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What's your advice on student loans? I'm out of cash, and have 4 semesters left of my undergraduate. I'm gonna go ahead and finish it up, what should I expect thereafter. I ultimately want to pursue higher education after said degree, and I am assuming that will continue to drive my debt up.
Any and all advice will help.
You're in a rough position because you're asking this question at the most inopportune time. It should have been asked two years ago. Then my advice would have been to start at a community college, save as much money as possible and push for scholarships and budget-friendly transfers before heading into a 4-year university. That way you keep the debt burden as low as possible.
But now you really don't have a choice. What will do you do if you don't take out the loans, quit? You keep the credit for courses you took but they give you no value without...
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>>16607007
I'd go with this. Take out the loans if you have no other choice, but spend absolutely as little of the loan money as possible. Only spend it on school stuff - if there is money left over, put it in the bank, do not blow it. Work as much as you can without impacting your grades and save every penny. Consider taking an extra semester to graduate if possible, to give yourself a better money in-money out ratio.
>>16607007
Yeah, I dropped out last year when I found out just how much more school I had left before graduation, and the lack of money I had.
I'm back now because I'm not where I want to be professionally speaking, and I ultimately want to pursue law.
The problem being, that no one will hire some fag with a philosophy degree.
In the past I've had my house broken into. I didn't think it had any lasting impact on me, but I've noticed recently I get scared when I'm in the house alone (I live with 6 other people so this rarely happens). I jump at little noises and don't leave my room unless I really have to. How do I get over this? I don't want to always need to have someone around.
get a gun/dog/dog with mounted turret that fires when he barks.
>>16606994
Therapy, meditation and lots of cannabis
You should get a pet.
Texting with my cousin right now,
She had shitty parents, lives in the hillbilly part of country, married her other cousin, gave birth to a disabled child
Now she tells me that she's jealous of me coz I had good mom and didn't drop out of college or something
What is a human response here? What should I tell her?
"It's not your fault."
This phrase has amazing powers.
>>16606980
I want to marry katya-chan :3
>>16606980
"Lets meat up and fuck"
So everyone is talking about making long term investments and buying stocks while studying in college. Some say they do it with very little. How does that work? I mean lets say you bought $500 worth of stock of a top 500 and a stable company. What is most likely to happen in not so long-term but 5 to 10 years? Lets sat the company kept growing slowly, didn't come up with something so special, and didn't go banktrupt, just kept growing. Can it bring in like %15-20 in 5 to 10 years?
And as a college student I can invest like 1k per year at best for the next 4-5 years. What would you suggest me?
> Can it bring in like %15-20 in 5 to 10 years?
No these are ridiculous numbers.. sorry to crush your hopes there but you won't get that much win with investments in Top 500 company.
So long story short, I got really drunk at a work Christmas party and thrusted at a coworker I had a crush on.
So I came to ask, is shutting up and never making eye contact again with her again the right idea? I already apologized and she said it was fine, but I'm pretty sure I should just never speak to her again
>>16606950
I don't know if it's the best idea but it's probably what I would do
You should definitely keep a profession distance and not initiate conversations unless strictly for work purposes.
>>16606957
>>16606956
op here, thanks for the replies I knew I made the right decision
I fucked up really bad with a girl.
It happened 4 months ago and I'm still not over it, I just need advice with letting it go.
She has someone else now, it was my first relationship (at least my first serious one) and I'm really depressed about it.
dubs get btw
>>16606933
fucking nice
>>16606933
When I'm kicking myself over some fuckup, I remind myself that other people have fucked up far worse and that it's not the end of the world. Hell, I fucked up 3 relationships by being a clingy, needy, psycho bitch before I realised the problem was me and started to fix my mental shit. I ended up with someone awesome anyway.
Take heart, OP. You did the best you could at the time, and next time you'll do better. And there will be a next time.
So I need advice on my current situation and whether I'm being selfish or not about it.
I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now. We both love each other very much. Unfortunately we both live with our parents due to him finishing up school and although I work, the rent is too damn high around here to get my own place. I live in NYC in Staten Island, and he lives in NJ so the distance between us is about a 30 min drive by car.
My boyfriend seems to be very close to his family. He's the youngest with 2 older sisters. I'm the youngest of my...
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>next post
Oh my fucking God, two posts for something that could be summarized in one line:
>Although I love his family, lately it feels like the only time I get to spend any time with my boyfriend is if it involves his family.
Just tell him that.
TITS or QTFO, ops wrong board
>>16606916
So then there's me and my family. I just live with my parents. We don't really do any eventful things like family dinners unless it was for a holiday. My sister's are married with their own households so they are all doing their own things with their families. My parents don't really go out a lot except for the occasional flea market or casino.
So when my boyfriend does come visit me, we'll try to find alone time to snuggle or have sex when no one is home , but sometimes he complains about...
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How do I begin to feel anything other than pain?
>>16606894
Depends entirely on what is causing you pain.
>>16606894
Put your hand on your cock and move it up and down until it cries white tears
>>16606894
There is also fear, it usually really easy to feel
So i need some advice, I'm 21 in college studying electronic engineering.
I'm a faggot and I've had an offer from a man in Switzerland to go live with him and be his slave for 2+ years it honestly sounds like a pretty good deal, il be forced to learn German, get fit and eventually re enroll in an engineering college over there.
As someone with little to no motivation this seems like it could be good for me + if I don't like how things are going I would be in an excellent position to rob this guy off drain his accounts and flee back to the uk.
Any...
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Be careful if you do accept. IMO say yes
You're a fucking idiot. You're not even motivated enough to complete your degree (I bet you don't shower regularly, get up in the morning, or have a job which is why you want to live for free)
and you think somehow - plausibly through the magic of the below-average cock of someone with an obvious inferiority complex - you're going to feel motivated enough to work out for two full hours a day, go on multi-day long hikes, learn a new language, and service a fucking dick for two hours?
Have you ever even sucked a dick before? You want to volunteer...
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Are you fucking stupid, you want to end up in a joseph fritzl copycat basement?
I want to know what my chances are of getting into a local university are. I was a shit student in high school, my GPA was below average and so was my SAT score (1350, I know it's bad) however the university I want to go to has an 82% acceptance rate and some truly thick skulled fucks go there.
>>16606785
I don't know why you think you'll suddenly become an even mediocre student if you couldn't even do well in the easiest shit you'll ever do-- HS
>>16606785
82% is really high.
You'll probably get in. If not, Community college is an option too, and you can transfer to an actual good school after a year or so.
>Just dropped out of university halfway through my second year
>Saving up money to move to Montreal. Maybe go to culinary school maybe just work kitchen jobs.
>Current girlfriend is great aside from the fact she is from europe and keeps me under the rug because Im black and her parents are racist.
>I'll be leaving almost everyone I know including my girlfriend behind in 2 months anyways.
>Sitting here pretending its all...
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Are you running from or towards something, anon?
>>16606743
>This bIog
Fuckoff/10
I'm looking for a shooter MMORPG for PC. Something along the lines of Mass Effect/Warhammer campaign multiplayer, or Warframe but a campaign instead of the same missions over and over.
Any ideas?
>>16606722
MMORPGS are doing the same missions over and over
>>16606931
So it's like how your posts are always bad.
Is /adv/ your MMORPG then?
>>16606936
Warhammer is gay, go have sex nerd
