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Find out GF of 11 months did porn
How the fuck do I deal with this?
We had moved in together into an apartment and planned on climbing our way up together. Theres so much shit going through my head right now. I havent been back to the apartment since I brought up the topic. Shes been calling me and throwing me a few text messages asking to talk but Im just not there. In a place where I can have a reasonable conversation with her.
We dont have family where we live and if I just leave her she doesnt make enough to live on her own. But I dont know if I can stay with her....
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>>16651375
What kind of porn?
>>16651375
She made money by fucking? Big goddamn deal. Did she give you herpes or something? The hell does this bother you for?
If you guys are in the midwest and you can't get past your hangups, I can support her in exchange for blowjobs. Hell, if she's a good cook, maybe I can treat her like people too.
Oh hey, can you post her work? I wouldn't mind beating off to her tits and your tears.
>>16651375
Did she do porn when she was in a relationship with you, or was it before? Why didn't she tell you to begin with?
As of now, it shows she doesn't need you. She can fuck strangers for money and that's how she'll make her living. What's the problem?
do the majority of 6'3"+ men actually prefer short women or is this something short women have deluded themselves into thinking? I always see articles on why tall men love short women and countless cancer facebook posts like pic related but they are clearly made by women so whats the truth??
I'm not tall myself but I once asked a friend of mine who is quite tall about this and he said that he prefers tall women or at the very least 5'6"+ because otherwise everything becomes too awkward.
But he's just one person so who knows.
Kek those posts used to piss me off so much. So many short girls on the internet have that narcissistic complex. I'm going to guess anime did this.... And no guys do not care as much as the posts say they do.
how can i get ambition?
my whole life people have been telling me i would be rich or happy or something. i graduated top of my class in high school with the highest SAT and ACT scores out of over 450 students. i got into the top ranked uni in the state and basically all but $5k was paid by scholarships and i graduated a few months ago.
everyone says i am wasting my potential but i don't even care. i have a comfy $15/hr web design job that asks very little of me. i have a car, pc, and tv so i don't really see much use for money besides food and rent which...
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The reason to strive is not for the money or the approval, but for one's own survival. Your asking of this question shows that you recognize that you are on a downwards trajectory.
>>16651610
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>>16651610
but i am surviving fine. i can afford all the food i want and a place to live with water & electricity. what else do i need to "survive"?
>>16651871
A girlfriend, according to what you just said here.
I'm really fat
Should I ever bother existing? Cause you know even if I lose weight it'll still leave me deformed and people will hate me either way
>>16651170
How will you be deformed? If you're talking about your OP pic, that's extreme weight loss.
Depends on how fat you are? You don't have to be really skinny, just lose some of it to be more healthy.
>>16651197
I'll get loose skin just like she did. I have to lose like, 70 pounds to get to a 21 bmi
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get...
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Ladies, what is good in life?
Got an impractical question for guys here:
If you woke up one day as a girl, would you let your best friend fondle/fuck you?
If your best friend woke up as a girl, would you want them to let you feel up/fuck them?
>>16650207
I don't have a best friend, but if we were bros, yes.
Holy shit my mind is fucked /adv/.. I am 25 and a black guy and I have ZERO confidence. I have been reading /pol/ since its fucking creation.
Today, I met a really cool girl. She had this long curly blonde hair and hazel eyes. and.. quite a bottom(not that her bottom matters in me liking her.) Anyway, I talked to her very briefly and I wanted to ask her out and then I heard two of the most powerful voices in my mind... spoken by fear and paranoia, my mind killers...
All I could hear was "YOU HAVE NO FUCKING BUSINESS TALKING TO HER. YOU ARE LITERALLY PART FUCKING...
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Well, stop going on /pol/. Those losers represent a minority among white males.
>>16653214
I wish I could stop going but despite what people say.. /pol/ has posted the FBI stats and shit. Black people are STATISTICALLY awful according to the stats. I of course try not to be like the stats but I am just one guy.
I feel really uncomfortable talking to women. especially women who come from cultures that would typically not appreciate some black guy talking to them.
>>16653248
>especially women who come from cultures that would typically not appreciate some black guy talking to them.
Then don't.
Stick to your own culture.
Just give up, they're worthless.
>>16653096
>board about dudes who can't get girls
It goes deeper than that.
Also you are a faggot.
>>16653132
Meh, he's kinda right.
I still stick around to see if interesting dilemmas pop up outside of beta faggotry.
>>16653096
Think about the demographics of fucking 4chan. A lot of the guys on here are kissless virgin neets who would be laughed away if they went anywhere else for help
I accidentally told my boyfriend that he had a small penis during a fight.
He punched a hole in my wall and just left and now he won't talk to me.
>>16652893
>accidentally
Well, does he?
What was the fight about? His anger management issues, or you being a bitch?
When talking about concepts of good and evil there is always one point that comes up that disturbs me.
It'll go something like,
>"Nah man, don't torture the animals, torture the humans."
I'll ask why.
>"Cause man humans are fucked up, and animals are cute and innocent."
There seems to be a flaw in logic here.
It's not like ALL humans are bad. Are you saying you're going to just purge them all because you don't want to take that chance,...
