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I have come to the realization that I am very ugly and I feel like dying right now. How do I bring myself back up?
also I need to rant.
I'm a guy but this girl I recently made friends with has been casually telling me how ugly I am. She's not teasing me or trying to be mean but she seriously believes I am ugly and tells me about it in detail. It's mostly my lips. The top is more brown while the bottom lips are more pink and she tells me the bottom lips look pale and sickly because they don't have color. She's telling me I need to start...
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this is the most depressing website ive ever been to
sometimes i think its a good idea until i feel bad for 100 people within under 2 minutes
Jeez, she's thinking about fucking you, and this teasing is her idea of flirting.
>>16571490
Lmao, she's just being a nasty mean bitch. She's not a guy to pull op's pigtails
This doesn't make any sense to me, but maybe one of you all can explain this.
I often get irritated at the thought of sex. Like if i see a picture of a girl and think "wow, she's probably been railed the fuck out" or, if one of my friends tells me about a girl he banged, it just riles me. I can't really explain why. At first, i thought maybe its just because I haven't had sex in so long (3.5 years). But I was actually suppose to meet up with a girl tonight, who told me she wanted to have sex and watch the debate, but I cancelled because I...
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I used to be like that. Lemme think on why I changed.....
>>16571435
ok..
I have it too man, it's not jealousy so much as resentment. I can't really articulate it either but it's like a lot of the tenets of beta/r9k virgin rage (it's easier for girls to get laid, slut/stud double standard etc.)
Try to squash it.
Is she ever going to text me first? I always have to start the conversation and she'll texting me, but should I just not text her at all and see what happens?
>>16571366
My policy on this is usually yes. If you ever think you are texting first too much, I always prefer to back off and see if she is as interested in talking to me as I am her. If not just stop texting/talking all together
>>16571379
i tried this as well as the common advice of acting disinterested in girls and it got me nowhere
I hardly ever message first unless it's something I need to say/ask, because I constantly feel like I'm bothering people and am not worth their time.
It drives my bf mad because 80% of the time it's him who's initiating conversation, but I just hate the thought of bothering people.
How often do you text her? How long is it between replies from both of you?
I'd say leave it for a few hours and see if she messages first. If she doesn't, leave it for another couple hours then message her.
How close are you? Discussing this...
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How do I talk to girls? I always choke when girls try and talk to me. I'm at least a 7/10 and there's this girl way out of my league who wants to talk to my but I absolutely can not. I just don't want to be a disappointment especially because she's so fucking hot and for some reason seeing me as an option. How do I stop being a faggot? Pic unrelated but it makes me laugh
Just pretend your a radio host when you talk to her
>>16571334
in what context?
generally speaking i tell guys to think of it this way
>thats not a girl or potential gf
>its just a cool guy you know that you feel drawn to be friends with
like when you meet a guy in class and he mentions he likes the original planet of the apes series and you say you do too and you guys give each other a look like
>fuck yeah, marathon man
just do that. girls are not that...
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>>16571348
Here's the context:
My best friend is trying to get with her best friend, and I started hanging out with them this week. They are always talking and I have no clue what to say because it feels kind they're having their own conversation and I really don't want to but in.
I found nudes of my gf on a subreddit and contacted the guy posting them. Said it's from some girl he messages through Kik that he met on Omegle. I decided to go through my gf's Kik while she was asleep and she has been sexting/sending nudes to over 40 guys. None of them seem to be local. When I confronted her about it, she denied everything.
What do?
first, post them here so we can judge whether she's too hot to break up with
>>16571390
Somebody has already posted her on /s/. Will give you that much.
Looks like a train of feels has hit me tonight. I've never had this happen before. I've never felt distrust towards somebody.
>>16571405
You've been dating a whore, bro.
Fuck her, get the nut out. Dump her. Get over it.
How big of an asshole does someone have to be before they should just kill themselves and make the world a better place? Where's the line in your opinion?
why are you asking this question?
what advice are you looking for?
>>16571232
I'm trying to gauge whether or not I deserve to die.
naw.
unless you fap to kids i think you are good
Ladies, what do you want a guys bedroom to look like? What are the big no nos?
Bump.
Women please answer instead of spamming the SJW troll threads
>>16571400
As long as it's clean, it's fine. My first boyfriend had a lava lamp and Simpsons posters. That's not the greatest, but I didn't give too much of a shit. I don't think girls care too much.
