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Got my car inspected, it failed and for BS about my transmisson mount having a crack in it, they want to take the whole damn thing out. Not going to happen.
Any northern VA fags have a non-cunt inspector friend or some such nonsense?
>>16576821
Maybe it actually does have a crack and you're actually retarded?
>>16576821
NoVA here.
How do you know your shit isn't fucked up?
>>16576821
>transmission is falling out
>the state is the cunt in this situation
OK is it me or is this sentence grammatically incorrect?
The error starts with "one." It's either
>The Marine Corps is the one
or
>The Marines are the ones
The former is better since earlier in the comment the Army (as in the branch of the armed forces, not the individuals in it) is mentioned.
The use of do/does should then follow.
>>16576533
The Marines are the ones who do it better.
>>16576533
ikn where to start
So i started this new job in construction and the ppl i work with , all seasoned and know there shit.I honestly just started construction and dont know shit , my spanish isnt all that great which is what they speak , so im literally just winging it. If that wasnt bad enough im a slow learner , and these ppl have no patience and arent really trying to teach.... Ive asked for help and my reply was literally "no , i dont get paid to teach , figure it out" but yet whenever i do something they correct me or simply take the job im doing away and start doing it , as if to...
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everyone's been through that in that specific workplace so deal with it and stop crying.
also, why are you in this job if you aren't cut out for it? don't cash checks that your ass can't cash.
>>16576364
Get a job that isn't for fags that didn't even get a G E D.
>>16576364
Shut up, faggot. You'll be fine in a couple weeks.
Is it wrong if I start a religion named 'Cookie Cutter Lord'?
>>16576356
>Is it wrong if I start a religion
Yes
What makes you think you can?
>>16576356
We already have enough of those stupid beliefs since the Stone Age. People who believe in elephant-headed superhumans, talking bushes, resurrecting vulture food...
We don't need yet another one.
So there is this new guy in my work team that is aprox c rank autist. Since i used to be kinda
> inB4 "used to be" "posting on 4chan"
like that i tried to help him get used to this place. Today i was talking to him about some unimportant stuff and that dude started calling me names. I thought whatever and let it slip.
But later i walked around a corner and heard him talking sh!t about me to my coleagues.
> nerd rage activated
As i'm giving him a piece of my mind he's just...
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>>16576102
See if he is genuinly sorry
>>16576111
Will consider for them trips.
Thing is there isn't lot of plp irl you can even mention 4chan and your powerlevel. I don't know about you /adv m8, but lot of time i tire of this fear of being revealed to be f/a/ggot.
Hell this is like second time i dare to go full honesty on this site and thats online.
I wanted to share this shit with someone not through keyboard and this is how it's goona be?
>>16576102
Wtf is this shit
I have failed as a student. I have failed as a son. I have failed as a person. I'm fat and ugly, every girl I meet either friendzone me or look at me as some kind of monstrous troll. I have failed in Darwinism in every way as possible.
I feel like I want to kill myself. I'm doing the world a favour.
You're a fucking idiot.
are you dead yet? no?
then you haven't failed and you still have time. You're just too much of a piece of shit to get off your fat fucking ass and doing the shit that needs to be done instead of wallowing in self pity.
Go right ahead and hang yourself right fucking now or get your head out of your ass.
I once put myself in a similar mindset. The best way to overcome it is to realize you are now in "don't-give-a-fuck-istan". So you're not who you imagined yourself as being... It's tough to realize but at least you're seeing it now rather than fifty years down the road when it actually is too late to change it.
Find the good virtues within yourself and then find ways to exemplify them in your day-to-day life. Stop caring about "friend zones" Shit... friends are a good thing to have... They won't turn out to be a cheap slut...
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I've tried everything. I've tried hard-work. I've tried to be humble, noble.
Nothing happened.
Hello /adv/
I really don't know where or how to begin. I guess my problem(s) stem from alcohol and drug abuse or, more specifically, possibly the underlying mental health issues that could have caused me to self-medicate to such a high degree. If this kind of topic interests you, please continue reading and maybe offer up some advice, a kind word of support, something to make me laugh, or even make a donation ((I am being upfront about that ([email protected]), but everything else is appreciated equally or even more so)).
