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Recently accuired bf.
Now pls everybody post the cutest stuff somebody has ever done for them or vice versa for future reference. Also, things your SO did/said that made you want to hug them forever.
just give him a blowjob
>>16630220
Oh come on. That's so 2008
>>16630223
Right, we don't do that no more.
@ this point i'm not sure if this belongs in /fit/ or /adv/ but hell
so, i'm trying to figure out if i should keep losing weight or start trying to put on muscle. i'm currently 111.2, aiming to get down to around 95-100, and at 4'11. i've always liked the ~lithe look, but, i guess i also just defaulted to it since i'm pretty short and it seems like it would make the most sense.
i've lost weight without going to a gym (i run), but to gain muscle i'd need to spend some money on a gym or equipment, and so, in that case, i would be also in the market for some sort of work out buddy to help me out(not for motivation, i can motivate myself fine). but it just seems like a lot of commitment for results i may not want and i'm still not very comfortable with my body yet.
advice from anons?
>>16630185
Personal trainer here, what is your muscle goal? just to be stronger? to gain muscle in certain areas? bikini season?
>>16630185
Eat pizza. Drink beer. Sit on your fat ass. That's all you need to know.
you're a fucking midget, you should go lift so that you don't get stuck under the couch or some shit. I don't know why you think you need a friend to get muscles, but whatever. If I were 110lbs @ 4"11 I'd start trying to get a little muscle but not do anything crazy like eating more than I already do.
Hello /adv/, I need some tips and stuff from you!
Today I had a little party with my friends for the new year's eve, but other than the usual (male) friends there were also some girls that were relatives of some dudes there or something like that.
Well, there was one of them that looked pretty interessed on me, and it wasn't just a fantasy of a "beta virgin boy" but she talked about how my hair were nice, and spent minutes touching them, touching my ears, even my friends noticed it and joked about it a bit, I wasn't awkard with her even I am...
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>>16627745
Tio, habeis conseguido su numero del mobil? O la habeis agregado en el facebook?
I've been dating this girl for 9 months and we go to college next year seperate ones. Like 3 hours away. So we gonna try to stay together but i have a dilemma.so like she sent me a letter where it said she wants me to father her children and marry her. I really do love her but her sexual past irks me see I really did not focus on sex or relationships before but she has had multiple of both. Now she wants to transfer to my college sophmore year for me. ME getting sexually even for the sake of my own sanity is shallow but idk if I could be with her all my life when shes been...
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You have a (pretty common, I guess) obsession with sexual past.
Just for clarification, she is not a slut? She's just had more sex than you?
Some would say shes a slut and she told me about how she let guys just get with her its about 8 besides me
>>16630307
Yeah, scoring a few times isn't going to really make you experienced. I think it would boost your esteem and make you better at dealing with people...but it's not going to make you a player, in case you're afraid that's what she is -- a player?
Is it possible to turn an introvert to an extrovert?
Me being 20 beta af short dude i fucking hate having social anxiety and putting in so much effort to converse with strangers..id like to live my life like its a fucking buffet where i can taste everything, like people (esp women) but i fucking suck at small talk.
Im american stationed in europe and i love to travel but i fucking hate how i cant bring myself to meet the people of countries i visit. Im so god damn fucking quiet cause i never have something to say i dont get how people can talk about insignificant...
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>>16627725
It's too hard to ask how was your day? How do you work? Your coworkers must think you're a fucking weirdo. I used to be like you but how hard can it be for you to say how is it going? Just talk no one gives a fuck about you.
>>16627725
Op, don't worry about making small talk. Nobody likes it.
Here's the key to being a good conversationalist: be a good listener. People love to talk about themselves. Ask people about things you're interested in as well.
There are two acronyms to remember when asking people questions. Always use FORD (Family Occupation Recreation Dreams) and avoid RAPE (Religion Abortion Politics Economics)
Most importantly, give yourself time. You won't change overnight, it might take a while....
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from my experience, the hate you have about yourself being quiet usually makes things worse
treating yourself with compassion is something that can be helpful to you
gf fucked around in my phone and discovered I still use Tinder and didn't hear from here since this morning (20.20 now)
I did write her that I never cybersexed or asked out on a date anyone, I just wanted to mess around and have a talk.
I really love her and I want her to be the one, but I fucked up there. How do I come back? Are girls really bothered by something like that or she's just trying to make me feel guilty?
halp
You fucked up. I'd be gone. But then again, I wouldn't date a guy who even had a tinder in the first place. That was a mistake on her part.
>>16629980
>tinder
gross
>>16630006
This.
