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Hey anons. I suck really hard at creatong nicknames (for games).
Well, I'm looking for a non mlg, kinda classe nickname. Preferebly without numbers or xXx.
But I also enjoy some funções nickname also.
Just don't pussyslammer-420 pls
PIC unrelated
Lmao.
The "funções" is funnies ***
>>16630532
Carry a pack of dubblemint around and keep offering a stick to everyone.
Hey guys, I wished a couple of good friends a happy new year. Two of which aren't as good friends, more like acquaintances
Both of them texted me fine back and wished me a good year. But both of them said "haha" in their short message
What does "haha" mean from women? That they're uncomfortable? Or that they're trying to make a joke and worried about how I think? Perhaps trying to wrap up the message?
Sorry if this sounds weird, but none of my close friends, girls included ever say "haha"
Nothing. It's just the new "lol."
>>16630521
I'm just making sure, I haven't come across as a creep at all. It just seems weird to include in a message, all my friends (myself included) use the typical lol and it's variants when messaging. Was a bit worried it might mean something else
Once you are not a tween you will understand
Hi adv, I'm a long time lurker and today I had a really strange day and I want to know what you'd think about this situation since it's driving me crazy...
I was in a long distance relationship with this girl, I came to visit her for the holidays and as soon as I arrived she broke up with me because she couldn't bear the distance anymore. Now, I was stuck at her house and we left each other without arguing since it was a real problem and even if it was sad it was for the better.
Now, there's this guy that she met little time ago that was always in her house in these days, Init was obvious to EVERYONE that there were some feelings between them and they would flirt casually sometimes...
When we left each other we made clear that we still had really strong feelings and that it would take a while to overcome them, but last night they kissed and cuddled together with me in the house, then I left cause I was really angry and heart broken and now she says that I'm a coward and that the fault is mine since she's no longer my gf, even if I asked them politely to wait for me to go back home and then start seeing each other and doing stuff...Am i crazy? I think my reaction is the definition of a normal reaction but she insists that it is not, help me since it's driving me crazy and I'close to convince myself that she may be right and I'm a scumbag
Your family really failed in teaching you healthy relationship dynamics. Obviously hers did too; it goes without saying that she's a horrible romantic partner. But you've made so many self-destructive decisions and assessments of these situations that it makes me feel bad for you. Even coming here and having to ask for our perspective on such an obviously fucked up set of actions speaks to how blindly you're groping around this topic.
Please take a breather and try to learn from the habits of people in healthy relationships. Right now you're not in a place to spot trouble coming and you walked head first into an absolute disaster...then kept bashing your head into it.
>>16630398
You're not crazy and she's acting like a bitch.
Run away from that house as soon as you can and never talk to her anymore.
She doesn't deserve you.
I mean yeah it's over but still breaking up right away and then doing shit in front of you is fucked.
Like, waht are some really cool fun things I can do. I mean, im a guy that has basically spent the majority of his life on a computer, likes movies, enjoys music a little 2 much. But like i wanna get out their a little more and really experience things, have a lot of fun. Im a bit lost on where to start, anybody got some tips.
travel overseas
>>16630359
why is it called "travel overseas" not "travel over a sea". Is traveling over a single sea not sufficient?
>>16630551
Lel so fanny
But seriously, traveling is really awesome. Have you done it before?
Welp I fucked up.
Got completely mind bogglingly drunk last night. Told my gay friend I was bi curious over Facebook.
Is there a way I can avoid this conversation? I'm morally opposed to being in or gay or any other types of degeneracy.
>>16630341
Just deny that you remember the conversation. Everyone is gay while drunk. That is why gay rights took forever. Most people refused to believe people were born gay, they just figured they were drunk all of the time.
>>16630341
Just fuck him you little homo. He'll enjoy it and you might as well.
It also will strengthen your friendship
>>16630341
Um someone took your phone??
I started fooling around with someone recently and we'll probably have sex soon. His penis is on the smaller side, which isn't a problem, I'm just curious what the best positions are for both of us?
