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>meet a girl
>shes kinda cute
>we get close to eachother
>find out she has a boyfriend
>fug.jpeg
>express that im romantically interested in her
>she says whats the problem with that
>im confused
>she explains shes in an open relationship with her boyfriend
>cuckposting comes to mind
>she wants to fuck friday
im conflicted. Can anyone tell me about open relationships? has anyone had them before. I kinda feel bad for her bf. Should i go on with it?
>>16639786
Don't do it man. Don't fucking do it.
Put yourself in her bfs perspective. How would you feel? You can always be a man and talk it out with her bf, fuccboi.
In my experience, those in open or polyamorous relationships are tangled messes of insecurities and emotional immaturity. By all means get involved but don't get in too deep. Keep it casual and stay distant
So I'm in a bind atm, I'm not looking for any solution just some outside point of view.
So I'm back home for break from college and have been talking to all my old friends, one friend in particular was seeing this cute girl. Well he basically told her he doesnt want to date her and we spent the rest of the night with me talking to him about these other girls that he wanted to go out with and trying to get him to be more outgoing.
Fast forward like two days and I talked to the girl he rejected, we setup a date to go see the new Star Wars movie and it goes great, I'm feeling her up during the movie and shes all over me. Eventually we head out and come back to my place and she wants to take a picture of me, which I let her and apparently she posted it to snapchat about having a good time. Well my friend sees this and goes ballistic, and starts guilting her into coming over, saying he started cutting himself again and how he cant believe his best friend would do this, while at the same time denying that he wanted to talk to any other girls.
Any thoughts? Was I wrong? Is he being manipulative? I've already made up my mind just curious what others think.
>pic unrelated
>>16639758
He sounds unstable (obviously) and I don't think you did anything wrong, but tho shit is gonna suck.
Did you know he was unstable? Should've asked him first maybe dawg.
The guy is fucked up. Cut him out of your life.
In the future, don't get involved with people whom your friends were previously involved with. That's not because it's necessarily wrong to do so, but because you're inviting the worst in people to come to the surface. You don't need that drama in your life.
Your friends sounds like an asshole and no, I am not going to apologize such behavior by whatever condition he might have. Most likely a little bitch anyway.
Tell the girl desu. Drop the guy, he seems way too stupid to be of any benefit.
I've been taking these pills, they're suppossed to help my acne, but they arent working as fast as I hoped.
I dont know what they contain but Im currently taking 100mg, equal to one pill, a day. But would it hurt if I start taking 2 a day? Will it speed up the process, would there be any side effects?
>>16639709
If they're off-the-shelf herbal tablets... Crack on
Anything else... Stop taking it immediately
>>16639718
Cant get a picture of them at the moment but they are blue capsules. Come in a small orange container.
>>16639709
okay don't listen to that other guy, first of all.
secondly, why the hell would you ask this on an anonymous message board and not specify what you're taking? What do you do, close your eyes and take 100 mg of "something"? Be specific.
Is anyone familiar with this show, Durarara? Do you think it would be possible to have a job sort of like this guy's?
I know the show itself is pretty much science fiction but he basically goes around gathering information on people and selling it to other people. I feel like that shouldn't be too hard.
it's not possible for you to have any job
>>16639774
>it's not possible for you to have any job
what
>>16639689
Sounds like being a private investigator. You'll need to get licensed. And despite what movies show you, no, you can't bend or break the law to do your job.
I travelled to turkey to meet a girl I was speaking to online I was close with. I'm 26 and she is 20. While we were together we were like boyfriend and girlfriend and I could tell that she has really fallen for me however on the 2nd day she broke down in tears and said that it would be better for us to be friends and tells me I'm her best friend. When I told her that she could change her wallpaper (which was a picture of me ) and my name she started crying again. Something tells me she has feelings for me and she kept saying that she must look like a child to me and kept beating herself down. When it got close to me leaving she told me to not wait for her and was crying alot. She wants to meet me again but says i am her best friend but we could stand for hours just looking at each other and holding hands. Her dream is to come to Ireland and I am so confused about everything because of mixed feelings, something about her tells me that she could be the one but cultural differences seem to be an issue. What should I do or think? Here's a picture of us together.
>>16639555
She honestly sounds crazy, Anon
It will be far less heartache to move on and find someone in Ireland. Irish girls are great anyway
>>16639555
Did you tell her these things you're telling us?
Someone's rocking your dreamboat
Is it the same thing you feel when you have a crush on someone and when that feeling ends, love ends?
If love is that, when you're in a "serious" relationship, does it only mean that that one feeling lasts longer?
