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Really, all jobs are fundamentally the same (i.e. they become dull over time and all jobs have their own shitty aspects), so why not just find a job with stable employment, status and high pay?
>>16589247
because that is their passion?
>>16589247
if you like your job you don't mind working hard.
if you don't like your job you might get a burnout or a boreout.
but i understand what you mean. every job becomes dull over time. focus on the shit that does matter, family, hobbies etc.
>>16589283
>every job becomes dull over time
Yeah, so why the fuck would someone not pick accounting or actuary and become a math teacher.
How do I stop defining myself by the attention and approval of others?
>>16589176
Self esteem.
If you need aproval, your self esteem is probably shit.
Remember, self esteem is what you think about yourself, and how much do you love yourself.
>>16589193
I'm fucking garbage. Now what?
How do you gain self esteem ?
any good animes?
>>16589085
boku no pico
>>16589114
no thank you not going to happen
>>16589126
whatever.
>>>/wsr/ or >>>/a/ are the places you should ask for this kind of information, /adv/ certainly isn't.
Sometimes i think that some people can hear what i'm thinking.
It's creepy. I know it doesn't make sense but sometimes the odds are totally fucked.
Example, i use a certain word in my thoughts and later on another person says they don't like that word.
Anyone else around here with this problem?
Any suggestions, solutions?
It's a paranoid delusion OP. It doesn't necessarily mean that you are going to get there, but this is a sign of developing something more sinister. Not to scare you or anything, sometimes people can have this and it doesn't develop further but you need to be aware.
But no, people cannot hear your thoughts, if people had this ability they wouldn't bother with phones, communicating through the internet, using lie detectors etc.
I'm kinda scared of this to, not to the level of OP but a lot of the time I maybe think something inappropriate, think "oh no what if the people around me, just this small group or something, can read minds" then I start thinking other thoughts to cover it up, just to be on the safe side. Sometimes it feels like the people get a little irritated with me which kinda reinforces it.
Don't be retarded?
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there's this girl
we've met over the course of 4 months multiple times for some days.
she said she isn't over her ex yet and that she isn't ready for a new relationship yet.
fine by me, told her i would wait.
but now she increasingly thinks about her old stuff, resulting in her telling me that we should end it because she wants to get back in contact with her ex.
yet a few months before it started with us, she told me that she had no feelings the one time she met her ex again.
now she told me that she cant se a future with us...
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should i send her her christmas present /adv/?
really unsure about that.
it was supposed to be a cup with picture printed on it, an inside joke of sorts between us and a small heart, which has a small bell in it, as a small appreciation.
>>16588938
This is a thing called women in general they won't make sense a lot of the time
>>16588945
i just don't get why her actions contradict what she said to me today.
she was always the one frowning upon girls that lead guys on, saying those were shitty people.
guess she herself is one of those actually.
it's not like she said goodbye after our first date, no, she continued, after the first times she got those thoughts she said she wanted to get in control of them.
and now, poof, gone.
Had the calmest but most heartbreaking breakup today /adv/, what do now?
get drunk
What do you feel? sad? hopeless? mad? regretful? nervous? scared?
>>16588871
are you sure you were even going out with that girl? she sounds like a robot (you're the one in blue, right?).
Hey /adv/, so I just got back from a party weekend, and I have the most awkward, strangest, most confusing sexual encounter story ever. It fuses women, video games (weirdly), horrible timing, and very promiscuous girls all in one. Pull up a chair if you want. Everything I’m about to tell you is 100% genuine, I couldn’t make this shit up… I also need help on what to do next...
>Be me, 22
>About 7/10 in my own opinion, not ugly but not gorgeous
>Also, I’m usually horrible at...
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>I’m a bit nervous
>Just got out of a 2 year relationship with a strict gf who hates alcohol (and fun)
>Were still chatting and I soon mention I have a masseuse license
>She immediately takes her shirt of and lies down on the bed
>I straddle her so I can massage her back easier
>The SECOND I straddle her my date comes in
>I’m in half chub at this point and...
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>Anyways, we start making out
>I’m immediately uncomfortable
>Shes beyond aggressive
>Bites my shoulder so hard I’m bleeding
>Claws at my back
>The only thing that made me not kick her out was she gave me one hell of a blowjob
>After the blowjob she rips her clothes off and wants to have sex
>No condom? Fuck it whatever
>Shes still super aggressive but easier to handle with my dick in her
>Shes also loud as a howler monkey
>I’m afraid people are going to think I’m fucking weird and I just try to kiss her to shut her the fuck up
>It’s also important to know one of my brothers brought Super Smash Brothers Melee because its just our game we do
>While we’re fucking my best friend, well call Mason, comes in without knocking and asks me “Hey Bro, wanna smash?”
>I start laughing hysterically
>He didn’t realize what was going on because we covered ourselves
>I tell him “Uhhh…. later Mason”
>He says okay in a joyous tone
>After he shuts the door, I hear a muffled “Oh shit!” outside
>Everything is so fucking weird
>I can’t cum because I’m so taken back
>After a bit I bullshit to her and say “I’m so tired”
>She agrees and kisses me goodnight
>She turns around
>”Tomorrow night?”
>I nod but in my head I’m thinking “Fucking kill me”
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