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Faggot
>tfw no gf
>>16585907
Does anyone else get this? I'm the "weird" person at work, being a very awkward unpassable mtf. I basically don't say anything to my coworkers unless they ask me directly and I feel like they all dread working with me because I don't know how to socialize with them. And lately I've been breaking out for some reason so I feel even worse.
With one or two of them I feel extremely awkward around. Yesterday the movie "Breakback Mountain" was brought up for some stupid reason and one guy started to say he felt grossed out but quickly...
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>>16585693
If you're not passable mtf and have terrible social skills, then being your "true" self at work isn't the right call. Just dress up as a guy and don't add attention to yourself.
>>16585699
I don't pass as a guy, either. It's obvious I'm taking hormones.
>I've been breaking out for some reason
some reason?
>It's obvious I'm taking hormones.
Living for revenge - is it worth it? I don't mean killing someone, I mean striving for success specifically to see someone squirm. If you end up more successful than someone you hate, is it satisfying to see them squirm?
I know this sound edgy, but right now I have little inside me besides rage and spite.
>>16585686
How about striving and living for success just because you want to live better for yourself and fuck anyone who has or will oppose you. That whole living to see people I hate squirm shit is so fucking tired. It makes you into sore winner aka a spiteful little cunt whose just as bitter as a sore loser and no better than them. Turn that rage and spite into something positive. Make it work for you, not the other way around.
>>16585716
Yeah agreed. Op, ppl who do shit for spite or go see others squirm, everybody hates. Everybody can see the insecurity, self worthlessness, and desperation. Its easy to spot.
Let go of the rage and live to be happy.
>>16585716
This is fine advice.
There's a reason why the ancient maxim "Living well is the best revenge" has endured throughout the ages.
Speaking personally, I attended my 20th high school reunion a few years ago. I wasn't bullied or anything, but I'm doing well for myself- 2 kids, beautiful Brazilian wife, great job, plenty of money... and when I reconnected with some folks from my home town, it was depressing. Many were divorced, seemed unhappy, had ended up as 'townies'...
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People say I have the expression of the next Elliot Rodger, what does this mean? How can I change this? I don't wanna shoot anybody or anything like that so I don't know why people say this.
Although it's possible that this is an extremely cruel joke, it's alarming enough when used by multiple people that it definitely merits further looking into.
At first glance, I would guess that people saying this means you give off an image of someone who has a lot of trouble getting a date, blames women in general for this problem, and is extremely bitter about it. Does this sound accurate?
>>16585666
>devil trips
OP confirmed for mass murdering supreme gentleman. Watch out normies, he's coming for you
>>16585683
No this not like me at all, the only thing in common I have with him is the fact I'm a virgin at 19.
Is it okay to call my boyfriend "baby"? Would it threaten his masculinity? What are some cute names I could call my boyfriend? Can't really do anything with his actual name either.
I don't like honey, sweetie, sweetheart, darling either.
>>16585657
this is bait
>>16585660
Not bait, I'm just ridiculously inexperienced.
>>16585657
no, there's nothing wrong with that. I think. I personally wouldn't even mind being called tootsie bun.
...IF I HAD A GF ;_;
do i dress okay? /fa/ doesn't respond
>>16585574
yeah nothing wrong with that
dress how you want OP. follow yr dreams.
>graphic tshirt
sure, that's how boys under 17 dress.
Hello people.
I was raped as a child. I'm 21 now and I'm a guy. I think I have gotten over it a little. But it keeps popping up once in a while. The thing is I don't remember his name and face. I remember where he worked because I was raped by him in his shop. If I ask around about him I could maybe find him. I just want to beat him up and just fuck his shit up. Should I do it? Ive always been depressed and purposeless in my life. Maybe this is what I need. Also I've never told my parents or friends.
Sure, do it. Be sure you can beat the shit out of him tough, if you can't then just ruin his life by telling shit about him and making sure the rumors spread : that'll weaken him.
I am sorry to hear what happened to you. But I do not think that beating him up would be a good idea.
Find him if you must, but instead of beating him up, press charges. Seek out other victims -there are probably many- and come forward en masse. This will be difficult and embarrassing, but no more than having to explain why you beat him up would be, AND you won't go to jail for it. But he might, and if that happens, he will get far worse than you could bring yourself to do to him.
>>16585568
Have you ever thought about reporting it? Depending on where you live, you may still be able to.
I feel your pain and I'm sorry for what happened. I was raped as a child too.
