to talk to her as she is his...
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>Pic Related
This can only end in tears
>>16489429
>relationship already broke down and went to shit
>got back together because you werent used to being lonely
good luck lol
stop harping on about the girl. who cares. if he wants to do it he'll do it. he already knows you dont want him to and thats fine, you dont need to worry about it anymore.
she was his rebound sex, now she is orbiting him
hey /adv/,
female anon: pls share your opinion about hairy guys and wether or not they should shave and if so where they should shave
male anon: pls share your experiences with girls concerning your body hair
thanks in advance,
a hairy anon
I prefer hairy over shaved. But i also prefer medium hairy over very hairy. When it comes to pubes i prefer them groomed but not shaved.
Honestly, both hairy and hairless men have their own sort of appeal. I would make the decision based on how much time you're willing to spend shaving (it adds up quick) and what your overall image is. If you've got a very masculine image, shaving will just fuck it up.
Honestly though you should probably just leave the hair. Trim your pubes though, nobody wants to pull hair out of their teeth after a blowjob.
>>16489202
This is what i'd consider very hairy.
