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Where do I meet new people and make new friends?
Outside.
I asked if she was crushing on anyone, she said yes and now she's asking me if I am crushing on anyone...but I'm crushing on her, what do I do/say?
>>16626980
She's not pining for you. Drop your romantic feelings for her, because they're not going anywhere. If you tell her you're into her, you're bound to be rejected because she likes someone else.
Believe me, she wouldn't have mentioned another guy if she was into you.
Just get away m8, getting a little friendzoned there
>>16626987
This sucks /: but you're right, thanks anon
Once again, I need your help /adv/
Could you possibly help me write a personal statement for a university? I want to study astrophisycs/aerospace engineering. what should I write? any specific introduction? Where can I see what others that got admitted wrote?
Thanks in advance!
>>16626084
Look in the web for personal statements related to your career.
When writing it you should start by introducing your interest for the career and an specific thing that brought your interest for the career and shit. Then for the next paragraph you should talk about why they should get you for the career, like the work experience if you have done some and what it has prepared you for the career like the skill you got from it, then you should put like books maybe like speeches you have attended and finally to...
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>meet a girl I actually like
>mock her and be mean to her
>try and freak her out
why do I do this
to see if she has depth of character
>>16626969
It's because you feel that you're not good enough for her
>>16626976
sounds about right, probably why im so self deprecating too
Hi /adv/, I need your help. I want to go to a bar and have some casual sex this New Year's Eve, but I'm so inexperienced that I'm coming to 4chan for advice; I've never even dated anyone etc. The plan so far is:
- Shave, bathe, look nice
- Buy condoms
- Take a couple shots
- Go to gay bar
- Meet a gay dude or maybe a straight girl (I know, at a gay bar?... this gay bar is really popular among straight people for some reason)
- ????
- Sex
Yeah, it's a terrible plan. How can I make it better? How should I act? What should...
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It's harder to NOT get laid if you're looking for dudes at a gay bar
I haven't worn my retainer in 6 months. Should I save up for braces again or just say fuck it? I only have a small gap right now.
/adv/ - Personal Dentists
Been with bf 5 years.
How do I bring the spark back to our sex?
Roleplay
Describe your current sexlife and how it was in the beginning
1. get rid of condoms
2. tease him all day, put him down, make him mad and sexually frustrated
3. go somewhere public like a big mall or anything really
4. fuck
Hottest sex I've ever fucking had in my life.
Help /adv/ I am literally retarded
What does it mean when a girl randomly dances in front of you for no reason? We were in a room by ourselves if that adds to anything.
>>16626047
Also, what would you do in the moment? I sperged out and went downstairs to get a Capri-sun.
Means she felt like dancing? The only thing I can infer from that is that she feels comfortable around you. Doesn't really mean anything more unless she was like stripping in front of you
>>16626047
She was probably drunk lol
What's a good response to "do you have a girlfriend yet?" And the inevitable "why don't you?" that follows?
>>16626832
>"do you have a girlfriend yet?"
Nah
> "why don't you?"
I haven't found the right person yet
"why don't you?"
because you can't buy one at walmart
>>16626838
pretty much this. no one really believes you if you are fat or ugly though so its a moot point. no matter what they say they'll judge you.
but if ur a qt you say 'havent met the right person' everyone just thinks you're really mature about dating.
if you are fat and ugly but want to come off a little better just say 'i dumped my gf recently and not quite ready to get back in the game'.
but if they know you at all they'll know ur lying.
My gf is going to leave me if I dont stop drinking, but I'm not rdy to quit. Idk what to do. I don't want her to leave, I don't like ppl giving me ultimatums, and I don't want to quit drinking but I know I should
Make a choice, one or the other. $5 says you'll pick the drink
Hey guys I'm going to NYC tonight for new years eve and I need to find a place to sleep just for tonight. I never booked a hotel/motel so I'm kind of lost, and I don't know if it's even too late now.
Anyone know a good website/app to search for places?
Google is usually pretty good.
