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Why does everyone think suicide is bad? Im sad and want to die, why wont peeps be nice and just let me? Euthanasia and all? Just want to hear /adv/ opinions
Because they are afraid since you have nothing to lose.
>>16579400
You can kill yourself any time you want to. There are thousands of ways to die. Why do you need sombody else to be there with you when it happens (euthanasia) as if theyre going to give a shit.
Well, OP?
>>16579410
i dont need people to be there. I mean, if i did kill myself people would be sad. But why cant they be happy for me and let me, why do doctors try to stop you rather than let you
If a couple living together break up and move apart, who gets the pet?
Whoever paid for it. Whoever wants it more? Whoever spent more time taking care of it? Whoever is willing to pay the other? Whoever wins a coin flip? There's lots of ways you could do this.
whoever's name it's in.
whoever adopted it and paid for it, whoever registered it with the city if that's mandated, whoever bought it from the breeder/petstore.
if you don't have any record of that, whoever cares for it and interacts with it more. that's likely to cause another fight, so be prepared.
I totally got to keep our cat when my ex got abusive and then cheated on me. I was the one that adopted him from a vet when he was a kitten.
I've been seeing a really great girl for a few months now. Recently, we were just shooting the shit and we came upon the topic of controversial opinions we both might hold. Hers happened to be that she doesn't believe in marriage, and that she doesn't feel like a piece of paper should legitimize a relationship. I asked what alternative she was envisioning and she said that a domestic partnership offers essentially the same benefits after living together for years. Now, my understanding is that marriage provides many legal benefits that a partnership does not. Mainly, partnerships are not recognized universally. I don't know what to do because I really like her, but marriage has always been an end goal in the back of my mind. I'm also 24 so I feel a bit dumb worrying about it right now.
Don't fall for the marriage trap unless she is much more wealthy than you are.
It will ruin your life in the near future.
Unless of course you live in some country where things like marriage are still respected then go on ahead and keep pushing for that.
Look up a Biblical marriage. No legal documentation required, but you are still molded as one soul, one flesh, that will be more than capable of raising a child with utmost care.
>>16579259
She doesn't want anything serious with you keep her as FWB if you are ok with it or dump her.
I've already saw girls who said that they didn't believe in love crying for Chad cuz he P&D them, i think its bullshit in the same way.
I'm starting to fall completely in love with this girl, but I'm fixated on the thought of losing her. Help.
You won't if your not a fucboi. oh wait she might just find out secretly you are.... Be worried friend
The moment you can't give her attention (have to sleep early, work, school, etc.) she will get bored and start talking to other guys. Girls are bitches. They fall for any attractive guy that throws them a bone. Even if you're able to give her attention 24/7 she will feel smothered and find other dicks to fuck.
>>16579132
that is why you must find a pure muslim woman, my friend.
I've had my heart broken recently. (1/2)
This guy and I go back to high school. I'm a senior in college now and he works. I've always had feelings for him, but never this strongly as before. In college, I did date some dudes, but it never worked out and he would always listen to me. We would always text each other and talk about stuff. Then we started sending each other nudes and sexting.
In junior year I got an apartment to myself. He said that he would come and spend the night with me. He lives in Tomball. I go to school in College Station, so it's barely an hour away. He only came to my apartment twice. I went to his house once. All throughout my spring and summer semesters at A&M, he said he would come, but he never did. Something always came in the way, his dad, his grandma, his work with some author (Robert Waggoner, fuck if I know what they're doing). The incident that hurt the most is when we made plans to see The Martian. He kept saying that he'll be there and see the film with me. I get all dressed up, wear nice makeup, do my hair, shave, everything. Then I wait and wait and wait. I fall asleep and wake up at 2AM to a text sent at 1AM saying that he wasn't coming. He was doing some job like 5 hours away with his dad. He apologized for this.
Everything was good for a while. He even told me stuff like how he liked seeing me smile and laugh, how he liked my makeup (I would send him selfies everyday of my makeup. He really liked it), the clothes I wore, my body, and how good I always looked.
(2/2)
Then at the beginning of November I asked him when we would have our Star Wars marathon. He was in a silly mood that day and he kept trolling saying how he would rather have a Kylo Ren cosplay outfit than have sex with any girl. I got impatient and angry and I just straight up called him an asshole and that he treated me like shit. He finally gave me a tentative date.
Then for all of November he didn't talk to me, I texted him, but he wouldn't respond. On December 3rd I sent him a text asking him if we were going to have our marathon. He said no. He said that I should move on, that 500 other guys can replace him, that if he had a daughter talking to someone like him he would tell her to drop him, that I can do better, that he's an asshole/fuckboy.
