Guess you don't love her enough.

filthy stoner

It sounds like the real issue isn't weed-smoking, the problem is that you lie and sneak around, tell her what she wants to hear then do shit behind her back. That's pussy behavior and nobody likes that. Don't make promises you don't intend to keep, just because it'll get you out of an argument faster.

If you want to smoke weed, tell her that you enjoy it and you don't plan to stop. If she doesn't want to be with a drug user, she might leave you. Stop trying to have it both ways

Sounds like she just wants to fuck

>>16587822
she's not ready for anything emotional because it's too soon...... sooo you can either convince her to change her mind or watch her change her mind on her own (or of course she doesnt, but if she does) this ends in a couple months with her breaking her heart because if she wasn't emotionally ready now and then decides she is in a couple weeks or months, she isn't and hasn't had the years it takes to sort though that issue

>>16587873
her breaking *your* heart

halp

>>16587817
explain you thought you felt a personal connection with her friend and ask for her contact info or facebook

>>16587878
I am afraid she will be pissed because her friend got my attention and not herself. I dont think she would help me to get in contact with her friend

He might've reset the router and/or changed the password. Are you sure it was deliberate?

>>16587792
you wait two years until you're 19 and move out.

being that they pay your phone bill im sure its possible. Now go to sleep

What the fuck is wrong with you man

>>16587786
i don't talk to myself but who cares if you say something out loud instead of in your head. of course, i talk to myself in my head. these are thoughts.

no, it's not normal for the average 18 year old, or any guy to get horny cause his 5 year old touched his hand or sat on his lap or did anything at all. you have to remind yourself of just how fucked up this is until that realization sinks in and it goes away

>>16587800
I don't know.....

Unless your time is super valuable or you're a gullible idiot, I would wait and see how it plays out. If he starts with the wandering eyes or the lack of appreciation for you I'm sure you'd notice.

That's fucking gross.

I mean, 10 people at 20 is also pretty gross, but god damn.

I mean, it's obvious that he's never going to be 100% monogamous with anyone. So you either have to accept that and be comfortable with it, or accept that nothing serious will ever really work out between you two. It's not a "right" or "wrong" thing, it just sounds like you and him have completely different attitudes about sex and love.

In spades.

It's called a soul.

>>16587732

I guess. I don't really know what courage is. Btw courage and bravery are absolutely synonymous.

I don't know how "courage" is relevant to a person's everyday life. For example, you could say asking a girl out is courage, but really it's just common sense.

Or asking your boss for a raise is courage. In reality, it's just a risk assessment, etc.

it depends on the context, really

but I work in a shelter that deals with a lot of PDDs (potentially dangerous dogs) who have a history of aggression. some mild, some that have ripped children's faces off or mauled people or killed livestock

I'm usually the one that handles them because Im just not that bothered by it. I've been severely bitten twice, a husky ripped my arm open and I almost needed surgery, the second was a German shepherd that put me on crutches for almost a week. But even still, I don't get too nervous handling them.

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>>16587692

Sort of cucked. You really need to learn to tl;dr:

>OP an fag
>OP's bf is seeing his ex bf while cucking OP
>is OP a cuck
>gay threads are confusing because everyone is a "bf", harder to keep track of

Go with your gut. He's obviously not in this thing 100%. Enjoy it while it lasts, but you shouldn't be thinking too seriously or planning a future with this guy, if he's already behaving like this.

>>16587765
lel, sorry. Yeah I feel sort of cucked

>>16587774
True I guess I'm not planning our entire future together or anything, I just want to know that if it starts to get really serious that he would be interested in having it be really serious. Basically if I didn't plan on going back to the US to do a master's I would already want it to be more serious and I would ask him to stop doing all of those things. I just feel like it's unfair to ask...
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>>16587687
More info m8

>>16587696
like what

>>16587698
Does she fancy you? What do you want to achieve? How close you two are? She single?

This isn't me. I'm not actually a cop....I mean I AM a cop. I AM A MOTHA FUCKIN COP.

>>16587572
How do you start conversations with women offline?

> Inb4 you don't.

dont kiss her ass or act over excited. Just try to go for a nothing to lose attitude and try to show genuine interest but don't over do it.

>>16587477
Sometimes I'm in a room and the room suddenly gets completely brighter but actually it's the same lighting then it feels like an angel entered my body and I feel complete euphoria. This is all without drugs. What the fuck is wrong with me? I can't tell if it's real it feels real to me but everyone tells me not...the other day I saw a huge shadow man he towered over me then sat beneath me trying to read my mind I had to sit there for 10 minutes while he stayed repeating you can't read me you...
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Bump. Can just one person maybe give me an idea of what's wrong

You need to tell your doctor and seek help.

Man just dump her now, because if she's that kind of person the relationship isn't going to last.

>>16587440
what the fuck, this has to be bait, don't be a damn cuck OP

>>16587458
>>16587454
Thought I'd be getting replies like this. You guys seem very insecure about sex and that is fine, but come on, try to give better advice than just gut reactions.

Lots of people have open relationships. People I know have had them. Some have worked, some not. Just like regular relationships. Not gonna dump her because I feel a little uneasy about this when we have so much of worth in our relationship.

>>16587264
>lose weight
>stop being boring

Improve your body, and leave your comfort zone to develop new interests. There is no real magic trick to all of this.

It's not like you need to be an 8+ with a genius intellect to find a partner, but just improvement in any direction will help you out.

>>16587264
Find some activities to do with people. As many different activities as you are comfortable with, considering your temperament. Yoga, guided meditation, dancing, languages, sports and so on.

Learn what you like and dislike and learn how to express it. If you are too inhibited to handle change on your own, consider therapy that helps with that. I know Gestalt does that, as well as group therapy.

My guess:

It's not about them. You are a control freak. You need to control every little thing they do, know about everything they're doing.

Control freaks always feel betrayed because they suffocate the people they're in relationships with and the other person invariably reacts by either leaving or starting to lie and cover up to escape the prison

The common denominator in all of your problems is you.

>>16587262
>dat projection
seriously it doesn't even sound like you're replying to the same post. when you have people regularly acting out over small things like trying to talk to one-another, it's going to make hard to take what everyone else is saying without trying to analyse them.

Sell your possessions.
If you can't afford 50$ flea meds, rehome your cats.

Aww, poor cats. Taking them to the vet? wouldn't just buying some product like frontline be enough?
You could try killing some of the fleas one by one, I used to do that with one of my cats (but, she was white)

>>16587245
Contact shelter in your area. Maybe they can help and let you pay later