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Which one of these would be best?
Leaning towards diesel technology or automotive technology. I like fixing things but I'm open to just about anything. I took anatomy & physiology and liked it a lot and got an A.
>Which one of these would be best?
This is the wrong question to ask.
You should be asking:
1. What do I like to do?
2. Will it be a field that I can get a job in?
3. Will it be a valuable skill 10 or 15 years from now?
4. Can I make enough money to maintain my lifestyle?
If you live in the South, Air Conditioning. Shit'll put your grandkids through college.
>>16622051
diesel diesel diesel you stupid sumbitch
you can make $30/hr easy
My girlfriend has a bunch of cousins with whom i was great friends with. We all planned a ski trip together. Me and one of the cousins who was one of my best friends at the time got in to a verbal argument and he tells me he doesnt want to get a cabin with me any longer. I tell him ok and we mutually agree not to be friends. I dont want to go too far in to it but i was 100% not the wrong person. Anyways my girlfriend still wants to go on the trip while the idea of her going really bothers me as well as the fact that none of the others stood up for me even though they all know im right. Am i right for thinking she should stand up for me and not go or because its family should i allow her to go and shut up. It gets more complicated but thats the base of it. HELP ME 4CHAN
Picture unrelated, also PG rated porn photoshop thread
Ok Fucking listen up
> You are wrong
> Get over it
>>16621978
You can't just say you won't explain what happened but you were 100% right. What the fuck happened?
You have to be 18 to be here
Girls, i'm chubby and i kind of like it. I love my boobs, my ass and my legs. The only thing that bothers mw is my belly. It seems like my body just liles to not distribute the fat evenly. All the chubby girls that look awesome have a rather flat belly for their weight. Is it just genetics or can i do something to acjieve that? Corset training? Doing sport? What is it? Pic is a chubby girl with an awesome body. I want a belly just like her...
>>16621962
> I love my boobs, my ass and my legs
if this were true youd post pics to show them off
>>16621962
I have the same issue, I have an hourglass build too, I love my boobs/legs/hips/ass and have a tiny waist, my only problematic area is my stomach, which sticks out too much imo. Like I can wear a size small on my lower half and I'm not fat, but my stomach isn't flat at all. I have an F-cup and ass I don't want to lose, so I'm afraid of losing weight, though.
Some people are just build differently, if I lose weight, my curves unfortunately get less curvy, lol. Guys seem to adore my body even though my belly isn't flat so I don't mind too much, but you can do some light stomach exercises I guess?
>>16621991
Yeah, i hate that! My belly is the last one to go. My thights and boobs melt like ice in the snow, but that belly is stubborn. And i want those juicy legs and boobies!!! Fml
I do exercise, but i am tempted to give waist training a go. I'm just a bit affraid it will end up squishing by belly all wrong and make it even worse. Pic is my belly for reference.
I'm 25 years old an I'm almost bald. Now I'm dealing with self esteem problems because I don't like the way I look without hair its like loosing a part of yourself. I'm used to shave my head because that's the only thing that I can do if I don't want to have a horseshoe in my head.
Sometimes I have good days but others I don't like to see myself in the mirror.
I went to the dermatologist and he said to me that I could try finasteride. I read about te side effects of this drug and they are very serious so I don't know what to do. Also I see some of the results taking it and in some cases are awesome.
Also I'm thinking about having a hair transplant but I don't know if that's the best option in my case.
It's really difficult to lose your hair when you are young. I see that people behave you in a different way and also is annoying when you are talking with somebody and they are looking your head.
Also some people add me 5 years to my real age.
So, I'm searching for advice on what to do. Also the experience of anons dealing with hair loss.
look into something called ketoconazole
Don't worry, baby. Just shave your head and be done with it. Women don't care as much as men do about baldness. Really truly if a guy is hot and smart and funny and cool, it won't matter a bit.
>>16621922
If you're almost bald at 25 then I would strongly suggest seeing a hair transplant surgeon. Typically, surgeons do not recommend men in their 20's get a hair transplant, because they can transplant hair into the balding areas restoring the natural look, but as time progresses their hair loss continues so then they have permanent hair in some areas and it just ends up looking weird and requiring further transplantations to correct. But if you're already completely bald, then there is a strong chance you'd be a good candidate, if not now then in a couple years.
I'll tell you right now, there isn't anything besides a hair transplant that will restore your hair. Finasteride and minoxidil are things that are used usually to prevent further hair loss, and maybe encourage a little bit of growth but if you're already very bald, they are useless. Not to mention finasteride can have side effects.
Find a good surgeon to do the hair transplant, I can't emphasize that enough. Look at reviews. If you find a good surgeon it's totally worth it to drop like 10k-20k because hair transplants are permanent. Good luck.