OP, I wouldn't date you either. If I was your gf, I would break up with you. Now accept the consequences
So I've got this friend who I've shared a class with for about 4 or 5 months, and we're pretty close. We've hung out quite a few times, but it seems Im always the one asking to hang out or texting her or that sort of thing. Im not romantically interested, but it still makes me feel a bit... unwanted I guess? Like she isnt really interested in me as a friend. She seems like she enjoys hanging out with me when we do, its just that I cant remember the last time she asked me to hang out. She has a bf, which may have something to do with it, but Im really not...
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>>16627678
Bump
>>16627678
girls with boyfriends are not friendship material.
I've lost a female friend to this before. It sucks. We still talk but very rarely.
Just move on. It's basically the same thing as her living in another city.
>>16627889
Aw
Really?
>dating best girl ever for a year
>she breaks up w me, calls an indefinite break about a month ago
>wants to focus on being an individual
>I can't not be with her
>demands that I treat her like a friend in public but we still have sex sometimes
>has no plan to become an individual and has made no progress whatsoever in the past month
>frequently tells me...
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>>16629951
>>wants to focus on being an individual
Dumbest shit I've ever heard.
>>16629959
I know it doesn't mean anything and it's don't understand it and it makes me question why she dumped me
>>16629959
this.
Sounds to me like excuse to rationalize cheating or attempt to date someone else lol - "we weren't really dating, so it wasn't cheating."
1. Ask her to explain in detail what is her reasoning behind putting your relationship on a break. To make you understand.
2. Ask her how long is this going to take.
3. Ask her if she plans to date other people during that time. If so, put up a clear margin - either she is dating you or she is not. Don't let her fuck around with you anon.
Is it bad that I started talking (texting romantically) a girl I met at the mall a couple of days after I broke up with a girl I dated for a year?
>>16627651>>16627651
No, do whatever you want.
>>16627651
No.
It's fine.
You rock anon, keep doing what your doing.
10/10 for having confidence in a new girl after a relationship.
how do i get girls who aren't roasties?
Be more appealing.
>>16627647
surgery
>>16627647
Roasties? What is Roasties precious?
My boss is a jerk, shouts the whole day, im a graphic designer and community manager with 8 accounts on my charge and a i have from 8 to 11 am to finish a design with "creative text" for each account, then the rest of the day i have to design logos and shit, in less than 3 days. everything for $400 bucks each month. What should i do with the jerk? im tired and one day i'll throw my shit at him just for anything. (Sorry for bad english)
>>16627606
Quit? It sounds like shit job anyway
>>16627606
It is anon. But i need the money or me and my wife go homeless. And is very hard to find a new one, im from México and i don't have a school degree, just experience in the field.
Is that the average salary or pay in your field? because if it is, maybe you shouldn't be in there when you don't like the work load that comes with it.
I'm 24 and I fucking hate coming home to my parents house for holidays and whatever. It always sucks, every time, ever since I was a kid. I remember realizing this when I was like 8. No one in my entire family get along at all.
I love them and wish things were better but I honestly think it's irreparable at this point and that everyone is torturing themselves by keeping in contact with each other and trying to make this family into something it isn't.
No one's abusive or anything but me and my siblings just don't give a shit about each...
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>>16627598
stop going
>>16627598
Sadly family reunions is not something we can avoid unless you want to cut all ties or make your parents hate you/sad :(
Its either moving away so you have the excuse of not finding a flight, or tell them that next year you will be celebrating with friends.
i'm living exactly in the same fucking situation.but my problem is that i'm still a student with no money so i can't leave my parents house.
family reunions are also complete bullshit.me and my cousins,uncles,etc,i just don't give a shit about them,and they don't give a shit about me(or my brother or sister).but i obliged to go see them at least two times a year just not to make my parents sad/angry.
my parents also get into heated arguments for random stupid shit.
i'm just waiting to get my degree in computer engineering and move as far...
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Today I met girl u like. I was so depressive. I didn't even tell her she looked nice. I think I fall in love with her. What should I do? I fucked so much
>>16627556
You didn't. You're lusting after her. That is not love.
But I don't want her body. I was writing with her a fewmint months ago. But then I am not sure why she didn't want to meet. I think I am not attractive enough for her. Still her best friends said me other thinks.
>>16627556
You just met this girl. You barely know her. I doubt it's "love".
Get to know her better and see what happens.
What do???
>>16627542
Looks like a keeper OP
Anyone else not interested in anything? What do you do? People keep saying do what you love but I don't love anything. I've tried so much. Also, I have lost all my friends and have no idea where to find new ones. Please halp.
http://www.taoism.net/ttc/complete.htm
read it
