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I have been talking to a girl for a couple months now and we have hooked up several times. We are at the beginning stages of a relationship and I know that she has feelings for me. I talk to her all day, every day and she has already chosen to introduce me to her friends and family. Heres where i fuck it all up
So last night my dumbass decided to take 2 tabs of acid and drink like it was the end of the world. We both went to seperate new years eve parties (we both go to the same college but live in different towns) and around midnight i began to trip the fuck out. I called her 5 times and sent too many texts to count. I knew she was pissed that i was harassing her and this is completely my fault.
Today I asked her if she wanted me to chill out or leave her alone all together. She said " Just leave me alone for right now". Am i fucked? and when should I contact her again?
>>16630917
Be like, "Listen, you know me, I usually don't hit you up that much I was just super fucked up and was thinking about you, thats all. Definitely gonna turn my phone off when I drink from now on. Sorry about all the trouble. Get back to me if you wanna hang out anytime, you know where to find me."
If she isn't an idiot she'll be cool with that explanation. I don't know about you but I wouldn't fucking crucify myself for getting al little fucked up and calling a few too many times. Who gives a shit, it was New Years. If she doesn't get over it she's a twat.
>>16630966
Good advice. Maybe wait 48 hours before enacting it.
You should contact her when you have more acid in your system! She obviously has another man in her life! So just call her when you have more acid in your system and tell her your coming threw her window and you brought your pet dick... This happens to me all the time it's quit the turn on
How much free time to mechanical engineers have in college? I feel like a lot of people have all the time in the world to do fuckall in college, but when it comes to some other majors, people barely have any time at all. Since I'm in ME, I'd like to know how much you guys spend studying. I spend probably 3-4 hours a day.
>>16630826
I'd say mechanical engineers are somewhere in the middle between economists and those in medical sciences and such
>>16630826
I'm in my sixth and final year of medicine
Generally I'm in the hospital experiencing and getting taught medicine 8-530
Then I'll study 7-930 in the evening
Saturday and Sunday I relax a bit more and probably only do 5-6 hours between them
But during final term I'm virtually studying 8am-11pm or later most days. Having a study buddy that you're also sleeping with makes it infinitely easier... Kiss, give eachother massages during breaks, or sex if we're revising at home makes it fly by
>>16630846
Did you have a relationship when you started studying? Did you have to ditch hobbies or other things in your life for your medical studies? Curious.
How can I attract girls who aren't roasties and have patrician interests?
I don't want a girl with roastie interests like netflix and clubbing. I want a beautiful woman who is into film, literature, video games, politics and art.
Where do I go to find girls like this? I don't want to settle. I tried it before but she just disgusted me.
>>16630822
Whilst you're out and about being euphoric in the moment of, and enlightened by
>film, literature, video games, politics and art
You can meet girls there, as they clearly have that same interest
>>16630822
>this thread again
Just tell her about your WoW character.
>>16630822
first of all stop posting this thread repeatedly
Merry New Year, friends.
I need advice on which desk to buy for my Battlestation. My budget is 170 buckaroos.
I was thinking about the Micke desk from Ikea with the Micke stand next to to it to place my PC on it. It fits really nicely.
Problem is that I've read lots of negative stuff about the build quality, things like the desk pretty much falling apart after half a year, if you put multiple monitors on it, it will bend/leave a huge dent in it.
I have 2 monitors so that spooked me a bit.
Advice?
I live in Europe so please keep that in mind.
>IKEA
>desk
No. Find a local lumber yard and ask if they know where you can find basic unfinished furniture. Tell them flat out that you need a solid table. Staining and finishing is easy as hell and you'll end up with a worthwhile piece. IKEA does sell solid core stuff but it's overpriced for what it is.
>>16630851
It's hard as fuck to find a table with the right length
>>16630913
>I'm about to respond to a guy who acknowledges the quality issue I mentioned--one which results in a table literally bending and denting--by pointing out that length is important.
You're beyond help. Go waste your money on a deformed desk.
I live at home, rent free, all the money I make from my job I use on my accord. Only thing I'm obligated to pay for is the gas for my car.
I'm 22 years old, a male, full time student, part time waiter. Would it be best idea to move out right now?
I want to so I can have the independent choice to smoke in my room or not tell anyone I'm going out for a few days. I don't want to because I can devote more time to school, and direct money for rent into other avenues. Help?
