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I'm a 5'5 manlet and I need some dating advice. Since I know most of you are normies your going to tell me to “date shorter women!” but womanlets have a bitter hatred towards us. I'm thinking of going for taller women any tips and advice where can I find these amazonians?
>>16614415
>womanlets have a bitter hatred towards us
I thought womanlets liked men the same height as them? Or do they all like taller guys?
You can find taller ladies everywhere and even on dating sites. As a tall lady myself, I wouldn't mind dating and/or marrying a shorter boo.
>>16614430
>taller guys
I can't find the image where some 4'3 girl demands a 6 foot hulk and short don't need to take pics next to their taller friends
>>16614430
OP's either talking out of his ass or projecting, most girls don't care too much about a guy's height as long as he's a couple of inches taller than them. I'm 5'0" and I wouldn't have a problem with a guy who's 5'5", and neither would my short friends.
My boyfriend has recently become kind of an asshole and trying to change me.
He sees me as someone who should be cleaning the house 24/7, cooking him dinners, doing his laundry and getting groceries, but he also feels as if what's mine is his and what's his is his. When we go out shopping and he forgets his wallet (which has legitimately happened a few times), I'll pay and he will try his hardest not to pay me back and claim that he paid for this or that last time so it evens out and he owes me nothing. But if I owe him money he will chase it down until...
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He won't change. If you're not invested heavily into the relationship (see: living together) dump his ass.
>>16614214
If youre stupid enough to stay in this relationship, you deserve him to remind you daily of how stupid you are. /thread
>>16614214
You should have dropped him after the forehead slapping. I don't usually side with bitches but that shit sounds obnoxious as shit. Sounds like a beta trying to play the alpha game kek.
I'd dump him, your boyfriend sounds embarrassing.
Posted on /fit/ too but it's full of memers and I get no serious answers.
My bf is a long time lifter and body builder. He's very fit and muscular, just so it's out there.
Anyway today he asked me if I can do an intramuscular injection with an oily substance. He said he needs it from January a few months. I said yes because why the hell not, but am I in any trouble?
I've been thinking about making sign a paper that makes him responsible for his action even if I do the injection.
Anyway, what substance could it be?
>>16614124
i wouldnt do it. explain you'd feel the same way in a diabetes situation and that you dont have steady enough hands to want to risk hurting someone. tell him to ask a gym buddy to do it, maybe one who has experience doing it already.
>>16614133
I do have experience, for better or worse. I'm a nurse and my hand's the steadiest when it comes to injections. I've been doing injections for pretty much my whole family.
That's why he asked me in the first place, and not his good for nothing gym buddies.
Anyway I'm slightly paranoid for no good reason. Is there anything I should be paranoid about?
I want to ask him the substance name before I do anything. And he also does the dosage and everything else. I'll just do...
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>>16614124
It's a steroid of some sort. Laws vary by where you are, but certainly in the US and UK it's perfectly legal to have it even without a doctors prescription, but it's generally illegal to sell it or give it away.
Make sure he's done his research on dosing, knows the side effects, when to stop, and when to say "fuck me, this is going horribly wrong and I need to get myself to the ER right now". Also make sure he has all the drugs he needs before he starts. I'm not going to...
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I'm having a panic attack and I have no idea why, it's just happening. Anons with panic attacks, how do you deal with them?
Deep breaths pal. Count to seven breathinng in, hold for seven, count to seven breathing out. You'll be fine man. :) do this for a few minutes.
>>16614104
i had one for lik 24 hours straight, more of an anxiety attack. i went to the doc, explained what happened (i had just confessed my feelings to someone, got rejected) and they gave me medication that calmed me down since it had been going on for like 12 hours.
so thats a thing.
I imagine where I'm going to be 24 hours from now, what I'm going to be doing, etc.
Can someone help me figure out if this girl has a penis?
>>16614090
Why don't you just ask her? Don't be a bitch.
>>16614090
>Can someone help figure out if this is a boy with tits?
FTFY
Those look like real tits, the slight bulge in the panties could be a thicker vagina. Mine bulges out a little too for some reason
I have a Computer Science degree, and I need to find a job. The problem is, most companies want web developers (I did this for a year before and didn't enjoy it). In order to get jobs like "C++ programmer", you seemingly need 5 or so years of prior experience.
What other jobs are there that don't involve web dev? Or should I just go full on academia and get a PhD?
Full stack or go home. You're never going to catch up in experience to the guys maintaining legacy software.
