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Hey, /adv/. I need some help.
I'm an ex-NEET. I've successfully broken out of the cycle and now I'm working and going to school. The only problem is that I'm 28. I'm going to school for finance and I'm currently at community college. I'm making pretty decent grades and my GPA is about 3.1.
I work at a shitty grocery store and some autist I befriended there keeps coming up to me telling me that I might as well go full-time at a grocery store because nobody's going to want to hire a 30-ish year old with no real work experience...
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finish your degree and find out dipshit, not doing that will ensure that you WILL be stuck in a grocery store your whole life
People that are miserable love to drag others down with them. Don't worry about it. Work hard.
>>16645232
Fuck that negativity man. You are not going to be at that grocery for the rest of your life unless that's where you want to be. Your working toward a degree and is how you'll get your finance job. Don't sweat the doubters. For what it's worth, I believe in you.
>girl at work likes me
>everyone who works there pretty much knows
>co-worker friend tells me that she says she likes me and that she wants to exchange numbers
>I'm all "nah, nigga" because I'm a loser who never really went out with anyone before and I'm a big pussy
>co-worker says "aight"
>we walk back from break
>he takes...
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Give her the D
You'll regret not banging her brains out if you don't follow up on this. Idc if she's just iffy for you bang her and enjoy yourself and see where it goes.
>>16645100
congratulaions, you were pushed into things with a girl
> be me , 18
>I haven't gotten a job yet and I really need money.
>I've been seriosuly considering taking pictures of my little sister and selling them on the internet
Is that even a good idea? Will I get decent money?
>>16645081
It'll get you put in jail and despised by your family, friends, and community
>>16645081
Naked pictures?
>>16645093
Sort of
If i am male and my 13 year old brother forced me to suck his dick with threat of getting the shit beat out of me if I said no. was I raped. I finally told someone about it (i am 18) don't want to come off as a tumblr fag. I can still remember after it was over he told me he was teaching how to please a woman. And I was like women don't have dicks...then he punched me
> mfw I found trap porn under his bed many years later.
>>16644979
Jokes aside I am being serious
Are you saying your 13 year old brother had you (an 18 year old man) suck his dick? Then yes, that is rape, but you're the one raping your 13 year old brother.
If you're saying that when you were a little kid and your older brother made you suck his dick, then yes, he did rape you. You aren't making the ages and what exactly happened very clear.
>>16644979
I was 10 at time
Holy shit that sounded funny without my age.
I just turned 18, and it's time to set up camp elsewhere. What the hell is a studio? Efficiency apartments? Should I live in the middle of town or stay outside? Where is usually cheapest? I have so many questions, just toss advice at me. I saw the 18 y/o advice thread but this is more specifically- Housing for 18 year olds. In's and outs. Give me advice pls
Studio is generally an apartment with no rooms, depends. Also referred to as a "bachelor suite". Studios can sometimes be more expensive, depending, if it's the 'stylish' version or not.
Stay outside would be cheaper, but factor in transportation costs. If you get roommates, don't make them friends, don't be on the lease and them off, don't let them borrow money, don't be responsible for anything legally.
Before you move in, check everything out, make sure all the taps work, point out and take note of every damage...
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I'm 29 and still living with my parents and on good terms.
Just make sure you're moving out for the right reasons (financial stability, independence, family compatibility) and not some abstract bullshit like age.
Rent near a shopping area, ideally with a cheap supermarket and like a taco stand or other take out food place.
three years ago I cuddled with a girl at a party, didnt do nothing, just teasing, was really hot tho. Now were together for 10 months now. Thing that happened three years ago made me feel very special and were joking and I actually feel like were having a three years long relationship. She saying that I was special for her at that time and she really liked me, but i was too young and dumb to understand what to do with such opportunity, which is true. So now were together and tonight i curiously went through her facebook (yes im a dick) and found out that 3 years ago, same month...
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>>16644869
Tell her what you did, and why you did it. Maybe she won't dump your ass for violating her privacy like that.
>>16644883
shes been in my facebook doing same thing, and she said its ok for me to do the same, but i didnt feel the need to do it, now im here. wat do?
You're going to lose your shit over something that happened three years ago? Why did you look at her Facebook to begin with? This is so fucked. Why go looking for trouble while things are going OK right now?
Today, I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror in low light
I couldn't see my acne
And for the first time in a very long time, I thought I looked beautiful. I would be beautiful if I didn't have this damn skin condition and the marks and scars that come with it. No guy would ever rate me a 10/10.
I've been to several dermatologists over the years. How do I deal with this.
inb4 dudes here try to tell you they would rate you a 10/10 even with your pizza face because they want to get nudes or start an online relationship with someone who has no self esteem
>>16644796
Don't want an online relationship and nudes of me don't exist because I'm not a teenager
>>16644802
Do you think that's going to stop them from trying?
are you going to wait until someone asks before you post a picture of yourself? because they're going to ask.
