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Back in 2014, I remember there was a strawpoll which found that 57% of /adv/ were not opposed to dating a single mother, more than any other board on 4chan.
Is this still the case of have you all evolved past your cuck stage?
I wasn't here in 2014, but I dates a single mother for a couple of months during summer this year. She fucked like a beast and swallowed. Shit was cash, but she pulled away when I told her I went bare-ass nightswimming with my ex. I can understand, but I world date her again if she came around and accepted that I'm non-monogamous.
If I wasn't already married, sure. My mother was a single parent for 9 years until she got remarried to a guy who was a much better man than my dad.
>>16605710
I'd date a single mom short term is she was a MILF and [spoiler]and especially if she is a mommydom mistress[/spoiler]
But I would never raise someone else's kids unless she intended on raising my own.
Do you believe in contacting an ex for closure ? Especially when you think you have moved on.
Do you believe every person deserves an honest communication, even when they weren't communicative in the first place ?
>>16605707
Not at all.
Life isn't a Hollywood movie. Many of your relationships, prospects, and dreams aren't made or broken in climactic yet satisfying milestones.
If you try to pursue that, you're going to wind up less satisfied than you are now.
Having said that, I'm presuming that there are no circumstances warranting a follow-up.
>>16605707
Yes and no... I have contacted exs for closure, but it was hard and sometimes I'd get mixed feelings like I want to be with them again.
A few years after, I was in a relationship and it was going great. I found out he didn't have closure with his ex. They literally got into a stupid, escalated argument, and stopped talking to each other, too stubborn to even apologize or make up for argument. And they didn't speak to each other for five years. She came in contact with him. They had "closure,"...
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Although Lucas is stupid, listen to what he says in this movie about moving on
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8hQVlRgFlU
It's going to be very difficult and hard, but you need to do it. Just move on, welcome new things.
I told my girlfriend two days ago that she wouldn't get her christmas gift today after all and that I was postponing it.
On new years day, we're going to move in together for the first time, and I'll be giving her gift right before the year ends: a beautiful ring. I think that's way more romantic and it will give the ring a lot of meaning.
But she's going to give me my gift anyway, and now I'm doubting it. Should I get her the ring as well today? Don't have the time to get a replacement ring right now ;_;
>>16605693
ehhhh, replacement GIFT*
Tell her you'd rather wait and give her the present when you move in together. Add some significance to that, maybe mention something about you moving in together being more important to you?
Is the ring an engagement one?
My girlfriend and I are both in community college.
I'm undecided and she is doing medical information technology and already has a $47k/yr job offer for a coding position at a huge medical facility.
I've fucked around and changed my major so much that there's no hope for me. It'll be at least 1-2 years before I can finish even an associate's degree in something.
What should I do? Does this spell disaster for our relationship if I'm still working my shit tier retail job and she's making twice as much money as me?
>>16605688
we cant pick your career track for you cunt
what are your interests & aspirations?
>>16605691
>interests
Gardening, cycling, fishing, hiking, reading about ancient history, and playing guitar and banjo.
>aspirations
1. Have a job that doesn't make me want to commit suicide
2. Earn enough to support a small family
3. Be home every day to see said small family
4. Not have to worry about getting laid off or the industry failing
>>16605702
You'll be fine.
This is the same world in which a man can go to jail for murder and come out a millionaire.
Don't sweat it, you'll find your path.
Hey ya'll, pic is of the last thread I started, and I actually took one of y'all people's advice and it totally worked!
I slipped up and let myself be seen leaving the wand in his garage, but I was wearing a mask. He didn't even seem upset when I ran. He just had a weird half-smile on his face.
I haven't noticed anyone staring at me or following me since, so yeah, it was a weird but my adventure is over now.
Hell, maybe I could turn this into an Agora thing: pay people to break into places and take pictures or video.
So...
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OP here, sorry, wrong pic
Hi femanons,
I've been off the pill for about a month now (was put on it for 6 months because my implant was giving me everlasting periods, still have implant in)
Within a week of coming off it I had a really light, non painful period that lasted a week
2 weeks later another period has started. Its heavy and painful.
Is this my real period returning to normal or am I back on the everlasting periods? Anyone have any experience?
Your period should be returning to normal in a few cycles
>>16605683
ok so I should just ride it out for a couple of months then see a doctor?
this is such a pain in the ass
>>16605685
Wait a couple more cycles then go see your Gyn.
Historically, religion has merely been an avenue for others to abuse me. I have nothing against religion, but fanaticism makes me extremely uncomfortable, to the point of crying even. But with matt, it doesn't seem to matter. I spent a good portion of Christmas with his family, and prior to eating we all held hands while his dad prayed. Normally this would make me extremely uncomfortable, but this time it didnt? I'm unsure whether time has merely dulled the pain inflicted on me through religion, or if I love him enough that holding his hand has such an effect. Either way, it was enough for me to, at the end of the day as I was leaving to my apartment, tell him that I love him. This confession was met with all the warmth and acceptance, but he said that he "needs a little longer to say the same". Yet I have never felt so comforted.
It's been on my mind for a while though how a relationship might work between a Catholic and an atheist. I don't want to damage his faith; it is an important part of him and I do not want to change him. But I wonder how I might go about understanding him as a Catholic. Do I just ask his priest? Would that be too invasive?
If you want to understand Catholicism as a whole, talking to the priest is a good idea. If you want to understand what role religion plays for him specifically, I'd wager you'd be better off asking him directly.
>>16605622
>If you want to understand Catholicism as a whole, talking to the priest is a good idea. If you want to understand what role religion plays for him specifically, I'd wager you'd be better off asking him directly.
These things are different? I thought catholic dogma was unified.