PS: Don't buy that bullshit about shaving your head and owning the look. Almost nobody looks good bald. Do the transplant, it's the only thing available.
New Years Eve is my favorite day of the year! It's the day that i enjoy the most, beautiful fireworks and partying with friends! But today i found out that i have to work from 7 to 12 on the 31'st and from 7-?? On the 1st of January. I can't take the day off since it will probably get me fired because without me being there the other workers can't do their job properly... What should i do how should i cope with this?
By the way, to out it in a better perspective, i work from monday to friday from 7-15 and have the weekends off, but i haven't had a days vacation since summer vacation after i finished college! So it's starting to get pretty tiring to work this much.
Literally call a sick day, you cannot get fired if you're "sick". I did it last year and literally my boss couldn't do anything about it because you're entitled to taking certain amount of sick days ANY day of the year.
>>16621852
Problem is that it's a pretty small city (Around 30.000 people) and there's actually a decent amount of chance that I'd be spotted if i were to go outside. And I'm also in close family with my boss and live at my grandmas place, so there is an even bigger chance thst he might find out that i wasn't sick. But that's a good idea though!
>>16621843
Suck it up, it's one damn holiday. Go out for a few drinks after work if you want to celebrate.
Should I be worried if when I send my girlfriend a text message she doesn't reply for awhile but still gets on facebook? For example, I texted her goodnight last night and she's been on facebook for hours this morning without responding. I always text her back whenever she does, because I want to talk with her. But when she doesn't reply to me but gets on Facebook, I feel like she doesn't want to talk.
Your first relationship and you are in high school, right?
>>16621907
No its not. And I'm in college. What does that mean?
>>16621959
You just sound extra clingy, that's what.
I've been smoking pot for about a year. I'll be 21 in a couple months. I'd smoked a few times at work with a coworker in the walk-in cooler, and I got buzzed, but never really high. Then I smoked with some friends on my college campus, and I took one gravity bong hit and passed out. I've looked into it online, and from what I've seen, it doesn't really happen, but all I know is I tripped fucking balls in the woods from one full 2 liter gravity bong hit with very low tolerance. I experienced a very extreme psychosis and I thought I was in hell for a long time. I felt like years passed of excruciating pain, and I felt like the people I was with were strangers or were somehow trying to hurt or poison me. Later I was told I was just curled up on the ground for like 2 hours, and that was really it. I occasionally said some crazy shit like I was in the 11th dimension and I needed help. But once I came to, I was pretty much fine. I felt disturbed and "off" for like a week after that, but then back to normal. Well, eventually I guess I forgot how horrible the trip actually was, and I wanted to experience it again, because it was an utterly unique and in some ways awe inspiring experience. I started smoking regularly, but I never had the same kind of experience that I did that night, until last night. I had a decent tolerance break from waiting for a throat burn to heal and then getting my wisdom teeth out. Just under 2 weeks of no smoking. This was my 2nd smoke since then, a few days after the first, which went over normally. While I was high last night, I had an extremely overwhelming anxiety attack. I felt excruciating pain in my toes on my left foot and in my teeth. I had a migraine and I sat with my head in my hands for a long time just waiting for it to end. I was much more lucid than my trip in the woods, but I wasn't prepared for that kind of pain and panic.
cont.
I Google'd marijuana induced anxiety attacks and magnesium deficiency and a lot of other shit, and all of seems similar to what I felt, but none of them addressed the overwhelming pain. I felt like my toes were somehow out of line or shifted somehow, but I just felt constant, sharp pain until I fell asleep. I'm fine now, but I still don't know what happened to me or why I can't seem to find any other instances of anything like this happening to anyone else. Does anyone know what I'm dealing with?
Another thing is when I tripped from the gb hit, I felt the same kind of pain in my legs, and moving them at all was immensely painful. Later I rationalized it as maybe my legs just fell asleep, but in hindsight, I was laying down flat, not on top of my legs or anything, and this time my toes were definitely not asleep. No tingling, nothing like that, and my posture was fine. After the first incident I felt like I had somehow lost some subtlety of touch for about a week. I could feel things, but anything requiring delicate touch was very difficult for me. Like, pulling headphones out of my pocket for example. I could feel them in some way, but not the right way. And it made intricate movements difficult without seeing what I was doing. That eventually went away, but it took about a week, and I was genuinely scared I'd really permanently lost some aspect of the sense of touch. I haven't experienced that again, but I think it might be relevant somehow.
bump. I'm really worried about this.
Weed really helped with my depression and it's amazing for socializing. I'd honestly like to continue to smoke it, but I don't know if I can.
Man I'm sad. I'm a girl but I still expect myself to uphold a job as well to support my little family (me and my boyfriend). But I'm so weak. My body is just destroyed at the end of the day (I work as a cashier at Walmart for now). I never wanted to be the type of girl to be a stay-at-home wife, making my man do all the work. I dont want that. I want to be working right alongside him.
