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My gf comes over and hangs out with me on the weekend every week. Two nights ago she was sleeping and I was really horny. I spent about ten minutes sliding her panties down and got them off. Put a condom on, flipped her on her back, stuck it in. It woke her up of course but she took it well. After, she wasn't mad at all, in fact she was more cuddly and clingy after that sex than most of our regular sex. I wasn't really knowing how'd she react, but her reaction almost disturbs me. Did you ever have a boyfriend that did stuff like this, how did you react?
You are a disgusting asshole, you tried to rape her. I hope you go to hell before you ever succeed with this shit.
This is really interesting because consensual sex with a partner who is asleep is sometimes considered as rape, which I think it should not be. But you gave it the disgusting twist of actually wanting her to not like it. Fucking weirdo. Do roleplay if you are into kinky shit instead of trying to rape someone.
>>16589461
I didn't had a boyfriend like that but one of my friends did, it was a guy who she started dating. She literally accused this lad of rape, looks like she's gonna win too, even though it's she said he said kind of thing
This is actually one of my fantasies. To be fondled/fucked while asleep/drunk/drugged. Maybe she liked it.
So i'm 24 and my hairline has receded and now the middle is beginning to thin.
Bald bros of /adv/ how did you cope with it? All my life I have been an anxiety ridden, and depressed person. Finally when I start working out and coming out of my shell I get hit with this and it pretty much set me back to square one.
How do women feel about bald men? One of the few things I had going for me was that I was decently attractive but I feel like being bald in the west is a sexual death sentence. Should I expect to lower my standards?
How long did it take you...
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I'm going bald I'm 33. I don't really care honestly. Not sure why I think because my self esteem has always been low and I got used to that being OK. It does bug me sometimes but luckily it doesn't too much.
I'm seeing a psychologist and she might be helping me. Long story short on that part look up "tapping method" or "EFT" and start doing it because I think this lady might be onto something.
She also brought up another good point that I'm "projecting" my thoughts. I know what that is but never actually...
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Baldie reporting in. Same thing here, except started receeding at 17. It sucks big time, bud the best way is to embrace it. Took me a year to shrug it off but it still sucks, you know.
Post a pic of yourself. I know a few guys who are absolutely sexy with receeded hairline, might be your case. Also having a beard helps alot. Working out aswell
>>16588810
I guess it just worries me. I know the vast majority of women, especially my age, are very superficial and prefer a man with a thick head of hair.
Like I mentioned before I've suffered from anxiety which had at times made me socially awkward. usually a girl would show obvious signs she liked me and even found it cute. I just feel like bald + awkward will just come off as creepy.
nearly got caught upskirting my sister, family strongly believes i wouldnt do something like that to my own sister. and now im crying everyday feeling guilty because they deserve a better son and i feel like a fucking monster, i can tell they feel bad for asking me.
i cant even look at any of them in the eye since it happened and neither can i look myself in the mirror.
should i give them the truth and potentially hurt them and never be seen the same and my sister would never completely trust me again? or should i just try to move on and swear i never do it, which...
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>>16588554
Are men really this uncontrollable Jesus christ
You're fucked. Time to admit to your wicked ways.
>>16588559
no.. it's just me
Okay /adv/, I want to know who I'm dealing with here.
1. How old are you?
2. Male or female (or whatever other gender you identify as)?
3. Occupation?
4. Do you have a degree in anything?
5. Do you mostly ask, answer or lurk on here?
6. How many people have you been in a (real, not online) relationship with?
7. How many people have you had sex with?
8. How many people have you kissed? (moms not included)
9. Do you have any hobbies that aren't in front of a screen?
10. What's your BMI?
11. Do you work out?
12. Do you have...
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1. 22
2. male (I would say mtf but I gave up on that)
3. unemployed
4. just high school
5. ask the most, answer as much as i can but not much
6. zero
7. zero
8. one
9. no
10. average to low
11. no
12. yes, I've met quite a few really amazing friends this year (yes, in real life)
13. A bit, but it should be better
By the way what's an "online relationship"? I'm a noob.