>>16630802
i think if you are using staying home the wrong way. going out and starting your life is difficult financially. while its fine that you spend some of your money, at least 50% of all the money you make should be going to a savings account. that way when you DO move out you arent going to struggle to start. even if you dont use very much of it, you will always have spare cash for when things come up.
trust me when i say that having money in savings is by far the best thing in the entire world, and if all you are paying for is gas putting away 50% of each paycheck (and tips) will give you the best start in life ever.
so my recommendation is stay home til you graduate and save as much money as humanly possible. god knows i would kill just to start the month with more then 75 bucks.
from your pros and cons list it sounds like you dont have much quarreling or big issues with living home. id suggest moving out if you wanted to get laid more, but if its really just so that you can smoke in your room and leave for a few days, just wait
>>16630821
I didn't mention I do have a savings with $5k saved up, but I'm worried I'll likely go through it all by the end of the first year of moving out. Like I said I work part-time, so honestly probably 80% of my monthly wages would go to rent. Although I could pick up more shifts at cost of freetime/studytime...
You're right though, smoking outside is a hassle but definitely doable. That's one of my only real complaints, since moving out probably wouldn't solve my virginity issues.
>>16630802
Trust me, staying at a place without rent is a much wiser decision, especially while in school. Rent will eat your money like no tomorrow and pile on excess stress. Sure you can't bring girls home, but if you ever do meet a girl maybe she has her own place for you to hook up at.
Adv, i am sick and tired of my sexuality. I had a very bad start with sex and now i feel like everything is so complicated and confused. I jave no idea how to develope a healthy sexuality and i desperately want to. How can i achieve this?
The situation: i had a suboptimal childhood. Lot's of abuse, but never sexual. My parents didn't treat sex as something "dirty or immoral", but they had a rather non-functional relationship and sexlife (i found out about the sex-part when i was an adult already). i had my period very soon, i wasn't even 12. I also started to get feminine curves at that age and be interested in (older) boys. I lost my virginity at age 12 and it was disastrous. I slept with a guy that had a crush on me because i wanted revenge on my bf who cheated on me (yeah, don't ask, i can't beliebe we had such drama at 12 eather...). I was on my period. After, i left without a word. That was just the beginning of a very bumpy ride.
However, i did some work om myselfe and i feel like i have turned out halfway decent if you take my starting-conditions into consideration. Now i'm 27 and for the first time ever i have a bf that i'm madly in love with. Now i slowly start to discober more and more things that are weird about me and sex. For example: i can't cum. I can just fine on my own.
I love the intimacy amd seeing him in pleasure. But nothing more. Despite this, i have an insane sex-drive. I could jump on his dick
24/7.
All i want, is to cum with him and give him the joy of being able to make me happy too...how can i get there?
>>16630779
This is bait right? Women being this unable to take responsability is just a meme.. right?
>>16630820
I wish it was... I really do. Sadly, it's the truth
>>16630779
You're asking a room full of virgins how to make a woman cum during sex. Your problem isn't that uncommon for most women though.
So last night I went out with a girlfriend to a local bar to ring in the New year. We're both girls and social aspies and I didn't expect anything to come of the night but drinking quietly by ourselves. We got a good buzz on then made a good connection with a few girls at the bar. Few more drinks in we run into some guys my friend had known years ago. Suddenly we're all dancing, then it's like the rest of the night was like the movie superbad. Drinking and dancing with police officers, store runs for cigars, some random albino pittbull walked with us for a few miles, we had brownies on some guys porch on the 5th floor, turns out it's not even his porch, then we all somehow crashed two after parties, one was mad black people teaching us how to trwerk, the other is where the girls from the bar ended up and brought us over, then we set off insane fireworks on the main road in town. It was awesome. An amazing night. I've never experienced anything like that but I'd like to again. How do I achieve this? Just being more social and having similar experiences?
Just do what you did last night, again. It's certainly not going to guarantee that you'll have a night for the books, but eventually it will happen again. The tricky thing about this is that it's not going to be as magical and memorable if you try too hard to force it or do it too often. Those kind of nights are only particularly memorable if they don't happen every weekend. And from someone who has lived that lifestyle for years I can say that it will get old. Yeah I used to meet new people every night and have new experiences with those people, but after awhile you start to realize how sketchy things can get and how a lot of those new people aren't really good people to be around. Sorry, I'm rambling now, but I think you get the idea here.
Where's ma gaming qt. So lonely in the dark woods all alone :(
If I buy an android phone on 4.4 KitKat now, will it still get mainstream (twitter/snapchat/whatsapp/chrome) app updates for 2 years?
