>>16641421
How do I approach her?
I just wanna message her, fuck, then leave.

>>16641433
She's not gonna fuck you unless you show her a good time. Jesus what is wrong with you.

You'll probably feel really guilty and disgusted with yourself afterwards.

By all means be a pussy who takes the easy way out or manup and face the harsh realities of life and eventually slowly find happiness.

Your call faggot.

>computer
>family
>driving lessons
>gym

You're first world, white, male. Come on man, don't fuckin give up just because you're lazy. Laziness put you in this rut and it's not going to get you out (giving up on the first try). Half the shit you listed to describe yourself doesn't even matter. I've got a friend who plays league of legends non stop, but he works full-time. So that doesn't count. He's fat,...
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>19 years old
So very young. I got my shit together in my late 20s.
>Playing league of legends all day or browsing 4chan or shitposting on twitter
I don't do twitter, but I still do this.
>2/10 look (3/10 at best)
Learn how to dress. Get a good haircut. Workout.
>Ginger
Me too. No problem with that.
>Kinda fat..but im 181(5′11″) so you can't really see
You're not short so that's...
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They can. I've shared totally platonic evenings with women.

>>16639789

You can go hang out, but buying someone dinner and doing romantic things implies something a lot more.

I have also hung out platonically with women, but "going out" is a different thing.

>>16639789
Like invite a friend to dinner? Sure? Why the fuck not?

Why do you insist on using "he"? It's a completely simple thing, doesn't even cost you a second of your life, to say "she" and that's that.

>>16660003
Id use 'it' before I use 'she'. It comes down to how I associate concepts. While it may not cost a second it can cause unwanted effects to how I associate things.

>>16660019

I get it, you're autistic.

You don't. That shit is annoying as hell. Don't inconvenience complete strangers in an attempt to get your dick wet.

Depends on how much they weigh and how far you need to carry them.

>>16659874
This. Even if you're very attractive it seems desperate is is annoying.

why does it bother you so much, its a gym everyone is going to be more focused on their workout than on you

>>16658034
i want to feel as comfortable as possible at the gym. terrified of being there in the first place and i'm not even sure i'll ever make it. but when i do go i don't want to feel self-conscious about my nipples.

Pasties, the stick-on type.

How the fuck is that weird lol? Cum is hot and all but is smells gross. You try it and then we'll see.

>>16657667
I have tried my own cum, it tastes like nothing which is why i dont understand the fuss.

And by "weird" i meant i find it strange how she doesnt mind it anywhere else in/on her body.

Don't cum in her mouth.
Bam, solved.
Actually respect what she doesn't like and enjoy the otherwise great sex and relationship, you whiny pissbaby.

>>16656657
Vaginally? Yes, it's normal. Most women cannot orgasm from penetration alone. They require clitoral stimulation to orgasm. If a girl can't orgasm from clitoral stimulation, that's not normal.

>>16656657

Yes.

The more appropriate question would be "Is it normal for a girl to find it SO INSANELY DIFFICULT to orgasm that it feels like they can't?"

They might have very specific requirements in order to achieve orgasm, such as needing both clitoral and PIV stimulation, or perhaps they can ONLY get off on clitoral or ONLY get off on PIV. It can vary greatly from girl to girl.

Yes, most girls need clitoral stimulation.

Created a thread last night for advice, but didn't receive any.

>been in relationship for 5 years
>own a house
>no kids
>she wants to move to a neighboring state for a job
>I don't think it's such a great idea
>I've been working with my counselor to communicate better
>still don't feel like I'm being heard
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>>16656611
so your want to tell your gf of 5 years you think she should move for a job but you won't move with her.
basically you want to break up?

>>16656651
Yes. There have been other things contributing to the degradation of the relationship. Differing religious views among other things. I think it'll be a minor shock to her, we've had our struggles before. I took about a three week break two years ago, and things improved for a bit, but it's back to the same path we were on before. I can't see it working out long-term now. Any advice on how I need to approach this scenario?

>>16656290
Well it's a matter of opinion. Personally I prefer long hair on girls over short hair. But it's up to each individual

I think for most part, guys don't care.
I have seen this one girl with short and long hair and she looks good with both.

long hair long hair long hair. short hair makes you look like a young boy/not a good look

>>16656127
I'm a fat late twenties nerd who deserves his virginity.

>>16656127
My dick

>>16656127
I'm a weak person who's scared of a hard day's work. It'll be interesting to see what happens given I'm starting a proper job soon.

Lol you place value in that shit i aparently have 'Anti social Personality disorder' but most stuff like that is bs

>>16656091
Yeah I'd figure as much. I'm just grasping at straws here

Just saw kissless virgin lol oh well either
A) rape someone kiss them problem solved
B) get a gf somehow

>>16655915
kick the bitch to the curb and never talk to her again
>check
get over her completely and never EVER talk to her again because she is a foul human being that put up a shitshow for you
>add time and busy yourself at getting better in anything

Right now you don't see it this way, but this is actually good. You dodged a bullet here. Imagine if you had been married.

This is how women are, I'm sorry to say, better to learn this now than later in life. Cheer up, mate, it will get better.

>>16655920
Who are you quoting?

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Fuck that. Yeah, it was rape. It wasn't consensual. If you have to lash out, lash out to get your point across. You have every right to talk to her about this. Especially if she knew your past.

>>16654062
Sorry, didnt elaborate that well. Shes the one with the past. Which is why at first I consoled her because it looked like she was about to break down.

She was trying to do something nice for you. I would not view it as a hostile action.

>thousands of threads on /9k/ talking about how non-virgin girls are disgusting, how if a girl has slept with more than 5 guys shes "worn out" or a "whore", etc, etc.

>"hmm, I wonder why the average girl, who has probably had sex at least a few times in her life, would be reluctant to share this fact with me?"

>>16652402

because idiots ask, and boy's judge.

I've never once heard of a man asking a woman about her sexual history, for the love of god .. if we did, then we might have to divulge some of ours too.

>>16652402

>why are women so irrationally defensive about their sexual history?
>you made your choices in life, now oyu have to deal with them
>you dont get to hide CRUCIAL information from me

this is why. why is it 'irrational' to hide information from someone who literally says 'i am going to judge you on it'.