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So I'm this stupid faggot >>16597169
Alright, so I got drunk the other night and said fuck it, I'm gonna text her right now but it was 1 am and I didn't get a response cause it was so late and they went to sleep. They messaged me the next day saying they got it and they were asleep. I made small talk with her for a bit and then I just outright asked her about this. I said that I felt like we were drifting apart and if I did anything to cause it or what the deal was. I never got a reply. I did a bad, didn't I?
I fucked up, didn't I?
You know what, fuck it. I don't care anymore. I barely see them anyways. I'm just gonna stop giving a shit. If they talk to me in the future than whatever but I don't feel like trying again.
You fucked up completely. Desperation was showing in your text and the fact that you reminded her about it again shows how small you are in her head.
Save yourself the embarassment and just delete this bitch out of your phone. Believe me when girls are ACTUALLY interested in you, they will make the effort to get in contact with you.
Hell friends as well. Friends want to settle things right away so there isn't any problems in the future. Instead you texted her twice and both times she looked at your text and ignored it. That is what she sees as anon...a mere annoyance.
My name is Jeannie, and I have started a campaign to help raise awareness about my dad's situation, and hopefully to raise enough funds to repair my dad's new home after a tragic fire accident. Thankfully, no one was injured. However, at the time, he does not have any home insurance policy in effect, to cover the damages and costs. It would mean the world to me and my family, if individuals can help share my news, or direct me to other forums or reputable bloggers who may support my story.
The full story is on gofundme listed under "Hu Family - Blazed Home Repair"
Maybe just post a link to the gofundme? Can't find it
Thank you for your response. I don't think I am allowed to post links. However, on gofundme website, after the .com is /hufamilyhome
I think I'm falling in love with my boss. I've had infatuations with superiors and co-workers before but never anything more. This woman though, I can't get her out of my head.
Problem is, aside from the obvious issues that would spring up if everything worked out and she felt the same, etc and the whole dating your boss thing, that I don't know now if I really have feelings for her or I'm just falling into this trap because I really respect her as a boss and appreciate all the positive feedback I get. Do I really like her or does she just represent moving forward in my job, which is something I like? I don't know. I feel like it's the former but I don't want to ignore the strong possibility of the latter.
It's further complicated by the fact that while we get along well she's pretty reserved so I have no idea if she'd even be interested in me outside of work. And of course, being that she's my boss, that's not a leap I want to make because it's not just rejection on the line but the consequences in the workplace too.
What do I do? Just forget about it, enjoy a healthy professional relationship and try to move on? Try to be subtle about moving forward? I've never been in a situation like this before and it really sucks. Feels like the only winning move is not to play.
>>16603054
Make a bold move telling her that you want her. don't be beta, she won't like that. Also Don't be rape-y with it
>>16603133
See, that's the sort of advice I'd normally be giving to someone else in the 'I like this girl but I dont know if she likes me' situation. I feel like the boss/employee thing complicates matters though, that's where I'm hanging up mostly. Like if she was just some girl I knew I'd go for it and if I got rejected I'd bitch about it here for a couple hours that night and be over it. But I feel like I'm playing with fire by trying the same thing with my boss.
Maybe I'm blowing it out of proportion, I don't know.
>>16603054
You know what they say, NEVER FUCKING DATE COWORKERS, and you know why. So just forget about it, you'll get over it.
Or maybe try to find another job and ask her out.
Hey guys.
My grandfather died back in November and my dad's incredibly depressed over it. I know he's grieving and all but he's being such an ass hole he's genuinely tearing the family apart. Pushing us all out. He's reduced my mum to tears on a regular basis and even myself. He constantly bashes my mum's side of the family and it's really, really getting me down.
I'm 18, still at school and my grades have actually been affected by this.
I'm sad. I just wanted to get it off my chest I guess, since they had another argument not 20 minutes ago.
Merry Christmas everyone. Enjoy it on my behalf.
>>16600973
That sucks. I'm sorry. I hope you and your family, especially your father, can heal. Hang in there, OP! Loss and grief are tough.
>>16600973
it sounds like your father is justifiably upset, and likely dealing with an immense level of loss, as well as personal issues. He's likely facing his own mortality, as well as what that means in context of your smaller family.
maybe cutting him a little slack, or accepting that grieving isn't an off and on switch might help.
>>16601043
I know it isn't and I dearly loved my grandad. He's forgetting he has a family at home.
Hello Everyone,
I hope your new years day went well. I have a question for you. My gf of 5 years has sent the texts in the blue. She is an esthetician who deals with skin care, eyelashes, and massage. She has been pressuring me for marriage. I am not ready, yet I feel that she did deserve it. I wanted to make her happy. So we went out and bought a ring together yesterday. Later that night she got drunk, passed out, and I checked her phone. I am not proud of what I did.
