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>dating girl for almost a year and a half and we haven't kissed on the lips yet
>says she's too shy so she won't let me kiss her there
She was a high school senior though and 17 when we started dating, I was a sophomore in college. So it wasn't about anything physical for like the first year I dated her, it was just about being together having fun with occasional hand holding and hugging when we saw each other and said good bye after dates. I'm the first person she's had a romantic...
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Break up. I'm a girl who took things slow in my first relationship, and even I think a year and a half is too long to fucking kiss. She sounds so annoying to be around, let alone to have as a partner
A year and a half to kiss?! You guys are just friends.
Sorry, anon. There's really not much you can do.
What are the ACTUAL keys to success?
>Inb4 DJ Khaled bullshit
>>16585042
If you are 16+ then you already know the keys to success.
there is no short cut other than luck.
>>16585042
Define what success is to you first, then you find what you need to do.
Do not believe that there is something as successful in everything. Define what you want and go for it. This is your life and you need to live it.
>>16585042
Discipline.
So I don't know what to do every time me and my gf have sex right in the middle of it when it's really getting hot she has to stop and pee??? Wtf other time I ask her to go before but she still has to go it suck I don't even get to cum
Pic related any fem Anoms have any thoughts
>>16584920
Maybe she's a squirter and she's scared or embarrassed
this is obviously a concealed dick showing off thread, but youre hitting her bladder with your big cock, yeah its so big. happy now?
/adv/ I am mad and want to know if It's justified, if I should really think of killing myself and not going through with life anymore.
I am never good at explaining myself and I have a history of being powerless and losing in everything even if I think I don't deserve it. When I was a kid for example, my friends wanted to smoke cigs, I brought them my dads lighter, we lit leaves on fire and started a forest fire, I took the blame for it all + went to juvy + the whole neighborhood hated me. Also, in math class a girl insulted me, I insulted her back to defend...
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>>16584890
That story was short and it sucked. You were a door mat for your so caIIed friends. That thing with the girI never reaIIy happened, you can't get time for her word against yours, come on now. They are scared shitIess that you wouIdn't have enough water either, they do NOT want to be in the media because something happened to you especiaIIy something simpIe Iike Iack of water. lt's hard to beIieve any of this.
Not having a girI is fine, you can get one easy if you reaIIy try.
You're...
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>>16584916
You don't understand,
first, it's all true.
my question is "how do I cope" because I just felt like killing myself and have tried before many times and have scars from it, now I want to try again.
and I am suicidal very day, stop pushing this "work out" macho bullshit. I got a girlfriend and am scrawny. all I'm saying is there's no way to work on yourself, it's just egotistical nonsense.
I am working on myself but life isn't even worth living....
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>>16584944
>there's no way to work on yourseIf
WeII this is a fucking stupid thread.
My fiance likes loli hentai--not strictly, but he definitely goes through phases.
Sometimes this bothers me more some times than others. While I'm unsure why that is, I do know that in my core this will quite possibly remain a sensitive subject for me, as I was sexually abused regularly from age 4-12 by my stepfather.
While I understand thinking of underage girls is against societal norms, I'm sure more men do so (in a sexual sense, of course) than admit IRL.
My fiance is honest with me about this, and we have talked about this fantasy and many...
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just dont have a daughter xD
>>16584827
>dad hits me and yells at me
>gf has s&m fetish
>triggered.jpeg
>even though apparently fine relationship, leave her and never date anyone again
OP the comparison isn't the best but its close enough. You just have to get past it because you really haven't if it's bothering you this much.
>Should I just accept that this is a fantasy of his (and will forever be) and share it with him sometimes for him to exercise it?
That sounds like a great idea. Figure out what he likes most about them and ask them why. An indepth answer might give you hints on how to steer him toward wanting you just as much.
So I was with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years. We started off long distance but we fell in love after meeting a few times and we made the effort to see each other every week(she lived 120 miles away at the time). We were very inlove and figured "fuck the distance" and we moved in to a small apartment with each other. She found a job here and eventually i started working with her and we never had any issues working with each other. About 7 months later we decided on moving to where she was from. I wanted to get out of my town and wanted to experience a new place anyways....
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About 3 days later she said she wanted a break when I moved. I didnt think much of it at the time. The day i moved(last friday) as soon as I started unpacking my stuff I had realized what I just done and for the first time in years I started crying. I tried texting her and calling but she was ignoring me. It was too late. I went back because i left my car at the house and i had told her originally id spend a whole week with her since i wasnt going to be seeing her for a while. I asked her why we couldnt do a ldr and she said because she needs a break from our relationship and...
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Tl;dr
Gf i lived with for 2 years wants her space but keeps mesaging my like a friend like nothing happened. What do?
Date other girls.
>Back in the day
>Was super skinny, former student athlete, had some muscle and was well spoken
>Women were super nice to me
>Now ex-gf even told me that she wouldn't be dating me if I weren't so good looking
>Laugh it off at the time
>Girls on the street would start conversations with me rather than vice versa
>Go for writing hardcore, devote my days...