>>16626031
booking.com
Are you a guy or girl? How old?
So, I've been told that I'm much more compatible with 'weird' girls than normies, and upon looking back, it is true. I had two romantic partners in the past and both were very unusual introverted awkward would-be shutins. Both were bi, one was a complete flaming weeb and the other was a dedicated fan of other niche items, both had some strange sex/kink stuff, etc.
The kind of weird I'm compatible with is by no means the Tumblr weird, but the Women-On-/r9k/ weird. (Yes, there are women on /r9k/, and a surprising amount.)
And I'm sad to...
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>>16626799
nah i get. the best i can recommend is trying to create area code meet up threads on thoseb oards and see what happens (Assuming they dont have them already, i know places like /v/ and /x/ do once in awhile).
other than that, try going to meet up dot com and looking for really niche things that interest you that other introverted type girls might be at as well. keep in mind this is a fine tuned hunt so it can take a long time to find a girl like this, let alone a girl. but if you are out interacting with...
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Try soc. worked for me. I'm into similar women and found my current gf on soc. however you have to be alpha/have value because manyen will be after them.
>>16626835
The weeb one was off /adv/, so yes, I understand. But that seems thirsty, does it not? A lot of those 'men' will fuck anything that moves.
>>16626819
I think that would get me b& faster than posting CP. If I posted a meetup thread on /d/, /c/ or /r9k/ (The last of which I don't go to), I'd be told to take that shit to /soc/.
And even therein, the meetup threads for my state (when they show up and 404 with 10 replies) have never given anything.
So I was messaging this girl for a while, and eventually I asked if she was single, which she was. Straight after I asked her if she wanted to see a movie, to which she happily responded yes.
We had a good time and went our ways, then I realised I forgot to ask for her number, so I decided to message her and ask for it. No response after like 10 hours, so I ask her about something unrelated, which she responds to. After that I ask for her number again, and she says something like "Sure, but we're just friends right?". At this point I'm pretty pissed off,...
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>>>/r9k/. But really though, if you don't want anything to do with her that isn't a romantic relationship, tell her that and be on your way. Then get over it. I've done that before.
This doesn't sound that bad. We don't know for sure if she liked you at the movies anyway. It's hard to be honest, that's why she didn't give you an answer the first time you asked for her number. Even then she told you fairly early on. There's stories like this that involve multiple trips to the movies, dinners, which is closer to bring led on then yours. Your level of annoyance is disproportionate to what happened and is why girls have a hard time being honest.
>>16626019
>Why do women have to be like this? :(
This isn't a woman thing.
If the woman of your dreams suddenly came back into your life, the girl you would be currently talking to would be a lot less interesting
Does anyone have any experience with balanitis simplex?
I've recently contracted a few small sores on my benis, probably caused by using a too strong soap.
Is a steroid cream necessary to assist in getting rid of it? If so, how long?
You should not be using soap on your benis.
Earlier today I took a dump and found blood in my shit along with some mucus. This isn't something new for me as I've hemorrhoids for years. I never bothered to go get checked because I find the idea of someone looking at or messing with my asshole less than thrilling, plus it didn't hurt or anything.
But today I lost enough blood to feel uncomfortable, though I can't tell if it was because of the amount of blood or the sight of it in the toilet. Anyway, I want to get checked in case there's something more sinister going on. I've been googling for over an hour now about causes and treatment of various possible issues but I can't find what kind of doctor I should see. All articles and entries mention "your doctor" as if there's some general ass-and-digestive-track doctor. The symptoms point to a variety of possible problems, almost each relevant to a different doctor specialty.
At least the blood is bright red which means the problem (if it's something other than hemorrhoids) isn't very high up the ass.
I'll keep searching but what kind of doctor do you guys think I should go to?
>>16626790
Your normal GP that you see for regular stuff will check you or will give you a referral
They will probably just give you some cream and tell you to eat more fibre though
I hope this is your post, J. Because no one deserves to bleed out the ass more than you, bitch.
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