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Hey /adv/, britbong here.
Although i was born in britland, i have lived in australia since i was about 3 years old. Recently, i have seriously been considering becoming a citizen, in an attempt to leave behind the homeland, as i will certainly never be moving back there, and i'm hesitant to holiday there too. The only problem i seem to have is making the switch from supporting england/new zealand (mum is a kiwi, so i have kiwi citizenship and permanent residency in aus) over australia in sports. Any help?
Pic not related, sorry
I'm having serious difficulty understanding what exactly the problem is and how anyone is supposed to help you with it.
How is anyone supposed to suggest how you should support a sports team?
How can you help not to be boring?
>in the chats
>well liked
> sometimes when I say things it goes unreplied to
>even if it's just us two they'll trail off in a conversation to themselves till another picks it up.
>or sometimes i'll say something and not many will reply
>worry i'm boring, or slightly annoying.
What kind of things would you find interesting in someone else
>>16607523
wait is this a chat group like facebook? or in person?
Hey /adv/
This may not be the most appropriate board, but I'd really appreciate some input, as it's something I've never shared. Can the following be considered molestation/sexual harassment?
This happened back when my stepmother was living with a roommate (female), I must have been around 10 (also female). One morning I was still in "my" room playing pinball on the pc when she came up behind me from another room to greet me good morning. She ran her hands up and down my torso, not groping anything in particular but just running her hands over me, and then embraced me and kissed me around my jaw and said "good morning" in this really sweet voice.
At the time I just thought she either mistook me for someone else in her sleepy state, or she was just being kind to me. There were no other incidents before or after this, and she was always nice to me but never in a particular suspicious way.
I never gave it another thought (also never saw her again) but recent events got me thinking about this. I figure this is probably why all my life I've been so uncomfortable receiving physical affection from another woman.
Thoughts?
>>16607515
those things happening to a 10 year old, I would definitely say yes, it was molestation. However she 'meant' it, it's about the way you took it and the fact that she touched you. It's at best inappropriate and at worst outright molestation.
I'm sorry you have to struggle with that, anon
So this month I got 4 teeth taken out and got braces for my top teeth.its the third day of having braces and it still hurts a lot,I can't chew anything.is this normal?can you share your story about braces? Is it worth it?
you want straight teeth? then its worth it. if you dont care about them then its not worth it.... come on think for yourself
Yeah it's normal, I had the same thing.
Braces, 4 teeth removed. It's supposed to ache like fuck, that means your teeth are moving.
It's gonna ache like that for few days after every orthodontist visit where they give you tighter bands or wires.
I found that if I went and had a nice big burger after every appointment the aching wasn't so bad, something to chew on.
Also you have to be 18 to browse here, go to bed.
I know abortion is a touchy subject, and I know I'll probably be called a whore, etc. etc., but I would like to take the opportunity to make a "thank you, planned parenthood" thread.
I went into the ER for a really bad flu, found out it was just viral, but also that I was pregnant. Because I'm less than 9 weeks, I am able to take a two part pill in the privacy of my home, with the comfort and support of my loved ones, without having to sit in a cold chair and have my uterus scraped right away.
The abortion pill costs less than any anti-anxiety...
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I think everybody here understands not wanting kids m8.
Lucky you found out. Take care
>>16607435
Thank you. Seriously think the stars aligned to warn me about this. Lucky is an understatement.
I dont like it.
Babies are wonderful and have a right to live
/adv/, how long is it socially acceptable to endure anal rape before falling in love?
>>16607428
2 weeks
your welcome
So I like this girl who's never been in a relationship, same as me. And I'm afraid that we may come across to each other as very childish; for example, I can't help but putting her on a pedestal even though I know I shouldn't. I could go on and on about how she's my muse and how her hair is made of silk etc.
I'm scared because I feel to intensely, and this is quite the opposite of my usual aloof personality. Is there any way to work on this without being in a relationship? I'm afraid we may both be too emotional in dealing with each...
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if you try to fight book your strong feelings you have for her, it won't do any good imho
write poems, put her on pedestal and do whatever you want
it's better than trying to supress your feelings to appear more mature imho
Bump, would really like the advice of someone that has been in a relationship
ive been in a few relationships, a couple long ones.
just relax and do what you feel
Is it a good idea to keep having sex with someone you used to date?
Is it inevitable that you will start dating again? Or that one of the people will end up hurt or wanting more?
From my (Femanon) experience it really depends on the person.
One ex I had was much more of a alpha-y person. (I say that loosely). I occasionally go sleep with when either of us is stressed. He likes BDSM, I'm a sub. We work well.
The other beta, probably a aspie desu, tried but he got a little clingy and felt really bad about it. I was with him for almost 3 years and he always banged on about how FwB didn't appeal to him BC he wanted the emotions and fluffy shit behind sex.
