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My bf wants my pussy hairy but I like it waxed...what next?
He always reaches in my pants to feel it when I dont wax and I feel like his toy so I dint wanna wax it.
I have kind of the opposite problem. My husband wants me to wax, but it's way too painful.
>>16625520
>>16625524
Laser?
I've seen a few threads here about depressed Marines here lately, and I regret to inform you all that I must add one more! I am a junior Marine that is currently training at ITB east. I have been struggling with depression for awhile before my rebirth into the Corps, so the Corps is NOT the reason that I am depressed. But it is also not helping either. The stress that I would normally be able to handle completely crippling me. I feel sad all the time for no apparent reason. For awhile, it was getting better. But now it is getting very very bad, and I can't keep it...
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The story you tell sounds similar to those my friends used to tell me.They all joined up. UMMM idk maybe if you can try to get out..if not just do it..stay outta trouble ...stay safe..all that stuff..best wishes.
>>16625015
Thanks, I don't necessarily want to get out. But I feel like I might not have a choice if this doesn't get better. Some will call me a pussy because I havent even seen combat or been deployed, but like I said earlier, the corps isn't why I am depressed. To be honest, I don't know WHY I am depressed, but a year or two before I became a Marine, I was in a deep pit of depression, it got better over time, but now its back, and my life just feels like shit every day. and I don't fucking know why.
>>16625031
Yeah they definitely will. I also have a friend who got out early...still talks about seeing the shit and went on some deployment to a non-combat zone..everyone rags on them but thats not the point...do whatcha need to do
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Im always jealous of other women. Not only my friends but also celebrities like IvankaTaylor Swift, Emma Watson or Kate Middleton ( wife of prince William). I know its stupid and unreasonable. I consider myself as attractive, Im about to finish dental school next year, I have a great relationship with my boyfriend. But I just cannot stop that jealousy feeling.
>>16625505
I mean Ivanka Trump and Taylor Swift
You need to physically get this out of your system. How? It may sound weird, but what you should do is get a doll, whether it's blowup, realish or whatever, and set it up as a recreation of the woman you're jealous of in particular. Now, what you need to do is place a dildo on that female doll and go to town on it. While you're fucking this Ivanka Trump dildo doll, call it names and degrade it by insulting its hideous hermaphrodite penis (or something along those lines, get creative). Over time, you'll come to associate these beautiful women with strange...
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>>16625536
I dont think this pavlovian method is in any way recommended by psychologists...
>>16625505
Have exactly the same issue. I know that objectively look okay but it doesnt stop me from getting jelaous about every better looking person, famous or not.
What's the best way to decide on a grad school program?
By pulling numbers out of a hat.
>>16624974
From that pic, Clark University seems really appealing.
>>16625135
Clark is actually a really neat school, definitely worth looking into
>make plan in 9th grade to kill myself when highschool ends because I had no friends or serious aspirations
>grades suffer badly for two years
>somehow end up dating the valedictorian of the grade above me
>she helps me find purpose
>grades improve somewhat, as I then planned to go to a technical school following highschool
>we plan to stay together after highschool (we were both lonely, but...
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The latter, obviously. No college will guarantee you a job, don't be naive. With the second option, you always have the option of transferring if you feel you're not being pushed enough or if you manage to save up enough money.
>>16625500
>CS
>be guaranteed any job that I want because of certifications and credentials that college holds
Programming is the most outsourced job lol
>>16625500
Don't settle for something that wont make you happy, and don't worry about the money too much 17k a year isn't bad CS averages 60k starting.
/adv/ just how bad is it living with student loans?
anybody here in debt?
is college even worth it if it's not free?
>>16624929
Is not having any money worth not going to college? If you've got the smarts and the drive theres no reason not to, you can pay loans off pretty easy if you go to a small state college and get a major that isn't liberal arts.
>>16624929
I personally think it's awful. I had an unsubbed loan for a bit and watching the interest accrue was maddening to me. I think if it's your only option and you can get one, a subbed loan wouldn't be too bad.
So I went on this binge for the last 3 days of doing nothing but reading manga, and I essentially stayed in the same spot, slept when I felt like it, ate sporadically and nothing good for me, and showered every other day. I didn't brush my teeth tho because I felt it was a waste of time. But I've finished my binge, I'm all groomed up, but when I brushed my teeth and used mouthwash, all my teeth started to hurt. Why is this happening? can I make it stop? What if I swish mouthwash for like an hour?
>>16624923
Probably have a gum infection. You should floss more often.
>>16624940
I never floss so that's probs it.