>>16630285
All of them.
>I'm just curious what the best positions are for both of us
Don't procreate.
>>16630285
missionary in the dark for the sole purpose of procreation.
>>16630292
Deng, someone's butthurt.
At my flatmates over christmas, known her for 3 months, ended up getting with one of her mates over new years eve.
Now I don't know how to go about doing anything about it, or even if I should act on it at all.
Help a brother out with lines or how I should go about the situation.
You should not. Let it simmer for several days and then casually mention this person to your flatmate. Don't phrase it as a question because that's anything but subtle. Keep it along the lines of remembering a particular part of the evening which included that person. If they've been talking about you as well, your flatmate will then bring that to your attention. That's when you get the green light to reconnect and meet for a proper date.
>>16630305
Great advice, thank you very much! Will bring it up casually monday then, it will be the main topic when everyone is in the flat again
So may be hard to get any info from her
Guys, I'm stuck in a serious dilemma here. Sure, I'm about to sound like an absolute faggot but here me out and give me your honest opinions. So this girl and I have been video chatting recently as we live a decent distance from each other. She's clearly into me and I'm into her. We have a relationship going. Here's the problem. She always drops sex talk at the end of every conversation, asking me to join her in the shower and whatnot. I don't really want sex tho. We've talked every day for a couple of months but it still feels unreal. I don't know if I love this person or just the concept of being in love with someone. Is it wrong for me to want a not too sexual, loving relationship? Am I a faggot because I want to love something other than a voice on a screen? Please help.
TL;DR A girl wants to get into a relationship but I think it's too fast.
u gay bro
>>16630261
Yea, you're fucking gay. Go fuck an asshole already.
Guys I'm attracted to women. I'm just not comfortable fucking a girl I barely know.
Say your girlfriend was going through a hard time and her mood goes up and down - she's struggling.
How long until you would get tired, maybe even annoyed, about hearing how she isn't feeling great? Would the relationship be better if she were to keep it to herself a lot of the time?
Simply realize she is what she is and she might change or not. Assume she won't. Accept it or move on. That's all there's to it really.
If she kept it to herself, I'd be even more worried. If she didn't confide in me but did confide in someone else (this is a personal experience thing) I'd be outright offended. I want the person I'm with to trust me enough to not worry about confiding in me, so that I can at least try to give support. If they keep it to themselves or go to someone else, they're better off being with someone they wouldn't hesitate to turn to
Hopefully I my comment will provide some kind of help.
Here are three friends
friend a insists on talking in detail, but sort of looping around aimlessly, about issues involving depression, ego, dissatisfaction with life etc
You can just blow my brains out senpai. I've also been that guy, and if you have any sense, you can tell the other person is getting miserable.
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friend b will not admit (to themselves) that they feel like shit, but they will engage in risky behaviors like dangerous driving, drinking too heavily, fucking annoying pieces of twat trash
this person can also be damaging to be around, because they are throwing their own pain all over the room versus actually dealing with it. it's virtually the same thing, but a little bit more manic than depressed.
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friend c is sad. they don't make it other people's problem by being annoying or dangerous. they just can't seem to be happy.
this person doesn't owe you shit, and if you're sad that they're sad, and getting angry at them, that would be your own problem
I feel like a shitty person. Let me explain.
>I started "talking" to this girl (let's call her Casey) about a month ago. We've been hanging out for the past month and she caught the drift that I really like her. Anyways, we ended up having sex about 3 days ago, and it was great. She went crazy for me after that, I could tell she was 10x more attracted to me than before. She ends up texting me the same night, and wants to be "exclusive". I bullshit around and tell her yeah that's fine with me. The word dating NEVER popped into the equation, and I have no thoughts of asking her out anytime soon.
>FF to Dec. 30th. We have plans for New Years together but she ends up flaking on me and goes to Louisiana with her family. Not really bummed out, so I just move on and find a party to go to with all my friends.
