I've only had casual sex a couple of times. Twice so that I was in a bar alone, started to talk to some dude, hung out with them for the evening and ended up going home with them. The first guy texted me from abroad for some years, the second dated me for a few weeks before we realised we're too different, the 3rd I met at a friend's birthday party and ended up having a nearly year-long long-distance relationship with. The fourth, I think, is the only one that actually qualifies as "casual" since I never saw them again even though they tried to text...
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It doesn't make you bad at all, it just means you've upped your standards. Really all people should want their partners to be healthy and anorexia is usually tied to mental instability and self image issues. So try to work with her and talk about it and if she doesn't comply, then I'd break up. I wouldn't flat out say "You're not hot anymore." I'd bring up her health and show concern. She may be a great girl other than this but that's up for you to say.

>>16609061
nope. its just your instinct telling you that this mate will just produce crappy children

It doesn't only make you a not bad person, but a sensible one. Mental disorders would run in your bloodline if you end up with this person.

>>16609040
>I'm 19, so maybe my speech abilities are already set in stone.
I started to voice act when I was 28. It's a skill you can learn like any other.

How do you think people learn a foreign language? Fuck, people can even train them to learn a specific accent within their language. Learning how to speak properly is no different.

>>16609112
Yeah, I never really thought about people learning different languages, even though I mentioned it in the OP. That gives me a lot of confidence.

Since you're a voice actor, I'm willing to guess that you haven't had any trouble with conversations before. Did you actually have any speech therapy regardless?

>>16609162
The voice acting classes I took crossed over into therapeutic territory very much.

There's good books with accompanying audio CDs out there, most of them probably on piratebay even, I just can't recommend you any in English unfortunately. You could also look up vocal coaches in your area, first appointment usually is free and I bet most of them are happy to recommend you any sort of additional resources you could want.

Don't be a shallow dick, just dump her

>>16609026
Leave, and cut contact. If you want to make her miserable, this is how you do it without becoming as bad as her.

>>16609028
This.

You sad twisted fucktard.

Foreplay. Lots and lots of foreplay. Make sure she has 2-3 orgasms before intercourse even begins. It's impossible to be disappointed with the sexual performance of a guy who has just given you multiple orgasms.

Learn how to breathe.
Look up tantric techniques.

Pull out and press down at your scrotum for a few seconds before continuing.

>>16608999
Well, first things first, even if the cops won't help you, he probably doesn't know that. So warn him about how this sort of thing is illegal.
Then if he continues, you could find him and beat his ass. With your gfs permission of course. Don't wanna cream the guy and THEN find out she didn't want you to hurt him.
If your skilled with computers or someone you know is, there is always hacking his social media accounts.

>>16608999

step one ... accept that it's her problem, not yours.

step two ... ignore it and wait for it to go away.

>>16608999
how long ago did they break up? she probably still wants him

>>16608972
that's what hormones in tap water do to you

Buy a strap on if you want to pound a girl, but save the money if you really don't want to you got a kid.

>>16608980
hah... buy a strap on...if you read it says i love to fuck girls..

Neither. Like they always say, there is plenty more fish in the sea. Don't spend the rest of your life with people who don't make you completely happy.

>>16608975
The problem is that I am a social outcast. Even without handicaps or deformities, I'm terrible at making friends and therefore my social circle is pretty small, and chances to find matching girls in it are slim.


I feel like I had a good match back then and I blew it. At 28 I don't find myself too old but not a youngster either

>>16608966
>We were a good match until it lasted

Forget girl2, she isnt relevant to your current lifestyle anymore and as such you should look for people that make you feel like she did, but ones that will actually stick through with you.

Girl 1 doesnt seem to be the correct choice for you, so i wouldnt really recommend staying with her. However, the amount of information yu dispensed here is minimal and as such any advice on this topic from strangers shoould be taken with a fuckton of salt.

Pay the ticket, stop speeding.

>>16608949
Don't listen to this faggot >>16608970 Your insurance rates will go up big time and probably cost you more money in the long run. I suggest talking to your job and seeing if the will accommodate your situation, but if not go the lawyer route if missing work is that big of a deal. Shouldn't run you more than a few hundred for a case this minor and will save you the insurance bump.

>>16608949

>I was speeding 17 miles an hour over the speed limit
>I don't want any long term repercussions though lmao

Fuck off, people like you deserve to have to pay more on premiums.

>>16608937
you stop smoking cigarettes for a while....

>b-b-but i'm addicted

they got ya

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You need to quit that shit man, fuck tobacco. If you want to cough your lungs up every day by the time keep it up, otherwise start smoking weed. Much more noticeable effect and very difficult to overdo without greening the fuck out.

I've been a heavy smoker for 7 years and recently moved to e-cigs and that horseshit. You'll never get that nic rush back, man. Sorry. Unless you quit for a while and go back to it.

just bumping

she's not behaving like someone who just broke up with a guy a week ago.
she's not trying to get distance between us, through short answers, she's seeking out for the discussion.

if i break up with someone, i give him time to process the break up, maybe after some weeks ask how he's feeling, and maybe ask if he's ok with the "sort of friendship" i told him we could be in if he's interested, but not the way she is acting like right now.

i'm really confused /adv/

Welcome to womans psychology 101. Women like to break up, but still be friends! They say things then don't remember what they said minutes hours days later! Some still want to be fuckbuddies until someone else comes along!

>>16609054
but why is she doing that with a guy who lives miles n miles away from her?
is the only thing she wants out of this some emotional support?

I believe it's called derealization. It's no different then when your driving and you forgot how you got from point A to point B. If it happens often, I'd seek help. It can be caused by sleep deprivation and a plethora of others things.

>>16608919
did anything anyone might describe as traumatic happen to you recently?

>>16609134
no, derealization is a state where you are perfectly conscious and can remember everything that happens to you, but everything feels unreal as if you were in a dream, movie or a video game

If you're having sex then you can discuss protection, what's awkward about that?

>>16608918
tell her you want to fuck without a condom, so if she wouldn't mind using the pill that would be great. Shouldn't be awkward at all

Haha nar iam shy asf when it comes to talking so that makes it hard if I could talk with just making faces I'd be susd. Yer it just sort of happens we haven't really giving it a minute to think about condoms or anything that's happened

Long distance simply isnot for everybody and terrible if it's your first relationship. If you cannot realistically see you and your gf living close to each other in the next 6 months I would cut your losses.

Yeah it will hurt and yeh you probably feel like this girl is the only one who understands you. But your trust issues won't get better, if she has not taken steps to make you more comfortable after you have talked to her about this then just move on pal

>>16609030
Quality advice.

Coming from somebody that has been through 2 long term relationships, neither one which worked out, i would implore you to consider his advice.

>>16609030
>>16609044
Thanks, both of you. I'm going to revaluate things.