Stay away from NSFW boards, and block yourself from porn sites. It'll be a reminder to you if you try.

>>16500084
Why exactly you want to stop?
If it's to improve your sex drive just don't masturbate to porn

>>16500084

There is no marked benefit to stopping masturbation.

You sound like an intellectual person, figure it out.

Right now you sound like this:

"A guy rejected me because he thinks I'm strange, clearly this one guy's perspective is representative of every single male on the planet, therefore I will be forever alone."

Is that logical to you?

>>16495289
Learn to love yourself for you or find a few things you would like to change and try to change it. Do for yourself not others. NEVER cater to anyones standards. Find validation in you.

Youre probably like 18 so you have plenty time to figure you out

Guy probably thinks you're strange because you didn't look like it was easy for him to get you under the covers

>>16494595
Why do you suspect this anon?

>>16494595
Stop being clingy.

>>16494596
GF was busy today. Tried my best no to think about it, or pester her, but ended up leaving her 7 fucking messages.

Any time she doesn't respond immediately I start freaking out, and my head gets full of intrusive thoughts, which are admittedly ridiculous.

>>16494517
shit happens, but the people who get caught up in the shit are the one's who spend their lives forgetting why they are living, which is not to be the Justice of the world. Dont get distracted by some revenge scheme, you're wasting the time you could be spending thinking about other things.

>>16494532
Sorry. It has to be done. And if I don't get help from the wonderful minds of 4chan I'll go elsewhere.

drive it into a swimming pool, it gets so heavy it'll take a crane to pull it out

Old bread >>16458883

i hope that someday i will have hope!

rip ten

>>16502484
That your cousin was a lucky man

your mom has no idea you left school?

did she know you were having trouble

Why do you feel telling her the truth will have a negative impact on your life ?

>>16502315
Maybe your condom was too thick or she was too big/you too small? That's not normal

do you watch porn, do you mastrubate? what you describe is typical for a solid porn education. seek help if you want any kind of relationship long term.

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>>16502320
I didnt wear a condom for a while because I didnt feel the urge to cum, but then realized a little later that I couldnt tell so I put it on. I definitely felt worse with the condom on but still, it didnt...well I dont know what to say since that was my first and only time. I dont know what it is supposed to feel like.

>24
>sharing same viewpoint as a 14 year old

you're just desperate that's all.

>>16502298
No she's been through a lot. It has caused her to mature ahead of her time.
Example: normally when you ask someone what holds a relationship together they answer love.
She answered "commitment, people fall in and out of love every week. When you commit to someone you repeatedly have the opportunity to fall in love."
She said this tonight.

>>16502294
It's just like being gay dude, you can't help who you fall for. Although 4 years is a long time to wait. If you have the notion on your mind that when she turns 18 you two will be a happy couple, if after 4 years of waiting that turns out to be false you may not take it so well and become creepy or just scare her. Plus in highschool (especially from 14 to 18) girls are having sex left, right and center. Can you deal with her having a boyfriend? Her discovering that sex feels good so her and her boyfriend...
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To further add on what I mean by what people describe as better is people often say "it gets better" as if time is somehow going to heal the burden of living. I make okay money and I support myself and have enough hobbies to keep me busy. But from my experience, age has only made things worse. Growing older and realizing there's things that are going to happen to your body without your consent, realizing you have to deal with obligation and responsibility, losing your parents, all of that shit sucks really bad and eats me away every single day. I hate the fact...
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I'm going bald from the stress here

Who fucking knows, man. I'm going through the same shit right now. So full of hatred it makes me sick. And it's so dumb, because I'm slowly despising everyone.
Just today I went and saw a pal, and not once did she ask how I was. She just kept on singing about her woes. But it's the same with everyone, they're all too fucking wrapped up in their own little world to see other people are hurting. I feel so burdened by everyone else coming to me and telling me their problems when reality is that not once have I ever heard them ask a question about myself....
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Also I should point out, our conversation happened at midnight last night. Didn't get the ILY until 2 the next day

>>16502204
she saying you're her beta

girls say they love each other all the time

It literally means nothing

>>16502213
....I'm a guy....are you saying a girl would tell her male friend she loves him? That's fucking ridiculous, you don't just do that

It's called not having self control. Nothing special, doesn't deserve any special treatment.

>>16502194
What a load of crap.
NEVER listen to a man when he tries to excuse a mistake with "I couldn't help it- Muh desires".
He is a FULLY GROWN ADULT MALE. He should be able to control those "urges". "I couldn't help it" is a statement of weakness

When he married you, he made a commitment to respect you and to make sacrifices for you. If he's not even able to control such a simple lust, the relationship is not built to last.
He should not be allowed to sext other...
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>>16502194

>sexting fetish

OP. You're retarded because here's where you say "Why not do it with me?" Boom. Fetish fufilled.

Now if he then turns around and goes "b-b-but it has to be with new people!" Then he's a faggot and you should bail.

>>16502111
Say hello.

>>16502111

>friend
>failed relationship

I really hope you're not the one who got dumped trying to make it work. That said you shouldn't be friends with your ex, you're learning it the hard way.

>>16502121
No, I'm not attempting to establish a friendship or relationship. I only want to make things right between us and leave in peace. We left in such bad terms, and I don't want to leave it in bad terms.

>>16502098
If you want to do it, tell him you want to do it, if you don't want to do it, then don't.

>>16502098
How bad does your butt crack smell?

>>16502107
But he's grossed out by it for sure. He always makes a point of avoiding that region whenever we have sex now. He used to sometimes put his finger in there before we actually started doing anal and now he even avoids doing that. -.-'

Get a gf

>common advice states solution to problem
>hey what's a convoluted way to avoid my problem and fail to improve upon my life and circumstances in any meaningful way

>>16502048
No, I am open to any real advice, unless its similar to previous reply

Are you just being a paranoid freak or are you sure she is cheating?

>>16501641
definitely sure, she let me look through her phone and she thought she deleted everything but i found messages and pictures. all in all i left it at that and she felt horrible maybe a week but shes doing it again

>>16501637
She won't care and you should end it either way.

I'd suggest fucking up her finances personal property. Don't admit to shit or tell her you did shit she can and will probably take you to court over it. So no texts retard.

Also try fucking her friends or close family (sisters, cousins, bonus point for mom even if she's fugly) record them with your dick in their mouth and send it too her later.

Oh yeah although this is something I personally enjoyed doing fuck a random slut...
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