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Girl cancelled our "date" this evening. She gave no reason, really, just saying that she couldn't and that she was sorry. I simply just thanked her for letting me know.
Is it worth texting her when morning comes, and letting her know that if it ever does suit her to meet up, to let me know, and otherwise a good luck with everything? She didn't respond to my last message.
She's very clearly the shy/awkward type and I'm betting nerves got the best of her, or she took advice from friends and just didn't do it (we have never met face...
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>>16575560
>l'm an incredibIy sociaIIy fucked faggot who can't get girIs in person
Pathetic/10
>>16575560
>I simply just thanked her for letting me know.
You dun goofed son.
Anyway, the ball is in her camp now, she should make it up to you
>>16575565
I know.
>>16575563
I'm a waiter, so I'm not socially fucked. I just work and go to school all day, so it's hard to meet people sometimes.
I'm in college and I'm not a talk active person, I only start a conversation if someone asks me something, but generally I'm really awkward, I don't like the girls in my college cus mostly they are brainwashed to follow the herd and they don't have anything special about them, probably only pretty faces.
But I met this girl 2 years ago that I really liked, she was special in some way, like you can feel that this person has a different personality and has probably gone through some shit in their life unlike the spoiled sluts that I go to class with, being the socially awkward person that I am, I try and read people see what they like, usually this works but it didn't work with her, she didn't tell me much, and was pretty shallow with her conversations.
then the following year I tried being close friends with her but she started feeling uncomfortable talking to me, and that usually means 2 things either that person hates you or doesn't find you interesting, or that this person has a crush on you, I tried helping her with her studies and stuff, but whenever I tried opening a normal conversation with her she would try to end it quickly.
So I finally took my chances and confessed to her, I didn't do it face to face because I lack the balls, so I sent her message and she responded with "I don't want to hurt you, but I can always be your friend" I apologised and couldn't stop thinking about it for a whole year, because I don't even know what's inside this girls mind or why she acted all awkwardly in the first place.
a year later we still talk and I usually throw a joke at her from time to time, but I can't help but wonder is she shy?? Was she the type that want you to show a sign of commitment like proposing to her parents or something, or does she really dislike me? What do you think???
>>16575474
She probably doesn't like you because she realized you casually refer to other people as "spoiled sluts" and you think you're better than everyone else.
Anyway, it's pretty obvious she wasn't into you.
>>16575484
But she did talk to me sometimes, and sometimes when I talk to other girls she likes to be close to me and be the one that is most talkactive
>>16575474
I didn't read all your shit, because you don't know how to paragraph, but...
>I don't like the girls in my college cus mostly they are brainwashed to follow the herd and they don't have anything special about them, probably only pretty faces.
Listen to yourself, nigga. In any case in which a guy has said this, the truth has been that he hates himself. Girls are great, dude. You aren't. It's not the other way around, homie. Stop lying to...
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Hi, I punched a collogue during a Christmas party and have been subsequently dismissed for gross misconduct. Up until this incident I have been a model employee, and had no animosity towards the victim - I don't even remember doing it!
Any advise on how to approach this in future job interviews?
I have seen a lot of posts saying people should tell the truth in interview if they have done something to be dismissed, although who would employ someone who has been dismissed for violence?
Should I lie?
>>16575386
Ideally you feel bad about what you did and are showing remorse for your actions by not drinking or not attending parties, etc.
From what you've written, it looks like you're trying to avoid accountability, especially in this line (I have been a model employee, and had no animosity towards the victim - I don't even remember doing it!).
That is the wrong attitude to have toward the incident, dude.
I feel awful about it, I take full responsibility. This is a fact though, this is my only instance of misconduct.
Also, I agree and I have not wanted to drink since due this.
But the question is, how do I approach the incident in interviews?
>>16575401
I feel awful about it, I take full responsibility. This is a fact though, this is my only instance of misconduct.
Also, I agree and I have not wanted to drink since due to this.
But the question is, how do I approach the incident in interviews?
Hey guys i hope you dont mind i wana post my life story. Im trying to wrap my head around this mindfuck i call my life. Feel free to leave criticism, advice, gtfo faggits, whatever. Sorry i would just journal this but im poorfag and dont own a pen or paper. Here goes;
Cureently im 25 male.
My childhood wasnt exceptionally horrible. But it was no walk in the park. My father for the first 18 or 19 years of my life was a bad alcoholic who would beat my mom my sister and me. Not that often. But enough to leave an impact. My mom was worse with the physical abuse up until...
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Op here sry still typing might take awhile to finisg
Go on....
I went out with a couple of really great girls in highschool. Even a boy or two. Real unicorns. I was so naive and dumb and rage filled i had no idea what i had. Some of these girls are still married with the person they got with right after me...it hurts when that situation happens like 3 or 4 times. I was still getting bullied in highschool. Still fighting kids. Still fighting my dad. U know its funny these guys wanted to fuck with me for liking guys but i was banging more girls than they were. Other than that hs was ok. I had alot of friends. A few very close friends. I was...
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Hi guise. Been a while since I've been here but I've encountered a pretty (common) concerning issue with my significant other. We've got a good relationship, we trust each other, we're happy. We've got a decent house and decent jobs and a 5 year old kid. We're both 26 and from similar backgrounds. Been together for 6 years known each other for 8.
Last night, I was in our living room watching tv when he went in to the kitchen. I asked if he was alright and he relied yeah, he was quiet though so I peeked around the door frame and my phone clatters...
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>>16575247
He was reading through your texts, because he was worried you are cheating on him.
Is it such a big deal? Do you really blame him?
It's not like he cheated on you or something.
What you do about it is up to you. If you call him out or act upset he will just get more worried, 'Bitch must be hiding something or she wouldn't care so much I just gotta find it'
>>16575249
Do I really blame him? Yes. I've never cheated in my life and I would never - he should know that and if he doesn't the right thing and the grown up thing to do would have been to have asked me and talked about his concerns.
Is it just me, or is he invading my privacy and acting like a child?
>>16575247
He probably had a brief moment of insecurity that created a lapse of judgment. He was being retarded and he knows him.
Write this one off and if it happens again definitely talk to him about it.
