>>16617951
It's fine? This isn't the 1950's

I meself dont mind. I thin black/white relationships are frowned upon in some places. And maybe thai/older men as well.

White/japanese is "tolerated" better i think. In the end fuck the rest man. If you both feel up to it i wish you all the luck !

>>16617951
Fine by me as I got to mix my seed with her insides.

>don't really want a relationship with YOU

>>16617933
Confirmed

>>16617929
she doesn't like you

>>16617848
When she gets hit on you hit her. She'll learn to stay indoors.

>>16617848
This is happening right in front of you? Wow, talk about beta. No one respects you, haha.

You just mark your territory. If a guy starts to check me out, my bf just casually comes over and kisses me. Case closed.

The consequence of being as lonely as you sound is that you never had people teach you to hang the least expectation possible on the shoulders of others. Perhaps, sadly, this actually was the best thing going on in your life right now. That still doesn't make it a good bet to rely on other people. It's why we all advocate finding the "best thing in life" on your own. Whatever it is that you find, it'll probably end up being more reliable than other human beings.

How long did this go on for? Anymore context?

>>16617800

Lonely? Maybe. I have no issue attracting women. Maybe this was the first time I was in love. I've never wanted to do anything nice for someone before. I was fine before her.

If you don't dump that bitch...

>>16617728
You're either an incredible fool or desperate. Leave her you dolt.

I realize it's difficult to let go of someone you love even if they don't care about you. My girlfriend is a bit promiscuous and everyone says to leave her, but I can't you know? Not yet.

I suggest you start looking for someone else right now. Find someone that makes you happy and will actually be loyal. Then you'll soon start forgetting about a bitch who only cares about herself.

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>he refuses
>tell him that I will break up with him if he does smoke weed
>he does
>Im done with everything
>drunk,sad and mad
>punch him while crying
>walk away
>its 4am or something
>Im drunk as fuck
>about 40km away from home
>end...
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>"no"
>he literally left me down and couldnt protect me or tried
>everyone in my life who should be loving me abandoned me and I feel betrayed
>I cant love and trust anyone anymore
>still get terrorized at home
>dont even know if I love my bf anymore
>he tells me that he wants to relocatoe to nyc or london because of his future job
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>>16617682
>>16617688
>>>/f/uckoff

youre signing up to be a tool for the elite. some people dont mind that, they just want an adventure, arent interested in long term global consequences or even want to be a part of that elite (no matter their role), but you have to ask yourself do i believe in this elite? do they represent me, my children, my country, etc.? do you agree with the ones steering the ship?

>should I become an army officer?
No.

>>16617671
Being in the military is a huge commitment.

You can't just decide one day you want to do something else.

>>16617655

as long as there is no deposit you are worried about having returned, you dont have to worry.

>>16617673
there is deposit though

>>16617731

then you probably l arent getting that back. depending on length of stay, that isnt unusual. after a year you generally shouldnt expect your deposit back.

>>16617650

What history does your chick have?

She get really flirty with you when she had a previous boyfriend? Cheat on previous boyfriends, etc.?

Do her friends do any of the above?

And does she drink to excess when out on the town?

>>16617659
No history I know of. She's pretty hot and gets hit on in public.

She was single when we met.

Her friend got smashed and was trying to meet guys I heard.

She drinks enough to be on a good buzz, but not drunk.

Don't bother, sounds like she's purposely being vague to rile feathers.

Just suck it up and wait it out. Distract yourself when possible, it will likely take time.

Get mad or cry or whatever, there's no real closure so let your shit out.

At the end of the day, though, try not to look back on or idolize the 'good times'. The more you look back on things the longer it'll take to move on.

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Go out and either get hammered or take a shitload of drugs, possibly followed by promiscuous sex. That's how I'd handle it.

As soon as you can, you should then follow that up with a healthy dose of self-improvement. Show her what she's missing out on. Get fit, eat well, keep busy and most of all, be happy. Do whatever it takes to be happy.

Time will heal you. But for now shit is fonna hurt bad. In the meantime, keep yourself occupied.

>>16617594
Become a woman?

By not giving a fuck and forgetting about those features

And or being rich. Decide which is easier for you

>>16617597
I don't mean like Natalie Dormer -style ugly-in-a-really-cute-way -ugly. I mean neanderthal-with-fetal-alcohol-syndrome -ugly.

Nah not in one day. More like a week. And set your goals properly.

Don't take on too much or you will be prone to fail and feel bad about it. Take one goal at a time

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>>16617520
if i do it too slow the fear and comfort will creep in and i might not do anything ? : S

anxiety is a bitch to get over even to help yourself

There are a lot of things that seem to point out that you feel very lonely. And i guess it's pretty obviois that you still have feelings for your friend.

>>16617470
First of all, I take the C.G. Jung approach to dreams, if that says you anything.
I have no idea why you have that dreams or what they mean, because i´m not you. This dreams are a generated by your subconsciousness and only have a message to you.
So I can only ask questions and maybe help you to understand your dreams, I can´t offer any clear message.

When driving around to find your friends house, did you feel like you were in the wrong neighborhood or was that a clear observation (the feeling of...
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>>16617470
Dreams don't have meaning themselves. The associated emotions and images cause us to project meaning onto the dream. So if you feel lonely you'll have a lonely dream. Obviously you haven't settled things with your friend so that's where this is coming from. Don't try and go any deeper than this.

Can you give an example of a situation where you feel like you lack emotions?

>>16617469
Err, I guess? I skipped Christmas dinner this year with my family to sleep instead; I should probably have felt bad or something, but just nothing really. I play a lot of sports and I'm completely indifferent to winning and losing, as long as the game challenges me. I'm not really fussed about the status of my university work as long as it passes.. I dunno what else to put here. I'm trying to think of things I should probably care about enough to feel something for.

>>16617456

I'm kinda like you, i just don't give a fuck, i'm indifferent to almost everything and everyone, but i'm still able to have a healthy social life and do normal stuff(bar, parties, family reunions), the thing is, you don't need to change yourself, just adapt to situations when is needed, i've never complained about lacking emotions cause at the end of the day, i'm happy with my life.

marry a foot fetishist, that's what I'm doing

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>>16617427
Not that much, I just it was that occasion as it was the thing to laugh of your feet and shit, which sound really sad and immature, but yeah no real problem and he was just a faggot anon.

>>16617427
Are you serious?