>>16614072
Get a gun, one bullet, load the gun, aim towards your head, and pull trigger.
>>16614072
http://www.indeed.com/m/viewjob?jk=cf7163f48a45bfd6&from=serp
This is 1-2 years. Besides that, you might be able to get by if you have all the skills they're looking for. Knowing sombody who works in the business you're looking for is also a big plus, so don't neglect your networking skills. Saying you've helped one of their employees on a project is sure to impress recruiters.
I'm a 28-year-old woman who just got out of her first relationship. Because I was so focused on school and work and kind of too insecure to be in a relationship, I got into my first one about a year ago and since I was just taking my first steps, the guy wasn't right and it ended.
I don't want to be alone anymore and I want to find someone else but I'm wondering if such a history is something that would weird "regular" guys out? As in should I pretend to be a little more normal or would it be okay for a female to have little experience at my age?
>>16614014
i imagine most guys your age would find it to be an interesting change. they are kinda used to women being jaded and sorta 'used' at this point. finding a woman who has little experience would be refrshing.
that being said, its not anything that has to be explicitly said. i LOVE hearing about my partners dating and sexual history just cuz i find it interesting (and sometimes hot) but most men seem not to like this sort of discussion.
at best you might get a 'so how was your last relationship'...
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>>16614014
Doesn't matter nearly so much for women as it does for men. Many would find such lack of experience as beneficial and many more would not care at all.
If you're a 27 year old man in the same situation, you'd be fucked though.
>>16614026
>on a rainy afternoon somewhere down the line when you are already more or less together.
Yeah you're probably right but I wonder if a long-term partner would feel differently about me once he knew this. It night be a silly thing to say but I don't really know how this love business works. But like you said, if I play it confidently it will probably be okay.
hey ladies, would you stop finding your bf or husband or whatever attractive forever if you saw him cry?
When my last gf broke up with me we both started crying and I feel really embarrassed now
>>16613999
Not at all. That's stupid.
I've seen my bf cry. Seen my dad cry. Seen my grandpa cry. It's a fucking normal human reaction. To never see a man that I have a strong relationship with cry, would be weird.
If he cries over nothing, yeah, that might influence my view of him early on in a relationship, but otherwise it's no big deal.
>>16613999
No, if my bf cries for me it will make me feel loved.
Senior year of high school I went to this a school football game. There was this girl theee who talked to me. She was very cute. Im such an idiot though, I should have asked for her number.
Anyway, fast forward about a year to today. I saw her on my "suggested friends" on facebook and she accepted my request. Would it be inappropriate to message her and lead off about the game? I really dont want to come off as a creep.
Bump
>>16613978
Ya lead off about the game
If she doesn't remember just say something like "oh you said I was the most handsome man you'd ever seen in your life" just to break the ice a little and let her know you're Alpha as fuck.
>>16614429
Is it okay to do this over facebook?
You dont think she'll think im a creep?
I have yet to get my girl to have an orgasm. I've had partners before her, and they all claimed to have orgasmed (maybe some fakers in the mix), but I can't crack this one. I've tried extensive foreplay, role playing, g spot stimulation and clit stimulation, all to no avail.
She's expressed the desire to get tied up, so I'll try that in the future and maybe trying to hold better rythm. Can any of you offer some tips? Femanons welcome too!
Some girls just can't orgasm, OP. I'm one of those girls with an endless libido but an inability to orgasm fully. Penetration generally does not give orgasms. I find that fingering hard helps, and my boyfriend bought a couple of sex toys to use on me, one is a hitachi wand and the other this dildo thing that stimulates the clit at the same time. They usually cause me to squirt.
Girls generally like being dominated and being roughed up. Dirty talking, biting, pulling her hair and holding her hands behind her back works wonders. Nipples are very sensitive too so if...
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>>16614013
Do you really believe it is biologically impossible for you to come? That's pretty good adv though, I've been thinking of roughing her up more and grabbing her wrists and pulling back as I doggy her, but like you said penetration rarely causes orgasm. I might look into some electronic toys...
>>16614040
Just need to dominate her so she feels helpless and submissive just like my man Caesar Milan does with his bitches.
How does one talk to random strangers?
Just to get this off the table; I consider myself more or less confident and I have no real problem connecting to people at work, college, sports or partys.
Now I started to use the train on a weekly basis and more often than not there is some person I am dying to talk to.
We are talking 2hour rides here.
Some persons I see again some I do not.
Seems such a waste to be bored and stare out of the window when I could spend the time with nice people.
