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Does anyone know a good place online to buy a cool cup? I guess this is different from all the teens asking for relationship help here
>>16619729
>shipping fragile glassware
Just go to target or walmart.
>>16619742
This is what you don't do.
Go find the nearest salvation army or better yet a vintage/antique store. All the most interesting looking cups and bottles can be found in these places, for dirt cheap.
>>16619752
>buying something you eat or drink with used
Do you buy used underwear too?
>inb4 well you eat at restaurants
I don't.
I'll try to bullet point this
> known for 1 year, dating 6 months
> emotionally unstable, she's vibrant and happy and then doom and gloom within the hour
> constantly tells me I'm emotionally unavailable, that I don't do anything for her, she's the only one trying
> asserts that I should know how to treat her, that I'm selfish just for being who I am
> threatens to disappear and never talk to me again, a lot
> also she's 24 and a virgin
We actually had a split on December 18th where she dumped a bunch of Facebook messages on me, saying she can't do this, this is too much, etc. She blocked me on everything, then on the 24th she messaged me, all angry that I didn't come chasing her.
We talked some after that and we're hashing out plans to hang out tomorrow. I'm having mad second thoughts though, even just now she's telling me
> every other guy knows how to treat women, what's wrong with you
> you don't appreciate me, you half love me
> I went on a date and the guy actually made me feel appreciated, why can't you?
> I deserve better
> I give so much
> instead of talking to me you're always getting mad
And she actually said
> I expect twice as much from you if I'm giving you another chance
She has lots of shit going on, she was a victim of sexual assault almost two years ago and it's really got her messed up, and her parents are getting divorced at the moment. She's got me convinced that I am a selfish dick and that I should be "doing better," but whenever I try to adjust my behavior it doesn't seem to matter to her.
I'm probably just going to drop this one completely, but any advice? What can I change about myself?
>>16619723
She... went on a date? The fuck are you even contemplating here, anon?
Dump and run. I'm not a cuckmemer, just she sounds like an emotional well that isn't ever going to fill up.
>>16619723
Are you willing to stop being yourself and become her bitch?.
Time to get out my man
After putting pressure on my boyfriend about why we don't have that much sex (once or twice a month) He opened up and told me that he thinks I am attractive, beautiful etc but he is not sexually attracted to me. He himself can't explain why, he knows that I get hit on and "any guy would be lucky to have" me but he just isn't sexually aroused by me.
He said he loves me with all his heart and would never cheat on me in a million years, he doesn't want to break up but that is the reason why he watches porn a lot and avoids sex with me.
Where...
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>>16619720
bondage him
>>16619724
He's not into it.
Previously, I tried everything I could to get more sexual with him. Nothing works.
>>16619720
Cuckold him.
Either it will make him happy, or serve him right.
>be me
>fall in love with my friend
>get rejected
>friend begs to stay friends so we do
>year and half later still in love with him
>tried to cut contact multiple times in the meantime, never succeeded
>now friend gets depressed, has some kind of breakdown
>I get antsy, feel like I need to drift away
>too...
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kill yourself you fucking idiot
>>16619719
Really can't, also no need to get your knickers in twist
>>16619684
Go find yourself a new bf/gf?
I have two friends that I met at the same time and am just as close to the two of them as the other. They happen to be dating but the female friend in the relationship recently told me that she feels sexually deprived and that her relationship cannot fulfill her needs. She explained to me that she is sexually attracted to me but I am not sure what to do because the boyfriend is just as close a friend to me. The girl has already tried to fool around with me and I am completely attracted to her but I feel like it's wrong? I don't know whether to pursue the strong feelings...
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Dude dont do that to your guy mate, theres a whole other bunch of women out there just fap and re-assess the situation. My honest advice is to distance yourself from that snake..
..or you could play the game 'just the tip' and see if it still feels wrong
bro fuck this bitch. tell her to ditch her boyfriend if he doesnt fuck her good. dont fuck her
there's like so many bitches everywhere you dont need to be ruining relationships with your bros just cause you wanna get your dick wet
i fucked a few of my guys' girlfriends cause my dick is like BAM and they're working with wet noodles. but at that point i told them that hey dog your girl is feeling me you need to do something. and they were like fuck it you can have her
we're still cool but nowhere near as cool cause now they think im just...
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here's the thing though, would it be so wrong if I waited for them to breakup and then went for it? I've never been in the situation to be involved with someone that a friend has had a serious relationship with. I know she isn't happy in the relationship and they argue all of the time and don't really have a sexual relationship anymore so I'm just not sure.
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Hey /adv/, would anyone be willing to provide some insight to my situation?
I'm 27 year old, female. I find that men within my age group are not attracted me, however very young men (like teenagers, college students) and older men (40 year olds, baby boomers, etc.) are attracted to me and often do make advances. I've had a few circumstances where I've been interested in a guy, only to find out his divorced father thinks I'm hot, or his (married) father is encouraging the son to bed and/or date me.
Can anyone provide a reason as to why this...
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26 m here, looking for college grills
young dudes can like a chick with experience
Old dudes wanna live old times.
sorry I can't help you but those are the averages, looks like you're looking for the specifics, in which case, what do ppl your age do? I think it's work so it fukt
>>16619466
>I'm smart, I'm attending an Ivy League for my Masters, and I also look/dress young for my age. I have been told that I'm also very mentally, emotionally mature.
It has nothin' to do with that.
Old guys are in that "Don't give a fuck if I'm a creepy old perv" stage of their lives and younger guys are in that "Shit, gotta get laid so people don't think I'm a loser virgin" stage in their lives.
You're...