>>16586983
>1. How old are you?
-18
>2. Male or female (or whatever other gender you identify as)?
-Female
>3. Occupation?
-Student
>4. Do you have a degree in anything?
-Not yet
>5. Do you mostly ask, answer or lurk on here?
-Lurk and sometimes answer
>6. How many people have you been in a (real, not online) relationship with?
-None...
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>>16586983
1: 21
2: male
3: student
4: working on it
5: 99% lurk 1% answer
6: 1
7: 1
8: 4 (may be more, when I was drunk)
9: muay thai, going out, gym, roadtrips
10: 21, normal
11: I've been working out years ago 5x a week, had a 2 years break, strating slowly again this semester
12: yes a lot actually, improved from like 5 friends at university last year to beeing friends with almost everyone in my classes, since I've done a lot self improvement the last year (also going to clubs,...
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Who broke you and made you who you are now?
>>16582848
A series of unfortunate events
>>16582848
No one broke me and if you feel broken you need to pull your head out of your ass and fix it.
House music
How can I have sex with a woman without the necessity of being in a relationship with her ? (no hookers)
Hook up at a party.
>what is tinder
I will explain the algorithm:
>download tinder
>find a random slut
>prepare your game
>persuade her to come to your place
>???
>profit
>>16590896
>l'm Iazy, ugIy, sociaIIy retarded and can't get a gf
>Come up with ideas to get me a girI!
Fuck off man, you're pathetic and nothing we say can save you.
Does smoking weed make you stupid or smart?
>>16590840
Stupid
Stupid
Neither. It makes it fun to be bored, and do boring things. This is pretty nice if you don't abuse it. If you start blowing things off to sit around and get high, your priorities are fucked.
At the start of summer I met this one guy at a dance hall I frequent. He was new to the place, but I always had great, passionate dances with him. It helped brighten my spirits up, but it still took me a while to get into doing much more than just dancing. Which I really enjoyed because I just got out of a relationship back then. So whenever he'd ask to hang out , I was always hesitant. But he'd pull back and not push further -- which helped made me fall for him slowly.
Until fall rolled along, I wasn't ready to start seeing him. But I still was beginning...
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>>16590398
Yeah you fucked up, and you're never going to see him again.
You had plenty of time to fix things, and you let them go.
It's over, just accept you fucked up and move on.
>>16590398
The reification of desire is homologous with the ideology of power/knowledge.
>I don't know why I said that
Because you are quick to blame other people when you have a communication problem.
>I just found out that she cheated in an unrelated relationship in her past
I did the right thing to dump her on the spot, right?
>>16590118
theres no right or wrong. one of you was going to dump the other for some stupid reason at some point in the foreseeable future, so if that sort of thing bugs you, better to dump her now than have her put up with you freaking out about her past relationship.
I cheated once in 2011. havent ever cheated since.
>>16590118
Yes
>>16590118
Well if you can get a new girl pretty soon then yeah.
Hopefully she wasn't in love with you.
I feel bad. Should I feel bad?
1/2
The need is real.
>>16589928
2/2
We went on 3 dates. I didn't try to make a move after the first when she said she likes to take things slow. We talked about it for a bit in text and even saying the word sex freaks her out. We're both young 20s. It's not just sex though, I eventually need hand holding and cuddles. Which I really don't think I'll get here.
>>16589928
Hahaha oh wow. It sounds like OP is doing this girl a favor by breaking up with her. I wouldn't want to deal watch your overbearing bullshit either.
Hey /adv/, it's my birthday.
Just gonna be blunt, I don't like this day. For years, its never been good and its right next to Christmas, so anyone with similar birthdays should know they almost don't exist. It pretty much just gets blended in with Christmas.
