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I don't know what to do or who to talk to.
Last year 4 days after new year I attempted suicide. In a few days it will be a year exactly and I'm starting to feel really bad about it like I'm terrified of that day. I don't know what to do please help me..
Do drugs.
On the 23rd marked one year since I tried to kill myself and honestly I didn't give it two thoughts. Why are you terrified of it?
Why does it frighten you so much?
Been dating for about a month and a half. Haven't kissed yet, both of us are each other's first and somewhat awkward. How do I introduce intimacy into the relationship without coming on too strong?
Tell her you want to have sex with her.
Tell her you want to bend her over a table and fuck her in the ass.
>dating for a month
>haven't kissed
are you 12? how do you even start a relationship without kissing?
How to get over PTSD?
I fucked a fifty something year old man in the ass one night when i was out of my mind drunk in a foreign city (actually, it was closer to 7am)
also I got basically raped by a guy when I was skiing and never told anyone.
I really, really liked the ski resort (I'd never been) and the snow and everything was magical but now I feel sick when i hear about skiing or mountains, and travelling abroad cos of example one. I think I may have ptsd of some sort.
Main reason is probably because I'm bi/asexual and had never properly...
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pls respond
Take Jublia.
This is why nobody takes rape seriously...
I've had basically the same group of friends since early high school (24 now) but I feel like they're all turning against me recently for some reason. I haven't done anything retarded to fuck anything up and if anything have been nicer lately.
It started a few days ago when I found out that something had been boiling under one of my friendships for the last year and it just erupted into an instant disintegration of one of my friendships. I didn't care so much because she was being extremely disrespectful so I decided to let her fuck off.
They...
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I would distance myself from them for a little bit. They seem to be too stubborn to at least try to see eye to eye with you. Op, you don't need this negativity.
But, would you mind telling us what was it that angered your one friend who started this?
>>16624115
I used to live with her. The place we lived in was owned by her family. She moved out and I moved out a year later. I only gave 20 days notice when moving out (but in my defense, I told the landlords/her sisters that I'd prorate, and they said it was ok), I supposedly left the room dirty (even though I spent an entire day vacuuming and cleaning), and not all the bills were payed when I left (because both of the other roommates owed $400 in bills and I wasn't going to pay it for them)
I wouldn't...
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Your "friends" suck. Fuck them.
My female friend (that I have hooked up with before) and her friend keep joking to me how her and I are going to hook up tomorrow on NYE. Should I take that as she actually wants to hook up? I'm kind of an idiot when it comes to shit like this.
>>16623995
>HURR GUYS IMMA HAVE SEX A GIRL LOOK AT ME HURRRRRR
Shut up.
>>16624003
I honestly don't know I'm an idiot with this shit
Yes fuck her
I'm guessing she's not into me.
She's from Hawaii. I'm from California. She visited twice. I visited once.
Should I press send?
>>16623994
Christ, no. Don't kick yourself in the teeth. Say something like, "Yeah? What did they say? Do you still want to come?"
>>16624002
This.
Dont be such a little bitch, OP. Holy fuck. So what if her parents don't like you? I doubt you'll care when you're balls deep inside her.
>>16623994
Nice beta responce. Should have told her you'd much rather see her over what her parents think.
Hey /adv/ what are your thoughts on pot?
Positives?
Negatives?
Experiences that made you have a negative view on it?
have read about lots of bad experiences about it
mostly long term users (like a decade)
they become somewhat dependent to it, and have a hard time when trying to quit
lots of them says they have alot of improvements on their life once they are clean
Sometimes fun but frequently makes me anxious, so I don't do it anymore.
Use it in the weekends when you've got nothing else to do, no work, no homework or whatsoever. Doing it everyday makes hou really dependent on it. And for someone who's a student or has a shitty job I'd recommend not buying it constantly.
So I unfriended someone on Facebook which I now regret. What's a plausible/socially acceptable explanation/lie I can give that shows I "accidentally" unfriended them? Is there any way that's possible (to accidentally unfriend someone) on Facebook? Please help :(((((
>>16623981
>how can I lie to my friend
Some friend you are.
Tell them that they did it but they were too drunk to remember.
>tfw a tornado hit my town a couple of days ago and nobody called to see if I was alright
not a single. fucking. person.
If you're reading this, fuck you Colby. Fuck you Bianca. Hope you choke on your own vomit you shits
Sorry to hear about the 'nado
are you a hillbilly?