To preface with a little background,...
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>>16575806
After the last incident that left me homeless, I decided (was forced to decide) that I needed to try something different. I put myself into an inpatient rehab, initially to try to impress the judge and stay out of jail, but after that 2 month stay I decided to keep going. After the first 9 months of being clean, I was a fucking mess. I could barely leave my room at my parents’ house (she was kind enough to take me in since I was trying to help myself). I was depressed and anxiety was through the roof. So... I decided to get help for that too. I started seeing a therapist and also a psychiatrist, hoping that I could "beat this too" and be able to act "normal" again. After another 6 or 9 months or so, I started to feel exponentially better.
No one would hire me, so I decided to go to college. The last 4 semesters I have been working on a software development degree, but after adding some web development courses to my curriculum, I decided I'm more comfortable with the visual aspect of latter rather than the logical aspect of the former. I also enjoyed learning about network management.
That puts me to today. It’s been almost 3 years and I have been feeling like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. I still have not been hired. I constantly interview, sometimes getting to the 4th, 5th, even 6th interview and not get the job. I interview for jobs that pay nearly 6 figures and jobs that are part-time at a pay rate of $9/hour. No love.
Has anyone else been down this road of personal discovery and self-improvement only to have nothing happen? Is there something that is glaring in my story that I am not seeing that anyone can point out? Can anyone relate to dealing with drug and alcohol abuse? Have you been able to drink socially/moderately? I feel more disconnected than ever and wonder what the fuck I am doing wrong. I have no money, no job, and no real friends anymore, nothing.
shameless
no one can relate?
My fiancé has been paying my cellphone bill and expenses since last February ever since I got laid off from my job. I had been going to interviews and job hunting with no success, so he had been paying for pretty much all my expenses. I don't like it and it makes me uncomfortable since I'm used to paying for myself, but he insists that he wants to help me out and goes out of his way to pay for me and says that I don't have to pay him back. I didn't want his help at first, but since I was in need of the money, I accepted his kindness. But because he had been paying for my expenses, he became very demanding. At first it was only fair since he was paying for everything, but he began controlling me whenever I couldn't fulfill his requests. He would bring up something he paid for and say "Who do you think has paying for ____ ? Did you forget that I paid for THAT? "
I recently got hired again and I'm slowly getting back on my feet, but as soon as he heard the news now he's asking me to pay back EVERYTHING he's ever paid for me these past few months. What the actual fuck? I just feel like there's something really twisted about this situation but at the same time I can't help but feel extremely guilty that he's spent so much money on me.
What should I do?
>>16575544
Pay it back and Ieave. He's been paying to controI you. This is unheaIthy in a person and onIy gets worse. Do you reaIIy want something Iike this forever with this person? Do you see any situation escaIating? lf so, Ieave the situation.
>>16575550
This OP. I real man that loves you would never do something like that. I would never treat my gf like that. Helping her and then demanding the money back. What an asshole.
>>16575550
This
What's it like to get kicked out of the house in high school and be forced to live on friends' couches or on the streets? Does anyone have any experiences they'd be willing to share?
It was fun, though I stayed with one friend and not the streets.
Did tons of drugs.
Guess it depends if you have reliable friends.
You have to be a major kind of fuck up to get kicked out of your house by your parents, in high school nonetheless.
>>16574510
>it was fun
>did tons of drugs
Doing drugs and being a degenerate loser is "fun". This is the 21st century male, everyone
It was awful. I never felt like I had a home or a place where I was wanted. I always was uncomfortable and felt like a burden. Or like they pitied me.
I met a girl in my class and we really clicked from the start. She's cute and smart and we are both into the same things. I started flirting with her, she was responsive and flirted back, there was a lot of touching and teasing. I'm 100% sure she liked me. She has a boyfriend tho, for 2 years already. And she seems happy with him. I still thought I had a chance with her.
So yesterday me and classmates went to a party and she was also there. I said she looked cute today and we continued flirting for the whole night. We sat on the bench and talked, the vibe was...
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>>16576526
CONT...