What is love, really?
Why is it important to know what love is? Everyone has a different definition and some idiots just love to tell people that whatever they are feeling is not love as if they are some sort of experts on the universe.
Either way, I'm gonna answer your question, you asked "what is love?"
baby dont hurt me
dont hurt me
no more
>>16639541
>Why is it important to know what love is?
This is a good question. To me, it is important firstly to give meaning to the word, assuming the word is a string of characters that represent something that is a big deal in one's life. For instance, many important decisions in people's lives are often carried through taking "love" into account, so that kind of makes it a big deal.
I am not here trying to get a very precise definition of what it is. The discussion of what it is and perhaps a rough idea are enough.
>>16639525
Love is the thing when you're pushing yourself past the limit during work out and you're trying to think of things to convince yourself to do one more pushup, despite that sharp pain from lack of energy and what gives you the strength is thinking of "that person". Be it your gf/bf, your spouse, your children, your family. Can even be an object or a hobby.
When you get shot through the knee and you feel like blacking out from pain, but that one person you live for comes into your thoughts and seemingly creates a dose of adrenaline to fill your system.
That's love.
[spoiler]And it's exactly what you've thought it was all along.[/spoiler]
>"So hey you wanna go out this weekend"
>"Sorry I'm actually seeing someone"/"I'm a lesbian"
What's the right way to respond? I never know what to do in this situation and end up spazzing out.
>>16639503
Say "that's hot"
Just that
kpeaceoutbye
>>16639503
"Sorry, I'm not interested in you"
I always wanted to study medicine but as too stupid/too lazy to actually pursue that. Now I'm 22, soon 23, study english with german, it's my final year and I don't know what to do. I really want to pursue medicine, but to do that I would have to dedicate a shitton of time to basically reteach myself
>math
>physics
>biology
>chemistry
and then rewrite my general exams (in my old HS), and assuming I do well, forward my papers to med university. I would be 24 or older at that point
Some questions to people who study/studied medicine or have some experience
>is it doable?
>am I too old to start a new major?
what do you think? Please help
you will need to go back to high school and get really good grades in all those courses u listed above. If anything you're going to have to take a pre-requisite college course if you don't go back to high school .. if you're really down to go back for years then do it. It's never too late OP it just depends if you have the patience to do everything all over again,
On top of that, you will need to have really high grades in your college classes, i'm talking top 5.
I know all this because I am pre-health in college in my second year. I'm probably going to stop the medicine dream since i'm not top 5 in my class.
I'm from a central european country, so it's a bit different, I would basically have to write my exams again (general ones we write at the end of our hs)
I just don't know if it's possible for me, if I'm not too stupid and too old
>>16639396
Maturka?
![male-and-female-relationship-sign[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/xLZ6Pik.jpg "male-and-female-relationship-sign[1]")
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon or Female Brandon
Piss off.
>Frog
Also piss off.
Guys, how much would it bother you if a long term girlfriend revealed she was infertile without ever bringing it up before?
Assuming you had never spoken positively or negatively about having children before.
>>16639405
Zero, but only out of the abundance of fortune that I have no qualms with adoption. That's a dangerous gamble to take when so many men aren't cool with finding out that they're not going to have a natural family.
>>16639405
How long term?
I'd be pretty sad/pissed, but if I really liked the girl I wouldn't let it get in the way.
Would ljke femanons view on this preferably but feel free to reply anyone. No bully pls.
Is it possible for me, asian guy similar look and style to Glen from walking dead (but taller im 6 ft+ inb4 hurr durr im tall date me grills) to get a girl like pic related?
Im not rich im a student and social life is average, i take care of myself and all that bullshit to look better but i cant seem to attract cute girls. Should i just give up dating for a long time?
>>16639243
yes
however if your only qualifications in a potential partner are how she looks you're going to be very unsatisfied
if you want to attract women you have to be more than just available and present and willing. relationships take a lot more than that
>>16639243
It's good that you do take care of yourself, that's always a good sign. But it's more than just looks, I'd say personality matters a whole lot more.
>>16639273
Can you list some specific things when you said being more than available present and willing?
Yea well looks are important but chemistry more for me so only girls i ask out are the ones that i get along with and are physically attractive (i dont have high standards)
>>16639290
Is it possible to develop a personality that i want or you think its just how you are born into?
Hey /adv/ fags
So im really into metal and shit and since i was a kid i wanted to play guitar
Does this game really help?
What are good prices for a first guitar?
