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This is the first time I realized this, ive been beyond paranoid for a really long time and Im aware of every tiny pulse throughput my body its AGONY for my head. I could practically draw a map of every synapse in my nervous system right now. I couldn't say for sure when I really slept last was. Is it worth going to the hospital?
>>16628674
Sure, might as well.
I'd also stop at a pharmacy on the way and get some relaxant medicine.
Sometimes I will hear people talking when no one else is alone. I know no one else is there but it sure sounds really to me. I can cover me ears and I can still hear people talking. Sometimes it sounds like the conversations are directed towards me. Im not sure what to make of it.
go to the doctor. it might be a mental health issue, or worst case scenario it's some kind of tumor.
>>16628671
I dunno it could be my concience? I've done something really bad.
>>16628679
Could be, but it's very rare that a guilty concious actually SPEAKS to you. Honestly, OP, seek professional help.
Hello /adv/, I am a hairy man, which i am ok with but my stuggle is that my ass is also very hairy. Besides it being unsanitary, i have repeatedly scratched my but till i wounded my cheeks, and it hurts like hell. Any ideas on how i can shave my ass proper on my own ?
Shaving ass is not a solution. I'm hairy too, and I used to have problems like yours. You just need to keep that part clean all the time. Here is what works for me. I take a shower every morning and spend like 1/4 of shower time cleaning ass. Just make sure you use good soap so it wont make your skin dry. Another thing I do is I try yo take a dump right before shower. If I can't do it for some reason and I need to take a dump in the middle of day, I always use baby wipes. I started doing this like 5 years ago and since that I have no problems with hairy ass. I shave...
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>>16628663
I feel for you, OP. I'm not a hairy dude, quite the opposite, but I do have butt hair. My fiancée likes buttstuff, on me and on her. I'm a slight ginger, easy razor burn... trim, and then... who knew... Nair. They even make a more hardcore Nair for Men. Ten, fifteen minutes with that shit on your crack... hairless. Doesn't even burn, even on my stupidly sensitive skin. Seriously. Try it out.
OK so I recently entered into a relationship with a friend of mine, whom I've been friends with for nearly 7 years now. I really think she's cool, and even though it's only been a few days, it feels like it's going ok.
But about half a year ago, I was dumped by basically the love of my life, and since then I've found myself unable to love correctly. When I look at my friend/newgirlfriend, I don't feel what I probably should for someone I made a partner, but as the same friend I've known for years. Plus I'm planning on working on...
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Every woman deserves to be loved. I think you are getting to be undisciplined - because of your heartache. Don't hurt others in the process. Back off, and be patient to find someone you really love.
>>16628618
OP here, that's what I was thinking. I don't feel ready to try and love again, and if I end up feeling the same way later into the relationship, and she ends up liking me even more, it's gonna hurt her more.
>>16628635
sounds to me like you dont really love her. if there is a 'spark' go for it but it sounds like you just knew someone for so long that you got tooooo comfortable with them and were in that practically dating space anyway.
id break it off and explain that you want to keep being friends for another 7 years. explain the 'soulmate' friends idea and that is what confused you.
God damnit I'm fucking stupid. fourth pregnancy scare of the year, the last to end 2015.
The other day I fucked a girl and she was like "fuck me raw" and I'm like "okay" so I raw dogged her and within about 2 minutes I came in her but continued going for like another 15 minutes before having a final cum on her ass.
Now it's a week before her period and she's on birth control.
Let's say she's not on birth control, what's the likelihood of her getting pregnant this one time
>>16628590
>the likelihood
whatsi t matter? thats like asking 'whats the likelihood that i got aids?'
she either did or didnt. likelihood has no factor in it. if it was a simple yes or no, sure, but its not, you are asking for a percentage here.
morning after pills are effective up to 3 days after the fact so if you are that paranoid, ask her if she'd take soem if you bought some.
generally speaking if shes on birth control, she sfine, so i dont know...
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>>16628593
Yeah I don't really trust her
idk why I raw dogged a girl I don't trust
>>16628597
sex hormones i dont honestly blame you. people are quick to call you an animal or a retard, but we've all done REALLY stupid shit while in the middle of sex that we didnt initially intend. thats kinda what sex does to you.
hopefully it scares you enough to bring back that fear next time though.
etiher way, ask her to take the morning after pill, and ask her to update you on teh status of her period.
im curious, do straight men do this? i feel like if i was straight id want to know whenever...
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I just made a thread and someone said my name
How they do that?
What thread?
you arent the only kevin is the world you fucking idiot
Only a kevin would make such a dumb thread
Is it acceptable to ask a couple who'd they fuck/kill/merry with both partners present?
>>16628556
it depends on two things.
1) what they think
2) if you are playing with people in the room.
the first is obvious. some couples have no problem with it. some would hate you for it. there is no right answer, its literally just their opinion.
the second is a little more tricky. even if they are comfortable with it in person, they might get upset about learning how their partner feels about the people in the room. a girl might find it offensive if she was chosen to be married, but not fucked. or fucked, but not married. the guy too. even if not people in the room one partner might be TOO jealous, but if they are mature and its all in good fun most wont care.
ultimately it should be fine, but people all have their own quirks.
>>16628614
The three people to pick to kill/fuck/marry were celebs. My gf didn't even want to answer the marry/fuck part.
>>16628622
she may find it crass. i imagine you know her better than we do, but some ladies simply do not like those sorts of questions, or are only comfortable answering them in front of other people.
as guys we are taught to be rather open about our sexual itnerests (as long as they are hetero) but girls will often feel embarassed admitting there is a sexual side of them. there are still girls who dont want to feel slutty. and playing fuck/marry/kill with people she isnt comfortable with might upset her.
if it was just the two of you in the room, id take that as a sign that shes simply not interested.
