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Hey /adv/,
How do you deal with gynecomastia?
I have a party to attend tomorrow and I'm really worried about what to do with my man boobs. I found an okay shirt to wear in the party but that shirt projects out my big manboobs and I really feel like not going to the party.
>I never used to go out for anything. Basically an introvert but now I joined a new collage and got so many new friends who really understands me and they are pretty much awesome (infact I never really had these many friends in the past). I think the primary factor that reduces my confidence level is my man boobs. I always keep my arms a bit forward when I walk so people won't notice it much. Yes, my man boobs are a bit bigger in size and its pretty much noticeable from a few meters away. I always have a feeling that people are looking at my chest.
After trying on so many shirts and not being fixed on any one of them, I called one of my friends and told him that I ain't coming for the party but they warned me that if I don't go to the party they will pick me up from my home and get me to the party in the dress I'm wearing.
I tried doing so many chest exercises and I then read in an article that doing push ups and other chest-related exercises will only make my man-boobs protrude more because the muscles under the breast tissues are increasing.
So, I really don't have any hope in solving this problem. Also the surgery costs are too high for a poor collage fag like me.
>I really don't know what to do /adv/. It's really affecting my personality as a whole. It's making me lazy and inactive. It's getting me nowhere I want.
Sorry for making this description too long :(
>Pic related
Mine is type 3 according to the picture.
do sports, if it is too bad go get a surgery
>>16482141
What about wearing a compression type under shirt, like Under Armor or similar? Kind of like women wearing a sports bra, it'll just squish em' down...
>>16482141
1 - your friends dont care. Everybody has some issue, whether its a huge nose or a curved back or a flat ass or way overweight or a lisp or whatever. Your friends like you.
2 - short term - can you wear a tight compression shirt like underarmour or something?
3 - long term, can you get in good shape?
Me and gf, both 21, christmas comin up. She's never had a necklace before and wants one. Easy present right? I'll get her a necklace.
Oh, but where she works happens to sell necklaces too, and as an employee, she gets first pick on black friday shit, PLUS employee discount on top of it, and she's thinking about getting a necklace.
Let's say she does get one. Should I still give her the one I'm planning to get which could potentially be worse then the one she gets where she works considering she'll get such a reduced price. Girls like having more than one necklace right? I wanted to keep it a surprise but should I just tell her I was gonna get her one?
let her get the necklace and get her a dildo instead
>>16482115
What the fuck? How poor is this broad that she's never owned a necklace before?
>>16482115
If I was her, I'd love yours more no matter what. It will be a present from the person I love, a person who has stayed who knows how much time thinking about me, about what I may like or may not. This adds value 200% to whatever I can buy myself.
But all the people are different. I don't know your gf, maybe she doesn't think about this stuff :/
I have the strangest feeling ever.
Today i've just landed in Japan, but i dont know why, im not "excited" at all, it was one of my dreams, i wanted to live there for months etc but i'm just not happy, im not miserable thought, it's just meh.
I've been in Tokyo already once, two years ago where i met one of my best girl friend ever, she's truly perfect, and i think i mighty have some feeling (not reciprocate) for her, but that another story.
Today i've made her a surprise with my visit and she was truly happy, she cried from happiness ^^
But The thing that bothering me its that i dont feel usefull to her now, i know im still her dear friend and i count to her but i have this feeling like she'be made some "better friends" than me, some People who suit her better, People smarter, more interesting, i dont know im not jealous at all i just feel sad.
I've saw that she changed a lot too, she putted an end to her 6years relationship with her ex in february, she felt relieved she's so happy, she moved ok so fast while im still struggling with my broke up who happened 1 year ago, she have some project, she travel a lot, she do things she like... Its amazing, but i just feel like a shitty human being when im near her. When she knew me, i had everything, money, love, i even had her attention, i did stuff that i liked, i was truly happy.
But now i feel so crushed by her charisma that i dont know how to deal with thoses feels...
Maybe i just think too much, im sorry if it's not too understandable, english is not my first langage, but i had to vent.
What do /adv/ ? Anyone have been in this kind of situation before ?
>pic related my first meal today
Will add more details if asked
OP, I lived in Japan for 11 months. What you are feeling is maybe some culture shock. There are lots of events in Tokyo for "gaijin" who are there teaching English, working, etc. if you search on Facebook. Search something like "tokyo foreigner group." Go to these events, meet people, make new friends, and enjoy Japan, because it can be incredibly amazing and unique.
Your friend may have very well made new friends, and they have a fresher bond. Sorry, but people grow. Once again, I would try to make new friends. Check on your old friends once in awhile, but if they see you are having fun, they may check on you instead.
Furthermore, you can go to many festivals. Japanese people love festivals and there should be many in the Tokyo and surrounding area. They also like drinking.
Japan has an official tourism site. Look around here and find a cool place to go. https://www.jnto.go.jp/
>>16482116
Thanks a lot bro, but i'll be living in a guest house next week (The same as 2years ago) so i know that i'll make new friends, i always'be been a social person and i know about The culture shock since i've stayed 1 month in Tokyo before.