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It's ethics/philosophy. Why are you surprised that people don't agree with you about something?
Seems like you recently lost an argument OP, lol.
I'm with you though.
Humans should be saved. The only people who should be punished are those who mistreat animals. But people who kill animals to provide food/clothes/whatever are not bad guys.
Why do women describe themselves as shy or quiet?
guys usually do all the work around pretty girls so they often never find it necessary to develop conversational skills
>>16647826
>why do women
>all women
Why does OP make retarded threads?
>>16647831
What's wrong with mentally disabled people? Shame on you
Do it guys. It might make you feel better.
I wish your friends would stop feeling the need to inform me of what you get up to these days, skippy. You pulled a neat 180 from how you were acting for all of 2015, though. Just be sure to realize that you set yourself on a one-way road. Enjoy your love life in 2016, though my wishes go to the girl you fawned over and proceeded to disregard for your newfound love. Mean what you say and say what you mean, now that you've said certain things, I trust your 2016 will be filled with your commitment to your new lover.
Do stop popping up where you shouldn't be, though....
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I'm a fat kissless virgin piece of shit who's addicted to strippers and has zero life goals now that I have a stable job and a degree. I eat like shit and don't exercise because I hate myself. I act happy and nice on the outside but inside I'm bitter and angry at myself and the world. All I want to do is hurt people but I'm too weak and stupid to even do that. I'm thinking about getting a whore for my birthday in a few weeks to break out of this virginity.
I fucking hate myself. I fucking hate myself. I fucking hate myself. I fucking hate myself.
I'm happy since a couple of days, life is good! :)
Welcome to the NEET and Shut-in advice thread!
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Happy New Year NEETs and shut-ins!
Drop out of school due to anxiety? Haven't left the house in a few years? Maybe you have a job, but don't leave the house or talk to people for any reason outside of it? Finding a job sure is hard these days.
The best time to change your life was 5 years ago. But the good news is, the second best time...
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Happy New Year, NEETs and everyone else.
>tfw sick with a cold and it makes me real dizzy
Also I am that NEET who had two job interviews right before Christmas. They did not go well. And now it's scary how easy it would be to slide back into the hikki world.
Oh well, anyways everybody keep your hopes up for the new year!
Okay. I would like to have advice from a guy, please.
I'm married. My husband works A LOT. He says that's why he doesn't have sex with me much anymore. Well, last night I found out he's been watching porn & masturbating. The only reason this bother me is because he has to time & energy to fantasize about some random girl on his phone, but not the time or energy to make love to me anymore.. We recently had a baby a few months ago. I know my body isn't as great as it use to be, but that doesn't mean he should just stop having sex with me....
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Kek why is there suddenly a massive surge of clingy bitches that need to calm their tits down?
Masturbating is easy, "making love" is exhausting. He's tired when he comes back and sometimes he will want to empty his nuts and you take this personally? If you are horny then masturbate, if you want to have sex with him then initiate and stop wishing for him to beg you for it. Fuck damn these people.
Have you talked with him about it?
>>16651543
don't listen to this guy OP he's a kid or an idiot or both
How many times have you had sex since the little one arrived?
Hello, i am a 22 year old male who is quickly slipping into a very dark place i should be happy with my life i am dating a 16 year old very attractive young woman whom is frankly completely out of my league..i have no job i am not in school and i live with my mother and random misc shitty people she keeps around..i cant remember the last time i felt happy i barely leave my house other then to take my girlfriend to and from work..i am making this post because about 20 minutes prior to me making this post..i got into a heated argument with my girlfriend and she said alot of things...
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cont. she brings up how she supports me and how i have no job and im such a loser for being in the situation i am in and i agree with her about all of this 100% but the thing is..i just dont know how to get out of this it's extremely hard to explain..i contemplate killing myself daily it's common for suicide to cross my mind every few minutes or so i feel emasculated worthless and without any hope for any good to come to me my mother and rest of my family hates me and i feel alone..if not for my girlfriend i belive i would not be alive right now..and i feel like im...
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ok, easy now anon.
first thing first. what's that about with court? what have you done?
>>16650822
It's all petty shit.. a trespassing ticket and driving on an expired license..but due to me ignoreing it i will go to jail.
My friend has a bunch of crazy theories about a large sun-like object coming near the earth and causing increased earthquakes, flooding and volcanoes.
Scientifically there's some basis here. Floods and earthquakes have skyrocketed in recent years when looking at a chart of 100-200 years, for example.
He also implied that much of our ancient stories and religions are directly tied to the occasional visiting (into our solar system) of an extra celestial body which is being kept secret by the authorities and silenced experts of the various fields of study.
He...
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Dear OP. Your friend is just bat shit crazy.
People can talk and talk and say that the Earth is flat from just how charismatic and confident they are.
Unless they say "This accredited, peer-reviewed scientific journal stated this result, observation, or fact," you can't take what they say as absolute.
Your friend sounds like is entering the early stages of schizophrenia. Is he in his late teens or early twenties?
>>16648271
I'm going to flamebait a bit here, but I'm willing to wager money that he's one of 2 things
1)pre right wing nut job
2)is pre-psychotic and a smidge paranoid
