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Or stop wanting to watch it in the first place, I mean.
Get cucked. You will remember the feelings you get and it will turn you off of it.
Stop watching porn.
Start working out and try to work on your confidence.
>>16629343
>stop watching porn
I REALLY can't do that.
How can I work on my confidence? I'm already pretty fit.
Guy with a severe lack of self-confidence here, which is justified to some degree.
I'm shorter than average. Skinny no muscle. Incredibly pale. Apparently a good looking face according to my friends girlfriends so not so sure about that. Hair that looks good and bad.
Thanks to rough early teenage ears sociably retarded but not 100% autismal, just imagine meeting me on the buss and only bring up school and stuff. Not the case with close friends, but even those ive known for many years i always resort to mutual schoolwork/games/whatever.
My friend and his gf have made this 10/10 (imo) very interested in me. She lives 2 hours away though. And our only communication with each other is via snapchat. Been sending me every day recently and I try to asnwer as well as possible. Declined an invite to her friends new years party last night. Now I believe people have painted a false image of me to her. And frankly I cringe whenever I see the message light because I would rather be more comfortable not having to worry about that stuff. Got an unopened one atm.
Though my common sense and experience of escapism tells me to not let something like this slip by. But I just do not know how to handle it all. The main concern ofc is the social ability which I lack. The thought of meeting her friends, and her for that matter, whom I do not know frightens me. I just do not see a situation where I would be able to handle it. Plus my friends once drew the parrallel of her being intense drum 'n' base while im some slow jazz, if that adds to the picture.
After meeting her once real quick when I was sick etc she had told our mutual friend I was boring. But they reignited the interest oddly. Apparently shes made jokes about sending me nudes to said friend etc.
Now I guess it isnt about the girl, but rather how I would go about as the kind of person I am. And I would only look upon a failed chance with regret in the future.
You should try to improve what you can improve.
> I'm shorter than average
How tall are you? Shorter than the average girl? If you aren't, there's basically no problem.
>Skinny no muscle.
Why don't you exercise?
>Incredibly pale.
I like pale skin, and I adore it on guys.
>Hair that looks good and bad.
Go and get a cut that suits your face. Ask your friends' girlfriends for advice, if you need it.
>The main concern ofc is the social ability which I lack.
Try to do something outside of your comfort zone, that forces you to be social. Sports, travelling, whatever.
>>16629306
Alcohol helps remove the barriers between what you're thinking and what you're saying. Just one or two drinks should do it.
This should be how you get to know her, not the only way you can interact with her, you don't want to end up like that Indian guy from The Big Bang Theory.
Once you get to know her and you're more comfortable with her, you shouldn't need the alcohol.
Where's a non faggy place I can I ask academic and uni related questions?
Coming close to choosing my major, so I have lots of questions regarding that. Going to do SOMETHING in STEM, and idk what yet.
/sci/ is actually pretty non cancet
I'm studying economics. Other people in my class are talking about working in audit. But I'm not sure about audit.
Other than audit, what fields/career paths do you think I should condiser?
Fraud, analytics, go for a CPA, data informatics, big data analytics.
CPA would be the big fucking feather in the cap, OP. I'd also go and poke around /biz/ for additional feedback
economics is hella ambiguous. most of it is useless sociology and redundant in data analytics. from your photo looks like you might be into economic history/macroeconomic theory, in which case I'd recommend you look into working for the DOL or a similar government agency.
how do you make new friends? I have no one to talk to and I don't feel comfortable going anywhere because I'm always alone, and I'm sick of spending new years eve with just myself. how do you get to meet new people?
Join a club and talk to people. If you're shy just be yourself and power through it.
>>16629204
Join a club related to your interests
How do I legally get castrated?
I am in the United States, but I just want to get rid of my sexual urges and become asexual.
Find jebus and join a monastery.
