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>Be me
>20yo
>Male awkward as fuck beta
>Never fucked
>Never kissed
>To make everything worse, start balding hard
>what do?
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>get done with being a virgin
>start acting confident and get more "outgoing"
>start talking to female coworker
>she's being really friendly
>talks to me everyday
>worries about me (calls for lunch, etc)
>don't know what to do
>she's just being friendly or there's something more?
>how to approach her saying i like her?
>if i get to kiss her, how to dont look like a never touched lips loser?
Balding is bad. This is coming from a guy who had loads of beautiful long blond hair but started going bald at 18s.
Let me tell you something: yea you probably do look better with full hair (who doesnt), but it is only a problem for you if you make it one. Dont let it become your insecurity and embrace it. It took me like a year to overcome my balding. Lifting helps. Godspeed bud
>>16577067
By the way, getting a beard makes up for it alot. It just takes some time to come to terms with having facial hair instead of head hair
»16577067
problem is, im a fucking 6/10 at most.
bald i would probably be 3/10...
fml really
Ideas for presents for blokes for under £5 or whatever that is in dollars? I'm really stuck on generic piss cheap gift ideas and I have married in to a big arse rabbit family and all eyes are on me to turn this out :/ also, can't get food because nut allergies
not enough information provided.
A good gift requires thought. you are clearly trying to avoid that.
>>16576999
I need generic gifts not something amazingly thoughtful, I know next to nothing about these people.
>>16577006
male or female, age, relation
I am really good at this sometimes.
Any home remedies to calm anxiety or depression??
Undertale.
suicide
Chocolate.
How the fuck can I start being liking 3D women? My whole life I've only liked 2D.
>>16576656
>my whole life I've only liked 2D
Alright, you either have a shit memory or you are a liar.
Confirmed for underage.
>>16576668
I'm dead serious. I've never had any kind of feelings, sexual or emotional, for a real girl.
>be me
>8" 1/2 penis
>gf vagina isnt 8" 1/2 deep
Honestly considering breaking up with her. Is this what woman feel like having sex with dicklets. I just wanna go balls deep. Ideally I want a girl who's around 8" 1/2 deep but mainly Im just tired of this half thrusting bullshit. My penis grew a little since Ive last done it but it wasnt enough for a sudden emergence of this problem.
>>16576577
No girl is that deep, dipshit.
>>16576581
Vaginas are around the same size as penis's.
3-5 inches unaroused and expand 3 or so inches aroused.
I shouldnt be that hard to find a girl around my size.
>>16576602
Have you tried taller and larger girls. Find a big boned 5'10" chick whose 160lbs but not actually fat.
How do I stop feeling shit about every girl that is more attractive than myself?
I try to elevate my self-esteem and do all things that are usually adviced but nothing really work long-term and I cannot help but measure and compare myself to majority of good-looking women I see.
>inb4 get hobbies/do something with worthwhile with your life
Already doing that for years, it hasn't changed a thing
This is relevant to my interests.
You have a thinking problem. Maybe you should go see a thinking professional.
>>16576307
Those are most likely to come up with bullshit like: just believe in yourself, everyone is unique, do things that you love and develop hobbies.
Oh and exercise of course.
I want a threesome but not with my boyfriend.
We are not really close or rather we have had many arguments so I would feel way too insecure with him...what do?
>>16575540
Then break up with him, retard.
>>16575540
>We are not really close or rather we have had many arguments
Break up
Break up with him, you disgusting skank
I need to know if I don't love my gf anymore or if i'm just going through a bad phase.
So here are the details:
>I really loved her in middle school (we were 15)
>made a move, got friendzoned.
>5 years after that, had two girlfriends, just after breaking up with the last one, made another move on school crush, succeed.
>our 5 years anniversary will be this February, so it's 10 years since we first met.
>Really loved her with a passion in the beginning, but some of it seems to have wear out
>she's noticing cuz one time she cried and said she was afraid of losing me.
>she's totally in love with me, like, totally. She'd say she loves my everyday, even buy me stuff.
>sex has been so-so lately.
>I like being around her, cuddling, playing videogames together, etc. But she doesn't quite turn me on as much anymore.
>I don't really like anyone else atm, but there's a girl in college who turns me on a fucking lot.
>my gf is friends with her too and probably noticed cuz she said she was jealous, maybe it's the way i talked to her? stopped talking more than necessary with the girl to avoid problems.
>don't want to hurt her or myself, so I have to be sure before I do anything.
