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Did I do good or bad?
Log story short I told someone I can't talk to them until they define their feelings for me and tell me what they want from me because I feel like they're leading me on. They would always avoid the topic when brought up as if I didn't ask it.
Well anyways we had plans over the Christmas break cause we would both be in town. Is it safe to say whatever plans we had are canceled unless they do approach me about the ultimatum I gave them? Is forcing someone's hand in this scenario a good idea or did I hurt myself here?
>>16573954
>giving ultimatums
yeah you fucked up pretty bad
if it were me i would have deleted your number immediately
>>16573982
Are you a male or female and could you elaborate?
Of course your plans are cancelled, YOU cancelled them when you told them you can't talk to them you dipshit. Let me guess, you're butthurt that a girl who sees you as a friend treats you like a friend?
This is my 2nd full day not smoking. I'm feeling very well and not craving too much. I do get a brief passing craving now and then.
Anyone here ever quit? How'd you do it or how was it? If I can go to sleep in a couple hours and get on the 3rd day, then make it through that, I think I am on my way.
Quitting smoking is really freakin hard but I think I might succeed this time. I kinda lucked out that I was really tired today for some reason so I was lazy af and didn't think about it too much. I also didn't drink caffeine which seems to make...
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I haven't had a cigarette in 4 months now!
>>16573940
If you can go 3 days without any nicotine then you can break the physical addiction. It's all psychological after that my friend.
>>16573949
Wow, man. That is fantastic! If you ever have a day that really pisses you off, just prepare beforehand that whatever you do, you won't smoke. You are out, my friend!
>>16573957
That is what my mom used to say about habits. I am really feeling happy and lucky that I am not craving right now. I've been keeping myself on an even-keel emotionally today and I think that helps. I usually in the past pick up a cigarette when I'm irritated, stressed,...
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First year in University. I feel like when I get my BsC at the end of 4 years i'll be in a mound of debt with no decent job. Plus I really don't give a shit about learning academic shit.
I was considering going to college and taking a 2 year paradmedic course. Can anyone provide insight on how the paramedic business really is in Ontario?
I doubt you'll have a problem finding a job. Ontario is huge as fuck. If you can't find a job with one company, odds are you'll only have to move like two hours away, unless you're from shitty NWO like me. But no you should be fine
Also if you're worried about osap, don't. They're pretty good about letting you decide how much you pay each month. Rn I'm at 90 a month
Bump for interest
Alright /adv/
I finally got my court date for something I was arrested a while ago.
tl;dr is, said dumb terrorist shit over Paypal which caused Paypal to call the cops and then said cops raided my house, keep in mind this is in Canada, Quebec.
After fiddling with my hardware for a good 3 hours they read me my rights and told me I was being arrested for possession of cp and I was like wtf you high.
He asked me if I knew what hentai was blahblahblah then brought to the police station for questioning, 2 hours later I was free to go on the promise to appear...
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>>16573750
Hentai isn't illegal, senpai. It's the characters in hentai manga/anime that are depicted to look like children. I thought everyone on 4chan knew that canada came down hard on loli.
If you say you interpret them as "Over 18" Then you will probably end up in a really long court case. You may end up getting in some controversial issue, but probably charges will end up being dropped.
in the end they are not real, no children were harmed in the making of these drawings. you probably won't get convicted or anything.
![jiTnnp9[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/WhSdkJR.jpg "jiTnnp9[1].jpg")
how do i become confident and social as quick as possible?
>have job at a place that requires interaction with clients
>lots of normies, i'm basically the only aspie there
>told by my boss that if i don't change, i will get fired in 4 months
help /adv/
>>16566516
well quick the fucking job, get another one.
>>16566535
i assume you meant 'quit', but i want to keep my job. i also want to be both confident and social
>>16566516
Well tell us what specific problems you have with interacting with clients.
Everybody has some degree of social anxiety. We need to know just how much you have so we can begin to help you.
hey/adv/ i need some help. I am really self conscious of my breath to the point i can barely hold a conversation with some one with out me thinking about it. sometimes it feels like my breath is fine but i can't beat the paranoia of having it.
What can i do to assure i have good breath all the time? i have cut down on sugary foods, always drinking water to stay hydrated and been brushing my teeth 3 times a day.
>>16574948
I have this too. Usually I just always try to carry gum with me and pop it in before talking to someone and it takes away the anxiety 100%
>>16574955
i been doing this as well, but the thing is that im tired of always having to carry gum with me
worst part was that not long ago at a party i was making out with a qt and she just randomly stopped and walked away. hasn't really helped my paranoia there. we were both hammered tho
I look back at the woman who gives me a heart attack
I see her brown hair flowing freely behind her back
I sink into a pit of black i need a cigarette
Many women could be her but she doesn't know that
And for some reason the only woman I want
Has the intelligence and maturity I can't have
I'm feeling very uneasy and stress is coming
I'm never enough for anybody I find myself loving
But this is still a very unfortunate happening
Because I miss her so much I long for her with everything
Without ever feelin her touch but I know...
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not your personal blog
not advice
take it to /trash/
>>16574849
so i'm going to completely ignore op's shitty writing.
how true is op's pic? i was always taught that men can't be fixed and to avoid problematic people. has anyone found that "the right person" changed the way you are for the better?
>>16574851
just wanted critique
so /adv/
At work I received a text message from my room mate claiming that he came home to the window being open, Door being open, and my room door open (which is always locked) . The window's screen had been pushed in. looking as if someone broke in through the back window.
He instantly accused my gf and accused her of living with me. That she broke in because the window is small and my room was open. Which didn't happen.
I raced home to my room to see if anything of value was missing. only thing stolen in my room was a small jar of weed. about a gram...
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Maybe that's his reason to get you out because he needed an excuse to tell you to fuck off because he thinks you're annoying. Nobody rational acts this way there's definetly something else going on.
>>16574832
Sounds like Ryan from Wilfred wanted revenge and smelt your weed.
>>16574832
he has been here the longest ~4 years .me 1 year. I get along with my room mates talk when I can but usually I work.
he said he doesn't want to goto the landlord but he has friends that will take my room.
I have no idea.
haha white people problems
That sounds awesome. Do you not have that much girth or what?
>>16574841
>>16574848
7 long, and wider than a regular bottle of body spray.
omg i have the same fucking problem
