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20 year old anon here. Zero experience in employment. What do?
>>16487962
lift and be yourself
I can post you my cover letter that has gotten me a few interviews at decent entry-level positions while I'm in school, if you'd like.
Maybe other folks can tell you if its good or not.
Useful?
>>16487962
Depends on what you want to do. What did you have in mind?
Hey guys, so I got my PTSD from trauma that I got when I was a little kid, triggered in basic training. When i came home it was hard for me to go to my unit on the weekends because of panic attacks. I got discharged. But never got my DD214 from my CO. I've been on treatment since I left and I'm over my PTSD. Is it possible that one could re-enlist and go back into the status of active? It was over a year ago. I've been wanting to go back and finish my contract and go for a deployment to get it over and be a police officer. Is it possible one could end up again...
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>>16487862
Medical Discharge dumbass
You're not getting back in; You're supposed to get your DD214 before you leave
Fucking army..
>>16487873
Never received it mate, I was told I'd get it mailed. Haven't gotten shit since then.
It was less of a year of service however. You think they'll count it as medical?
>>16487896
with 99% certainty i'm saying its medical
only site i know of is
https://www.ebenefits.va.gov/ebenefits/about/feature?feature=military-personnel-file
but you probably don't have DEERS either
My boyfriend told his and my parents he was going to marry me and purpose in a couple weeks. Thing is he recently changed his mind about wanting to have kids he wants to but does not want to admit to it where as I do not. I do not see myself marrying anyone I do not want a life style like that I want to have pets and focus on my career. Something else changed recently too he is in his late 20s and befriended some 19 year old and since all he talks about is alcohol which makes me very unattracted to him. He will send me pictures of all the alcohol he has drank and it bothers...
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gtfo
Marriage should make your life simpler, not more complicated.
>>16487835
>Should I just break it off?
If you're coming here for help, you probably should.
Hey! I'm really wondering what people's options are on my hairstyle, should I cut it or leave it as is?
I constantly change my mind on what I want to do with it but haven't had the balls to ever cut it, even though it grows back quickly.
(hopefully this is the right thread to post this in)
>>16487718
How old are you? And be honest.
>>16487718
Nice lips fuckboy
You'd fetch a good price
As you said hair grows back, do it. Change is the spice of life.
Also I hate the haircut. Looks stupid.
My friend got kinda mad at me , and said it's weird when he found I had atin of pics like this on my phone. There's nothing wrong with them , I just like them. I don't understand why he is calling me weird.
Do you know the kids of which you have pictures?
>>16487748
No why?
End yourself.
Can i leave home for navy bootcamp without my parents knowing? I want to signup for the navy and never come back home.
>>16487691
Are you 18? If so, you dont need your parents permission to do anything. Just know that they are also not under any obligation to support you either.
>>16487697
I'm 20 and queued they will try to foil my plans. I'm under the impression that upon becoming enlisted i won't need their support. I want nothing to do with them.
>>16487710
Sorry *queued is supposed to be *worried
Who do you think is prettier?
Or
>>16487641
This one . But they pretty much look the same
I like both of those pictures.
![[wallcoo_com]_collage_life_HG056_350A.jpg](https://i.imgur.com/3LdxDHW.jpg "[wallcoo_com]_collage_life_HG056_350A.jpg")
Asian girls just never seem interested in me, in an oddly disproportionate manner. Like 100 girls could fall for me and not one would be Asian. My campus is over 50% Asian so it's weird and perplexing that I only ever get white girls hitting me up.
I assume it's because I'm not Asian or white? Every Asian girl around here is dating either an Asian guy or a very light-skinned light-haired white guy.
Why do you think /adv/ will give a shit about such a piddly problem? Approach only Asian girls and see what happens. This place is reserved for people with real problems you faggot.
>>16487453
It's cuz ur a faggot
That's what women do. The vast majority of women go for men of their own race.
Just look at white women, they all go for white guys, except for girls with daddy issues who go ONLY for really big black men. They are attracted to this weird kek fantasy, meanwhile some asian women are attracted to a weird Aryan fantasy.
Please help me /adv/ you are all I have right now.
>at a party 2 weeks ago
>extremely intoxicated
>snuggle up with a girl to passout
>she grinds on me, I take as a sign to advance
>finger her for a while and go to sleep
Everything seemed fine in the morning, but I hear a week later that she wants to get police involved or sue somehow. I don't want to become a sex offender how can I stop this...
>>16487440
Lol just deny it. No semen, no rapekit will find anything. It will be her word v yours, and you're innocent until proven guilty. Deny the was any sexual contact whatever. Anything at all. You just fell asleep together.
And probably consult a lawyer just to be sure
Hire a lawyer asap, don't talk to the cops unless you have your lawyer and do not come into contact with this broad.
>>16487451
evidence over text of me apologizing and admitting
>My dad seems to think that planet x, nibiru, and chemtrails are a thing.