But I'm just so fucking weak. Can't seem to hold a job without my body getting utterly destroyed. And where I live pretty much the only open market is retail.
/adv/ needed: How can I find a job that's easier on my body? What are some "girl" jobs? And how do I increase the chances of people giving me a chance when they don't even know me?
Or maybe advice so I don't demolish my body after the 9 hour shifts? I just always try my best to help the customers as fast and efficiently as possible. Unfortunately that fucks me over because I don't have a lot of energy or strength compared to a man. So should I just try to go slower or pace myself?
Are you serious m8?
You're a fucking cashier at Walmart, it's far from a physical demanding job
Stop moaning and go to the gym or whatever if it's really that bad
>>16621798
standing for 9 hours sounds really fucking exhausting to me.
op try a secretary position somewhere or just go working part time.
Because of what I learned on /v/ on Christmas I should not be receiving gifts anymore.
So how do I turn down Christmas gifts the right way and make sure they follow through?
>>16621554
give them to me instead
>>16621554
What did you learn anon?
>>16621572
op is a faggot
How do I get over feeling guilty for being privileged? Feeling like the bad guy in this world is completely sapping me of motivation to do anything.
>>16621552
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iKcWu0tsiZM
>>16621556
That's the problem, but what's the solution?
wow
thank christ i went to engineering school
How can you tell if a guy is good at sex before meeting up with him?
fuck his friends
t. Pegasus
Check his porn folder.
>>16621524
Tracking down someone on tinder or someone I haven't met in a bar yet just to fuck his friends sounds like something a crazy girl would do and I don't think I'm that crazy.
Or should I do it after?
how does that help anyway?
The plan here was to maximise the good sex and minimise the bad sex.
Long story short, I just jerked off watching my friend jerk off without him knowing. I don't want to be gay and I'm attracted to women but does what I did make me gay?
did you enjoy it?
Figure it out. Yah, if you like it. Then you faggot. Jah or homosexual.
Very interesting, but stupid!
Tu sabes, que es mio pendijo!
Tu sabes, he ho!
Tu es un pendenjo!
Venti a la casa and dormir, cabron!
German here so please excuse my bad english.
So guys i need an advice ... iam very beta and i have a crush on a girl in my city . The first time i met her was on line i a group of anime fans and so we talked and played all together.(at this time a had a gf) so fast forward to the last day . In the last months i realized that i love her and so on . She (btw 21/student) and me (18 /trainee) met often to go to the cinema and eat sushi . On Monday this week i telled her what i feel and she friendzoned me . So .. i dont want to give up but i have no fucking idea what i should do . My last gfs asked me out so i didnt ask them out or smth. I was never on a party or in a club and i never learned to Ask girls out an this stuff. I just dont want to loose this time .
Thank you for reading this i hope you guys have smthg for me
>Thx Sasku
>>16621417
>She friendzoned me
Give up, you already lost. Cut contact and find someone else.
>>16621433
Really ? Idk i want her and no one other . I this the only thing i can do ?
>>16621439
We all have things we want. This will pass. You can either spend the next year or so going after her trying to impress her and fail or just move on now and save yourself the trouble.
Speaking from experience, once a girl makes up her mind about you, its very hard to change it. I know it must feel like she is the perfect person for you, she has the same taste as you, you will never find anyone like her again, yadayada at the moment, but that will pass. There are plenty of girls out there so save yourself the anguish.
Lost my girlfriend of 5 years, pissed off my friends, lost my job, lost my will ti do anything, all in a single week.
Now I'm in bed at 12 AM, thinking to get up and start building everything again, but I question myself if it's really worth it.
I don't want to live anymore, but I don't want to die. I'm in bed, and time keeps flowing.
What do I do now?
You sleep
Deal with it in the morning
>>16621392
oh. i fucked up
It's 12 PM
>>16621380
>What do I do now?
celebrate harder
So what happened is my laptop completely died. As in the screen was already broken so i was using a monitor but that didnt last long b4 it completely cut out.
The problem is im broke. Im already -£450 on my credit card. Im renting a place thats ~1600 between 3 people. I dont have a lot to spare.
I need ideas /adv/ on what could i do. I mostly need one to run WoW smoothly. Maybe something slightly newer AAA but i could live without it.
>>16621355
Bump
>>16621355
Does it power and stay on?
If you turn it on and it trys to power but it beeps a couple time and turns off then your SOL. Any piece of hardware can possibly not be working. Most likely the motherboard.
>>16621355
Well seeing as you already have a monitor, a desktop PC isn't a bad idea. An expensive, but convenient idea is a Gigabyte Brix - or some similar gaming NUC.
What other capabilities than WoW do you need- or are you saying you'd be fine with just a 32GB hdd size?