Hi /adv/
Over the summer I got very drunk and had a one night stand with a girl who gave me unprotected oral sex, but protected intercourse. The day after I felt a lot of regret, and also started worrying I might have got an STD (it was only when I looked it up that day that I realised oral sex was a risk). Maybe 2 days or so after, I went to pee in the morning and when I pulled my foreskin back I noticed a very small whitish blob near the opening of my urethra. I wrote this off as a small piece of tissue paper that had been mixed with urine and trapped there from where...
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>>16585508
I wiuldn't worry about it too much, OP. Chances are slim you got anything but a blow job and some sex. Relax a little.
>>16585521
I wish I could, but the past couple of days have felt like one long, drawn out panic attack
Anyone?
things you can do/learn in a month.Stuff you can learn to impress others.Stuff i can learn to be like sherlock or some other wise ass character.
eg.speed reading,learning to memorise stuff quickly(would like tips on these).
Basically anything and everything u wish u had learned when u had time.
>>16585369
>be like sherlock
are you a 13-year-old cumberbitch or what
Obsessively try to insert new vocabulary into your speech and invert your sentences.
Intelligent people will see you as an idiot though.
>>16585369
>sherlock
>wise
Pick one.
>Stuff you can learn to impress others
Wrong motivation IMO.
>eg.speed reading,learning to memorise stuff quickly(would like tips on these).
https://www.google.com
>Basically anything and everything u wish u had learned when u had time.
Pick one and apply yourself.
My older sister is dating a junky, he just got out of jail. He's clean now but it's just a matter of time till he fucks up again. They also have a child together with another on the way, they're not splitting up anytime soon. I personally don't want a bar of him. My family still get along with my sister, but have pretty much wiped her bf. How do I let her know that I don't want to know her bf/see him when she texts me to catch up?
I don't know how I should come off when I first see him, if I should be cold and straight up "I'm not your friend, I'm (just hear for my sister)" or to just be normal while also distant. I want to let him know that we're not cool. I know if I go around there he'll talk to me like a friend and I don't know how to respond. We got along fine before he showed us all his real colours and eventually went to jail.
>>16585368
Be hones and upfront. Tell her in no uncertain terms that you care for her and that you DGAF about him.
>>16585396
Yeah, she'll reply that they have a child together and he'll always be in her life in one way or another. I know this, if I act like a cunt to him to him straight up it will just be awkward as fuck.
I have $2000 saved up. Would that be enough to have a hitman kill me?
paypal me the cash then kill yourself.
Seriously tho don't do it. Things will get better.
No, it's enough to buy something fun to do though that would make you not want to kill yourself. Like a fun trip.
>>16585249
Buy bitcoin.
Watch it appreciate and buy drugs from deep web.
i dont like alcvohol please it feels sikc in my stomach i wnt weed this isnt as good i want weed:(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((
why cabnt i have weed why cant i have wed why ica tnwa i cant i have weed iw ant the weed fuck uk fuck US FUCK US FUCK USSS
i want weed how do i get weed i dont like aldcohol
>>16585211
ewhy cbnt i have weed why isnt weed legal why isnt weel legal why isn w2eed legal wghy isnt weed legal :((((((((((========================================
Get a hold of yourself op and get off the computer.
>>16585212
wede :+))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Hey I need legal help can my job make me work from 10:45pm to 6am then have me come back in at 9am to 2:45 then on the same day 4pm to 8pm
>>16585209
You IegaIIy need 10 hours in between shifts.
They cannot reIease you from work from this or the B B B wiII handIe them and give you hours for any time you missed as a resuIt.
Let them know, it's your right and if they don't Iike it they can get fucked. They can't do shit, don't worry about it.
Thank you my friend
>>16585213
That is not correct and flat out false. There are no restrictions to how many hours they can force you to work. The exception is if you're in a union job.
i have a serious question guys and need advice.
i have a secret that i know would hurt my family and they may not trust me as much afterwards if i told them. i wont say what but it involves some perverted shit. they became suspicious of me and confronted me about a week ago, i could see in their eyes they were upset and afraid it was true. they feel terrible for thinking it about me.
they trust me 100% that it isnt true but in fact it is.. and it's hurting me that im just lying to them. what should i do? i can either keep the secret to myself and not hurt...
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>>16585179
There's no reaI \adv\ to give without getting the whoIe story. AII that can be said is to do what you think is best.
Now go do that.
Anonymous board, still a secret.
upskirting. they became suspicious of me doing it to a family member.
what can one do in order to meet girls? where would girls be more receptive to meeting girls?
Volunteer at something heartwarming such as the wildlife rehabilitation clinic.
>>16585157
>Another one of these shitty, broad, spoon feed me threads with a sociaIIy retarded OP who wants everyone to do his work.
Fuck off.
>>16585167
Well, except for the girls meeting girls bit. Perhaps that's a typo?