>He thinks I should be upset over our government
>I honesty couldn't give less of a fuck
>This sort of faggotry feels like an insult to my intelligence
>How do I tell him without sparking full blown meth-rage lecture?
He's dad, he put up with your stupid brainless speech all throughout your life until you became who you are today. You put up with his crazy old man shit.
>>16487341
Arrogant little shit
>>16487341
Hug him and say yes dad before its too late
You cumstained little pissy shit
Is the future actually worth seeing?
Bear with me here. It's a serious question I've been asking myself. For the past 2 years, I've gone through various stages of "critical thinking" about society and the world at large - From a skewed liberal point, to a skewed far right /pol/ hate, but then that hate faded away into a sort of nihilistic depression. I can't fucking see ANY sort of light, ANYWHERE I look.
I dislike literally everyone around me; my friends pool both online and in real life has shrunk by about 75% in the past few weeks...
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>>16487324
There's nothing wrong or right. There's nothing good or bad.
There's only the importance of things existing.
Be a thing.
Zen Buddhism is your answer. The way or the Dao.
Listen to Alan Watts for a week, and come back next Sunday with your same OP image, and we'll talk.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iv9zocKASsM
>>16487324
>high school
>muh darkness
>>16487324
I'm sorry, I almost just posted "AHAHAHAHAHAHAA", which wasn't terrible constructive.
You are a teenager. You have precisely dick in terms of life experience or applicable data with which to engage in critical thinking, and everything you think you've learned about the world in the last few years is wrong. In a decade or so you will look back on yourself and boggle at how you could ever have been so foolish.
If you want some positive fluff then try this: the world is a better place than it has ever been. Life expectancy is longer. Medicine works. Your average middle class American lives in more comfortable conditions that medieval royalty thanks to modern conveniences like gas, running water and electricity. The world population is becoming increasingly educated and informed. Globalisation may expose use to more depressing news, but those events were always there, we just know about them now thanks to mass media, and in the long term it brings cultures closer together. And in the last few decades an ever increasing proportion of the populace has gained unlimited access to information in the form of the internet.
Basically, a century or two ago you would likely be slogging in a mine or factory this very moment, whereas now you have the leisure time to get high and mope in your room about how much life sucks. On that note, all teenager think that, it's a phase you'll grow out of. I can't help but suspect that your shrinking pool of contacts has something to do with your wangsty behaviour and shallow emo navel gazing.
Also,
>I've tried a decent but not extensive slew of drugs to push me forwards, but it just takes me back to a normal and then drops me to lower than I was before.
If there's one thing that will most definitely make your situation less favourable to you it's continuing down this line of inquiry. Stop it, you silly dumbass.
my boyfriend started screaming at me out of nowhere i have no idea what to do
it didn't make any sense
>>16487280
Oh put on your big girl panties and tell back...
If you didn't do anything wrong, than he was probably upset about something else, and took it out on you like a big baby throwing a tantrum. Wait for him to apologize.
>>16487280
This is something guys do. You just have to pretend you're somewhere far away when they start doing this, or get a bf who's not a 'normie'. I'm guessing you're a young adult.
So I am a 21 year old virgin and due to severe socially anxiety I never bit the bullet and had sex, I have done plenty of other sexual stuff but that stopped when I was 18 and I have no clue why besides maybe my fear of women and laziness.
So my friend is having his 21st in Amsterdam and I was thinking maybe I could slip away and just get it over and done with but I am uncertain, people make sex out to be romantic and your first time should be special but I am not a romantic guy, I don't see myself ever being in a relationship but my virginity feels like a milestone...
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>>16487267
It sounds like you're only even considering this because you've been taught you should.
If you're anxious then you'd at least want someone that gives a shit about you make it a less stressful experience.
>>16487283
I would blame society but I am done blaming others it is my own insecurities that are involved especially when people find out and give you the look like your some three legged cat.
There are four possible outcomes:
>Get it over with hastily and you try to learn from whatever encounters you get thrown into
>Waste your intelligence and fuck without emotion leading to perpetual bad sex moments
>Wait with your dick in your hand for somebody as nonromantic as you are to come around and fart on your dick for free.
>You rip your own dick off when masterbating
Choose wisely
I really want to play a video game for just a few hours...
>WoW
I love getting high and running around wow but fuck 15/month. And I would have to buy the new expansion...
>Diablo 2
Overplayed. Just... overplayed.
>Diablo 3
I bought it at release, felt like it was trash, haven't played since.
Someone recommended fallout 4 and the witcher, but those are both solo story games with no hope of multiplayer interaction. Borderlands was the least amount of multiplayer...
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Learn to enjoy singleplayer games. A new world of possibilities will open to you.
>>16487247
B-b-but senpai I don't like them....
>>16487251
you were born with shit taste
how can you tell if you're narcissistic?
You make more than one thread on the same topic on /adv/ per day
>>16487229
that ain't me family
>>16487209
Sorry is that picture real?