So I guess its depends on the person. I don't like random sex...
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So, i might be getting laid tomorrow. I don't want to screw things up, so I come to you with this question: do I shave? It's kind of wild down there, but last time I shaved down there, I kind of nicked myself, so I don't really know how. So, is having pubic hair a turn off to women?
>>16607355
Some woman, yes.
So your options are have a crazy bush or go bare? Absolutely can't just trim it up a bit?
>>16607355
Electric razor, no razor burn.
I was with a girl and we got into a huge fight. She knew this older guy she used to work with before her and I met. They used to sort of date.. She still was talking with him while we were together. It's not like u can stop so,some for being friends with people..so after we got into this huge fight she started leaning on him for comfort.it turns out she is in love with him and left me for someone much older. She is twenty five and he is sixty eight. He seems really cool though but it is really hurtful. He has this fantastic big white beard and seems full of life. I hate...
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>She is twenty five and he is sixty eight. He seems really cool though but it is really hurtful. He has this fantastic big white beard and seems full of life
i like how you hate them but still can see their good side lol
>>16607348
I honestly think theirs something wrong with her brain.maybe she thinks he's Santa and wants to suck his cock for presents
Im 18 and a virgin, not autistic but shyChick from tinder wants me to go and see her on in a weeks time to fuck, lives in the city next to me(but I've never been) to which I can just catch a bus. But the thing is , she doesn't
know I'm a virgin(and she doesn't think it) and in the way she talks about things I'm certain she isn't one, which is why I'm scared that she will be able to tell and I will look like a cunt and I'm scared that I won't even get to fuck her.And there's the fact that I think I look better on my pics than...
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>Believe in yourself
Bitches like confidence so do the best you can and if you fail, at least you got laid
Skype with her to give her a better idea. Honestly, I'd be up front with everything or it'll most likely be somethings you both regret. Sex can be difficult the first time believe it or not. Getting some positions right can be awkward.
A city away for pussy? Fuck that. All that time and effort catching buses, sitting nervously there listening to music and then walking to the destination for pussy that might or not be available? Who is to say something doesn't come up and the whole thing is scrapped?
I always follow the little rule that "the longer I have to travel to get pussy, the more I think with my actual brain thinking it isn't worth it."
Of course this is just me giving you what happened from my experience of two separate occasions travelling long distances for mediocre...
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shit
I just can't cum
I can't understand the premature ejaculation guys, how can you feel so much pleasure while fucking a girl?
shit I can get hard for a long time, but I just can't cum
I'm with my gf for 5 months, and all the times we fucked (for hours), I just can't cum and my gf feels like shit
I probably have death grip because I can only cum while masturbating and hold the shit out of my penis + a tight foreskin
any one with this issue around here? how did you fix it?
>>16607313
Fuck her til she cums then have her jerk you off.
If she doesn't have the G.I. Joe Kung fu grip then get her one of those squeezie things.
Stop jerking off for about 3 months and you should be fine.
>>16607313
>I probably have death grip because I can only cum while masturbating and hold the shit out of my penis + a tight foreskin
When I go drinking and partying and I'm alone with a girl for like a minute or so, I start telling her shit like you're the most beautiful thing I have ever seen, can I eat you out?
and it usually works and we have sex but I wanna change because this shit is not classy
>>16607295
Do you actually make good with the eating out?
I don't know what you been smoking but asking her a girl if you can eat her out and then call her the most beautiful girl in the world is the furthest thing possible in getting laid when you are chilling with a chick.
Snap out of your fantasy world and get back to reality anon.
>>16607298
sure I like that also sometimes whiskey my dick needs a bit of foreplay too
>>16607300
am european and when you go clubbing this pretty much happens
I'm thinking about picking up a vibrating dick ring to use with my gf this weekend. Neither of us has any experience with them. Any anons have tips?
>>16607190
I'm leaning towards a disposable one in case it doesn't go over well. Probably the Trojan Hotspot.
>>16607190
Is there a different board I should be posting this on?
>>16607190
I'm talking to myself about dick rings on an anonymous image board, where did my life go wrong...
I'm not a bad looking guy, but I'm extremely jealous of better looking guys and even girls. I would rather have being drop dead gorgeous my only good quality than an average looking dude with a heart of gold. It sounds shallow, but I believe looks are the only thing that matters, and anyone with a not so attractive partner is only settling because they don't think they can do any better. Girls always say a guy can look like Chris Hemsworth but be ugly as shit if he has an ugly personality, but that's the most laughable thing ever. I know plenty of girls who...
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>>16607188
As an attractive man I can tell you it helps. A lot.
Thats idiotic. You should probably get over that.
>>16607188
What advice are you looking for exactly?