Please give me some tips too
Yeah, I'm at about 150 hours in Rocksmith and I've made loads of progress. Iron Maiden will make you a great musician. The Bachsmith pack is invaluable. The Sublime pack helped me develop barr chord capabilities.
It's a good way to keep the guitar in your hands for hours. Don't forget to practice without it, though. Once you get comfortable, try learning from tablature as soon as possible.
I bought a 700 dollar Stratocaster. I knew I was making an investment, though and wanted a middle end. If you want to go cheap, get one of those 100-200 dollar Yamahas.
>>16639227
Get a guitar and just play.
That shit right there learns you a couple of songs, but the creativitity and being able to improvise to rythms and tones dissappears along with it.
Fuck that shit. Get a guitar. Learn some chords. Make your own songs. THEN learn other peoples songs.
Oh, and make sure you have people to play along with, it'll boost your rythm and feeling faster.
>>16639227
If you just want to play metal, buy a guitar with humbuckers. And some amps are better than others for that metal sound. I don't know the specifics though, I mostly play jazz. As for specific guitar recommendations, check out the entry level Yamahas or you can drop a few more bills for an Epiphone Les Paul Studio.
There are lots of free lessons and shit online if you wanna get more serious about it. The more "intuitive" way to learn is to just try and play songs you like.
how can i take a shit in my new bf bathroom without it stinks?
Fuck if I know. Does he have a nice, firm dick? That's a plus
>>16639168
Then it will smells like shit and smth nice which is more disgusting
Buddies, there's a girl. she's got me by the balls. i literally cant live without her. she ignores me a bit. but i cant let go of her.
I need to keep writing her until she responds because otherwise i will self harm
what do?
>>16639057
>need to keep writing her until she responds because otherwise i will self harm
do everyone a favor and a hero
Sounds like a healthy relationship.
>>16639057
Is that her?
Hey guys, my girlfriend wants me to rape her. It's the last day of us visiting senpai for the holidays and there's finally nobody in the house during the day.
Problem is I've never had a rape fantasy where I'm the rapist and I don't really know what to do. I was brought up mostly by my mom who turned out to be lesibian and basically made me think that men were all evil and did sex to women for their pleasure only.
The vast majority of the time we fuck I act as her slave/fucktoy. As a result I've gotten a lot more open minded about sex because her pleasure in taking control of me is evident and really arousing, and I longer really see it as a bad thing to be dominant in sex. (which logically I saw a long time ago, but emotionally it's taken a long time to catch up)
I'm looking forward to trying it out and I don't think I'm so helpless that I won't be able to do a passing job of it but I don't really have any good ideas for the foreplay/roleplay part before I'm fucking her from behind smooshing her face into the couch while she tries to say stop and I hold her mouth shut.
Seriously the best thing I can think of is to pretend to be like an electrician or pizza guy and neither of those seem that sexy to me. Any ideas for a more exciting (maybe more mindfucky?) rape situation we could play out?
Maybe be a cop searching her home? You can use the handcuffs, too.
Establish a safeword, though.
>>16638948
Unfortunately you can't bring handcuffs on the plane and we only flew with carryons. : (
Wise point about the safeword, luckily since most of our sex is already kinky as fuck we've got that set up. : )
>>16638938
Do you really have no awarness of your instincts? Fuck porn, you don't have to roleplay anything. Just make up your mind to cum inside her and let your aninal brain take over. It would be easier if she pretends to struggle, you instinctively would know to grab wrists etc. And it would be easier for her to get wet beforehand.
Definitely not gay.
But never felt 'love'.
Do feel physically attracted to beautiful/hot girls. Yet feel that all girls are similar. They dress the same (it has gotten to the point where I cannot distinguish girls I see regularly and mix them up) and act according to set categories (Slut, Hipster, Nerd, Geek, Works-to-Hard, Daddy Issues...).
I travel a lot and hang with many types of people, so it's not due to lack of diversity.
Just don't feel a special 'aura' which would make me emotionally attached to them.
Yet have to meet a girl about whom I feel that she is special / different / interesting / omg, for more than 2 weeks. Usually I just get bored.
I want to feel that head over heals love, with butterflies in stomach, see no faults beyond rationality etc.
How to feel that?
you haven't found the right girl yet obviously
>>16638935
I used to feel that excitement you're describing but now I feel the same as you do. Women are just people and the vast majority of people are boring and shallow. That's about it, it's a bit depressing once you realize it but you'll just accept it or get lucky and find that one girl who is not that way.
I feel similarly, with thinking they're all the same, the only ones I find at least somewhat interesting are the more tomboyish ones. I don't know how to help though, sorry.