4.1 stopped working all together for me. 4.2 still works quite well. that's all I can say. I remember, those came out a few years ago?
>>16630661
meh, think I'll just give it a miss, the uncertainty is bugging me now so it would if I got it. Shame, it's a cheap beast.
Cheap phones these days come with lollipop by default
Any robots or /d/ tier /adv/ people out there? Please help.
ll green text to keep it short.
>me and the bf have been together for years
>engaged
>our relationship is pretty great and we almost always get along
>but our sex life is dying
>I am admittedly a /d/egenerate
>I am perverted with fetishes he is too normie to enjoy
>its beginning to make me unattracted to him
>I like intense things
>not shit or vomit but pretty dirty or just weird things
>He thinks looking at furries and the occasional gay porn is a big deal and is so embarrassed of it
>complete normie
>asks why im not into sex much anymore
>i tell him i want to try something new
>he ties me up
>has no clue what hes doing its painfully obvious and cringey
>i lie and say im not in the mood
help /adv/ idk what to do
1.Don't be a faggot
>>16630636
dude tied you up for the first time ever in his life and surprise it wasnt exactly as you wanted?
how about you both work on it and do it some more then?
also>>16630660
>>16630660
im a girl you fucking retard
>>16630676
it was just so cringy and shitty and wasnt all that attractive. Maybe i should try again? Its just hard to take him seriously when hes trying to be attractive and i just think of a cringe compilation
also see above
>Useless back story:
I hate my family. I don't feel like I'm part of it. I can't open up to them, they don't listen to me, they don't care about my happiness, they don't like me, they see me as a burden. They drag me along to events and use me as a fucking display then utterly reject me as soon as we get back home. I got into a fight with them this New Years, which is probably obvious, won't say what, because it was over the stupidest shit. It just derailed into fucking chaos, since they were just screaming at me without giving me a chance to speak. Whenever I managed to get something through to them, which was of value to me, they just dismissed it. ''Are you on drugs, anon?'' Fuck you.
I was thinking about killing myself earlier today, but I realized that I'm too fascinated with the world to do that though.
>Advice part:
I'm an 18 year old college student. I could live a fairly successful life if I stayed with my parents, since they're paying for my education. But I'm not enjoying my family life, I'm not enjoying my schooling, I don't see myself enjoying any future job, recently I've grown distant to a lot of my friends, my enjoyment of life is dying.
I always wanted to travel the world in a van. Please help me accomplish this /adv/.
Right now, I've got around 500$ cash. I don't have a car, no experience with repairing them, no idea where to go, the legality behind any of that, pretty much nothing.
Please tell me how to accomplish my dream. If it's too far-fetched then at least tell me how to become independent for the time being. I can't live with my family anymore.
>>16630641
Please /adv/. This is really important to me. I've got no one to turn to for advice on this matter.
Ok guys so I was out at the bar and ran into some old milfy neighbor who basically told me to fuck her daughter. She implied it, repeatedly, by telling me that I should really say hi to her the next time I see her because she's (the girl) always asking her (her mother - too many pronouns) about me, and it was worded pretty close to this "**** is always asking about you of all the people who grew up on the street, she's always wondering how you're doing and I think she always had a little crush on you"
This is obviously a pretty cool opportunity, because I'm thirsty as fuck right now. Single doesn't even begin to describe my status, and unfortunately, I'm in school living at home, so the female situation is kind of dead as fuck.
The problem is, the holidays are almost over and she goes to school in a different county, so idk when the fuck I'm supposed to "just wave when I see her on the street" I don't think I've seen her since we were in high school together..
So what do I do? I don't have her phone number or any reasonable way of obtaining it, because this mom that I ran into explicitly stated that I will NOT under any circumstances, tell this girl that her I had a drink with her mom and thats why I'm talking to her right now. I can understand that. I really hate resorting to Facebook because I think its weird and impersonal and I feel like I would have better chances if I saw her in real life, or if she were to contact me somehow. That way she would have to respond in real time as opposed to sitting there on a screen with time to think about her response. You don't just not reel when you've hooked a fish..
So yeah what should I do
>>16630610
tl;dr
>found out about girl who probably might fuck
>super not fucking any girls right now, like at all
>have 0 ways of contacting her without being weird
>because she's my fucking old neighbor
>>16630610
Why do I get the strange vibe that this woman is just desperately trying to find a boyfriend for her daughter behind her back?