She ran after me and started saying that any girl can be happy to be with me, because i'm perfect. I said that I know this and that I can get myself a girlfriend tommorow if I want (that's true), but that I just liked her too much and enjoy her company and thought we could be something.
She then started sobbing a little bit and it really broke my heart, but I think I did the right thing.
I'm sure she loves me, but she stays loyal to her boyfriend, which I respect....
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>>16576530
Dude, she did cheat on her boyfriend, i mean the touching and teasing,come on.
But seriously if you know its love then express that to her, tell her what you truly feel towards her.If she still refuses to go with you then dont cry or get angry.Say that you love her so much that you will not mind waiting for the day when she will finally accept your love.After that you might want stop seeing her for a while.She will definitely begin to miss you and look for you herself.That is moment you can win her love.Good Luck.
>>16576567
I missed the "the" in that last sentence.
Sup /adv/
I'm in need of advice by some oldfags.
Turned 30 this year. gf wants to move in together. She's 5 years younger, attractive, hot body, always horny. So far so good.
But I just don't think I could ever enjoy this "normal" life, move in together and play fucking "come done with me" with our damn couple friends. I'm absolutely terrified that my life will stagnate, there are so many things I still want to do that I wouldn't be able to once we make that step. I'm also still way too attracted to other women. But...
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>>16576341
How long have you been together?
>>16576350
bit more than one year. my longest relationship to date by far
>>16576366
Hmm, I think that's a little early to be moving in together, but I know that there are couples who move in together sooner and make it work. Are you aware that if you say no, this will probably be the end of the relationship? She sees this as a step forward in your relationship, and to HER, not moving in together will be stagnating
So I just had my three year anniversary dating this girl. She's rich and nice most if the time but then she just flips out and uses me as a punching bag for everything that goes wrong. This has caused a rift between us on my end. I've already fucked another girl twice on the side when my gf left the country for fora few months
Now my ex from when I was 14 (I'm now 23 who into be never stopped having feeling for) asked me if she should dump nudes on /b/ last night. I said yeah and got my way into the thread.
After posing as already stranger into got all...
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>>16576321
Cool story bro. Thanks for writing in your personal blog: 4chan.
I need some advice bruh.
Do I take the sexy bitch and live a life of mediocrity
Or
Live with the crazy rich bitch who fucks like a potato but will get me a 70k yr/starting job
you have a fixation for your ex
those are not some deep feelings, just a fixation because she is someone you could never had
we all have one of those i guess
What should I get my sister for Christmas?
She's going abroad for a longer time and I was wondering if I should buy something useful?
>>16576156
You won't get anywhere with this little info. How old is she? Where is she going?
Girls always need new clothes, this is a safe bet.
fuck her of course
>>16576156
Why is her head 1/3 of her body?
My gf recently admitted that before we were dating, she's practiced anal sex with casual encounters (3 times) because she thought it was something less intimate than vaginal intercourse and she wanted to stay a virgin. We never did anal.
We've been dating for 2,5 years and I'm quite flabbergasted by her past behavior. She's rather shy in the bed (she never suggests to try something new) and I've always thought of her as someone quite sexually inexperienced, she's a bit of that innocent/naive type of girls.
This is like she was a totally...
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What exactly are you bothered by? Do you want to do anal with her? I really don't understand what the problem is.
>she's practiced anal sex with casual encounters (3 times) because she thought it was something less intimate than vaginal intercourse and she wanted to stay a virgin. We never did anal.
Well haven't you been saying to life "I want to get someplace" you are now at someplace. How does it feel? This is what you wanted now deal with it or go somewhere else.
so you're upset that your girlfriend didnt want to lose her virginity and chose to do anal before she met you?
Are you just upset you thought she was shy when it comes to sex and now you see her as a megaslut or something?
Posted this in the opposite gender thread but didnt get any responses
Am I attractive at all and what can i change?
>>16575850
lose weight, start lifting, get some acne cream and keep your body in shape. Godspeed anon
I'm sure Lisa Simpson would find you attractive, Nelson.
Just get a demin jacket with ripped sleeves.
>>16575850
> Am I attractive at all
2/10 maybe. And that's being generous.
> what can i change?
Learn to suck dick.