> swish mouthwash for an hour
Lmaooooo no
Get dental floss (real floss that comes in a roll, not those little handheld flossers) use it twice daily BEFORE brushing. Massage your gums with it. Then use an electric toothbrush to clean your teeth really well and massage your gumline. Then use a mouthwash that says it prevents plaque/tartar buildup. Swish it around for 30 seconds.
If its your gums that are bothering you its gum disease (gingivitis you can treat, periodontitis you'll need to see a dentist). If its your actual teeth...
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Should I get a second job to save money for guns N roses reunion tickets?
>>16625162
>getting a job for a single entertainment purpose
How is it being 10?
How much are the tickets?
>>16625162
Drugs, booze and partying will age one quickly.
Hey /adv/,
So I need an opinion on a moral dilemma my female friend Anna is facing. Our mutual friend of 7+ years, let's call him Mac, has been dating this girl Iris (another long-term mutual friend of both of ours) for about 5 years. Last year, they broke up temporarily because Mac essentially said he wanted to spend part of his college time sleeping with other women.
He ended up having sex with one of Iris's close friends, and it turned into a huge argument. She and Iris still don't speak, although Iris and Mac got back together shortly after....
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>>16624910
Mac sounds like a dickwad. I wouldn't want to be friends with him.
>>16624932
Honestly, this whole ordeal has made me reconsider whether he's the kind of person I want to be friends with. He's usually cool but this made me pretty mad.
bump
Femanon here. I have a deformed face due to an accident I had when I was young. How do I find a mail order husband? Do male equivalents of mail order brides even exist?
What about a blind man?
>>16625025
/thread
You should just kill yourself OP. Seriously.
>want to learn 3D animation
>want to brush up my japanese
>want to learn to make better music
>want to learn film
I want to do so much but how can I do it in such a way that won't overwhelm me all at once?
Thanks in advance
You could start with jap-monkey-shit then watch tutorials for the rest in nip-nong language.
Hey-YA!
-Wong tong ping
>>16624917
Haha.
It'd probably be years till I began on the rest in that case. Think sectioning them all throughout the day as if they were extra classes might burn me out?
>>16624906
You can not do it all at once.
girlfriend for 3 years
met online
love so much
shes twice my age and shes married and she had a bf who she cheated on with me when we started out but ignore that bit please
shes extremely sensitive about everything and has harsher rules for me than her. shes lenient with how she acts but with me shes so strict. admitted to her that ive watched porn a few times over the psat few years. it really is a rare thing. so she leaves me
i cant take this pain because i think its real, shes so sensitive she cant take it but she doesnt undesrstand how...
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>>16624946
='(
>>16624899
You're a faggot. Grow a pair you fucking scrub.
Im babysitting my neighbor's kid(7) and he keeps talking about murder. Not intimidatingly but it's still raising concern. Hes saying things like "can i murder you?" (and when i hadnt responded he said) "if you said no it wouldnt matter, i would do it anyway", "i'm going to go get a knife" (at one point he took scissors and i had to call my sister in to take them away while i held him back, but when she came in he acted the victim), and was saying random numbers when i put him to bed. He hit me hard many times on my head and im afraid...
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Do nothing. If he tries to kill you just fucking kick his skull in self defense (Do NOT listen to my advice)
This is so creepy!
This is a hard one because this is a kid. You can't simply walk away the house (or can you)?)
I would say to ask someone to be with you. You said you called your sister, can she be in there more times? Having someone close will feel better, and less creepy. Just my opnion btw
Sounds fucked-up, but I've heard kids say all kinds of fucked-up things and go through all kinds of weird phases, and turn out OK in the end. But guidance is important.
Ask him why he's talking to you like that, and acting like that. Make him actually talk out his thought process. And explain clearly how it makes you feel, and why people don't talk to each other like that. Talk to him like an adult, basically. The biggest mistake you can make with kids, is to treat them like another species that need to be lied to and spoken to in soft tones. Show him the...
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brother just walked in on me watching porn....
he just walked in my room asking about steam mobile authentication. what to do?
You have no choice. You have to kill him before he tells anyone else.
How old are you?
This things are trivial, it happens...
I'm afraid my neighbor could be gay. I never seen him around women, and he sometimes brings men into his apartment. I live wall to wall with this guy, and i can sometimes hear sexsounds from his apartment when I put a wineglass to the wall.
I'm at my wits end, I dont know what to do and how to deal with this.
10/10 I lolled
>>16624881
But what is your problem then, that he is gay or that he just is nosy and shit?
>>16624881
Donald Trump is an idiot. Vote for Bernie Sanders instead.
