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had a fight with brother and took an elbow to the head. Woke up with painful bruise, and dizziness, accompanied with a slight daze. I have not been nauseous at all, my eyes are not dialated, and ive been able to complete the kind devick test very quickly. dont feel like going to er though. my question is how severe does the blow have to be in order to be a concussion?, like ive said there was nothing traumatic about it,i have no amnesia towards the event, i and didnt black out.
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>>16604513
Diagnosing a concussion is hard without a scan. If you suspect you had one (and by the symptoms you described, it's entirely possible, even without passing out), the only thing you can do is rest. Specially avoid bright lights, like from computers and cellphones, by the way. If after a nap you're still feeling ill, you need to look for a doctor.
i dont think its a concussion, give it a couple of days before you finally have to wait hours in the ER. Besides using electronics with a concussion is not harmful to your body, it will just increase your recovery time. But you should be wary of potential injuries to your head because second impact syndrome will occur
Help write a quick christmas card to my new neighboors?
We've already hung out a few times, so it can't be too impersonal.
Pic related; i like the jist of that quote about new friends. Please halp, i suck at stuff like this.
I wrote 'Merry Chrisymas and happy new year'
But they sent a card that sounded really nice, i dont want to seem like i dont care.
Does 'Hope the the next 365 days see you happy, healthy and closer to reaching your mutual goals.'
Sound too clinical?
>>16604482
I almost never write messages in cards and nobody seems to give a shit.
Kansas Eviction / Residence Law help?
I have a friend in Kansas, age 21.
They are living at their friend's family home right now, since November, seeking work and just finished interviews for jobs. They don't pay rent; as far as I know the mother never required rent.
The mother verbally abuses them to the point they are scared to leave their room at the house. The mother told them "You're not allowed out of that room on Christmas." And so they can't get to food to eat.
So today they left the room. I don't know what...
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>>16604473
Google it.
Where I live, if you live in a place for 30 days or more you are considered a resident and the landlord has to go through the county court eviction process if they actually want to evict you
>>16604521
I am googling the ever-loving fuck out of it right now. I'm just letting this thread simmer while I do because I don't know much about this myself and need whatever help I can get.
Everythign I've found talks about rental and "pay rent or quit" notices, but rent was never required so I don't know what paplies.
It sounds like it's pretty much at the discretion of the bitch of a mother, unfortunately. If there's no formal agreement aside from just a verbal contract, then your friend either can move--which is unfeasible at this point--or has to deal with the bullshit, lest they be cast out of the house. Realistically speaking, since I can't find anything on automatic residency in Kansas law, they're living in that house on borrowed time. I'm honestly surprised they haven't been thrown out, based on the mother's general behavior. But if their friend...
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/a/ help me out me out please.
>Girl confesses to liking me out of nowhere
>Texts me freaky stuff she wants to do
>Says to ask her out on a date because shes been waiting for me to ask her forever
>Ask her out on a date
>Starts acting strange days leading up to the date after asking her out
>Go on date
>She's quiet and looks uncomfortable entire date
>Talks about exes entire night
>Didn't want to ask for second date
>Call her and asked her anyway thinking she was just nervous
>"I'm not ready to date someone right now."
etc etc etc typical bullshit excuses.
Help me out because I just don't understand the thought process here. Why did she back out of something she suggested in the first place?!?!
tell her shes a dumb cunt and to stop wasting your time
>>16604488
Basically did already. I'm just trying to get others peoples take on why she would do something like that.
That is a red flag mate! Don't even bother trying to get with her. Unless you REALLY like her then give her time like a year or so cuz girls be always in their feelings.
Im almost going to graduate from high school and I didn't have the best grades but anyways Im afraid that I won't be able to afford college or get any financial aid if I go to a community college then transfer. Any tips?
Apply for financial aid.
You still apply for financial aid/scholarships/grants the same way when you transfer. Going to community college will make your first 2 years cost less than a single semester would at a 4 year university
>I didn't have the best grades
AND give you a chance to get better grades and have a better go at scholarships etc.
If you want to go straight to a 4 year you can but there is nothing wrong with the CC route either and it may even be better for you. I found transferring into the top 50 Uni I wanted to be incredibly easy myself...
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So my ex removed me from every social media I have, but she still has me on Facebook. I don't really post anything unless it's related to my life. Most likely she just unfollowed me, but I did the same long ago. I don't see us being back together ever or talking. What does this even mean?
inb4 "Just unfriend her"
It's so she can easily FB stalk you at her leisure.
I became a teeth clencher after getting braces and getting hit in the face with a ball.. I wear a nightguard but I still clench my teeth during the day. The doctor looked in my mouth and noticed. And I have constant ear/head pain and jaw pain. What do I do? Am I eventually going to crack my teeth?
Stop it.
>>16604433
this.
Can hot tea cause kidney stones?