I'm so heartborken over this. It's been 2 weeks but it still hurts. I wish I could have him back and have things be better. I haven't gone out on a date in over a year and I keep to myself at school a lot. I just miss him so much.
Yesterday I dropped off his birthday present at his house. I got it for him a while ago but could never give it to him because we never saw each other. I wrapped it up and wrote a nice little note. I don't expect the present to make things better or for him to come back to me, but it was somethingI I just had to do.
I don't know...try shutting the fuck up? Bitches should only use their whore mouths to suck cock. Wanna know why we accept Muslims into our countries? So cunts like you will finally be put in your place. You will need to accept Sharia Law and won't be able to post on the internet or have sex with more than one man without being murdered. Can't wait until I can properly beat my whore wife and she can be all covered up just because I say so.
>>16579096
????????
How to trick girls? Just wanna trick them in general, could be anything really as long as it's tricky.
give me some advice
That game is called flirting. Also banter. Playful (or mean-spirited) lying is an advanced form of social communication, if you're lying not to hide a defect of your own, but to expose a flaw of theirs.
It's a clever and involved thing and you'll learn with practice.
>>16579110
>>16579110
so what's the trick?
>>16579117
I don't know. That's up to you. Use your wit. Spread something not very offensive but a bit weird about a girl around your friends and her friends. See the results. All sorts of pranks you can play.
Long story short, I found out today that if I google my name, the fifth result down is a blog post where some guy I went on a date with and didn't want to continue seeing put up my photo, full name and made up some BS, telling people to never date me and putting me on a blacklist. This wouldn't be such a big issue, but I have a very unique name and it has a photo of me. I don't want this to be an issue later when trying to find a job or when people google my name.
What do I do? I already reported it three times to Tumblr (where the blog is posted) but it doesn't seem as if they're doing anything about it.
I don't want to open up contact with him again because he harassed me for weeks after I refused to go on another date with him.
Contact google
>>16579073
To add something you have a right to be 'forgotten' unless for certain reasons but being a bad date is not it
>>16579069
Send tumblr a DMCA notice, they'll take it down quick.
So i think my Dad just hit on me this morning.. I'm not sure what to do. I'm not sure how to explain it, so I'll answer questions..
Has anyone had any experience with this kind of situation? What should i do?
What did he do?
>>16578967
He woke me up this morning, I was in bed dressed in just panties and tank top.. He sat on the bed and touched my ass for a while before waking me up. I was awake the whole time but pretending to be asleep because I was scared.
That's not making a move, that's molestation lol.
Are girls less attracted to bi guys?
>>16578929
As much as I hate to say it yes. When my ex came out to me as bi because *~you should look past gender and love people for who they are~*, I threw up a bit in my mouth.
Nobody will ever be able to tell the difference OP, unless you specifically tell them.
>>16578929
it seems to be that way sadly, but i would be fine with it but i'm bi myself too
post your stories, questions here or give advice
Don't be shy, it's not like you have anything better to do.
I keep thinking I'm crazy but I guess a part of me knows I'm not.
I feel like I've gotten better but then maybe I haven't gotten better, my way of dealing with depression has just CHANGED. I stopped taking my medication because I just don't want to fucking do it anymore. i want to get better with just counseling. but lately, I can't even get out of bed for awhile because it just makes me uncomfortable and depressed to think i'm just going to do the same useless shit i do everyday.
Is it bad to just go cold turkey off of prozac? i've been having withdrawals but nothing dramatic like trying to commit suicide. My head just feels really dizzy every now and then.
>>16578851
>can't get a gf
>pathetic
>fell like killing myself every other week
it's like i just stop enjoying everything i love once i remember that i don't have a gf.
>b-but you don't need to get a gf to be happy
i fucking do
Man I think I fucked up big time at work.
So employees have their own personal codes for the alarm system. This is a code that is not supposed to be shared with anyone as everyone has a unique code which tells who turned the alarm on/off.
Anyways the alarm was playing up today and wouldnt turn off in the middle of the shift. The store manager called in the Security company to check out the alarm system.
My store manager then asked me how i got into the building when I was on my own one day last week to which i said that I had already been given a code. We then go in talk to the security guys to which they said it may be my code messing up as I was new and told me to write it down for them.
I wrote it down no questions asked. Now im paranoid that it was a trap set up by the bigger boss (my store managers manager) to see if i was dumb enough to give my code to someone.