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>>16584777
Same here. You tell me. I just want to meet this crazy psycho stalker chick in the subway again. She fucking nuts and weird and crazy but maybe kinda cool too. And she has a beard, which is hot.
I bet you treat attractive women better than unattractive women.
Because now you see how a portion of people can be..Maybe you have shit taste in women...IM 100% sure that not all women were cold to you when you gained a few..the ones that were kind to you probably weren't "sexy". Maybe you are the problem op
I bounce my legs up and down involuntarily, bite my nails, chew my lips, and push up my glasses literally 100% of the day. Should I see a doctor? Psychologist or neurologist?
People think I'm nervous but my legs just go. And I'll find myself spitting out a fingernail while I'm thinking "i'm doing pretty good on not biting - oh shit"
You should call the cops
Get the police involved. They'll know what to do.
>>16584740
do this
Wife was killed while visiting family in mexico by the cartels there. Been curious about death now.
Holy shit, give a story with all the details.
>>16584685
What do you want to know?
I am sorry for your loss.
To some extent, what you are feeling is, if not outright normal, then at least very common in the wake of a loved one's death. Especially one as close as a spouse. But it is still cause for alarm. Please, see a grief counselor.
Can you have a girlfriend if you have no sexual attraction towards her?
My girlfriend is traditionally "hot." Imagine a Victoria's Secret model, only 5'4" without the breast implants. Perhaps a fitspo girl. No complaints about her looks or body. I know she's attractive, but my penis feels nothing toward her. We have sex sometimes, once or twice a month, but at her initiation and it's not good as it could be.
At first I thought it was nervousness, but we've been dating 4 months and I still go flaccid when she takes off her...
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>>16584667
Talk to a doctor.
>>16584692
I did. It's one of the first things I did. He said I was fine.
>>16584698
Well, I'm not sure then. Talk to your gf about it and see if she is fine with no sex.
Also, do you masturbate? If so, have you tried stopping for a week or two?
>guy says he is traditional, only likes wholesome women with good values
>decide to test him...
>fucks me on the first date bareback
why are men such hypocrites and so easily manipulated? Is there a way to tell if a guy is a manwhore or a nice guy?
>>16584614
Wut. The test you should have done is make him wait. The wholesome guys will stick around longest. It worked for me.
They probably won't want someone who has already fucked other guys on the first date though.
>>16584632
are you saying he was actually testing me the entire time?
>>16584614
>Is there a way to tell if a guy is a manwhore or a nice guy?
There is, at least for the manwhores, but like anon said, you basically did the opposite of that. Weeding out the manwhores is a waiting game.
Weeding out the Nice Guys is much harder. No one has perfected that skill just yet.
Hey /adv/, so I think a younger coworker might be interested in me. I'm 27 and he is 19. He has a girlfriend, however he has a been a little flirtatious with me, always teases me a little, he's always offers to do some of my assigned work for me, which I don't particularly care for, but it is a very sweet gesture. When I was bringing out the trash a few days ago, we had a conversation and all of a sudden, he just kind of whipped his dick out and took a piss on the side of the building when the bathrooms weren't really that far away. It was night, so it was...
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>>16584612
Would you have sex with him? Is that something youd be interested in?
>>16584612
Wow. He sounds like such a catch. But then again, you're a desperate 27 y/o heifer who has the hots for a guy who whips his dick out and pisses on the side of buildings.
You both deserve the trailer you'll soon inhabit together.
>>16584613
I might, but I'd want to see what happens. The age difference puts me in a weird moral place. And the fact that he is seeing someone.
>>16584617
Thanks. :D In retrospect it was kind of hot.
I want to go see Star Wars but I don't have a single friend and never had a girlfriend.
How do I go alone without looking like a loser?
>>16584464
I know that picture is fake, but woah that's disturbing for some reason.
a loser will always look like a loser
just embrace it bro
It will be packed you insecure faggot, no one will notice because they will be in a dark room awaiting a great movie.
I have a friends but sometimes go to the movies because they talk too much or do stupid shit during the movie. It isn't a big deal anon.
>Went on a date with this girl I met online
>she's pretty nice we hit it off (I think)
>make plans to go see a movie
>we've been texting for the past two weeks, all of a sudden she stops responding
pic related: its the last message I sent, any way I can still salvage this? If so what should I say?
>>16584324
>pls respond
protip: never mention money issues to a potential gf
>>16584324
Why do you "think" you hit it off? What's wrong?
Don't mention money problems, but its a possibility she broke her phone or got back with an ex. It could be any number of reasons. I'd just give it a week or so message again asking if everything is OK n shes still interested...if you hear back, great... If not, move on, sucks but no big deal
Convince me to get over her, /adv/. Tonight's the last night before I can never, ever speak to her again and I just want to call her so badly.
Okay, whatever good things there are about her are present in most other people. A little searching and you will find another one to moon after.
convince yourself.
>>16584276
Don't just follow her around put her picture on a pillow and fuck a hole in it