>FF ANOTHER day to yesterday. I get a text from a 9/10 blonde girl we'll call Izzy. She happens to be an old friend of Caseys, and wants to spend New Years w/ me. Of course I say yes, so she makes plans to come over at 7pm. We end up hanging out at my place for about 2 hours before we go out to party. The entire time at my place she's flirting with me hardcore. She's so into me and I can tell it right away.
To make a long story short, I end up making out w/ this girl on New Years and a bit after just for fun. I had a great time with her and it was an ideal New Years for me. The only problem is I'm left with the guilt of what I did to the other girl, Casey
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Now, obviously she doesn't know ANY of this happened. She just thinks I got fucked up w/ my friends. I'm scared that she'll somehow find out about what happened. What the fuck do I do?
Do I lie to her and hope she never finds out? or do I be honest if she asks? I'm sure there's some way around this I haven't thought of
>tldr; "bae" cancels our New Years plans to be with family, so I make other plans with a hotter girl and have a great New Years regardless. I "cheat" on her and she has no clue yet. Help me out.
Let Casey abuse you and you can get on with your merry fucking life.
I feel angry but not at the same time. That's logically impossible. What the fuck is wrong with me?
At the same time as what?
>>16630221
Not feeling angry. At the same time. It's like it's there but not.
>find out GF has you now page
>has broadcasts from 6 months ago
>all broadcasts were under #girls, and one under #music
>only video I can watch is just her sitting in silence for 4 minutes and looking cute
>can't watch other videos
>ask her what this is over phone
>next thing I know the account is deleted and she starts crying
>just tell her to tell me whats going on
>eventually says she just wanted to become well known online, like youtube famous etc,
>says it was stupid and she was embarrassed about it
Is she telling the truth? I dont know why she would freak out and delete it like that. I don't believe she was camwhoring just based on what she said and since she it was linked to her Twitter. But I know nothing about this site or what #girls is.
>>16630175
Because it's embarrassing. I would believe her in your shoes. Take her out for dinner for being honest about it and give her a hug.
It's 6 months ago, move on its not like she did an 8 man bang and bong
>>16630186
I told her if thats the truth its nothing to hide from me. I told her I loved her for her and that doesn't bother me, just her being shady was.
>>16630188
It was while we were dating and we've been through some rough patches the past couple months.
Are having imaginary relationships a real thing or am I delusional? How to know?
what do you mean by imaginary relationships?
>>16630136
thats inherently contradictory. like the whole thing. by definition a relationship is how two or more people relate to one another. so they cannot do it imaginably (either by the person being imaginary or the relationship imaginary).
also
>imaginary
>real
>delusional
imagination is to some degree, a delusion, more so if you take it seriously. so no they arent real.
>>16630171
Bait me again.
I'm a little... down right now.
I've got three girls I like, but...
1's parents are a freind of mine and I've known this girl for most of my life, and asking her out seems akward...
2's a I know only a little about but she's smart, funny, and we seem to be (at least mildly) compatable.
3's a girl I know from church, same age as I am, so I've been in the same RE programs as her for most of my life.
little help here, anons?
Should I ask one out? What should I do about these emotions?
(Also, pic not related)
Hi fellow anons. I am a severely depressed high school student. I have finals in a week and I just can't work anymore, I don't have the mental capacity to continue. Is there any way I can get take a breather from school for a while.
Talk to your schools counsellor.
>>16630095
As someone who passed high school and got into the top uni of my country, there is literally only one thing you can do. Set your emotions to zero and open those schoolbooks. Learn to make studying an escape from your unhappiness and give it your all.
For me, I feel uneasy when I don't finish all my homework resulting in that feeling that nothing is under my control, so getting my shit done is actually improving my mood too.
Pull trough, it's just high school and you will have free time after your exams anwyay.
>>16630095
if we could all just take a break from the world whenever we get depressed, the entire world would fall apart. the world doesn't care if you get sad.
depression doesnt go away because of a breather. instead, focus on school so you can geti t done, then spend your spare tiem fixing the things in your life you do not like, the ones that are making you depressed