>>16571172
Nothing organic growing mold, pretty please?
To all the former stoners, does life get better once you quit smoking?
I quit a week ago (might not seem long but its the longest I've gone without weed in over a year and a half) and everything seems so boring and dull. Will it get better with time?
What do you usually do all day?
>>16571143
It's o.k.
I've been mostly sober for almost a month (used it twice since then)
Overall I find that my motivation has increased a lot. I was using weed to escape from my problems and emotions, and now I'm forced to face them. It's alright
How do I get energy without consuming drugs? I always feel really tired and weak, no matter how much I sleep. In fact, sleeping a lot makes it worse. Eating and going outside don't really work.
By drugs do you mean caffeine?
Drink more water
exercise more often
Do they really expect bosses in X country to be nicer than bosses in their homelands? Minimum wage, grunt-tier jobs suck no matter where you are in the world.
So they can do something different in a new place.
>>16571147
I don't think working in retail in country X is that different from working in retail in your home country.
it makes them happy?
When we got married, we were both atheist. we both had terrible histories with Christianity in our childhoods. Her mother lost custody because she was going to christian homeschool her and decided not to try. She also abused her because she had been conceived out of wedlock and her church said it was wrong.
Now, she's pretty clearly indicating to me she's decide christianity is OK and wants to get back in. I do not have good feelings about organized religion period and want no involvment. Is it wrong for me to consider divorce over this?
>>16570965
She's relapsing because of her abuse. She needs you now more than ever. You two really need to talk about this; without ultimatums, without judgment.
You said for better or worse. Buddy, this is your worse.
Considering divorce because of something like this is pretty extreme.
talk to her, explain how you feel about religion etc
dont jump straight to divorce at the first sign of potential trouble you fucking mong
Considering running away from home tonight. 18 years old, any advice would be helpful
>>16570952
>don't
>>16570954
Srs? Are the streets that dangerous?
You'll have to rob a couple liquor stores and steal some car stereos for money
My girlfriend tends to hang out with guys every so often (just him and her) like going out to eat or shopping or whatever. This irks me, because its not something that I'm used to. I trust her with all my heart to stay loyal. Plus, she did this a lot before she was with me and before she had a bf. But still its just a bit bothersome.
Somewhat out of spite, and somewhat because I wanted to, I hung out with a girl and went to the library to study with her. I did the same thing my gf did: refer to her as a "friend", fill up my Snapchat story with pics and...
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>>16570933
she's having sex with them behind your back
The difference between what you did and what she did is that she has always done this with her friends. You knew this was what she did before you started dating her. Also, you're doing it just to spite her, she's doing it because they're friends of hers.
>>16570933
I understand why you're upset.
Get to know the guy better and see how their friendship is like. If they're buddy-buddy and touch a lot then your worries are in good place.
But keep in mind that this is her friend. So their relationship might be nothing but friendly. You can't expect her to stop socializing with someone she knew way before she met you. Is normal and honestly a lot more logical for a girl to like spending more time with male friends.
And that little stunt you pulled with...
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Where is the line crossed between being romantic and being weird?
Like going up to a girl and saying "you're the most beautiful girl I've ever seen". Is that weird or would females take that as a compliment?
>>16570865
Don't talk to random girls.
Let her give you a signal she's interested before you go up and embarrass yourself.
it really depends on the context
if they don't know you then you're going to come off as weird.
>>16570865
Eeeh it depends on how you say it/what you look like.
Most girls would probably smile and thank you. But it's not a good "conversation starter". Like, if you want to just use it as a compliment and move on then you're fine.
But if you're looking to build a relationship, don't lead with something like that.
That's something that you say after you already are already talking to someone on an intimate level. (When I first saw you, I thought you were the most beautiful...
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Want to get this scar covered up with a tattoo. Any suggestions or pics of your own greatly appreciated.
>>16570797
You're getting a tattoo for the wrong reasons. If you have to ask what you should get, you shouldn't be getting anything. I'm currently having laser tattoo removal done, and it's a slow process. If you're ashamed of your scar, wear long sleeves. You'll only make the problem worse by getting a tattoo to cover it.
>>16570797
Story on scar?
>>16570797
Tattoos are best if they've got personal significance to you. A scar is plenty cooler than a tattoo desu, why do you want to cover it up?