How do I save this relationship or make sure I need to break up?
op here, forgot an important bit:
>i've been dealing with slight depression lately (college too hard, no money, parents annoying, etc), so maybe it's that?
5 years is way too much time
>>16574787
Very likely
I know, another 'my bf cheated on me' thread.
But seriously, this is destroying me and I'm not coping very well.
My bf cheated on me.
I'm trying to forgive him because I really love him and I know he loves me, we want to get married and have a life together.
But I'm finding it really hard to trust him again. I've always had issues trusting people, and I know I will trust him more in time, but he still talks to the girl he cheated on me with.
A couple of weeks ago he told me he doesn't talk to her anymore but I know for a fact he does because I've seen her name pop up from messages when he's been on fb on his phone/computer, she tags him in stuff, and comments on statuses and such.
It makes me so insecure and anxious, to the point where I'm physically ill because I can't stop thinking about it, thus worsening my already awful mental health.
She lives on the other side of the world (he cheated while living overseas for a while) so I know he can't actually sleep with/see her again until she visits our country. I don't want to flat out ask him to cut all contact because I'm not like that, but this stupid fucking bitch was (and still probably is) in love with him.
What the fuck do I do?
How do I bring this up with him? How do I talk to him about it without it turning into a fight?
Is there a certain way I should/shouldn't approach this?
How can I help myself trust him more?
Is there anything he should be doing to help?
Please help, I'm stuck and any advice is very much appreciated!
I was in a relationship for 7 years. Got cheated on in the 4th year. Loved him desperately and wanted to make it work.
He never did it again. I never got over it. I couldn't. I knew it was petty and I knew things were better. I knew he was sorry. But the hurt never really went away and it eventually was one of the factors in the crumbling of our relationship.
Just end it. Things never go back to how they were. It will never be the same.
>>16574002
I've cheated on my girlfriend recently. Been with her for a good 4 years. She broke up with me and I hate to see how devastated she was, and I feel like shit about it. I'm doing all I can to make it up to her but it may take a lot of time, and who knows it won't ever work out because it may never be the same it used to be.
I really want her to love me again so bad. I've been seeing her again to talk about things, I've been open and honest with her and I even took her out for dinner for old times sake. We actually had a lot of fun, and we even had sex the next morning, probably the best I've ever had with her. We agreed to not tell anyone we know close to us. I still love her a lot and I deeply regret what I've done, and it has made me genuinely depressed. She lives 100 km away from me which is about a one hour drive. Not too bad but you could call it a long distance relationship, which makes it even more difficult. We talk to each other on Skype a lot nowadays and whenever I see her we tend to have a lot of deep and sad conversations about what happened. I'm trying to be really honest and open to her. She wants to forgive me this but it is extremely hard for her and she fears that it won't ever be the same.
I try to do a lot of things to make her feel happy again. I'd do anything to get her back. I know I can't undo my mistakes but I really really really hope time can heal it and she will trust me again over time. It does not matter how long it takes, as long as she is willing to accept it eventually and return to our exceptional relationship we once had.
She was like those one of a kind girls, the ones you meet once in your life. The ones you can share everything with and do weird shit with you would never be able to do with anyone else. And still being able to make each other laugh regardless of the depressing situation we're in.
I fucking miss her. Sorry just wanted to share this here
>>16574002
>but he still talks to the girl he cheated on me with
uwotm8
>weeks ago he told me he doesn't talk to her anymore but I know for a fact he does
UWOTM8
>to the point where I'm physically ill bec
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yeah, youre probably going to need to gtfo of there. if you cant handle the situation to the point that your health is being effected, thats a good sign that its time to move on. on the other hand, what did you expect him to do while living overseas for months? go without? if he gave any kind of a fuck about this other girl, he would have stayed where he was, dont you think? unless hes a big wiener and chose what was easier over what he really wanted.
>u are breaking up with your girlfriend and the
>Last thing u say in the chat befor cut contact
not more than 10 words
Lets go anon make ur life woth living
The last thing I said to the girl I'm currently still getting over was something along the lines of, "Fuck you, I love you, and goodbye." At least I meant it...
>>16573975
It's all fucked.
Nothing's an exception, child.
>>16573975
"you should probably get tested."
Is it normal for women to stop respecting your wishes and boundaries when they've lost respect for you or are these behaviors signs of personality problems/disorders?
>>16577456
Yeah people usually stop respecting you if they stop respecting you.
What the fuck is wrong with you OP? DId you even read what you wrote?
