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Any fellow anons have schizophrenia I was diagnosed recently any tips advice??? I am thinking "now what" keep going with my life and take meds?, I heard some mixed reviews about Seroquel any alternatives?
you see any spooky desu?
>>16596707
I don't understand do I see scary hallucinations? from time to time now yes
>>16596707
kek
So I'm done with finals, 1 A 3 B's.
Not so bad, the problem is my father, he wants me to get all Aces in everything.
Yes I am responsible for these grades and it's actually good but my dense motherfucking father doesn't appreciate my work, he'll say good but he won't mean it, he have every right to get mad because at the end he is the one paying for the fees but still, I worked hard to get these grades
Since I found out I still didn't tell him and feeling depressed because I hate it every time he gets made and shit.
What...
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>he have every right to get mad because at the end he is the one paying for the fees
If you can't meet his conditions, tell him to stop paying or shut up.
>>16596677
My dad is the same way, and I'm in the same situation you are.
Honestly, since he is paying, he has every right to know your grades and feel however he wants to feel about them. Telling him to fuck off jeopardizes your funding and not telling him is going to piss him off if he finds out.
DESU, your best route is to tell him and then just accept his getting angry and work harder next semester. 1 A and 3Bs isn't terrible, but honestly isn't that great either.
>>16596723
>Honestly, since he is paying, he has every right to know your grades and feel however he wants to feel about them. Telling him to fuck off jeopardizes your funding and not telling him is going to piss him off if he finds out.
You're going to have decide if being emasculated and emotionally blackmailed is worth saving a little bit of money. You're actually being infantilized by not paying yourself, too.
IMAGE NOT RELATED, just some random wallpaper I picked because last time I typed some stuff it got vanished because I didn't pick an image.
If you were told, in no uncertain terms there was nothing you could do, your time left was limited.
Would you tell your spouse? Would you tell your family? Friends?
Or would you put on a brave face, keep it to yourself, try to make life as normal and happy filled with as many good memories as possible till you couldn't keep it to yourself anymore?
>>16596674
>being vague the post
>>16596684
vague? Do you even know what that word means. Nothing vague in my question but here I'll spell it out for you.
If you knew you were going to die, would you say something. Ex, you're told at best you have maybe 6 months left. Less vague now?
>>16596697
>The Sequel: Bring Salty the Post
About a month into a new relationship (both at university). She is a stunning skinny blonde girl, and she is sex obsessed. She has major kinks that I already know about. Anyway. Yesterday, I went to her flat in London (we live in the same halls at uni). I stood outside and heard her having sex - I listened to the door and realised it was her ex boyfriend. I've never met him but I know of him. I heard them fucking, moaning, her gagging (probably from BJ). This turns me on like crazy, I went back a couple of hours later last night and I fucked her, haven't told her I...
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>>16596606
Its a safe for work board you idiot
>>16596606
Fuck sorry how fix
This is a work safe board you dumbass.
I've already bought my partner his Christmas present, but I really want to make him something.
The thing is though, I can't think of what to make him. I've looked online but there are so many options that are either too hard, take too long, or the resources are too expensive. And I'd rather hear ideas from you guys.
So /adv/, what can I make for my partner?
>>16596552
a cool ps4/xbox game both of you like and can play together
>>16596585
Good idea, however OP wants ideas on handmade gifts.
I'd offer ideas but I'm not creative in the slightest.
what is your partner into?
So... there are many articles about not talking to your ex at all in order to get them back. In your experience: is it better to keep waiting until they appear, or should i talk to her in a friendly way to let her know i'm still there for her? I simply don't want to miss a chance..
>>16596539
MOVE THE FUCK ON, "NOT TALKING TO THEM" ISNT ABOUT GETTING THEM BACK ITS ABOUT FORGETING ABOUT THEM SO YOU CAN MOVE ON... SHIT MAN
>>16596544
Well I don't think it is so simple... i've usually been in the other side with other girlfriends and they come back after a few weeks not talking to them. It makes them see very weak, and you can do pretty much whatever you want in that position... now the thing is i dont want to look weak, i want her to realize i'm a good shot. Truth is i've never returned with an ex before, and i don't know how it works.
>>16596544
His wish is to get them back, moron. Don't advice on "How do I get over?" It's not what he's asking.
OP, how long since you broke up? How long have you been on no contacr whatsoever?
I met this girl online and she lives ln my area and wants to hook up. She sent me multiple pictures of her and I used tineye andand some other reverse image search sites and they found 0 matches. Should I take the chance?
>Pic related
>it's her
If needed I'll post other pictures of her
>>16596409
She'll probably be disappointed but go for it.
>>16596409
she looks trashy, prolly has warts and hep C
only fuck shy rich girls under the age of 25 when meeting girls online anon...
She looks like bad news and crazy.my neighborhood is full of girls that have the same needy psycho smile.
If you touched your niece innaapropriately , and you are really sorry about it , and worried you could've hurt her or done permenant damage , should you talk to your sister about it?
You gonna get indicted, playa. Find an attorney and don't talk to anyone about anything ever, Holmes.