What do and how do I stop being anxious about it right now? Im new and have been there for a week. I feel like I have been fucking up small things but now this seems big. What do you think? Its for a retail thrift store shop and I havent had a job in 3 years and was basically a shut in all that time with depression/anxiety problems so I really dont want to fuck shit up right now
Should I start thinking up of excuses or what to say incase I am confronted about this or if later on down the track someone robs the store using my entry code because one of the security guys sold it to someone or someshit? Or am I being super worried over nothing?
I don't see the problem if you gave your code to the security guys. And you're being super paranoid about this and worrying about nothing anyway
It'd be weird for a company to set up people they already hired for a chopping block desu senpai.
The security company probably has access to all the codes anyway, but they wouldn't know which one was yours, which is relevant information in solving this problem.
You should be fine.
Roughly how much cash should a poor college student pack to have a good time traveling Europe (Scotland, England, France, Belgium, Netherlands) while living cheap but also partying a bit, eating decent food, and grabbing souvenirs for folks back home? Trip is two weeks long. I have a credit card I can use, but want to split my expenditures at least 50/50 cash/card because of reasons.
>>16578783
500-1000 bucks to stay on the save side, you're being pretty vague.
>>16578786
If it helps narrow the figures, I plan on partying it out hard at least once in the city (New Year), and going to museums and whatnot while I'm out there, too. Otherwise, just getting things for friends and family- there's about four people I want to get generally not-shitty-keychain gifts for while I'm out there.
>>16578804
Do you have a rough idea, which cities you want to visit? London and Paris are expensive as fuuuuck. Rest is usually alright. Also what do you mean with living cheap, a shitty hotel or going down all the way to hostel? How do you plan to travel from place to place?
>partying it out hard
It can easy go from 0€ if you're an attractive chick and get faggots to buy you stuff into 200s and beyond, if you drink a lot of really fancy stuff in fancy places and might do drugs.
>going to museums
That shit tends to be cheap/free. Even fucking Louvre is under 20€ if I remember right.
>I want to get generally not-shitty-keychain gifts
How about 25€ budget for person? Still enough to get something cute and personal but not some over the top shit and might go even lower.
Is smoking weed and getting high at work okay? My job isn't that hard, I'm an airline ticketer/code monkey. I find that when I wake up I vape some weed. On break I vape some weed. At lunch I vape some weed. Last break I vape some weed. The thing is that when I get high I feel like I'm doing something bad and then get paranoid like I'll get caught somehow. Is smoking weed at your job right or wrong?
>>16578703
Don't risk it, you think you know yourself, but be forewarned, if you fuck up at work because you got high, or get caught by your boss, consequences will never be the same.
>>16578703
is smoking weed and getting high as a crutch okay? i'd still be doing that if i had a connection. i made a list of crutches i have tonight. shit really gets out of control. if i didn't play games, watch anime, listen to podcasts, etc i'd definitely live but i'd be way anxious. life's stressful so when it's become overbearing i do something to occupy my mind. plus i've been really depressed. it's gotten to the point where it's not helpful as much as a crutch though. gotta get off those crutches mate. i'm sure there's more than weed but it's a place to start. make a crutches list and an alternative list is my advice. and yeah, cut the weed at work whether or not it's right or wrong. it is wrong though cause everyone has their moments where they're high and they slip
>>16578703
I used to smoke weed before work when I was a package unloader at UPS but honestly I just felt lethargic and a lot of my coworkers could tell
now I work a job I actually like, and i have to do math all day long so there's no way in hell I would risk it
how much do you care about your job? if you need weed to get you through a shift you might want to find a different one
How does one become a genius like Einstein or Beethoven? Einstien was really old when he discovered the theory of relativity and Beethoven was a child when he was creating complex music. For someone in their 20s is it too late to become a genius? Is it something that can be learned of is it just lucky genetics?
>>16578637
You deleted it you little faggot.
>>16578637
It take dedication. Are you willing to put the hard work in?
You got to love what you do and do what you love, and work very, very hard at being better at it each day.
In high school, I topped philosophy and history, but nothing else. I do not think I should study these majors at a university level, because they are poor majors. What should I study instead? I excel in "extended written expression involving complex analysis and synthesis of ideas" according to my exam results.
Library science
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Library_science
well I think the more important question is what do you want to do?
>>16578636
Do you know of a major combining library science (accredited by ALA) but that also covers a fair bit of computer science? I like both and don't want to just do CS as it's not ALA accredited.