None of my old friends bothered to say anything; again. Just another year, save for my ex best friend.
The only real signifier I have for this is my online name. I'm that guy who's best friend watched me get jumped, started dating my sister and took her virginity, all against...
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You're totally in the right to be shitty to him. That's some fucked up stuff to do to a friend and your friends sister... Just ignore him anon
>>16590449
come on OP. Have some dignity.
I understand that this guy is your only friend, but he's not a friend, amigo.
Fuck him.
I'd say what you've probably heard before. Get your shit together.
1. Ditch this fucker
2. Stop caring so much about what other people think of you
3. Start eating healthy
4. Start going to a gym. There you can easily get a workout-buddy. Might turn in to something awesoem.
Best regards,
Anon who had a birthday a few days ago and also was...
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>>16590483
You've got it a bit backwards, my man. I've dropped this guy a while ago. Its the fact that my sister can't get away from him now, they do that stupid on and off relationship shit and have been doing so for years. Every time I visit her, I hear about how they're not seeing eachother anymore and have decided to stop being romantic or some bullshit. Then, when I'd go on some app or social media, I'd see them kissing or something and now I've gotten rid of it all. Its all just shitty...
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Why are stepfathers so shitty
stepfathers are pretty awesome except toward shitty children
Your question isn't vague at all OP.
>>16590248
they're awesome, back the fuck up
Idk where is guys who maybe like me.
It's just random chance. It's not like we wear that kind of stuff on a sign around our necks.
>>16590088
>go to craigslist
>post ad
>be specific about men sending pictures, etc. maybe even link totheir facebook profile so you can see they arent creepers
>pick the hottest one whose ideas of sex match upwith yours
alternatively
>go to the section of mens posting
>theres some qts there
>message...
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Like what? Are you looking for a bf or a hook up?
>1/2
Why are men so adamant about staying friends with a girl they like?
For almost every guy I've met in my entire adult life, the second things go sour between them and a love interest of theirs -- is the second they believe they have to cut everything off with her.
I have never, EVER been able to understand why staying friends with her would be such a problem. No matter how often I try to debate it with them, whether to call them out on their contentious behavior, or I'm earnestly trying to understand where they're...
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>>16590076
>2/2
And because they seem so conflicted, it implies that they really don't want to go through with it. So I try to appeal to that, and attempt to convince them to just stay friends with her. That's the least they could do, and she's at least entitled to their friendship.
But no, this ends up sparking arguments with even the sweetest, nicest of my guy friends. Hell, I even begged some of them before to at least please, keep her as a friend. I've honestly...
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>>16590078
Because hanging with other dudes are easier than with the OPPOSITE sex. You don't have to constantly explain yourself. Your bro understands with a simple nod. Kinda like how you can't understand this situation.
Also guys want their own gf/wife, any time they spend with a female who will not be a mate, is time away from finding a mate.
>>16590094
Pretty much this.
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So my Dad told me today he watched another shitty "documentary" and now is 100% sure that the Moon landing was a hoax.
He brought up the usual shit about the Van Allen belt, "why didn't they go back" etc and I refuted every point and also gave him reading material, but he won't listen.
I literally have zero respect for people who think like this. None.
What do?
Get over it, man. It's basically just a hobby. If he does his job and takes care of his family, it doesn't fucking matter what he thinks about the moon landing. It's inconsequential. Some people just find this stuff interesting and like to read different viewpoints, just let him have his fun
Kill yourself for giving a shit
>>16590063
get over it. has he earned your respect in any other way? perhaps by raising you well, giving good advice, buying you nice things, not treating you like his personal punching bag, etc?
if he brings it up a lot, try to embrace it. conspiracy theories are an interesting topic of discussion, even if you dont believe em. i dont believe the earth is flat, but i bring it up alllllll the fucking time, show people the map, how it would work if it was flat, etc. i love conspiracy theories, even the whacky outlandish...
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