>>16613952
Is it normal for strangers to talk to each other in your country?
If not, then don't bother. They'll probably assume you're drunk or special.
"Good evening. How are you doing?"
"Nice day we're having :)"
"Is that <insert book/movie/whatever you have in common>?"
Not that hard. A nice smile and a friendly tone goes a long way.
Source: A formerly socially anxious kid who trained himself to be socially by going to restaurants after work, sitting at the bar with a meal and a drink, and forcing himself to start conversations with the complete and total strangers around him.
>>16613965
I am from Germany.
You have to be polite.
You do not intrude.
There are more exceptions than rules tho...
Anyway how would I proceed if I do not give two shits?
Okay, can someone please give me a more detailed explanation of this shit? How is it sent but not delivered? If I have white circle check marks do I just need to keep resending it till I get a blue check? I have messages with white checks that I sent like a month ago and are still white... And the person is on FB all the time. Why won't those send?
>>16613910
generally speaking SENT means that the server has your message in hand, and has sent it out.
delivered means that the person has 'accepted' the message, even if automatically. like if you are using KIK, it means that the person has logged on, or that their phone automatically notified them they have a message.
read means they saw that, swiped, and opened to read it in the chat box itself.
not sure what it means if someone people are still not getting it delivered if they been online.
Empty circle: I'ma chargin mah lazor
Checked empty circle: I'ma firin mah lazor
Checked shaded circle: My lazor has hit the target
Friend pic: My target has seen the hit
>>16613916
Sometimes the messages does like a request thing, where they have to accept it first. So even if they login but don't accept the message request it would stay white w/check?
I don't know if I should break up with my gf or not.
Points for staying:
>She embodies pretty much all the values I want in a gf (conservative, smart, family values, loyal, basically the classic gf)
>I don't think I'll be able to do better, as I'm pretty antisocial and don't like the whole hookup thing, and my sort of girlfriend is hard to come by, especially at university.
>She's fun to talk to
>She's a virgin who...
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>>16613878
You're wasting her time and she deserves someone better
If you're not feeling it then you have to break it off. This will only make her more attached to you and it will all hurt more in the end.
>>16613878
i notice you didnt say anything of her attractiveness. coupling that wiht the fact that you only really starte ddating her because friends begged you to, you probably do not find her attractive. maybe 'okay' looking.
anway, if you just started uni, arent you like 18? arent you worrying a little too much about marrying this woman?
honestly you havent evefn had sex with her, so why are you talking about how if you dont end it soon you'll marry her. why not just break up with her later?...
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Hey users, I really appreciate any serious comments or advice. I have recently gotten back with an ex, while we were apart she went on a few tinder dates, the last one she went on she was raped. I originally blamed her, now I've had time to think and know its not her fault. She never went to police out of fear of it becoming public. I really want this bastard to pay. Can I get in trouble for impersonating him on Facebook and sending shit loads of friend requests. When I've got heaps send out a message to all of them saying I am a rapist, with a bit of a story? Can...
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The piece of shit is in the profile picture...
>>16613770
K thanks for sharing.
>>16613770
I think theres potential to get in trouble. Personally I'd tread carefully but idk you don't have to take my advice.
You could however, make theFacebook profile and do all what you oh said but get vpns or whatever to make it harder to track whoever made the profile. Although, what I just said about vpns could be total bullshit as I know full all about computers
Hey /adv/, these threads always seem to go well.
Let's get a "Life Lessons" thread going. Post the most important things that you have learned so far and feel the need to share with others.
Pic related
Inb4 relationship shit.
>Weight loss is 70% diet, 30% exercise. Control your eating
>Seeing the glass as half full instead of half empty will help you on the road to success
>Saying you'll do something and actually doing it are two completely different things. Justdoit.shia
>>16613578
>Never join the military unless it is for college, and even then, only if you seriously have no other means of income
>Speaking of the military, any woman who was, currently is, or thinking about joining the military is absolute garbage and should be avoided like the plague. You know those stories your grandpa has of how he banged 1 or 2 girls overseas during his 4 year tour? Military women are 10x as bad
>Any woman...
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>>16613843
CONT...
>Since there is a thread about this on /adv/ right now... Men, any woman who doesn't want to date you because you're a virgin isn't worth the time. Even if it's just "I don't prefer virgins". It's just not worth the headache at the end of the day. I don't want to sound like /r9k/, but women will find any minor detail to give them a reason not to date a guy whether it be his height to number of sexual partners. Plus, not wanting to...
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