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That age bracket is right in the middle of the bell curve of self doubt and being uneasy... i think the young ones show they openly want you cause they still have a sex drive which outweighs every other thought n reasoning and all they want is you physically and the older rogue lions;
A) see a young hot woman
b) have the hindsight to see how driven and successful you are already and hence push their boys to be with you..
You gotta accept that a guy in this age bracket may feel intimidated and overshadowed by a young successful girl like you.. but then again your...
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i got a drug test on the 4th of january. so in like a week.
i smoked pot like three times a week for 2 weeks now. how do i get this shit out of my system? how do i pass this drug test?
yo
how to get weed out of system plz halp
>>16619428
What's the drug test for? Depending on what it's for you have different options.
Hi /adv/.
Long story short. Felt really lonely, found a prostitute list, called her. Then went to her apartment, fucked her 2 times and got 2 blowjobs with condoms.
It was 3 days ago. I've been freaking out last 2 days, as I might've caught something. It was my first time with a prostitute.
To be exact, I get a little uncomfortable sensation and it burns in urethra, I think. No lesions, no discharge, no nothing. Just kind off uncomfortable. Can this be because of stress? After all, I put on the condom.
Jesus christ, never again. I feel like I've had a dirt bath
I've read on all the STD's and it seems I may have gonorrhea, but HOW? It doesn't spread through condoms.
Can someone help me out on this, please? I'm having trouble sleeping, as some diseases may still be on incubatory period.
>>16619383
wew lad
>>16619383
>1999+16
>sleeping with prostitutes
>what is pickup art
Jesus fucking Christ OP.
>>16619392
I know. This is a good fucking lesson for me to not think with my dick any time in the future.
Is it normal to have incestuous dreams about your own mother?
I probably get these dreams every other week and in the dream I'm really into it. But once I wake up I feel gross because I have literally no attraction to my own mom.
Anybody can relate?
Not sure. I had a wet dream about my mom once when I was 13. God, I felt disgusted.
>>16619373
I totally understand the feeling of disgust. When I was in middle school I'd get the dreams about my mom a lot more often than now. It was horrifying and I had nobody to talk to about it.
>>16619305
What has your relationship been like with your mother?
Hi /adv/, did I overreact here?
Story Time
There's a girl that I'm friends with who I'm into. [The beginning of every other thread, amirite?]
She wants to "hang out with me sometime". We mutually decided on restaurant and B-movie after, about a week ago. Today, about two hours ago, she texts me, "Hey anon, can [I'll call him Trevor] come along with us to the movie". Her and Trevor used to be together but not together (so friends with benefits is my best guess). I said no, then she suggested that we skip the restaurant...
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>>16619266
>dating a girl that has had a fuck buddy
great way to get your feet wet into cuckolding
you dodged her bullshit good job.
>>16619266
Fuck that ho, nigga.
In relation to the male thread, what body types do the men of /adv/ like the most?
3 for me.
>>16619188
Everything but 0 and 7.
3-4-5
wanna ask you guys for your thoughts on a 16yr old girl dating a 21yr old guy (sexual relationship).Is it weird?
It's not going to last
>>16619157
Its a little....childish
Don't you think?
>>16619159
it's kinda anoying cuz that is the case with my best female friend and im really conflicted
it seems the older I get the more I start to feel like a teenage brat.
I'm turning 22 soon and can literally feel myself recessing back into a 15-year-old narcissistic dramaqueen, pulling stupid shit and staying up all night listening to shitty music and snapping at mom just because I'm stressed.
I don't think I even was this fucking bad when I WAS a teenager.
What do I do and does it ever stop?
my sister is like 30 and she still acts like a angry teenager sometimes
so based on that, no, it does not stop
but each individual is different, so w/e
>>16619036
So it's not going to go away?
>>16619023
I'm also interested in this, in my case I keep feeling less and less like a responsible adult and more like an angsty teenager with existential crises every two days that can't focus on anything and just want to become a kid again. It's like I'm growing backwards and I feel more disconnected from the world with every passing day.
How do I motivate myself to act and feel like the adult I'm supposed to be?
Do you regret your first time ?
I do not have a first time
>>16618999
Checked
And first time in love or first time at sex?
Regardless, mine were with the same person. We were in a 4 year relationship between 13-17 and had sex at 14. Pretty young and I still tell everyone else I lost it at 15, but that's because of judgement rather than shame / regret.
And I can still honestly say that I haven't loved anyone else as much as her since. Perhaps that's because life was more care free back then and it was my first brain buzz... Who knows
>>16618999
Well I regret that I ruined it.
Hey /adv/, I'd really appreciate any responses on this one.
I'm a 22 y.o. man who broke up with a short-lived girlfriend a few days ago. Basically, we dove into a relationship over the course of this month. "I love you", talking about moving in together, etc. However, I started to realize that I am really in no position to be a good boyfriend right now-- I spend all of my time working, and during my downtime, I really have no desire to do maintenance on a relationship. The whole thing was making me anxious. Plus, deep down, I knew that we really weren't...
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>>16618948
No contact rule is for ppl who've been dumped, and trying to forget the pain. It doesn't apply to you, since youre the one who dumped her. Give her an explanation. And if she isnt satisfied, then ignore her for being obnoxious.
>>16619552
>No contact rule is for ppl who've been dumped, and trying to forget the pain.
Not OP but I find this interesting, can you elaborate?
If I fuck a girl and than she ask me not to contact her, is that her trying to "forget the pain" or did it mean I did something wrong?
>>16619589
No contact rule, isn't something you tell someone.
In your example, this person is literally telling you to fuck off. The name of the rule isn't taken literally.