>>16605626
Different people take it with different severity. For one guy he may just be going through the motions to appease family, another may require it for his day to day process. That's what I meant by what role it plays for him.
>got all four of my impacted wisdom teeth out which required cutting gums, drilling through bone, stitches, etc.
>surgeon prescribed small amount of vicodin
>out of vicodin and my mouth still hurts
Anyone have tips for managing post-surgical pain without narcotics? I have advil and tylenol, but they aren't doing much for me.
>>16605608
When i had mine done ibuprofen was all i needed for the pain, the 25 percocets i got were just the icing on the cake. So either man the fuck up, or call the doc if its that excruciating, odds are he'll throw you a few more.
>>16605608
Hey buddy, I had this happen to me too, as well as an aditional surgery which involved removing a growth within the bone of my jaw.
They had to enter throught there my lip and gums connected and drill into it. Mind you this was also in the same visit as removing 4 impacted wisdom teeth.
They gave me opiates for the pain, and I nearly passed out from blood loss on my way home.
It was a terrible experience and im sure you're having a VERY hard time without the same medication I got. I know your feel.
I...
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I'm a month away from being 29 and my wisdom teeth have never come in. This scares me so much haha
hey guys, I got a problem. My gf is coming to me today and stay with me for over a week. Unfortunately I woke up with a sore throat and I'm snotting with a yellow pleghm with blood. She'll be here for something like 5-6 hours.
What to do? It's christmass so in poland there's no medical clinic open and I won't go to the hospital because it would take me a few hours because most doctors have a holidays right know. What to do?
We haven't see each other for a month, I'm pretty horny
That's fine ,seriously just self-medicate yourself and have sex with your gf,sex is precious for beta fag virgin like me.
Drink a pint of water mixed with baking soda. Half a tablespoon should be enough. Mix well.
Boil water and squeeze the juice from half a lemon. Mix with honey and ginger. Drink up.
Both baking soda and lemon neutralizes the pH values in your body. Bacteria and viral diseases thrive in acidic environment, so when our pH values aren't optimal, we get sick.
I know lemons sounds counter intuitive, since they are sour, but in our metabolism they turn alkaline.
Also vitamin C. Also eat one entire cucumber.
Good luck/fuck! Don't waste your energy if you don't have to. I recommend cowgirl.
>>16605614
>Boil water and squeeze the juice from half a lemon. Mix with honey and ginger. Drink up.
This has helped me so many times.
I am an American living in Austria. I want to cut my hair using my electric clippers, but I am not sure about the outlets. In the bathroom there's a shaving outlet, which I could fit an American plug into, but I'm not sure about frequency differences.
Is it safe to use my US clippers in the shaver's outlet, or should I just buy some cheap Austrian clippers for 50 euro? Thanks in advance!
why would you bring clippers overe there without knowing? anyways, your clippers should say if they're ok with 240v, learn how to read. the frequency will be close enough, just worry about the voltage.
>>16605638
My mother sent them to me, I never asked for 'em. Would it say on the clippers themselves or should there be a booklet with all the power info?
>>16605603
It should be written somewhere either on the device or the plug
If it says something like "input: AC 100-240V 50/60hz" it means that you can connect it safely to the outlet
If not, then you cannot because it would get damaged
Help me, /adv/. I want to get a work for this semester but my course schedule is cucking me badly. Is there something I can do?
you're off from 10am fri day until 7am Monday, that seems like it'd be enough.
>>16605643
Also wednesdays until 16:30
I want to be a physical therapist, I'm 27 ,never gone to college. I only make 13$/hr
How is it as a career? Is it like being a doctor?
Is it too late?
Please halp
It's never too late for higher education. You would need a Doctoral degree and acquire a state license before being able to practice though. That includes getting a bachelor's first before accessing the required Uni-level programs.
>How is it as a career?
$80k annual, decent hours.
>Is it like being a doctor?
No.
>>16605592
>it's never too late
Yes it is. Like a retirement account, it can be too late to ever see a return on investment for higher education.
To OP, you waited a long while and you're close to being shut out. If you are going to do anything like that worth your life, you need to start taking purposeful steps as soon as possible.
>>16605592
You don't need a doctorate, but a Masters is the minimum one requires from a person.
How do I stick to a schedule?
I'm a procrastinator and honestly a pretty lazy piece of shit who wants to setup a workout routine and set a diet for myself, but I'm certain I won't stick to it unless I convince myself to stick to a schedule.
I'm a 6 foot 5 inch male who's 255 pounds and my set goal is to be slim at 210 with a little bit of muscle.
I know this isn't /fit/, but the only real advice I need is how to keep a schedule down since this is something I need to do for myself.
I also have no idea why this saved as a thumbnail
What else do you do that is making you procrastinate?
>>16605571
>How do I stick to a schedule?
Set a timer, do those things within the time allowed, then do a second thing and so on. All a schedule is, is basically timed events or events happening at specified times.
Hey guys I have a sort of have a problem. there is 3 people, 2 guys 1 girl. 1 guy thought it would be fun to mess with the other guy's girl (the girl in situation) I talked to these people this one guy, let's call this guy Tim, so Tim thought it would be funny to hit on the girl, let's call her Clover, apparently Clover said to Tim "oh me and the other guy don't have anything." so Tim hits on Clover and made this guy, let's call him Charlie, so Charlie found out this problem and confronted Tim and told him, later, I call up Tim and he told...
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He was in the wrong.
It's not Tim's fault honestly. Clover told him she was single and Tim had no reason to believe she was lying.
Dear /adv
I would like to download books illegaly, like in PDF-format. Where can I do this ? Perhaps some sites on Tor ? Thanks in advance
public trackers
Google free e-books?
go over to /lit/
