post his stupid picture and ill insult his dumb face

>>16645836
Go out with a friend to any kind of activity. Mini-golf or something. And after that you treat yourself to some food and then drunk and cry. Tomorrow you'll be way better.
May I ask why u broke up?

Distract yourself by going out with a friend and doing some activity... Mini-golf!
Then eat well and drink and cry. Then sleep.
Why did u break up?

I've already decided I'm going to start working out more frequently and change my eating habits and whatnot, but by the time I'm up to his definition of what looks 'ideal' in his eyes, I wanna kick him the fuck out of my house and dump him... childish, I know, but being told I'm not good enough almost every day is emotionally taxing and I honestly don't know what else to do with him.
Our relationship is incredibly toxic and unhealthy by all means, we argue probably anywhere from 2 to 3x a week and he gets in my face and throws/breaks objects...
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If this isn't bait, you need to get rid of this toxic asshole while you still can. You still have some self awareness, don't develop Stockholm Syndrome

>>16645804
It isn't bait.
I want to get rid of him ASAP but we live together and I feel guilty as fuck about kicking him out, even though I know I really shouldn't.
His family wouldn't be able to take him in (they're literal white trash), and none of his friends live close enough for him to continue his schooling out here. How can I tell him to get the fuck out? I'm also afraid that after kicking him out, he'd do something horrible to retaliate. I'm honestly afraid he would hurt me or my pets.

OP here, in case you guys actually care, I'm willing to elaborate

I'm there too and I've been here for a long time.

>>16645809
How do you deal with it? I don't even have the motivation to confront it. I just blame myself

Birds of a feather

You can't. But actions speek louder than words. Just try to be the best bf you can. It won't help her to shower her with compliments. She won't believe you anyway. Instead of telling her she's beautiful. Make her feel how attractive you think she is. You know, random hugging/kissing/maybe even groping.
Instead of telling her how awesome she is, show her by being proud of her. Go that extra mile to make her feel valued and special. She will be floored. You know, that cheesy stuff: surprise her with roses. Drive 2 hours just to see her fo a few hours. When...
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>>16645700
try helping her for 4 years and find out she cheats on you at that point because "things were so hard" when she had to move a couple hours away... because a great person (me) couldn't help a shitty person heal, as they clearly weren't mature enough to not do it on their own. fuck op, i was in my teens. now i'm 24 and my life's shit because i tried to accomplish what you're trying to. even if she's not immature, she's clearly not ready for a relationship. you want to be...
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>>16645697
Grow up and stop being a neet junkie

>>16645697

Don't smoke in a place where others can smell ot of you can't deal with people complaining.

>>16645697
explain you do it for nausea or back or hunger problems or to help with meditation. if you don't do it for those or beneficial reasons, lie and quit or start being productive with mj. it's a disgrace not to

>>16645625
Why do you think she broke up with you?

Has it changed?

Then why do you think she would get back together?

>>16645628
She said she didn't love me anymore. I'm not really sure what happened.

You don't, especially when it was she that broke up with you.

A wise anon once said "an ex is an ex for a reason"

Grieve, cope, grieve some more, listen to some embarrassing anime music that makes you cry or something, and then move on.

I wish somebody had told me that before I wasted 3 years of my life wondering what would have happened if I hadn't dumped my 5-year, so now I'm imparting it to you, whether it'll do any good or not.

>getting your dick sucked by a street whore junkie, ever

i suppose you'd eat eat a burger out of the dumpster too

She's nasty. Stay away. Heaps of other women out there.

>>16645536

This is the dumbest thing I've read. It was 2 and a half years ago and you're STILL wondering if you should have let a drug addict whore suck your dick for a ride somewhere?

Get out and do anything else. Literally anything else and move on.

Maybe she didn't love you because you're homosexual, what's your opinion on the "gay scene" instead?

if you want women to notice you, you have got to show the dick as soon as possible.

this will get guaranteed reactions.

Library, museums, places where smart people hang out. Go for an intelligent girl. Good thing you are avoiding bars, there's no girls worth dating there, just sluts.

>one eye on the titties
>one eye on the streets

what the hell is wrong with your eyes.
i bet you can see into the future with that shit.

Why is there a carcass dangling on your wall?

>>16645447
Hi op! I remember you from before!

You look SIGNIFIGANTLY better. You're moving in the right direction!! Good job so far

You have self-esteem issues. Desperation is an instant turn-off.

First thing you do, leave /r9k/ and don't go back there. That place is toxic and makes your desperation even worse. Whatever you may have learned there about girls, forget all of it.

>>16645444
not really,

I stand up straight, hold my head high and speak with a somewhat bold voice, I am just saying what has happened doesn't make any sense.

I just am wondering why this
I thought that /R9k/ is the place to ask this question. I really haven't been there since 2009, I just heard it was the place to ask.


I really never gave much thought to relationships, I have mainly been focused on my craft since 07'

>>16645389
>>16645473
You clearly do. The only things you've said are so overwhelmingly positive that your story literally doesn't make sense. There's something you aren't telling us, or aren't aware of.

You claim girls have bought you drinks. Where? Why? When? How did you respond?

crop your feet off
jesus fuck thats so gross

Barefoot skier?

>>16645391
Surfing obviosuley jesus christ

Underage, go to bed. And to answer your question, you can't. And you're quite a child for even wanting to.

>>16645341
I'm of age

Also whiteknight detected

>>16645354
Those who unironically use the term "white knight" are not capable of handling one relationship let alone multiple relationships at once.

>>16645311
What are your panties in a twist over?

well im afraid he might get shitfaced or whatever and do something stupid + idk who he is going out with so that makes me sad and he is gonna go out have fun without me while im sitting there missing him

>>16645311
Tell him that, and he'll tell you it's cool. And then ask him how it went and he'll tell you it was cool.

There isn't really anything you can do here but trust him or not. Have faith and be positive.

>>16645301
Maybe try craigslist?

>>16645301
You seem to already have wifi

>>16645321
For roomates?

>>16645297
Yeah, it can be done. Be careful about how you go about it, though, because requesting the relationship change could really fuck with your power dynamic. You might have better luck caging him to make things more serious, but I don't know your relationship well enough to make that call.

>>16645297

just say to him that you're not serious, cuz when you get bored and want to ride Chad's dick, is this poor dicklet who will get destroyed

I'm curious. How did the whole thing began OP?