I just FEEL like im usefull but if you listen to her im very important, but i want to be The person she knew first, The truly happy guy who's all dreamy and funny, not The depressed sad fuck i am right now.
Please i dont want to make new friends only to forget about her, she's very precious to me.
Kick me in The nuts please, i need some electrochoc :/
..So basically I'm coordinating a concert, and in my city theres another organizer (A company) having the same artist here 2 weeks before my show. They posted lies on twitter about my show because people were choosing between ours, and I completely lost my shit because they have a lot more followers and seem more "legit" than me. Their show is tomorrow and im really on the fence about going because I don't want to support the organizer but I want to meet the artists + the one im booking.
I had a mental breakdown and posted a bunch of shit on twitter and I dont think anyones taking me seriously now.
Whats the best way to get back at them?
I should also add that they're a company doing this, so its multiple people putting in money to throw the show and I'm just one person doing this by myself so i really should get more respect than them
>>16482041
They have the grand commercial concert, you have the alternative underground gig. This situation is pretty common especially the same weekend or even same night, and believe me, if played out right the people are not talking about the big concert afterwards.
Its actually way better for you they are doing that because you can check what to do better(especially sound wise, this is important, make it sound perfect) and all the normies will go to the first concert which leaves a better crowd wich results in stronger connection between band and audience. The band will enjoy it more and perform better, the people will say your concert was way better afterwards, which is good publicity for you, but don't pump it up too much cause you wanna keep your underground imago.
BUT its to late for all of that cause you lost your cool by going all aspergers on twitter kek lost oppertunity... Are you 12?
>>16482041
what were the lies, f a m? maybe they were misinformed.
tl;dr Internet girlfriend who lives with me cheated on me, what do I do?
>Met on-line on a game
>chatted and "e-dated" for 2 years
>I'm from the UK, she's Anerican
>she's 4 years older than me, was living with her mother; no job
>I lived on my own and had a job
>visited her a few times, fell in love etc..
>she wants to move in with me, I work out all the details
>been living together now for 4 years
>she's got social anixety and what not doesn't really leave the house
>hasn't found a job yet, but cleans the house, does the laundry etc.. so I don't worry about it
>also got a joint account set up that I pay into every month if she needs stuff or we need stuff for the house
>spends most of her time on the pc, gaming and stuff
>had made a few on-line friends
>one of them is Birtish
>have to go on a work thing for a few days
>doesn't text or call me, maybe she thinks I'm busy
>come back, she wants to talk; starts crying
>she invited her on-line friend round, swears they didn't have sex but they did kiss
>don't believe her
>get into an argument, she says she was lonely; keeps on apologising
I'm crashing with a friend at the moment as I can't be near her right now. We have to break up as she's cheated on me, but she has nowhere to go. She's got no money or anything and relies on me for everything, do I just put her on a flight and send her back to her mum? I still love her and want to look after her, but I can't be with her after thise.
Box up her things and drop her and them off at her 'cuddle' friends place.
Not your problem now!
Sorry man same thing happened to me but just before the move in stage. Youre nicer than i am i would just kick her out.
Her new efriend cant support her? She searched for an affair, the guy fell for it. You did what you could and wanted to help her out and she didn't take it in consideration when invited the friend.
I would ask her what she wanted to do as a last effort to have empathy.
I have a fetish for licking the treads of a straight male's dirty shoes or boots and I want to set up a weekly thing with a dude to let me do this. However, a straight dude isn't going to get anything out of my licking his shoes other than maybe a laugh.
If a gay dude wanted to lick your shoes for an hour per week while you ignored him and watched netflix, what would he have to do to make it worth your while?
I'm not having sex with anyone, I'm not touching myself while I do it. I don't actually like the taste of shoes, nor do I think they're sexy, I just get turned on by what it means to lick someone else's shoes - basically I get turned on by showing a total lack of self respect and by the risk of ingesting really gross stuff that people step in.
Ideally, if you met someone like me, what would your requirements be to meet up once a week for us to do this?
>whoever would agree would probably be a sadist and enjoy stepping in dog shit
>this would only turn on a submissive bitch like OP even more
Gross man
Hopefully someone just puts a boot through your head.
>>16481944
>>16481952
I know this kind of fetish is strange. Didn't realize it would piss someone off enough that they'd hope I'd die.
Do girls who go on euro adventures sleep around a bit?
Should I stay away?
No one knows except for them, it is a very possible scenario as
A. No one would know unless you told them
B. They are only other a short time
C. Any horny dude who meets them will quickly realize A and B and try to push his luck
>>16481939
Yes. They usually do.
Aussie girls in particular.
>>16481951
>>16481950
So they're bad news then?
how do i make girlfriend into my slut and do nasty porn tier shit for me
thx
>>16481846
depends, what are we talking? deepthroating, anal maybe some lite bdsm? or more like shitting on the belly and fucking a dog?
