>Girlfriend and I were talking about moving in together
>Starts tossing around "we" a lot
>Wants me to toss my SV650 and my Miata
>Why do you want me to get rid of my stuff?
>"They're stupid toys."
>You didn't have a problem with them before
>"We have to start thinking about our life together."
>Yeah...
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red flag
>>16581035
On my first date with one girl she suggested I drive a lexus instead. I never called her agian.
>>16581035
Yeah, this shit right off the bat. Run.
I feel like I act like a dog when it comes to my boyfriend. I'm very clingy, want his constant affection, wait eagerly for his return, plus i'm sexually active(he's low test), and physically active/playful. I'm not saying I'm constantly putting everything away for him, and also that I don't enjoy how it is now because he's clearly happy with it, but my real question is how to I have my own life while also being in his? How do I not think of him constantly and think of other things and my future? I feel like I don't really have a life other...
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>>16580978
Don't you have any friends? A job?
You need to develop a life outside of your relationship. Hobbies, friend, schooling, career, anything. Stuff you do without him that you enjoy. If you're doing stuff and you literally can't stop thinking about him, then you might need to see a therapist or something as that's not healthy.
>>16580992
No job. I have a couple of close friends and two best friends that are like my brothers but they're all pretty busy or no longer around me plus I'm pretty extroverted to begin with so sometimes I rather just stay inside, but I can be normie when I need to.
>Might be having a boys night out tomorrow night.
>Might go to a party.
>Tell girlfriend
>She replies with "If anything happens tonight, its fine. Of you meet someone else that is"
>"Huh? What do you mean hun. I only have eyes for you"
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Perma-virgin here, can't really help but that is one scary situation.
Your gf wants to fuck someone else (probably not someone specific ) and it's ok for her to do it if you do.
She sounds like a manipulative bitch.
You won't break up for a while but she'll get 'bored' eventually and someone will pull the pin.
She isn't ready for a serious gig so gtfo while you can.
>>16580924
She's either so desperately scared of leaving you that she's already "come to terms" with it and has grieved.
Or she's angry and testing you, convinced you're going to cheat.
Or she's interested in starting a polyamorous relationship.
Or she wants to leave you, but hopes you'll find someone new who would make you happy (I've done this before)
I got my girlfriend a Travel Journal for Christmas. What is something literary, or cute I can write on the first page?
Thanks you guys!
idk look up some quotes from 'around the world in 80 days' or something
>>16580863
Write something nice about how you're life together is going to be an adventure and you can't wait to write the story together blah blah blah.
She'll cum instantly.
>>16580872
*your
I think. I'm fucked, /adv/.
Long story short, Hypothyroid runs in my family, and I'm starting to show symptoms. I'm 26, so it's about right. Here's the catch. I can't afford insurance. I don't make enough money to afford insurance from my job, especially since they recently forced a 401k plan that is ruining my already shitty financial situation, and the obamacare option doesn't cover prescriptions anyway (on top of being painfully worthless).
What the fuck do I do?
Go make a Google Voice account and then cancel your phone contract. Come back once you've done that.
>>16580728
1. Make more money.
2. Cut down on unnecessary expenses.
3. Sell possessions.
Choose.
>>16580728
Now's the time to start doing research as to finding jobs that do cover the medications you need that you're also qualified for (given your past education).
Your health is paramount. Start doing the research now while you're STARTING to show the signs as opposed to when you have to because you're fully exhibiting them.
Good luck, senpai
i just started java and i was wondering, if I wanted to negate this
index =0;
int[]array = new int[10];
while((!salaries==-1) && index<salaries.length){
I want to let up to 10 users enter their salaries, and exit the loop using -1. would this work? is my exclamation mark used correctly? ty O_O
>>16580708
Yes lol for sure. If you wanted to negate what?
Anyway. Why would you want to exit with -1?
>>16580724
I'll have the user enter into salary, and they can enter -1 to exit the loop.
also i think it should be while(!salaries[index]==-1)
while (index < 10) {
// read salary
index++;
}
My BF hardly ever talks to me anymore, and I'm not sure why. I constantly try to engage him in conversations, ask him if he wants to go do things he likes (exercise), etc.
I just don't know what to say anymore. I don't want to give up a four year relationship because we're having some communication issues.
Any thoughts or questions?
>>16580683
These are the options
>your personality/antics annoy him
>no longer interested in a relationship with you
>has a side bitch
>you've gotten fat
>"You hardly talk to me anymore. Is there something wrong?"
And then you go from there. Be adamant, get a response out of him.
Also, there must be more to this story, right? Something you are not telling?
>>16580693
My personality hasn't changed since we met.
I've talked with him about that, if he wanted to split up but he just stays silent. Sometimes he'll say, "Thank you, Anon, for not giving up on me."