I believe tea/water in general prevents kidney stones.
How does one repair a broken relationship? Has anyone here done it before?
What's broken about it? Your post is the equivalent of saying "Can I fix my car? Has anyone fixed a car before?"
Guys, I don't usually come to this board and this is my first thread ever so bear with me...
I am 60 pounds over weight and I have no idea where to start.
(pic semi-related)
You know food? Eat less of that.
You know exercise? Do that sometimes.
>>16604402
thanks for the great advice
>>16604397
Go to >>>/fit/. Read the sticky.
How do I accept the death of a parent?
It's especially hard over the holidays.
Do not dwell in the bad things/bad moments you had with him/her.
Remember the good, even if it's bittersweet at best; it's a hell of a lot better than the alternative.
Try not to commit the same mistakes that they did, let him/her work as an example for you in the good and the bad sense.
Be happy, it's what your parents wanted after all. If you're not satisfied with what you have, work harder towards your goals.
There's not guarantee that you will achieve them, but if you do nothing, nothing happens.
Alraight /adv/, i'm gonna need some girl advice once again. Last time was 2 years ago, about a girl who pulled just enough strings to keep me arround,
never letting it go any further, to my frustration. I followed the /adv/ice i was given, wich was "Get rid of that bitch and all the bullshit she's been shovelfeeding you for months"
Wich i did, and it improved my quality of life significantly.
Now i'm on a similar path, but it's alot more complicated. Mainly because we have a good friendship.
>Hot girl i've...
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Shameless selfbump!
honestly if you want to see this in a fairly business like manner if you want sex you have to give her reasons why she should give you sex.
currently you are giving her your company and time for free, and are asking for nothing in return which is chill.
but
you kinda autofucked yourself by continuing to hang with her as a friend. rule of thumb is keep any girl you want a shot with at arms length.
if i were in your shoes i'd start weening myself off of her slowly and grow aloof. i'd wait for her to come around to asking why, and then i'd...
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>>16604367
That's basically the definition of leading you around by your dick. She may be a really good friend, and there's nothing obliging her to fuck you--that's the number one thing you should consider at this point--but I can't honestly tell if she's being a tease or if she's just that comfortable with you. It's especially odd that you two have had a sexual history already. If it's just sexual tension at this point, she might be enjoying the fact that she has a measure of control over you, RE: your dick.
But if she doesn't want to fuck, tough luck, bud. Don't let it break your friendship, and if you eventually come to the conclusion that your friendship is built on her leading you on for the sake of entertainment, then consider the common denominator between your previous situation and now, and ask yourself why it happened again.
>>Claims i'm friendzoned, yet she drips just by being arround me.
I'm gonna go with "exaggerated bullshit designed to fuck with your head." It really sounds like there are extenuating circumstances behind this situation that you aren't exactly aware of. Have you considered talking to her about it, if you're so compatible?
This next week is the Birthday of a friend, we haven´t talked about a month ago since colleage,
we ended a little bad but nonetheless I didn´t speak with him at all,
I know I gotta feel bad for not settling things asap, but I wanted things to 'cool over' so I wanted to wait, anyways,
I don´t know hot to approach him using a bit the Birthday excuse and well, just mend the things again and have everything be the same as before.
Help /adv/ I really care about him, and want him back as a friend.
Just hit him up and be like "hey man, i feel pretty shitty about *whatever falling out you guys had* and don't wanna lose a friend over this".
Maybe he feels the same way, apologies can be exchanged, and you guys can move on with the friendship.
Maybe he's bitter about the falling out and is not interested in being friends with you. Oh well, at least now you know.
Either way, I think you should have this discussion now. What good is waiting for his birthday?
>>16604465
Dunno maybe just, wanted a pretty good excuse or a special date, anyways that seems like a good option.
i don't get forward bend i can't do that without bending my knees?
feel like i suck at yoga and it's discouraging.
>>16604311
Most yoga is more for the meditation aspect. I would either take a class, or ask your doctor about some healthy ways to stretch and improve your flexibility without hurting yourself. Also, everyones body is built different, and doing Yoga doesn't guarantee that you will be able to touch your toes, or it might take years to get to that point.
Go to some professionals for a better opinion.
Also how long until my horrible posture is fixed
>>16604383
As soon as you put enough work in.
So phone is pile of shit! Don't know if thread went through... So I has crush on QT Canadian girl. I don't talk to her except through Facebook posts every now and then. We seem compatible. How do I start a conversation with her and do relationship with her. Did I mention she's super QT? Pic very related
>>16604259
she looks like she enjoys the warmth of multiple male reproductive organs on her face
dont dude
Nose ring totally signifies not being a slut.
Oh ya OP, you sure know how to pick them.
>Implying a girl that hot would date someone who needs dating advice from neckbeard NEETs
O I'm laffin