>>16481893
anal dt, anll that hawt shit
>>16481938
If she's not into it, it's ot gonna happen. Find yourself a slutty girl
What are 3 things not in your life that you are happy for?
1. Health problems
2. Religion
3. My awful ex-girlfriend
>>16481829
I am not terribly diseased
I don't live in a 3rd world shithole
I am not in terrible danger of dying horribly any time soon unless I do it to myself
>>16481829
I don't have to deal with relationship problems because I don't have one, lel
I'm not a nigger
I'm not handicapped or ugly
Is my hair weird? If so, how should I cut it?
Don't say "smile more" 'cause I'm not going to
Is that you, JP?
What JP man
JP!!!!!
DUDE WHATS UP?
My girlfriend told me she has herpes on her lips. I was supposed to meet her tomorrow (long distance relationship). People tell me herpes is totally normal and "95%" have it but "they just don't know". Are those people just roasties who want to normalize this disgusting virus?
I don't want to be infected because apparently the herpes virus stays inside your body FOREVER. Well now she has herpes and I don't want to meet her again. I don't want to touch her again. I don't want fucking herpes just because she got it somewhere.
Apparently she got it from her (female) flatmate when sharing a spoon or some shit. So now what the fuck do I do? Is it really not a big deal? I'm disgusted, but conflicted because I love her.
tl;dr: gf has herpes wat do
pic unrelated I don't have another one on this device
>>16481792
It's totally normal you fucking aspie. I've seen psychotic episodes less unhinged than your post.
>>16481803
>normal
sorry but I don't think it's normal to have a fucking disease that makes your mouth look like a battlefield you fucking roastie
It's 40% of US adults who have chronic herpes cold sores.
So I have been in love with this guy for a long time, he does not know it. I think he is very good looking, but all of my friends I showed a picture of him to said he was not very good looking... am I just deluded?
Whether he is considered ugly by popular vote won't change how I feel about him but I don't like/want people to make fun of him, and I will just stop showing a photo of him. I just don't understand why people react by teasing me and/or telling me he is not very good looking, and I wanted objective opinions.
Picture is of the guy.
>>16481501
I think he's cute
Pretty average imo. His style is pretty faggy tho
Looks gay.
I want to ask this girl if she's seeing anyone, but I genuinely value our friendship.
I don't want to make things weird if she is or she doesn't like me back. Is there anyway to keep that in tact? I feel like I'd just talk myself into a bigger hole just trying to repair it.
>>16481487
Best couples are made of friends so don't worry about the "what is she likes me back", but about the "she doesn't like me back", because that's when stuff gets weird...
Can't you find out if she's seeing someone without asking it directly?
>>16481487
If you are friends, do something together as friends. If it's fun, say so and suggest that you two do something else. If she says yes to the second one, you're dating.
>>16481487
That's a pretty cool dog.
You should get a dog like that, she won't be able to turn you down with a dog that cool.
The girl I've been in love with and dating for the last year and a half said I have one more chance to prove I can make her happy by the time she comes home and leaves for thanksgiving break.
I've been being super nice and considerate and trying to right my wrongs and she's been responding well but I feel like there's more I can do.
I really have changed for the better now and I can't lose her. I love her too much, and it fucks me up the most cause I know at least a part of it is her trying to isolate herself because she thinks she's an awful human being.
What more can I do to prove my love to her? I'm giving it my all but it doesn't feel like enough.
>I love her too much
That's your problem. She knows that and is playing you like a toy. If she truly loved you she wouldn't try to change you.
Jesteś pod pantoflem, dziecko.
>>16481455
I need to change though and I deserve to be played if I wanna stay with her. I was shitty and didn't see how much it was effecting her.
>>16481464
Get some self esteem dude. Girls want men, not boys who can be controlled. She'll leave you anyway once she stops having fun manipulating you.
I'm really lost as to what major I should go for. I started on the pre-engineering track and planned on going into chemical engineering, but I'm starting to realize that I find absolute no interest in math & that I don't get any pleasure out of learning it. As for chemistry, I can't tell if I like it because I find the content because I find it interesting, or if it's because I've always been good at it. I've definitely never gone out of my way to learn any chemistry outside of what we have to know for classes though. My second option would be majoring in English. It's the one class that I would walk out of in high school and think to myself "wow, that was actually interesting." To me, humanity majors seem much more personally fulfilling than STEM majors do. Yet with an English majors comes the issue of finding a career & being able to financially support myself. As much as I'd like to tell myself that money doesn't matter, it does to a certain point. Any advice on what to do about my major? The longer I wait to switch, the more difficult it is to catch up. Also post favorite book.
>>16481441
The thing with liberal arts is that while they're less likely to lead into one specific career line, the skills you learn are applicable in a broader range of jobs. It's not the degree that matters as such, it's what you do with it.
Study the humanities as a hobby, choose chemistry as your career major. Mind you it's always possible to find a great job in any major you choose, just that some are much more difficult to apply in the real world than others.
>>16481448
this
