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I was a high school drop out, and I was in porn as a teen (am female). I suffer a lot of trauma from what I had been put through, and put myself through. I didnt comprehend as a teen that these things stay on the internet forever. Im now in my 20s and im trying to move forward with my life.I want to go into robotics for a living, maybe get into ivy league if I can. Thing is, im kind of afraid to be a success, because what if someone recognizes me from the porn and it ruins my career? But Im also tired of being a NEET failure. Anything you guys can say to help me get over this...
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>recognizes me from the porn and it ruins my career
Are you going into marketing & advertising? No? Then your boss probably won't care.
getting into ivy league from high school drop out is extremely hard. I encourage you to try, but realize any top 20 school in CS&E is going to be amazing for you career-wise. You won't really touch much robotics as an undergrad--mostly programming and theory. Is your math strong? If you do go into robotics it's highly likely that you will be recognized--guys have a good eye for porn girls. Honestly it's just something that you'll have to own. Tech is a pretty meritocratic place. There's still a large bias toward men, but I bet some robotic startups...
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>>16495340
>pornstar
>highschool dropout
>robotics
Op unless youre a math wizard and have great logical and focusing skills(im assuming you dont from your past) you will have a terrible time. Robotics isnt just dicking around with parts and pressing go on a remote. There are long complicated algorithims and lots of math as well.as a very good understanding of the hardware you are working with and the link between hardware...
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How wise is it to stay single for most of your life?
It depend on your capacity of appreciate a lonely life, anon.
Just like women who "just want to have fun" for entirely too long, at some point you'll get bored and realize that your dating options are very limited and all of them are terrible.
Work on your game so that you know how to speak with women. Don't be retarded Pick-Up Artist trying to fuck every woman at the club, because then you'll only know how to talk to club skanks.
If you're socially capable and have a good career, then go ahead. I hope you're prepared.
I am pretty happy being single. Honestly the only problem I have is the social pressure of others insisting I should be in a relationship. I'm sick of people trying to set me up with their friends and stuff.
I am single because I am not looking, not because I am looking and failing.
New relationship. I am not normally a suspicious person but I think my gf might have been a male at one point or still is, I dunno. She? has large hands and her? skin is not smooth. She? has small breasts, not really a problem except I have never been able to touch her? vagina. When we have sex she? only allows the rear. Her? family lives far away and I would feel awkward asking her friends, she has never shown me baby or kid pictures of herself? upon my request.
>>16495302
I forgot. How can I find out if she is really a she?
>>16495302
Sorry but she sounds like a he for sure.
Next time sex, instead of plugging the back door suddenly reach down and try a grab a handful of vag. If no dick it's still not proof until you get a good look and decide it's faux-pussy or fox-pussy.
Some of them pass quite well in all ways except the cunt. That's the test dude. You're gunna have to demand to see it. If you can't see it, bail out.
>>16495302
How the fuck you got into a relationship with a girl without even fucking her?
anyway... its a trap, run op, run...
My mom caught what looks like a field mouse on a glue trap. Instead of putting it out of its misery in a quick smack or something, she just put it in a plastic bag, tied it up, and threw it in the trash outside.
I'm a real sucker for animals, I even bother saving wasps that get in the house. Apparently you can use vegetable oil to free mice from glue traps. If I do that in a secure box, drive it at least a 45 min walk away, would it find its way back here?
It's either I kill it right away or I drive it somewhere to give it a second chance but I'm not going to have it suffer all night.
>>16495174
In my opinion animals don't have real feeling so I'd say do nothing.... but...
Considering the subjective nature of your story, what are you actually asking advice for? If the mice would find its way back to your house? How would anybody on an anonymous message board know what the behaviors or some mouse are going to be?
I'm pretty sure you could just drive it to the next house over and it wouldn't find its way back.
Also, throw out the rest of your mom's glue traps. They're a fucking horrible way to die.
I had this same dilemma a few weeks ago, except I was too much of a pussy to do anything.
It's probably suffering right now, and hey, what's wrong with the quick wooden traps? Peanut butter at the end.
It seems like there isn't any place for me. Every one of my interests is some marginal thing that hardly anyone cares about. If I express an honest opinion, it's rarely wanted. My presence is really only desirable to those who can use me, like a tool in a garage. Everywhere I look, the world seems filled with bullshit. I believe I am thoughtful, intelligent, and capable of many things-- however, I seem to be the wrong "shape" and can rarely find a way to fit in. I do not suffer a lack of confidence, and I'm not suicidal, though I've realized over...