I'd tread carefully Anon. But if you really want to contact her, facebook isn't a bad idea. It's a good way to learn about her interests and can give you some ideas as for a conversation starter when you see her again.
>>16630791
Yeah I mean, thought of that too. If so then I probably won't be fucking her and thats not the end of the world, but I'm pretty sure its the real deal it just sounded like it.
And god I just really hate using facebook. I'll get messaged from time to time by random people I don't even talk to anymore and I almost never respond. Plus I'm barely even on facebook so I would feel worried about the potential of being stalked only for the chick to assume I'm a fuckin nerd who doesn't ever do anything, just because I really never make any posts anymore.
So I am an adult leader in a local scout troop. Recently, my troop went on a 6 day winter camping trip. Nothing hard core, we had a heated cabin available for eating/warming up, although we did not sleep in it at any point. Anyway, the first day is basically getting there and then sleeping. The next morning, I was sent out to wake up (for the second time) some of the kids who were slow to get going in the morning. One of these kids, named Jacob was a first year, meaning that he is 11 years old and has never been cold weather camping
before. I went to wake him up and when he finally got going, I noticed that his pants and part of his shirt were soaking wet. For anyone who has not been cold weather camping, this is very dangerous, as your body, especially a small body like Jacob's, loses heat MUCH faster if it is wet. He was not in any real danger because of the cabin, and he was fine. I knew right away that he had wet the bed. It is not the first time that this has happened to a kid on a camping trip in out troop. It probably wont be the last time. No big deal, stuff happens, that kind of thing. I was preparing myself to have to sooth a soon to be distressed kid who suddenly realized what happened the night before, but he then tells me that his shirt is all wet because he left a set of hand warmers in his shirt over night and the heat caused him to sweat a lot. I know of course that this is not the case, but I roll with it. As the day goes on however, and I begin to delicately probe the subject, I realize that he genuinely does not realize that he wet the bed. He does realize that it is not just sweat, but he doesn't know what it is. He sort of wondered if someone tried to wake him up by pouring water on him, but I can tell that he doesn't quite buy this either. One of the other adults went to a nearby town with a laundromat and washed and dried his cloths and sleeping bag, so he was fine on that front. (continued in next post)
>>16630604
Anyway long story short, how do I hide a 4'8" body?
First you'll need an unmarked van
>>16630604
(continued from last)
As far as any of the adults on the trip can tell, (myself included), he never did figure out what happened. We decided to take the "ignorance is bliss" approach, and just kind of shrug it off. Again, it really is not that big of a deal unless it is made a big deal by the kid affected by it and nobody else finds out and makes a big deal about it. I remember when I was in 5th grade, (would have been 11 myself at the time, same age as Jacob) I suddenly wet the bed out of nowhere. It happened again a couple of nights later, and might have happened a total of 4 or 5 times over the next few weeks, then it just sort of stopped. Never happened again until my sophmore year of highschool. I distinctly remember both times that I was extremely distressed by the whole ordeal, even though nobody found out about it and it was in my own home both times. Its like I wanted to talk about it to someone, but couldnt really bring myself to do so. That brings me to my long-winded question:
>> Should I tell Jacob what happened at some point, or do I just drop the issue? If I tell him, when?
I feel like if he did eventually figure it out, he might benefit from having someone to talk about it to. Thoughts on this?
I want to hook up with my ex gf. However the situation is tricky, she broke up with me about 2 years ago and we talked in the year after a little but the second year no contact. I want to reinitiate contact and hookup with her. Not a relationship. Not anything special.
Also: She broke up with me because I was too beta to make a move. Now things are different, and I want to make a move.
If you didn't make a move how did you date her? Sounds like she wants an alpha bro, start up light convo then tell her how much you want to fuck her and what you'll do. Panties will hit the floor. Even if she says no betcha anything she'll never stop thinking about it and eventually sleep with you. Plant the seed.
Hey guys any ware i could get a a loan for 1300 dollars i tried websites and lenders even banks i need it desperately before February.my jod does not pay me enough
>>16630586
Don't worry, sent :^)
I am in a LDR with a girl who has cheated in the past.
Her Ex found out, forgave her. She then started a relationship with me while living with ex.
She says she is hesitant to do anything lewd, but she says she is crazy and very horny in person
How does /adv/ think this relationship will go?
>>16630533
Not good?
Cheaters will cheat, after all.
>>16630533
lol
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