>mother goes through at least 2 cases of beer and several bottles of wine a week
>she's drunk every day by 7:00PM
Give it to me straight guy, is she an alcoholic? This seems like a little much in my opinion.
How do I approach this subject with her? I worry for her health. Also she's really fucking annoying when she's been drinking, which is always, so she's always really fucking annoying.
>>16628555
>is she an alcoholic?
What do you think, given what you've told us?
>>16628560
Yes desu senpai. I don't know, it's just hard to acknowledge that something I grew up thinking was normal might be a legitimate addiction issue.
I'm more worried about how she's going to take it when I try to confront her about this. Maybe I should just let her drink herself to death and leave it alone, but she says/does stupid things when she's been drinking. I feel like I'd be doing a disservice to her if I just leave her to rot.
2 cases in a week and drunk every day. Yes she is a alcoholic.
Obviously i never had the situation of approaching someone with this problem. But mention the things you said you worry for her health and she is starting to annoy you. Also don't forget the underlying problem there might be no one drinks that much alone for fun.
So, there's a party going on above me. Any advice to fall asleep? Happy new year btw
>>16628525
melatonin if you have it. any other sleeping pill if you dont.
you can always put on headphones and listen to sleep hypnosis. i find it easier to fall asleep if i cover my head with the blanket as well, leaving a small hole for oxygen to filter in. worse comes to worst just put on the TV and watch til you absolutely cannot stay awake despite the noise. i know you might have work or plans tomorrow but this isnt the first time nor the last time you will have a sleepless night because of other people making...
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>>16628525
Thanks, anon. I wish you a good night (or what's left of it).
What do I get my 1.5 year old niece for Christmas? Her rich other uncle got her stuff valued at 500 bucks. I'm a poorfag security guard who can't afford that much..
>>16628497
shes 1.5 years old, she doesnt understand the concept of expensive. get her any generic doll. ask her mother or father what she likes. my neice was obsessed with minnie mouse even at that age so i got her one of those.
imo simple toys have always been the best. i remember it being way more fun to project thousands of different stories onto a single action figure than it was to play with a very specific but expensive toy like those monkey climbing stuffs.
she wont remember anyways. and your family...
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>>16628497
Soft small cotton blanket. She'll carry that thing around for years.
Clothes, maybe something she can grow into in the next few months. She's not going to understand the concept of presents at her age, she probably already has enough toys, and she's constantly growing so her parents will be grateful for them.
Why should I see a therapist?
They are humans with flaws too. They'll judge me and insert their biases into whatever they tell me to do or how they are feeling that day.
So what's the point? I know I need help.
therapists have very little to do with therapy. most of the value is the catharsis from talking. the rest of the work you have to do yourself, but they've been trained in supporting and helping people.
Do you know a better option?
>>16628496
therapists know things that you don't.
they may be flawed, but they are trained to help you with problems pertaining to your mental health.
that's why you would go see one.
but, as you said, they do have a bias, which is why you should try a few, until you find one who's bias you agree with.
I want to know what defines a person as assexual. I'm having some issues defining my sexuality and I really don't feel atracted to both (men and women), already had tried to bond romaticaly and sexually and still can't feel a thing. Just want to make sure if is just a thing in my head or a actual fact.
Happy New Year.
Ps- Sorry for my English.
Why do you need to label yourself? Why can't you just do what you want to do?
not wanting to bang
>>16628448
scientifically asexual referred to a species that could reproduce on its own.
i dont know how official the following definition is, but its generally accepted that someone who is an asexual human is someone who does not feel sexual attraction at all. im not sure how realistic that is, i mean if something gives you a boner you are not asexual. women may be able to 'fake' this more but im not aware of any REAL cases of someone biologically incapable of feeling arousal. i imagine it might be possible...
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I'm really vibing this girl from work. From what I can tell, it's mutual... I think
We see each other a couple days throughout the week. We throw occasional glances at each other as we walk past. We work at a busy "fancy," italian restaurant.
Requesting advice from people who've lived the experience:
How do I ask her out? We've talked between errands at work and realistically, barely skimmed the surface. Would I be coming on too strongly? We've never spoken outside of work... but I intuit that the interest is there. Thanks in advance.
Anybody?
>>16628442
Ask her to get a drink after work.
>>16628539
As good advice as any. I'll try that.
I just want to make out with her!
Hey /adv/,
How do people feel like anything but walking garbage? I can't imagine what anyone would want to do with me.
>invited over to ex's house, basically for new years smex
>she thinks she loves me
>I have no idea how to fix this
>mumbling/walkhome.jpg
I just want to know what the hell I can do to pull my head out of my ass enough to properly care for other people. It seems like I can at least try to make people happy, but even...
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>invited over to ex's house, basically for new years smex
You're already immediately more desirable than most people who post on this board.
You're feeling sorry for yourself because your priorities are out of order. Suck it the fuck up.
>>16628433
What do people prioritize then?
I'm a bit drunk at the moment, considering it's New Year's... I celebrated with a close friend of mine at another friend's house.
But, my close friend has a girlfriend...and I could swear she likes me. All night she was looking at me, our eyes always met when we talked,and we talked a lot, her feet were always touching mine...my friend seemed oblivious.
I'm not sure what to do. I think I like her, too. I was thinking about maybe messaging her on Facebook, or Poking her, idfk.
wtf do I do?
If it's worth losing your friend, go for it. If you have any intention of keeping your friend, stop drinking for the night and don't message anyone.
>>16628393
honestly...and I really do mean this, I don't think my friend would stop being friend with me. I know that seems weird to say, but....we're like Stand By Me close lol.
You're right, I shouldn't message her. Is poking her too weird?
im so confused