But this is tearing me up inside. In the past she emphasized to me that there's no such thing as a strict friend of the opposite sex etc. And you know what, I don't flirt with women. I actually actively side step it. I don't mind that at all, as I am in a serious relationship. But when I discovered the images, I felt betrayed.
She has him under a girls name in her phone.
There is obviously a mutual sexual chemistry there.
I confronted her this morning, asking her if she had anyone in her phone under a fake name. She denied it intensely. She even showed me her text messages, but the thing is she did not go into that one or deleted it before showing me the phone. I could not tell.
I called the number and it is a man's number for sure. I asked her several times again if she had a fake name for anyone. She denied it. I told her that she always tries to get away with things when she feels she can, and that I know she has someone under an alias. Yet she still denied that she has anyone under a fake name.
She is in the process now of packing her things and moving out.
I didn't yell, I wasn't abusive. I didn't want to be completely straight up with her because: I wanted to see if she would just be honest and come clean, and I didn't want to give her any reason to flip this around on me. (She tried, but without my snooping as a way of doing so.)
Did I handle this poorly?
I did tell her that perhaps she should find someone who does make her happy.
Here is the second image. There was no previous message history to be found between "danessa" and my gf.
>>16629278
I see no problem here, she denied him.
Stop being over protective
>>16629275
Bitch lied. Simple as that. Op, you dodged a bullet. Be greatful and focus on yourself for a while.
>be 23
>funeral care job
>boss is 58 yr old man
>he calls me into his office
>say my uniform is oversexual
>stockings in pic and blue dress
>he says he can see the top of the stockings
>dress is just above to my knees
>no customer has ever complained
>i accused him of being a pervert
>refused to change unless a cutomer complains
Did i do the right thing and how can i go about complaining about my boss?
>>16628844
Good thing he's passive. My boss wouldve put me on leave until I agreed to change. You did make a point though, no one was complaining.
He's kind of right you know. Customers may not be complaining, but they surely notice and funeral care is not the kind of job where dressing this sexual is a beneficial thing.
>>16628844
No. Your boss is your boss. Bosses tend to determine what is acceptable as a dress code. Prepare to be sacked.
Unless... is your boss owner of said establishment?
I'm bored as fuck, so I'll give my advice to anyone that wants it from now until midnight.
>inb4 hurr durr beta neet didn't go out for new years.
I didn't feel like it this year. Got invited to a party but would rather stay with my parents tonight.
A little about me:
>25
>grad student at major university in the midwest (chemical engineering)
>grew up poor as fuck, worked my way up.
>have battled depression, anxiety, drug and alcohol abuse. But here I am.
Feel free to ask me anything from relationship advice, money, school, anything. I've lived a lot and made many mistakes, but have also learned a lot.
it's already over midnight here
>>16627806
Well I still have about 3 hours in my neck of the woods mate.
I've been invited to go out with mutual friends, including an ex girlfriend and her new boyfriend.
I'm afraid to go and I think seeing them together will hurt me, but I'm afraid that if I don't go I'll come off like a bitch. What do?
Why are you alone on New Year's, anon?
Because I have a migraine.
>>16627238
Waiting for our food
>>16627238
Because bf doesn't want to see me :) fucking life
It's almost 2016... Share at least one positive thing that happened to you this year, /adv/. No matter how big or how small.
I met a really nice girl, I graduated, and I went on two cool vacations.
pic related
>>16625679
I've mastered the dark side
IT'S
Have you asked out the guy/girl you like yet, anon?
Mine killed herself in january 2008.
Yes. I'm married.
>>16624986
Well, shit.
How do I get over my special snowflake complex /adv/?
>>16628585
stop making threads about yourself.
>>16628594
First time I made a thread here
If you have a tumblr delete it immediately. It always works.
Give me a few reasons why I shouldn't blow my brains out right fucking now.
>>16625612
why do you want to do that?
Because you're to weak to pull it. If you were serious about doing it, you would've been in Hell already. So pull the fucking trigger.
>>16625612
you should be getting educated and chasing more knowledge
if you live in the United States you can always take financial aid and go to college or something, it's what I'm doing
Now that the year is finally coming to a close I wonder how this year was for you guys.Since there seems a large consensus of people saying that 2015 tried to kill them.
Also what are your goals for 2016? Do you plan to attain them?
>>16622837
It sucked dick because I lost my mind and dropped out of college (again). I have no goals for 2016. I'm not even really alive anymore, I just exist.
>>16622837
>there seems a large consensus of people saying that 2015 tried to kill them
On a board where people come to talk about their problems? Say it ain't so!
>>16622837
I was informed of my Aspergers Syndrome and Attention Deficit Disorder this year. Yeah, this one kinda sucked for me.
Ask me anything about women and relationships.
>>16613509
what it feels when period happens?
How is babby formed?
>>16613509
How do a approach a girl I'd like to have a relationship with? What do I say to her that won't sound stupid but will also make her want to have a conversation with me?
Which makes you harder
>>16627481
I told you last night, this one
>>16627480
The duckface has to go.