Impossible. We're together 24/7.
Same weight as when we met.
Im meeting a girl who likes me in 2 hours. I am very nervous, any advice on how to calm myself so i don't sperg?
Just be a gentleman . Don't be afraid to be nervous she might find it cute...probably will.
friend zone her mentally, you'll be confident and relaxed. Girls like confidence.
>>16580637
How do i do that?
Why is it that women can forget men so easily? I was friend zoned by a girl. What drove me crazy is how she would never text me first and when I would text her, she would take days to respond.
It felt really shitty. THEN SHE TELLS ME SHE HAS BEEN SPENDING 600+ DOLLARS ON TRIPS TO FUCKING TEXAS to see her "friend who is a guy" and she visits him like every month.
I can't even get her to spend 1 hour with me but somehow a dude in fucking texas is getting her to spend 600+ dollars on monthly trips?!
Women have such a effective way of making...
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>I was friend zoned by a girl. What drove me crazy is how she would never text me first and when I would text her, she would take days to respond.
She likes hanging out with the other guy and doesn't want to be friends with you. It's really that simple.
The issue is that you waste your time chasing girls who aren't particularly interested in you. Have a little more pride in yourself. If a girl doesn't seem interested in you, drop her. She's not worth your time. Or you can be upset and moan about it. Your call.
>>16580599
>Why is it that women can forget men so easily?
Dude. You never were on her mind to begin with. You are friendzoned. MOVE ON JEEZ.
Also, try some small talk, does not have to be women. Get a feel of how to approach people in public situations.
Is this an autistic thing to send to a female friend (that I might secretly like)?
Try "hey, wanna make a DQ run? I'll buy" don't lump in that manipulative "waah I have no food I'm lonely" shit
>>16580596
I just don't want her to think in asking herout or something.
Also I probably should have mentioned that this really is about the food. I can't drive and she's the only friend of mine available that can.
>>16580596
I second this. Short and sweet. Your's is long and weirdly worded.
How do you handle anger, /adv/? I've never really had to deal with it before (the most I've ever been is really annoyed) but recently my boyfriend cheated on me and then dumped me in a pretty shitty way, and I'm constantly getting these flashes of rage.
It mostly just results in me being a lot meaner to people at work than I should be. I don't like the way I'm acting. What works for you guys?
>>16580563
exercise, sports, writing, aggressive music
try joining boxing, you'll have a great outlet for your anger and you'll get into shape
also sorry about your ex, he sounds like a serious douchecanoe
>>16580563
Kick and punch the ever loving shit out of a punching bag.
>>16580567
I'm a little insecure about working out in front of other people but boxing sounds very effective! I'll give it a try, thanks.
weed just makes me feel shit.
I get pale and dark eye rings. even when I drink and eat a lot. and I feell shit and am still pale the day after and just want to sleep + feel shit.
well, I live in Berlin and just buy it from africans in the park. maybe it is shit quality.
but I also take Cymbalta, a duloxetin antidepressant. I got told that it has no interaction but maybe thats wrong.
If you are going to smoke weed you'll need to just take that drug because you're not getting the full effect and maybe get a new dealer man
Are you even getting weed? Then again, I get it legally on weekends in CO.
What strain? What form (concentrate, flower, etc)? From who? Do you know them?
>>16580514
Why do you continue smoking if you feel like shit?
Could it be white out? How much do you smoke and what?
Any ways to make my suicide look accidental? I don't want to hurt those who love me by making them think they didn't do enough for me, so making my death look accidental would be for the best.
Bump, interested
Yes, spend the next decade of your life smoking 3 packs of cigarettes a day, eating a diet consisting of nothing but red meat, and going for 1 hour sessions at tanning booths on a daily basis. When you inevitably get cancer, stop taking the medication without telling anyone. It will be a slow and painful death, but it will definitely look accidental. Plus you'll probably be forever remembered as a hero by everyone who knew you.
Or you could just stop being a faggot and try doing something useful with your life.
options:
1) leave a banana skin at the top of the stairs then jump down headfirst
2) stab yourself with a knife then leave the knife next to a note that says "KILLED BY ?" so then they look for the killer
3) dig a deep ass hole and just keep digging till you die see how deep you can get
Where do NEETs get their money?
>>16580428
Their parents?
>>16580441
*Maybe their parents?
I get welfare for being too ill to work.
In New Zealand
I'm 18, and I want to get rid of my political apathy. What are some decent non-mainstream news sources Pic semi-related
Don't do it.
what country
>>16580426
The problem with any news source isn't as much the information they present but the presentation itself, that tries to manipulate you and this is the case with ANY of them.
To get any control over the effect, start with reading about history, philosophy AND THEN about different political systems, their implementations and the reason for failure. Once you have a somehow stable world view based on your own thinking and researching, you can even read Fox news.