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When I was younger I used to get a lot more wet and turned on, but now that I'm in my early twenties I can't get as wet. I used to be able to get turned on just by reading erotic things or seeing people kissing or watching porn.
I quit porn a couple of years ago but it hasn't helped
Is it normal?
No , it isn't normal , it is an asset . A high sex drive in a girl is a very good thing
>>16638920
It's not about sex drive
My sex drive is as high as it was but I can't get as wet/turned on by things anymore
So, last night I had an argument with my girlfriend of 1.5 years. Our weekly "ritual" is to meet once during the week, and once on Saturday night for datenights. I'm a pretty horny dude, so I always initiate (which I don't mind). She rejects me EVERY.SINGLE.TIME unless it's like super-late, last thing we do on Saturday night. So we have pretty boring sex once per week, and I've been in denial that it's only because we only see each other twice per week (50% rate not bad right?), but it's been getting closer to the point where we're...
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Before she leaves, I try and talk to her about what just happened, and she basically told me that sex (not just with me, she's had partners before me also) doesn't feel good to her, and she only does it because she knows I like it...basically what I've suspected/feared. Then she says that she doesn't see it as a problem at all, and I should be happy just having sex. I try to explain to her that it's not at all satisfying to have sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex, but she just kept refusing to acknowledge it as a problem, or try anything...
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Break up with her. This is not a good woman.
It seems like she knows herself pretty well here. Some people really are just like that, OP, it doesn't mean they're broken or need to change. It may seem like a problem to you, but it's not a problem to her, and you should stop forcing it on her as a problem. She shouldn't be forced to change who she is just to make you happy. She gave you a solution, but it isn't your tastes (understandably).
So no, there isn't anything you can do to "help" her. Anything you do to "help" her is selfishly motivated so you can happily...
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My penis is 4.5 inch long, which obviously isnt something to be proud of. Is jelqing just a meme or legit way to train it? Hlw long would it take to get ~1.5 inch progress? Pic semi related.
No. It's a good way to cause permanent nerve/blood vessel damage. You're better off with a 4.5 inch dick that works, than a bruised, misshapen, worthless piece of meat that MIGHT be six inches if you were still capable of getting hard.
Just make the most of what you've got. And keep in mind that if you're like late teens/early twenties, you might not be done growing yet
>>16638765
This. Jelqing has fucked a lot of men up.
One more thing, believe it or not, but here's the truth. I have an 8inch cock. I've slept with about 20 women.
Most of them really didn't care that I was big.
>>16638780
Anything bigger than 7" is honestly a liability. It might be nice to look at, but it's not gonna fit in your mouth, pussy, or asshole without a whole lot of discomfort
I normally follow the "never get back together with an ex" ethos, but recently I've fallen for an ex again. Hard. Typically, I'd ignore these feelings, but I only dated this girl when we were teenagers (15-16). The reason we broke up was over really petty teenage stuff, but we've remained great friends as the relationship wasn't serious. We're in our early twenties and I think I have another shot.
The question is: Is it advisable to date an ex if you only went out when you were dumb teenagers, not more mature adults?
>>16638736
It's stupid to set arbitrary "rules" like that for yourself. If you like her, and she likes you, and you've gotten over whatever you fought about in the past, then why not give it a chance? I've known plenty of very strong couples who've gone through breakups or separations, only to get back together and stay together. It can definitely happen.
No. You will be forever tormented by the amount of independent living you guys did while only friends. I don't just mean romantic/sexual business either, though that is a significant part of it.
>>16638759
What does this even mean? How can you be this much of a control freak?
>she's had life experiences that didn't involve me, I can't even look at her anymore
I'm bored on a dreary Sunday day, ask me anything.
>>16638729
How's life treating you?
how old are you? if legal, can you post some nudes of yourself? would you like to get on cam and shake it around a little?
>>16638729
>Ask a femanon
What qualifications do you have that makes you so special you can't just post in the ask opposite gender thread?
> The Pill?
So here's the situation /adv/. I have been seeing this super hot Colombian girl that looks like pic related. IDFK how this shit even happened, I'm a fairly average American white guy, and this woman just fell into my lap. My head is still kinda spinning about everything. And she has a good career as well. She's not on a Visa, she is full USA citizen.
She says she's on the pill. We can bang without condoms, but I still pull out. I really want to put my seed in this woman, but I'm afraid because I...
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i dunno. i don't know her. if i tell somebody i'm on the pill, i am on the pill 100%. i don't want to get knocked over unintended. but as you know, there are weird people out there... i would give it a bit more time until you know her better and can calculate the risk
>>16638663
Thanks, we've only been dating a couple weeks.
And not to generalize, but Colombian women can be a little mysterious, she leaves a lot left unsaid.
Absolutely not.
To put this into perspective, one of my exes was incredibly dedicated to her pill usage. She'd take it at the same time every day down to the minute; there was always some water in her purse in case she got caught out when the time came. She read every last word of the little information paper and knew every incompatible and cross-reacting drug by name. The girl took this shit as seriously as needing to breathe.
Still almost never let me blow my load inside of her. She loved it, I loved it, but we never ever made a habit of it. We only did...
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