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I did it /adv/... I stood my ground yesterday against her using my kindness as weakness. How do I keep myself from budging?
I keep telling myself I made the right decision but I'm constantly plagued with thoughts on how rude it was for me to not let her use me once again and how I should change my mind.
There is a constant battle in my head and I feel like if she speaks to me at the wrong moment today I might change my mind.
>tl;dr: girl constantly uses my good/giving nature to obtain money from me with nothing in return. It's...
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Just don't talk to her m9.
>>16626001
1. Ask her when she's gonna repay you.
2. Watch her flip out.
Congratulations, you don't feel any kindness towards her anymore.
What are you going to watch tonight, anons?
I'll be with my girl alone and we don't know what to watch to spend the night up! Some saga or filmography would be the best!
Help!
>I'll be with my girl alone
>with
>alone
>>16625988
>tripfag
>trip
>faggot
>>16625988
Well clearly OP's girl is >pic related
How do you do it? How do you block out that voice in your head that says "You're shit" whenever you make a mistake while you're trying to get better at something?
I'm trying to learn the violin. I had a teacher for a few months, but we didn't really get along - she was a bit of a bitch and didn't appreciate how busy I was with work/uni and that practicing in my house was difficult. Eventually gave up, but I've always wanted to pick it up and try again.
The problem is, no matter how hard I try I can't stop myself from...
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>>16626773
there isnt much we can say other than suck it up. this is one of the parts of advice that boil down to your inner workings and having to man up and work through it.
to be honest i feel like you a LOT of the time. i do have high moments where im mesmerized by what I manage to make. but nine out of ten days im hating myself and thinking im never gonna make something worth watching and that im wasting my time.
but then the next day i do it again even if it sucks. learning is the only way to get better....
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Give yourself a break. If you don't make mistakes, you are not human.
Sending you a big hug.
And probably the worst video I could think of.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCpZ6aX7aRE
>>16626784
>i do have high moments where im mesmerized by what I manage to make
Lucky.
>>positive re enforcement.
I don't feel like that kind of shit works for me though. I mean I've never really tried but it just seems like cheesey bullshit. But I guess there's no harm in trying. It's just so frustrating when you fuck up over and over and over again and feel like there's no sign of improvement. I'm just feeling...
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Nerdish last night of the year
> Lord of the rings
> S.O.M.A.
Never seen/played them
what would you choose?
>>16625884
>never saw LOTR
Underage b&
>>16625885
>tripfag talking shit
Haven't seen LOTR aswell and I'm well off it. Go be a mainstream nigger somewhere else, tripfag.
>>16625905
Who are you quoting?
Someone please help me. It's an emergency. I'm a complete ignorant with food. I put a bread in the microwave. Soon after, smoke came out. I opened the microwave and a bunch of smoke came out. I opened the windows. It smells horrible. I'm scared of suffocation and starting a fire. What should I do? The microwave keeps making ticking sounds. Please help me fast.
>>16626738
you turned it off yeah? just keep everything open and wait
Eat it quick. It won't burn the house down if it's in your stomach.
>>16626738
Oh shit I think I might die better post on 4chan.
Lol grab salt and throw it in there if you are worried about fire
So right now I'm living in the same house as my sister and her boyfriend, along with their baby.
I'm going to be 20 soon and I'd like to buy my first car so I can get a different job and potentially go to community college. I have about $4,500 saved up and I'm trying to spend it as wisely as I can.
The problem is, there's no other car at our house. My sis and her bf have been borrowing this other car from a friend for the past year or so, but the friend is now going to take the car away from us(plus the insurance and registration tags have...
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Wait, so they have jobs, but they can't buy their own fucking car?
>>16626708
Unless you're paying them rent, they will use the car as they like for let you stay with them for 'free'.
When you get the car establish clear boundaries that if you need it for school or your own shit, that comes first. I think if you explain it as you're trying to better yourself and be more of an adult they'll have to respect that.
And maybe if they see you handling your shit, they'll get their shit together.
I met a girl randomly, we hit it off talking for 3 hours about random stuff and then we had to part ways. She asked me to add her on snapchat, so I did, and before we split, she told me to add her on facebook. I tried adding her on facebook and I can't add her or even message her. Is it even worth the trouble to try and contact her to add her on facebook? She goes to school 3 hours away and lives 45 minutes from me when she's home from school, so this isn't something that would work out long term I'm thinking.
inb4 hurr durr facebook
*try and contact her through snapchat saying I can't add her
and I don't think she blocked me because she never pulled out her phone in front of me and I tried adding her in front of her and it wasn't working already
>>16625873
I don't think you think much
>>16625883
oh i know i think to much.