My bf is an asshole but I love him, don't know what to do.
>>16644763
Ditto. Pretty sure I'll just start slowly resenting him and eventually break it off. Feels like the only way. Every time we break up, we get sucked back in.
God if he wasn't such an ass, we'd actually have a good, solid thing. He'll be sorry when I'm gone if he doesn't change.
>>16644773
What a delusional coping mechanism
>>16644763
>>16644773
Maybe you girls like him for this quality and just fail to realize it?
Not saying women definitively love assholes, but assholes do typically have more confidence, and they are also better at pulling emotions, it's been shown that girls like emotional tug-of-war relationships over plantonic, safe ones.
Is there a good way to ask my girlfriend to smile while she blows me?
By asking her to give you a shitty blowjob, I imagine.
>>16644691
You should be smiling, not her.
>>16644699
Well she's always looking concentrated. Never looks like she's having fun and it bums me out.
so how DOES one get GF?
Do you know what nappies are cos they are quite helpful
>>16644650
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Sup /adv this is pretty much a feels thread I guess. Felt really depressed today. Went to the docs to get medication for my shity health conditions. Got a hair cut. Everything was kinda good. I wanted to go spending some money on clothes but I didn't buy anything and felt terrible. Anything I looked at I just thought it was a waste of money or it looked stupid. I spent 2 hours looking. Didn't even buy lunch. Got the bus home. Went to sleep straight away. Didn't eat dinner. I feel like a discussion I had this week with my mother really funked me up. Dad left me...
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>>16644623
19 and my score wasn't enouht to go to a descent college.
One more fucking year trying.
I'm so fucking dumb it hurts
>>16644629
can't even write ''decent'' fuck
>>16644633
Op here. Failed the majority of my exams. Didn't tell my mother about bullying problems because she was going through a stressful divorce. Finished school with shit grades. It's all my fault. And she blames herself.
I'm going to end it. Is there any way I can hire someone to just shoot me? Or should I just head over to the local walmart, buy a shotgun, and do myself in?
Give me a throwaway email so we can establish contact. your address and maybe we can negotiate payment and termination. Sound good?
>>16644582
I knew you weren't serious. What a fucking bitch.
Here's a suicide hotline since your thread is basically a scream, cry and shout for help: 1 (800) 273-8255
>>16644582
Don't buy the gun at Walmart, look that minimum wage worker straight in the eye and pull the trigger
My gf claims to be schizophrenic, says she was diagnosed at 10 years old or something outrageously young like that. She's 21 now and I think she's bipolar with some serious anger/violence issues and anxiety, but she swears by that diagnosis she received ages ago.
can anyone with firsthand experience provide me with some sort of test I could administer to help me understand what's really wrong with her? In all the time I've known her, she hasn't displayed any sort of exceptional or unusual paranoia or delusion, and I can't really help her until...
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She has attacked me physically and abused me verbally on numerous occasions. I'm not a sap or a sucker, so I know there's something wrong with her. I just don't believe it's schizophrenia.
>>16644544
10 is uncommonly young to be diagnosed schizophrenic. The disease commonly manifest much later, as in early adulthood later.
As someone who has experienced psychosis, there is no reliable test I can think of. Psychosis, hallucinations, delusions occur on a gradient IMO.
I was not so sever, and to this day most of my family doesn't know. When I started to suspect that I was hallucinating, I would keep it all inside, try not to tip people off. Sometimes this backfires - something real happens and...
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>>16644544
why does it matter to you if she's schizophrenic or not?
>GF has been with several chicks (including one last year)
>had LESBIAN SEX once when she was a teen
>says she's "straight and a virgin"
Am I right to be upset at these statements? This also ruffles my feathers because I don't like bi chicks.
>>16644442
Kill.Her.Now.You.Have.To.Do.It.Trust.Me.15+120=135.
>>16644442
Yes, because she is lying.
Not because she is bi.
>>16644442
Relationships honestly aren't about who is "right" or "wrong". If you don't like her, aren't compatible with her, don't agree with her, and she is making you unhappy, why are you with her?
So guys, i have it extremely easy with girls i don't care about, to the point some get even annoying in trying to be around me, but hell I fucking never, never, never managed to have anything past friendships with the girls I actually liked.
maybe to someone this doesn't really sound a problem, but the gigantic sense of frustration makes me behave desperately when i find a girl of my liking, shutting off every chance I could have
please fucking help me. also sorry for shitty mobile typing
>tfw she didnt text me back
>>16644391
>tfw she never wanted another date but her sister kept stalking you for a year
what the hell