Could be either or both, I've dealt with both situations. More specific?
>>16577462
I mean is it instinct for every woman to do so or is this only the case with toxic women?
Sandnigger here. Just curious, what is it that I must do to make /pol/ like me?
>>16577034
Kill yourself
>>16577034
renounce islam, condemn race mixing, endorse trump. and poo in the loo, for fucks sake.
>>16577034
Most of /pol/ will hate you no matter what, but a large portion of them would like you if you stayed out of western countries and worked hard to make the middle east not a shit hole.
Okay so here's the thing.
I got a job this summer in a local restaurant as an assistant cook. I'm very new to all that as I literally got off school for that shit and I've hoped to get experience while helping other cooks out. I was also promised I was never going to be left alone to lead the entire kitchen by myself. However, it turns out my boss expected much more from me than I imagined: he expected me to learn how to make everything he has on the menu in literally a few days and often left me alone without no one helping me, and often it would end in a massive disaster. Because of this he literally put so much pressure and anger into me that I would come home from work extremely depressed. I've also had no free day since july up until a few days ago, and the working time are insane (up to 12 hours per day, 9 hours average)
To top it off, I've been promised a paycheck of approximately 440$, but was only given 280$ every month. He had temporarily closed the place down due to lack of tourists, and also didn't pay my last 2 paychecks because he claims he's indebted and can't pay it all off.
Should I leave this place and look for a job somewhere else? Or should I be patient and wait it out because he promises "I will prosper" if I stay at his restaurant once he reopens. I don't know, all this pressure, it's too much for me.
tl;dr
>got a job as an assistant cook
>boss expected me to be a professional in 2 days
>pressures me to insanity
>makes me work an insane amount of hours
>doesn't pay as much as he promised
>wants me to continue working at this place in these conditions
wat do?
>>16576969
What fucking country are you living in? I'm from Europe and there'd be a bloody scandal if someone worked under such conditions
>>16576996
I'm also European. But this is not a country-wise problem, because usually when I tell this to other people, they can't believe under which conditions I work in. The place is privately owned, so the boss does with it - and his employees - how he pleases. If he orders us to cook for his wife and kids at home - you better fucking do it or you'll get fired.
And yeah, this shit happens a lot.
If the details of your pay are not written down and signed by both of you on some kind of contract, you are fucked and a fucking retard.
Unless you are working under the table, you need this shit in writing. If he fails, you take him to court and fuck him.
As it is now, it sounds like you are not going to make it whether you want to or not. There is no "prosperity" to be found in being an assistant cook unless you are working for some really upscale place.
That "indebted" shit is just a very convenient excuse that appeals to moralfags like you. His debts are not you're fucking concern. You do the work, he pays you however he can. If he can't pay you, it's because the place is going out of business or he knows you're a sucker.
Use your brain for a minute. Do you think a restaurant can prosper with an owner who is so fucking retarded at his financial book keeping that he can't pay his employees due to debts? Wages are part of the financial formula you use when you do business. The fact that he can't pay you means he's retarded.
You will burn yourself out if you stay. My advice? You stay and get as much training as you can from this guy. Learn some nice dishes, whatever, then bail the fuck out with the knowledge because you definitely ain't going to be leaving with much of a paycheck.
>Be me
>Be 18th Birthday
>No happy birthdays, no gifts, no cards, no nothing.
>Not a word from "family"
>Not a word from "friend"
>Get over that
>Dropped out of college due to depression, paranoia, schizophrenia, anxiety and stress in general.
>Spent last 4 months alone in my room
>Cry every day
>Realise how lonely you are
>Mom doesn't even know you exist
>Feel like if you just vanished, no one would notice.
>Realise that you have no friends.
In reality, I wake up, get on my PC, take a shit or piss as well as eating and drinking here and there, then go back to sleep.
No one in real life has contacted me in the last 3 1/2 months.
I'm literally invisible.
I'm spending Christmas alone.
I need advice for fixing this...
Pic related
Sorry, it's pretty deep but I thought the best place to turn to would be 4chan.
>>16576841
>bet place to turn be 4chan
Nah bruh
Anyways... What does a more desirable life look like in your minds eye?
>>16576841
>Hire a whore
>Fuck her brains out
>Have a great Christmas
Easy
go out?
Should I wear jeans or chinos tomorrow?
btw I have no gf
>>16576825
nice jeans
>>16576825
Maybe just kill yourself instead?
chinos.
whats wrong with you?