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>Subnormality image
>Thread title
Your problems aren't unique or complex. You'll figure out that all you needed to do was grow up a little. Stop dwelling on your past/family/friends.
I'm over 40, asshole. I'm not some adolescent snowflake.
Then stop behaving like one. Your life has been all "about you" for too damn long. Shouldn't take you 40+ years to realize that it's not.
Where to buy Balisong (Butterfly Knife) in Australia? I know it's illegal, I just wanted to get some advice or any stories about buying them.
I don't know how to do it in Australia, but here in the USA you can get them from shitty Chinese stores. If you guys have a Chinatown or somewhere that's predominantly Chinese then you might find a store that sells bullshit sword canes and butterfly knives.
In Australia you can get them at Parklea. Not the markets, the correctional centre.
>>16495105
I hope you don't plan on using it for self defense, they're by far the shittiest knife ever for that particular use.
Please read before judging.
I was a virgin before meeting my last boyfriend. I loved him so very much. I still can't get over him. He was perfect in every way, looks, brains, he also had a quick wit. I liked that the most.
He broke up with me because I got jealous of how often he was hanging out with his ex, the mother of his daughter.
I can't get over him. It was always him who didn't want to use condoms. I wish I could go back in time and agree to not use contraceptives, I'd be pregnant/have a baby and he'd still be with me....
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Seek professional help. Nobody should ever be trapped.
Wtf am I reading.
You realize that even if he gets you pregnant he isn't obligated to stay with you right? My aunt tried that with my uncle and 15 years later they got divorced. Granted my uncle cheated on my aunt numerous times but in any event.
>Same race, ethnicity, all that.
You shouldn't have a problem finding a black guy who's willing to blow his load into your vagoo and then disappear.
Am I risking a rape accusation or a jail time if I go through with a drunk hookup?
It's my first semester of college and I've almost closed a few girls, but we were both drunk so I stopped the interactions early. With all the talk lately about sexual assualts on campus and how drunk girls can't give consent when they're drunk. I'm scared shitless I'm gonna wake up some morning hungover next to a bitch who's ready to cry rape to everybody. All of the SJW and Feminist crap taking over just terrifies me of hooking up with anybody drunk.
Has...
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>I really want to contract chlamydia and herpes
Don't fuck chicks who go to frat parties, regardless of how sober they are.
>>16495084
Rape is just another word for regret these days. Never 'hook up' with a female with artificially bright hair, it's a warning sign to stay away. Black rimmed clear glasses is another one.
Be aware if she uses words like, problematic, liberated, progressive and so on.
>>16495093
>>16495103
These are all valid points, but OP, are you really going to pass up the chance to score easy pussy?
An older coworker of mine had asked me to talk to her son, who actually is mtf trans. Pronouns are weird but keep up with me. She’s 19, and it turns out she recently attempted suicide and is hardcore depressed. Also recently ran out of meds (SSRI) and is getting set up on some new stuff (different SSRI). When I spoke with her she mostly didn’t say much. And this was just email. Very short responses, and she seemed more interested in me helping her get HRT than anything. Which is understandable of course, but I was hoping maybe we could chat and be friends?
Now she’s...
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How can I get her talking to me? Opening up a little and sharing more about herself. She’s so distant. Her mom thinks it’s because she thinks I’m like her mom’s friend and she’s a teenager so that’s weird. I’m not so sure. Could be weird for her talking to someone as old as me but I’m not like 30 or anything. 19 wasn’t so long ago and I remember all that shit.
TL;DR: how do i make cold and distant girl open up and chat with me so we can be friends?
You're asking a super tough question, which we probably wouldn't be able to answer even if we knew the two of you very personally. You'll just have to give it a chance. Don't be afraid to be "pushy." Honestly, she's decided way ahead of time if she thinks you're disingenuous. And you certainly don't want to feel like you didn't try hard enough.
I hope you know some kind of personal defense martial arts. I've got a feeling like she could get violent.
>>16495081
>I hope you know some kind of personal defense martial arts. I've got a feeling like she could get violent.
dude what? she's a super quiet socially awkward trans girl, not like a roided out meathead.
the rest of your post made some sense. i'm afraid though that if i push too hard she'll get completely turned off of me and decide to just block me. at least now she's talking to me sort of, with like one sentence replies that don't really say anything.
such...