>>16629194
Piss off a girl good enough and she will chop ur dick off. Almost happened to me. GL, anon
>>16629194
any doctor would be willing to arrange a vasectomy or chemical castration for you if you asked. However I should warn you that sexual urges come from hormones produced in the brain, not the testes, so doing that won't actually make you asexual.
Sorry m8 but you're stuck with that caveman brain.
Guys, I fucked up real bad.
I got convinced to go out and spend on NYE drinking with some of my friends like a fucking normie.
We had absolutely great time and all so I got an idea to call this one girl to come join us.
This girl - she is absolutely fucking fantastic and I fucking love her like no other. We are seeing each other for quite some time now but both of us being fucking weird and borderline spergs, it never got 'official' nor did we explicitly confess our feelings.
Now, she somehow agreed and came, we were drinking together, having a blast and soon I was fucking wasted and started to describe my feelings for her in a very literal way. About halfway through my litany I blacked out and this is where I fucked up. Bear in mind, she was doing quite the same up to now. But then, according to several witnesses I started to pressure her into admitting that we are dating and whatnot. She allegedly did not mind me talking about it itself, as she feels the same way but rather the way I have been doing it, fucking loudly in front of all our friends and being quite obnoxious and pressing.
I unfortunately did not get to see her the morning before she left. I woke up, friend recounted the events after I blacked out and now I feel like shit.
What in the fuck am I supposed to do? I have no idea how to go about contacting her and explaining things, I have no fucking idea what to say, I'm completely fucking lost. Only thing I'm fucking capable of thinking right now is that I hope I don't fucking lose her over this.
Sorry for the blog post but I really needed to get it out and get some insight from people capable of rational thinking. Happy new fucking year.
>>16629182
Either apologize or go with it. Ask her striaght how she feels. You can't change what happened so freaking out about it won't help. Stop the drama and go ask her. If you're really that close to her you can still make it work and be friends.
>>16629182
>like a fucking normie
you fucked up bro.
I'm planning to go visit some clubs to see if any of them interest me.
I haven't had any friends for years, and I also never went to clubs - this will be my first time.
This is my first attempt at socializing in years. What should I know? What do I do upon entering the club premises? How do I enter the club's social circle?
desu clubs aren't really that fun. The one's I've been too are a bit like high school -- they're really cliquey and everyone's trying to show off and act like they're some shit in order to get laid.
If you don't walk in with some friends, nobody's going to want to talk to you. You'll probably get alot of weird looks, at the least.
Find a laid back bar instead. Sit at the counter, and grab a drink. Strike up a conversation with the bartender and if becomes interesting, somebody else might pipe in. Boom. You've got somebody to talk to.
>>16629245
>find a bar
I don't drink alcohol and usually have nothing in common with people who go to bars, though.
>>16629286
Then your just going to a club to dance?
There's a constant disturbing noise in my ear. It's like there's a car outside with its motor on. It's driving me mad. Anyone had this before?
Tinnnitus maybe. See a doctor.
>>16629146
Water in your ear. Bend your head horizontally, put a finger in your ear and move it around until it stops.
>>16629146
If it is bothering you too much, see a doctor.
what do you usually do before a first/second date? Like, I'm always nervous and I need to calm down so I Iisten to some music. Never fapped though, I think It could make things worse
I usually try to keep myselfe busy with grooming, cleaning up, running errands, watch netflix. stuff like that. I guess it's normal to be nervous and even rather cute. My bf just straight up told me he's was nervous on our first date and he told me he's still a bit ancious everytime we meet but that it's gone the second we actually see each other. I think that's absolutely adorable! The girl will probably be nervous too, so no harm done.
Is it bad that if my girlfriend didn't have 34DDs, we probably wouldn't have gotten together?
It's cool now, but that played a huge factor initially. No pun haha.
idk about that but almost no women are actually 34DD, it's one of the most common sizes worn by women in the US who have been lied to about bra sizes
if you love those tatas, please direct her to reddit.com/r/abrathatfits so she can be comfy
Oh shit opie, you said "34DDs" and I thought it might be a new gaming console or something. And then I thought "what does this have to do with a butterfinger bar?"