I'm fucking serious. Even a single "heartfelt confession" will completely ruin your fucking case.
>>16596393
How does a 17 yr old aquire a lawyer without attracting unwanted attention?
>>16596402
Oh damn, how old is the niece?
Depends on how American you are, Holmes.
What are you giving your significant other for Christmas (if anything), /adv/?
chastity belt
>>16596264
A toilet paper sheet with"I owe U another gift" on it, because I wanted to offer flowers other stuff but they won't survive through the mail and we can't see each other before March.
>>16596264
>comic book of favorite superhero
>wallet
>shirt
Thinking of getting him something else or making him something but I'm undecided.
Any ideas?
We've been together for 1.5yrs, is all that too much?
How should I handle this? My ex is an extremely manipulative and calculating person. Things ended on extremely bad terms due to him being an asshole. I haven't spoken to him in about 3 years. Out of nowhere he posts on my facebook (we are not friends on there and have had absolutely no contact through social media). My rational thoughts are telling me to just delete his post. My possibly overthinking thoughts are that somehow my deleting his post will give him satisfaction because he knows I acknowledged him in some way. And he is weird and calculating like that. I want...
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he sounds like me, so what would piss me off the most is if you completely ignore it
>>16595994
Sounds like a good way to go about it.
You are your own problem. Why should you care if he feels satisfaction from your deletion of the post or not? He is not a part of your life and his satisfaction or lack thereof should have no bearing on your own feelings. You are expending energy by maintaining a grudge and hatred against him, which is even evident in the your OP. You need to learn to let go of your hatred or it will continue to be what controls your thoughts and actions.
Guys, how can I change back the way threads look? I had to reset my settings, and now for some reason my threads look like this.
I want it so that when I click on a reply, it opens up the reply in a new, darker box inside the original post, not this reddit-esque looking format.
>>16595982
You using 4chanx?
>>16596022
Yep.
>>16596026
damn, mine does it on default so you want it to look like t his?
I'm a faggot from the states. I have a friend of a European country. His brother is at college (my friend is still a high school kid and I am a freshman) and he tells me how his brother is really disliking his major/the job(s) linked to his major and he is thinking about dropping out of college.
Is it rude of me to say/imply that his brother is being picky/unrealistic? Really, most people dislike their jobs and they can't quit it as they have bills to pay. Also, most people who say that they enjoy work are lying/implying that it's not the worse job out...
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It's ignorant of you to say. People are allowed to change their mind about their major or career without getting the ok from some guy in the states who probably doesn't have any experience in that field.
It's rude to say because it's not your place. You have no say in his decision making and you shouldn't cause drama about it.
>>16595937
He's thinking about dropping out of college? What can he do besides flipping burgers at McDonalds?
I think he is just being picky, that is all. Can you name a job which does not have a single shitty aspect? Most people dislike their jobs and it's the same worldwide. My friend's brother is nothing special.
So let's say a woman starts showing signs of interest. How do you proceed from here?
Ask her out
>>16595857
So let's say I invite her to a movie/restaurant/whatever. What do I do next? Obviously visiting some public place together doesn't turn her into your girlfriend.
>>16595864
Go out a few times. When you feel it's right and want to make it official just ask her if she would like to be your gf.
Don't over think this shit.
How would you define your moral philosophy? Is it important for you to have one?
>>16595780
Yes, very important. Moral relativity these days is fucking a lot of shit up.
I guess I'm a Stoic
I'm not even sure how to define morals really. Most of my actions are guided mostly by logic.
My gf just called me a bit buzzed and said she wants to break up because "she has nothing to offer" (economically).
>she's 24
>just graduated from civil engineering
>basically lives from the scholarship because she doesn't want her parents to give her money
Long story short... She wants to do a major, and needs to work her ass off, so she'll work in a cruise line for 4 months, fast and easy money, or so I've been told. Then do the major and live on scholarship while at that. She's uncomfortable because she has no job, no income (just the scholarship money) also basically told her old folks to stop giving her money, because she wants to be independent.
>I'm 25, mechanical electrical engineer
>Currently employed/developing a biogas project for a pig farm
>Also building up my craft beer brewery from scratch.
>Want to do a master, but job and my brewery won't allow me, at least not for a while.
>Basically love this girl like I've never loved anyone before, I really don't mind at all the money side, could live in a tent eating soup, she makes me happy.
She said she felt really bad, that she hates her situation and that she wants to put on hold our relationship for 6 months to a year until she gets to a economic/professional state in which she's comfortable in, also tried to encourage me to "find a girl that's worth it", to use tinder or to just hang out until I meet someone (WTF).
Opinions, advice, what the hell just happened.
She wants to party and sleep around during the cruise and is too much of a coward to break up with you for real.
>>16595800
Really doubt it man, because the cruise thing is not even for sure, is just one option. Besides, she'll be working, so the party hard on the cruise sounds a bit unrealistic.
Also, nice dubs!
>>16595773
>so she'll work in a cruise line for 4 months
Are you really surprised that she wants to break up given this? Think it through a second.