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So this is going to sounds pretty weird, but...
Should I gift my mom a dildo or vibrator in the hope of hearing her masturbate?
I was thinking of buying it and then mailing it anonymously to her. I don't think she has any toys like this so hopefully she would accept it.
>>16495004
No. Just no.
>I said NO goddamnit!
>>16495010
Why not?
This isn't a troll btw, I'm serious about this.
>>16495017
please don't do this to yourself
So I'm not sure if this is the place to ask for this, but I need some advice on trying to find this girls tumblr.
I've been on it before, but I totally forgot the URL, and I have tried EVERYTHING to try and find it again.
I have:
>Reverse image searched a bunch of her pictures
>Looked through her entire FB page
>Deep google searching, even spokeo, I did find some old accounts/usernames, but none led to her tumblr
>Searched stuff...
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I thought about this, but I'm scared people on FB will see it or it sends an alert to her:
http://smallbusiness.chron.com/search-someone-tumblr-54207.html
>>16494975
>http://smallbusiness.chron.com/search-someone-tumblr-54207.html
Bit the bullet and tried this, did not work.
what ever happened to just fucking asking her
Short summary:
I'm a very jealous type of guy.
She has only ever had previous sexual encounters with one person other than myself. No sex before me. I'm always going down on her, but there's never any reciprocation. From a previous conversation with her I discovered she used to do it with the previous guy she was seeing to keep him happy and she done it MORE with him. I can't seem to stop fixating on the fact that she used to give the guy she was seeing before me to keep him happy, but basically flat out doesn't do it with me. Have...
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>>16494964
How well do you clean your junk? Are the hedges trimmed?
Are you uncut? Maybe give the bits a quick rinse?
Whatever she did before has nothing to do with you. If you want more oral and it's a dealbreaker, then end it. You should treat this as though you have no idea what she used to do.
Tried all of them, always trying to keep on top of it so that in the event of it actually ever happening I'm clean.
Yeah, suppose I've never really thought about it like that before.
I'm 23 years old, in college, and still don't know what job I want to get. What if I never do? Then I'll be stuck with a minimum wage job.
>>16494956
Well what are you majoring in? That kind of dictates what job your going for. If your one of those undecided, then you better freaking decide or get out of college to save yourself. It ain't cheap.
What's wrong with minimum wage, you self-entitled jumped up cunt.
Well I mean, I'm in college right now and I work a minimum wage job at a high end jewelry store.
There's nothing wrong with that. A lot of famous politicians, media figures, etc worked shitty jobs throughout their college career.
Maybe you can get a paid internship too. But I mean, a lot of places are hiring right now for the holidays.
Alright /adv/
I'm done feeling sorry for myself, I want to come back stronger than ever and rebuild my life. But I need a fucking reason. It's like my eyes were just opened and the world is dark...so fucking dark. I feel hopeless and helpless
To sum up the past few weeks or so:
I was given a 2 weeks notice last week, last day of work will be Dec 3. My degree is in Computer Engineering and I moved to SF just for this job, but I'm finding that I hate object oriented coding...like all parts of it. So fuck, wrong 4 year investment in my life
My...
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>>16494923
Someday you will see the day when you are success, rich, and your families are smiling because of you.
The day will only come if you keep trying for the sake of it.
Do it to see that fucking day.
>>16494941
But how...where do I start?
>>16494998
Were you terminated with or without cause?
Say that you had half a million dollars in the bank. In reality that's not a ton. What would you do to make yourself into a multi-millionaire? A billionaire? I'd really like to have a company, but not just one doing stupid shit like selling the shamwow.
tl;dr - what would you do to become a billionaire if you had 500,000 to start.
>>16494908
If I had 500,000, I'd cut each bill into 4 pieces, I'd instantly have 2 million, take that 2 million, cut each bill into 4, bam, 8 million. You're welcome.
I think you have enough to learn how to trade stocks. Get a degree in Finance and pick up a job as a day trader. You'll eventually learn enough to start playing with your own money. I know I outlined something that'll take a long time, but it's probably the best way you can transform your money.
The other option is to figure out what your passion is and then monetize it. You won't know what it is or how to do it, but someday you will. And you'll need a ball of cash to get started. Maybe you like sinks. Go out there and become the world's...
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>>16494908
Whatever you did to make that $500k you have in your bank account, you should probably keep doing it.
also
>>>/biz/