P.S follow that guy's advice. Bras are a pain in the ass. Can be very painful. I'm not sure how bigger tittied women pull it off, shopping for and wearing bras. For littler tittied people like me, I just throw on a sports bra
Do you like her butt? Has she let you lick her boobs? Why do you predominantly like boobs and not ass?
>>16629143
She's got them both. She's Japanese and I didn't think natural tits could get that big so she sortve hit me as a rare catch.
Don't get me wrong, the girl and I are very compatible. But if she had no T&A, I'd probably be less inclined to put up with the inevitable relationship bullshit.
I don't know where I should be going with this so I want some thoughts first. Lately it feels like my heart is off. I normally have a high blood pressure, and lately it feels like one part of my heart beats, then quickly after the rest beats. I'm not sure what to make of it. Is this normal?
That'd be so dope if those were real.
>>16629100
Its called a palpatation its an irregular heart beat alot of people have it to some sort or intermitant arithmia if high blood pressure you should see a doc.. they will most likely put you on beatblockers ..
>>16629102
My wife is like that pic bro ..maybe 15 lb. Heavier tho ;)
>>16629110
**beta blockers lol
This is going to make me sound probably insane, or autistic and what not, but I've been feeling really weird while watching DBZ.
This is a show I sort of grew up with, so after finals week I decided to reward myself and I've been binge watching ever since. I'm on episode 205 now, so I pretty much just finished the Cell saga and I'm in the first quarter of the World Tournament saga.
Anyway, I've just been feeling really stressed and pissed off even because of one specific character or element in the show. Mr. Satan to be specific. IDK why but during the Cell saga whenever he was like, "ITS JUST A TRICK," it just sort of... triggered me. Like I didn't have a fit or a tantrum or anything but it just made me fucking angry inside.
And then add into the fact that he got all the credit and the world doesn't know anything about the Z fighters, Goku etc, about their powers and what they can do/have done. IDK, it just fucking pisses me the hell off.
Anyone else feel this way? It's weird.
Tragically, you're outgrowing the show.
You're binge watching one of the most glacially slow paced and braindead cartoons in history
Even if you've got nostalgia for it it's not surprising that it'd get on your nerves. You just watched 205 episodes of that shit, I mean jesus.
Dragonball's much better to actually watch if you have nostalgia, it's not as.. well.. stupid as DBZ
>>16629064
Perhaps it could have a deeper meaning. Maybe you feel as if there is something in your life that you were'nt given credit for. The Mr.Satan situation could be triggering something in your subconscious.
Dear /adv/,
I fucking despise this site. I hate how everyone here thinks they can get away with anything they want and thinks their the hottest shit on the planet for being a asshole, who thinks he's cool for being edgy and ignorant.
I feel pain every time I go to this website, and there's no other options, as I go on the media boards to talk about media, but I feel like those boards are tainted by the cruelty of 4chan.
I want this site to die. How do I destroy it?
>>16629030
>You think you can get away with saying that shit to me on the internet? Think again fucker!
>>16629030
This thread again...
maybe one day this site will be deleted all together
it's a fucking addiction and this site's deletion can't come soon enough
I was alone yesterday on NYE writing with some friends, wishing them happy new year. A girl I kind of like asked if I want to join her around 1am or so. I made up an excuse and stayed home. Now I feel like she might be disappointed and I fucking hate myself for not going.
Fuck why am I such a pussy. The last time I did something with a girl was 5 years ago at 16.
>tfw when crippling social anxiety
Should I apologize for not coming with her?
>>16629026
what was the excuse?
You should apologize and ask if she might be able to celebrate the new year with you some time soon? You don't have to celebrate it on the very first day :) just celebrate the new year in general. Take her out to get some chai latte or coffee or whatever makes her heart figuratively melt.