>>16623931
No i'm not a hillbilly
I was in the April 2011 tornados and 2 of my internet friends and a girl I knew irl checked on me
I'm a 19 year old kissless virgin. People irl and online tell me Im good looking but I'm kind of short (5'6"). I'm going to a coworker's new years party tomorrow. There will be lots of college age people (including girls) and alcohol. I plan on getting drunk to ease my nerves. How the fuck do you talk to girls? I hear all this conflicting advice. "Talk to her how you talk to a guy" "follow pua step x, y, z" "talk to her and make escalating physical contact" "read the red pill" What the hell do I do? Some people...
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>>16623875
the reason you get so much different advice is because all of it DOES work. on some women. every person is different, and believe it or not, girls are people.
you've heard the term pick up artist, yeah? there is a reason they are called artists, and not pick up scientists. there is no perfect formula that works. they are people who react to different things differently based on their own interests and upbringing and surroundings and how they react to them (That 'soul' element).
so...
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Saw a balding thread earlier. My hair has been like it is in this picture for the past 3 or 4 years, the crown slowly getting bigger. Tried nioxin, rogaine, tons of shampoos and oils and no effect whatsoever. So after seeing that thread here today I did some research and discovered Toppik microfibers. Went to the beauty store and picked some up... Wow!! My hair hasn't looked this full in years! It doesn't get all over the place and make a mess either. Comes out in the shower.
So for any balding anons out there, unless you have the money for a follicle transplant,...
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After product application about an hour ago.
And btw, that is not residue from it on my neck, I just need a trim down there. My hair seems to be migrating from the top of my head down the back of my neck lol.
I hope this helps many balding anons.
as having a good head of hair is one of the only things going for me it makes me slightly butthurt that people who have other things can simply buy hair.
Also how the fuck does that work? You literally have hair where you didn't ... and you said it was an hour ago? where does the hair come from??
Help me out guys. We're all lads of 18 to 20 and they've all lost their virginity and done things with girls except for me. I wouldn't say I'm ugly and am pretty average imo along with them but I just never really cared about the whole virginity or girlfriend thing. It was always like whatever but in the past few months the topic of discussion is always pretty much how I'm a virgin and it sounds pathetic but the fuckers can get really harsh.
I'm honestly getting desperate desu and feel lost, I don't usually make effort to go out...
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>>16623810
Thats a dumb fucking pose
You shouldnt care. You'll end up beeing unhappy and depressed about how you couldnt get a cuter girl/girlfriend to have sex with you to loose your virginity and then youll just get teasee for that. They'll find something else to pick on about you
>>16623847
Problem is I'm already feeling really really depressed whenever we go out and I get ganged on by all of them about it. I hide that it makes me depressed and laugh it off, I always put on a fake smile and laugh but it's tearing me inside.
And yea pose is garbage lol
>>16623810
Maybe not a 2/10. but a 4/10 yes. Your first girl doesn't have to be "the one". Just have some fun with the best looking girl you can get. If that girl is 4/10 then yeah fuck her. You will build confidence and gain experience. You can get better girls later.
Hey, is there anyway to completely forgot a person and should I try too?
Not really, but there are ways to prepare your brain for when those thoughts arise (mindfulness meditation, yoga, shit like that). Also, work on creating newer, more vivid memories
>>16623855
Alright, cheers anon.
>>16623805
Falling in love
Since college started a year and a half ago, I haven't really made any friends. There are people I talk to somewhat regularly, but only on a really shallow level. I usually don't go out on weekends.
I'm somewhat smart, attractive, athletic, decently dressed, cultured, and I have a lot of hobbies, but I can't seem to connect with anyone. I can only assume that this is because my interests are so unusual and that my life-philosophy is pretty bizarre. Additionally, all my hobbies are solo for the most part.
It's getting to the point where...
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>>16623791
You just described myself to a T during my first 3 years of college.
I became withdrawn and spent a lot of time alone.
Don't do that. College is a place where you are supposed to have fun. Force yourself to cut loose; do shit you don't want to do, and do it frequently. Cut down on all habits that are solo. Try to find as much time as you can outside.
Finally and most importantly, join the campus gym and get swole. Find bros to get swole with.
The last semester of my senior year...
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What's the best way to show my compassionship for a girl that has an idea that I like her without coming off as corny or weird?
>>16623790
"Hey, I think it's obviously, that I like you. You wanns go out this friday?"
Worked for me a few times...
